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Seriously, What the fuck is wrong with females nowadays, Every girl I stumble upon is traumatized, What is the solution for this shit ??

I don't give a fuck anymore just so you can know but I'm curious like how to bypass this trauma bullshit
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You can't, people with trauma won't improve unless they want to improve, and since being hysterical and mentally ill is the "in" thing these days and women are naturally herd creatures, they have no incentive to improve.
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>>34227659
this
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>>34227634
A woman's trauma is just a horse shit response to life telling her to grow up/get over it and she can't because it's a source of pity and attention. Seriously, just tell a woman to get over some shit and watch the literal gears clog and get stuck because she cannot fathom that the world continues to spin with 9 billion ppl and that her issues are regulated to one woman so therefore its either on her to get over it or the world to move on and not give a fuck.

When a woman says she has trauma, either try to fuck her asap and leave or ditch her to begin with. Trust me, you don't want a woman who uses her "trauma" as a sword and shield.
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>>34227659
We really did fuck up giving them rights...
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>>34227689
>When a woman says she has trauma, either try to fuck her asap and leave or ditch her to begin with
True, Many such cases where this is always true, In fact, If a female tells you at first about her trauma experiences and talks about how she is traumatized then in fact she's using it as a point for attention and is gonna drain your energy away.
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Victimhood is like bravado for women. They brag about trauma, the way men brag about getting in fights.
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>>34227634
>>34227659
>>34227666
>>34227689
>>34227692
>>34227695
>>34227813

awwwww, you fags found a thread to all seethe together in, how cute

I'll go warm the tendies and hot cocoa
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>>34227822
my dad shout at me ;__;
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>>34227822
>drinking hot cocoa instead of warm whiskey

No wonder you're a faggot.
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>>34227827
you don't know shit about good whiskey bro
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>>34227822
ok troon
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>>34227888
pls apologize, I haven't transitioned yet
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>>34227634
women are literal retards they have a chromosome defect
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>>34227689
Nose Ring Theory
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I'm a dude, but wtf is this incel shit lmao
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Actually it’s men’s fault. White men bad.
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We live in hard times dingus.

Get your head out of the sand stupid ostriches, shits fucked up and instead of having a lick of decency and empathy you blame the victim.

You don't deserve a woman
You don't deserve a GOOD woman
Instead of asking for a lighter load how about you pussies ask for a stronger back so you could carry the burdens of both your own miserable selves AND the misery of your lover.

It takes 6 to carry your casket, and I'd easily go out on a limb you lame fucks ain't got nobody in your corner that's strong enough to grab one them handles.

As a MAN. Fuck all yall, find your balls, git gud fegget
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>>34227634
This thread is funny because this board and /r9k/ are equally full of weak men whining about how they were "manipulated and permanently traumatized" by evil women, or how they perpetually face rejection
Insane cope in here lmao
Maybe stop instigating gender war retardation, work on yourselves, and perhaps good women will gravitate towards you. Because you are all full of hate
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>>34228726
This
This is why I have no sympathy for incels. All you do is whine and cry and act like some great injustice has been done to you because women don’t want you
Pathetic!
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>>34227634
The fact you refer to them as females makes me think you’re an incel. I’m probably not wrong.
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>>34228214
would you carry his casket, or anyone's casket?
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>>34228726
You're not wrong on the latter half but pretty retarded on the first. It doesn't take an incel to see that most PEOPLE wear their trauma on their sleeve, but the problem is women tend to take it and run with it. My last ex made our relationship unbearable because she was so steeped in daddy issues despite being in her late 20's. I have my issues as well, but I refuse to let it form a characterized shell around me.

Not being able to address the failings of each other is how we got this gender war shit to begin with because both sides started acting like you can't tell them shit.
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>>34227634
>Seriously, What the fuck is wrong with females nowadays
like mama hoe & papa cuck, the cycle of hoe-cuckery spins right round, right round, and foetuses go down-down.
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>>34227659
This is what I hate about mental illness the most. Too many idiots treat it like a popularity contest.
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>>34228214
>The misery of your lover
Previous generations just told women to shut the fuck up and beat them when they didn't comply. We really should go back to that model.
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>>34227634
Stop giving them leniency. Ez.
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>>34227634
Trauma has become a fashion statement.

