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How do i stop caring about getting a gf?
I have no chance of getting one, so i want to stop caring so i can focus on more important things.
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Find happiness being alone the best you can.
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3s5xsVHOJQs
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>>34099790
you have to find other things to do, that's the only way
ruminating about not having a gf often stems from anhedonia or having nothing to do
eventually you should have some habit which is way more engaging than fantasizing about a gf
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>>34099790
Unironically visit a stripclub. This place is so introverted and anti normie hence why you never hear this old age advice. You don't even have to fuck, I'm assuming you're American so prostitution would be illegal. You just need to touch an attractive dancer, maybe do something to make her break character and it'll be out of your system real quick.
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>>34100152
Age old advice*
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the best way to not want a gf is to get a bad one.
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>>34099790
>the reason i haven't focused on important things is because I dont have a gf!!!
So you just functionally spend your time staring at a wall thinking about how you dont have a gf instead of doing something proactive?
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>>34099790

Literally just do anything else with your time besides browse 4chan all day.
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>>34099790
>so i want to stop caring so i can focus on more important things
This unironically makes your chances of getting one go way up.
But the answer is easy. Do something else, literally anything else, besides sitting around pining for one one all day. One thing I see in common with ALL posters here who just wish for a gf is they have literally nothing else going on in their lives. No friends, no hobbies, no interests, no life in general.
Stop being that guy.



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