28M. never truly fell in love until last year. This Brit girl came into my life and we became very close. In February 2025 I flew to London to meet her. We kissed, cuddled, did couple things (honestly the highlight of my life). Shortly after, she told me she only saw me as a friend and apologised for leading me on. Months of hot-and-cold behaviour ensued: sometimes lovey-dovey (wanting hugs, sleeping on video calls), other times cold (telling me I shouldn’t love her).We met again in the summer at a friend’s place in Czechia and that was the last time I saw her IRL. After that, we went no contact to avoid hurting each other further.I thought that was the worst of it. Then in November I found out a close friend of mine — another Brit, whom I had introduced to her — had been going behind my back while I confided in him. Eventually he ended up with her. She had left my group (the only people who really cared about her), and he was the only one still around, so “she fell for him.” Worst part is we had talked about this months earlier, and he promised he’d never do something like that. So 2025 ended with betrayal on top of heartbreak.I’m very spergy (so was she). In 27 years I never felt enough connection to pursue anyone, then she happened, just as I was accepting I might end up alone. She gave me a sense of purpose and compatibility I’d never felt before. Now that she’s gone, feels like the world ended, and I can’t imagine finding that again.I had so much love to give. I lost 20 kg in 6 months, worked on becoming more confident and active, but she never gave me a real chance. She chose a guy my age who wormed his way in. It sucks, and I feel hopeless.On the positive side, I started therapy and MMA (three times a week), which helps ground me. Still, I’m on autopilot. I have zero hope for the future and can’t imagine things ever feeling okay again, let alone finding someone who makes me feel the way she did.What now? It feels so over.
>>34253947Incel revolution is your only solution faggot
>>34253971So what are you proposing yourself to do concretely, memes aside?
>>34254420real life organization and mobilization of incels of course. How do you think feminism even became institutionalized & entrenched hard in soiciety? Men must start being incredibly nepotitstic to blackpilled, incel sympahtising men and blatantly start discriminating foids & simps in workplace and get them fired in whatever ways they can. Incels must start running society so they can have leverage and eventually revolt.
>>34255906>real life organization and mobilization of incels
>>34253947OP I think we knew the same girl. Name start with a C?
>>34255942OP here, actually not but it's sad you had a similar experience, needless to say I empathise, I'm really at a loss right now, she messed me up really good and I just try to survive day after day until newfound meaning, if possible.>>34255906holy larp
>>34253947I'm down bad... but flying to London for some coochie is knowingly unloading a clip into your foot.
>>34256081What exactly are you going to demand? UBI (universal basic incest)? Government mandated handjobs? Forced marriages? Burquas?
>>34256521Coochie? Lmao didn't even get further than making out in bed. 28 and still a virgin.That wasn't my main goal however, I really believed (and was made to believe) that I could build something meaningful with this girl, so I was going to take things step by step.
>>34253947>for the first timeThat's life. You live, you learn.Now you should erase her from your brain.From an experienced man:A nail pulls another nail.Because what you see called love in shows, is just a fixation in ONE vagina.Now assuming you are socially impaired: the fastest way to get selfconfidence and experience is paying for it, the same way you pay for those MMA lessons. By the hour.
If that's the path it'll end in a bullet in him
takes time, then you get over themdon't jump into anything and don't lower your standards out of desperation, especially not for someone who crosses your boundaries
>>34257051if you are already in bed kissing, it's time for sex, anon. Actually, being alone with a woman in a dwelling after flying to her is pretty much time for sex... could be that she "saw you as a friend" or whatever the fuck because you didn't make a move, sadlywomen don't get into these one on one positions without expecting sex, really. There's a reason it was considered improper a few decades ago, it's because it's not innocent. Male+female alone together over a certain age... you are not holding hands under the pear tree, you are fucking
>>34253947> —Stopped reading right there
>>34257644I'm a romantic, I'd rather die with my virginity than debasing myself.>>34259180Oh I was ready for it, I just didn't want to rush things, afterall I had all the time in the world, or so I thought after the kiss. With hindsight I would have probably fucked her when she started rubbing herself on my leg, on day 3, rather than just massaging her breasts.>>34259260Proper punctuation?! On my 4chan board?!!