Normal shit that everyone goes through is now "woe always me trauma" and an excuse to farm attention and slip accountability. It's also why they wallow in it instead of trying to move past it and function in spite of it like most reasonably well adjusted people with actual trauma do.
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>>34228214
Carry my balls
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>>34228726
>>34228727
>>34228729
You fucking dumb faggots, This is literally just a man asking about why Woman have trauma, How the fuck is this even categorized as misogyny ?? What the fuck is wrong with you, You're literally the weak men you speak about
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>>34228214
Shut the fuck up cuck lmaooo

You're literally the person a female who has been blown up by countless BBcs is waiting for
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>>34227634
wtf is wrong with males nowadays, every boy i stumble upon is "autistic" and full of prescription meds
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>>34229489
Maybe do a thing and stop being a cum dumpster
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>>34229492
Not my responsibility to save some by choice retard. If a boys mom can't shake some sense into him why bother
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>>34229497
You can't unfuck yourself, And that's what itches you the most and Females are actively trying so hard to downplay it as normal.
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>>34228726
There are two kind of disenfranchised men.
You have the masculine ones who proudly present the truth while grieving the state of society and its consequences and demanding changes to fix it. Volcel because the rotten world disgusts them.
Then you have the feminized men, low t, most affected by chemical exposure, who have always been losers regardless of the state of society, and they cry for sympathy in the name of equality. Incel, likely to troon out.
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>>34227634
I wouldn't say it's always trauma, but it is something wierd. The one i am talking to has an extremely low body image, which is very difficult. Can't get nudes from her.
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>>34229489
Autism is common and normal male feature, until feminists started hating men and calling them defective for it, and then the drug industry started using it a justification to sell them drugs.
Same goes for mental instability of women, which is a normal feature that shouldn't be drugged out, and which men were meant to pacify.
Feminists started a gender war and both sides are suffering from it, and men failed to crush the regime to protect women from it.
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>>34227634
I think they need more beatings, and rape. Rape and beating.
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>>34229532
>>34228726
In Truth, There is not category nor anything better than the other, Both are the same result of a dysfunctional society, But there is no difference between both ??? You literally just changed the phrasing and You tried to impose that you're higher than the other ?

This shows me that you're both the "feminized" men and you don't know it because you think that not mentioning the problems of society means you're tanking it, And using the word "incel" truly shows how limited and how hard it is for you to express your inner turmoil.


But point to say is that you must accept yourself and stop trying to get women's attention by thinking you're morally superior when in reality you're very weak.
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>>34229580
Literally this!

This faggots follow the narrative that is implanted by the Jews for centuries and think they're above it, When In reality they're literally the herds that they control.
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>>34229580
finally someone with sense in this fucking shit thread, I never understood why people can't just let men talk about their problems without flashing the misogyny card, It's like a plan to restraint man from trying to figure out what's the problem with their society
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>>34229585
>It's like a plan to restraint man from trying to figure out what's the problem with their society
This is by design, whenever you're thinking of why things are they way they are, ask yourself who benefits from it
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now the faggot incels want to blame the Jews for their problems with woman

grow the fuck up

its all you
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>>34229662
Herd mentality

You'll remain an NPC until you figure out why you're not questioning your morals and your standards.
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>nowadays
You're a teenager virgin. You have absolutely no idea what women were like 10, 20, or 50 years ago.
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>>34229656
And ask yourself why people defend it so aggressively, Even though it is very much against their ideals.
>>34229662
It is JEWS you dumb fucking retard.

What do you think happened after Corona virus ? Literally everyone is mentally ill
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>>34229866
Yet you couldn't even touch or fuck them hence you're a Wizard lmao
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>>34229866
>>34229662
>Using the terminology that's specifically made by the Jews to desensitize the commoners

I feel sad for Post modernist writers because they wrote a carefully calculated complex book that composes 600+ pages to battle shit like this, Yet we have dumb fucking retards like this.

And Yet we ask ourselves why our Society never moves forward.
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>>34229874
>>34229868
Anitsemitism is a psyops to prevent you from figuring out the real causes of your misery.
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Women have always been this way, modern society has just given them more avenues to coast down while being shitty.

It is MENS fault for how women are today. Weak and short sighted men allowed this to happen. You don't have to be a cruel asshole to understand women need diet rights.
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>opens the thread
>/pol/
>leaves
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>>34227634
>>34229866
>>nowadays
Zoomers think that any societal issue or problem or any other thing that they don't like didn't exist until its creation in like 2014 or whatever year they first experienced it and that it's exclusive to zoomers.

>Chad exists? Well there were no Chads back in the ancient grandpa days of 2006.

>Women prefer attractive guys who aren't autistic morons? Well that's just modern women in society these days, in fact this was created by social media.

>You have to talk to women and say hello and have a discussion about things? No, not in 1996 - back then our great grandfathers all lived on farms and worked in coal mines and dames would approach them to get married at 13 years old (when the men were 28 years old)

>Girls with piercings? Dyed hair?? Tattoos??? Yuck! Everyone knows this was invented by dating apps!

and even with thing not related to women it's lack they lack object permanence when it comes to history and politics

>North Korea is testing missiles? Russia is at war? Israel is bombing brown people? THIS HAS LITERALLY NEVER HAPPENED BEFORE THIS IS LITERALLY WORLD WAR 3

That said, 19 year old chicks probably are a bit more traumatized than millenials and Gen Xers and so on just because they're online for 16 hours a day. Same with how 78% of male zoomers are all incels or whatever the rate is up at now, when back in the millenial's or whoever else's days it was more like 10%.
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>>34229885
Ironically this is why OP asked this question, Why females refuse to figure their causes of their misery, Which these fucking dumb retards or glowniggers tried to derail
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>>34229868
>What do you think happened after Corona virus ? Literally everyone is mentally ill
Are you actually 16 years old that corona virus is the only marking moment in your life?

Nothing changed, except that zoom calls became the norm for some industry and services. American immediately went back to open-mouth sneezing right into their open palms before wiping their hands on themselves and touching everything at the all you shart buffet
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>>34229922
why do you call them females lmao peak incel shit
are you a completely different species from them?
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>>34229922
>Why females refuse to figure their causes of their misery
Some of them are. I'd say most of them are. Stop believing memes.

Also, one cause of misery is people depersonalizing them as "females" and not "women."
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>>34229954
>depersonalizing
more like dehumanizing
calling them females, they don't even register them as being humans. Could be a female plant, might be a female electrical outlet adaptor, it might be some sort of strange female sea slug that james cameron has yet to discover when deep sea diving around the titanic

and then there's the current year zoomer shit of calling them "femoids" that sprung out of the incel hivemind. In case calling them "females" wasn't enough of a shitpost and attempt at detachment.
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>>34229662
I never voted for mass immigration
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>>34230134
Wow it’s like the jews caused all this
Would ya look at that.
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>>34230139
>big jew says white people will mix away
>white people have been mixed away
Would ya look at that!
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>>34229874
you take 4chan to seriously fagggot

GROW THE FUCK UP AND GET A WOMAN
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>>34230154
no thanks. Imagine jestermaxxing for this.
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>>34229931
Shut the fuck up female
>>34229954
Shut the fuck up female
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>>34229999
>>34229954
>>34229931
Ok femcels
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>>34230154
I already got your mother above my dick, Come and get her.
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>>34230174
>>34230175
>I'm a nice boy, I'm a good guy, who do female femoid roasties always go for JERK BADBOY CHAD?!?!
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>>34230163
your mother should have swallowmaxxed your dads nut
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>>34230220
She doesn’t like swallowing
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>>34230212
Ok femcel.
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you are posting on a forum that excuses pedophilia, advocates for repealing women's rights, and thinks sex is a need they will die without. and you are somehow surprised that every woman you've met has been raped? lmao
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>>34230163
That's quite decent as far as tattoos go, there's at least patterns and symmetry.

Hand and neck is too much for me though, I don't mind tattoos either way I generally think they're interesting after all it's literally just stylized drawings like you would see in art museums or on the covers of books or movies or videos etc.

but you should be able to normie up and just be able to go for a job interview or take a family photo for grandma while wearing just a sweater or long sleeve shirt that covers up everything.
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>>34230485
>it's literally just stylized drawings like you would see in art museums or on the covers of books
I don’t want to see that shit during horny time. It’s a turn off. It’s disgusting.
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>>34230432
> and thinks sex is a need they will die without.
So where are the 30+ year old virgin females? Blowjobs count as sex. Oral sex.
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>>34227634
there's a couple of things to this, it's a bit long to explain so bear with me.
1. pretty much how almost everyone gets to adulthood with a scar or two from playing while growing up, most people reaches adulthood with a trauma or two, thing is, a trauma can be as mild as that knee that sometimes hurts when humidity goes too high or as hard as that part of your nose you lost while playing with fireworks as a kid (idk. maybe bad example). Anyways people hear trauma and imagine debilitating trauma and most traumas are just like getting antsy or a little bit nervous when people start improvising because you had an aunt who lost the family fortune because he was like that
see, some traumas can be maneuvered around and some others are actually life ruining, but both are traumas, like any physical injury is a physical injury but one is a scratch on the knee and the other is losing a hand.
I'm simplifying a bit and of course there are more people with 0 traumas than people with 0 scars, but not by much, everyone has had a serious thing or two happen to them while growing up.
Now, another factor you're maybe not contemplating is the background of the girl. When I talk to middle class girls from stable households most of them don't have a trauma at all or if they have one it's been treated and she knows how to deal with it.
Rich girls from old families and poor girls (mostly poor girls) are another matter entirely, their lives have been tainted by traumatic experiences all around and also they weren't taught ways to cope and deal with them so they've manifested weird ways to live with them.
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>>34230174
>>34230175
>>34230419
I accept your concession.
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>>34229585
>I never understood why people can't just let men talk about their problems
Isn't this a thread for men to talk about women's problems though?
I really don't care about any woman's "trauma" unless she's my mother, wife, or daughter and I don't see why you or OP do either.
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>>34230610
I genuinely don't get it. I mean the boob tattoos might be too much for most, but some dudes act as if a tiny nothing tatoo on the back of some chick's shoulder is the exact same as having boob tattoos and neck & face tattoos. One drop rule.

Do people also get upset at posters on the walls during sexy time or like I said the art on covers of vinyl records or DVD boxes.
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>>34230771
That's a good point actually!

This is literally the only answer OP should take, But I believe i know where he's coming from, It's like his experiences with females is what made him question their behavior.
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>>34230784
Pale clean white skin is beautiful and soon it will be so rare only golems will have it. But white skin isn’t enough, it’s also the white features.
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Honestly when I see tattoos on white women, I don’t feel any attraction and instead want to watch them suffer. Thankfully there’s many videos of them suffering at the hands of non whites. I enjoy watching them suffer and d**
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Just how over is it for the average bloke bros?
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>>34232216
Very. You're a goddamn fool marrying and having kids in our current climate. Good on you for making more humans but you were probably better off banging some bar slut and staying single.
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>>34228873
This af. The spineless "men" just let all these mentally ill chuddettes walk all over them and here we are.
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>>34227634
>We're living in an era where attention is social currency thanks to the Internet.
>Everyone is encouraged to create their online profile and build and maintain it to reach the largest number of people they can.
>Women with a sob story get more attention.
>Therefore every woman has a sob story now.
It's not that complicated. When a woman talks about " "trauma" ", it's almost certainly just the normal turbulence of life that would be accepted and expected in any other era of history.
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>>34232223
yup i think governments should permanently ban every last human male from ever having children by doing the vasectomy as they turn 10 or remove the wombs from the females when they turn 10. every fucking problem there is in the world would be solved be it wars, scarcity, inflation , crises , epidemics , hysteria etc. example scandinavian countries, they are the most peaceful and prosperous nations there are on the planet..
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>>34232216
It's not, stop falling for psyops.
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>>34227634
If someone kept stumbling over you, you might be traumatised too
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I'm happy all of you are alone and unhappy. You deserve it.
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>>34228873
You're an incel
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>>34232743
you can take your trash personality and jump off a cliff.
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being with a woman is a privilege

complaining about the nature of woman when you are a WILLING PARTICIPANT is the biggest pussyfag shit there is

no ones forcing woman on you guys
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>>34230176
>34230176
I'll literally fuck your mother's goddamn throat till she begs to stop but I'll NOT stop. I'll keep ramming my dick down her throat with such intense vigor it would be quite a spectacle. I'll give her sore throat in the process and rashes in her inner throat muscles , with all that alkaline fluid being gulped down filling her stomach till she lets out a very satiable belch and then I'll finally take a short break before turning to her other orifice. I'll not even let her do that weird libtard shit where they take something which causes them to not get pregnant. That's the most emasculating shit there is. I'll ballon her wombs but right before the week 40 of the third trimester, I'll slash her womb pulling that mother fucker out, frying him on my non stick pan , de fleshing him to the bones and feeding it to my doggo.
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>>34229863
define "morals" and " standards" you dumb fuck. yeah that's what i thought. Don't speak on the matters which you clearly have no idea of
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>>34227634
The week were glowed to live pass adulthood.
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>>34229489
....American i presume?
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>>34232837
Male bodies just aren’t attractive no matter how much female hormones they take
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>>34233002
men are not attracted to men's bodies. Women aren't attracted to men's bodies. its almost like men's bodies wasn't made for sexual advertisement and was made for fighting , hunting , protecting and doing industrious activities . Female body is a trademark for sexual advertisement. They don't have to do anything . Just grow up , eat, get fucked, incubate , eat, sleep, get fucked, incubate , eat sleep , menopause , die . Easy life.
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>>34228726
that
>you don't attract anyone because you're a shit person
implication is such garbage.
The only people I know who are in relationships in the hellscape that is America right now are awful human beings who are struggling through trauma that they can't stop projecting onto others or using those relationships as a codependent band-aid that ends up making things worse.
The idea that you suddenly start having relationships because
>you're finally a good person
Is nonsense. In fact, the more shitty, non-existent, or cookie cutter your personality is the easier you'll fit into the mold of dependency for someone else and fall into a physical relationship faster.
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>>34233101
So where are the 30 year old virgin females that also never gave oral sex?
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>>34227822
If you don't think daddy refusing to buy me a 2000$ diamond embroidered dress for my 12th birthday is life-altering trauma then you're obviously a faggot and secretly desire a BBC in your guts. Yaaaas queen slayyyyyy
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Yeah bro, it's totally the random dune koons in a desert that's preventing your dick getting wet with the huzz. Yeah bro totally, can't be your shitty self nope nuh uh you're all angels and God totally won't send you ghouls to hell
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>>34232876
Sir, this is a Wendy's.
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>>34227822
good. And don't skim on the huney mussey sos this time BITCH
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This thread is worse than reddit

Like since when 4chan is filled with dumb faggots and trannies
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>>34227634
>I'm curious like how to bypass this trauma bullshit
It’s easy. If you meet someone and they openly talk about their traumas, then they were not actual traumas and/or the person is weak and overly sensitive. Actual traumatised people keep their mouths shut and refuse to talk about what they survived.
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>>34228214
Dis nigga be a metaphor mixologist
>AyO! fire up dat pasta chief!

Allow me to play doubles advocate here for a moment. For all intensive purposes I think you are wrong. In an age where false morals are a diamond dozen, true virtues are a blessing in the skies. We often put our false morality on a petal stool like a bunch of pre-Madonnas, but you all seem to be taking something very valuable for granite. So I ask of you to mustard up all the strength you can because it is a doggy dog world out there. Although there is some merit to what you are saying it seems like you have a huge ship on your shoulder. In your argument you seem to throw everything in but the kids Nsync, and even though you are having a feel day with this I am here to bring you back into reality. I have a sick sense when it comes to these types of things. It is almost spooky, because I cannot turn a blonde eye to these glaring flaws in your rhetoric. I have zero taller ants when it comes to people spouting out hate in the name of moral righteousness. You just need to remember what comes around is all around, and when supply and command fails you will be the first to go.

Make my words, when you get down to brass stacks it doesn't take rocket appliances to get two birds stoned at once. It's clear who makes the pants in this relationship, and sometimes you just have to swallow your prize and accept the facts. You might have to come to this conclusion through denial and error but I swear on my mother's mating name that when you put the petal to the medal you will pass with flying carpets like it’s a peach of cake.
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>>34227634
You tell me. I deleted this girl on discord since I'm fucking stupid. Then I seen her posting on 4chan again so I asked her to add me once more. This made her block me, change her discord tag, and completely wipe her entire online presence for any accounts I knew her on. She told me she had stalkers just before this and I guess me running into her in a thread is considered stalking. So she freaked the hell out. I definitely wasn't stalking her, it was all a misunderstanding and now I want to kill myself.
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>>34233313
Me and my gf are both on here rn. She just recommended me this board. Is it over?



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