Hating foids will get me into BIG trouble if I don't stop now. I've been texting female ex-classmates and maybe I'm committing a crime (harassment, non-sexual). I'm so fucking dumb.Incel culture has made big damage to my psyche. I don't know how I got to this point. Maybe I can't untake the redpill, but how can I make it so I stop spending so much energy and brain processing capacity with hating women? I don't want to do dumb shit, I don't want to be arrested, and I want to get a life back.I stopped caring about novels or anime and, most painfully, I'm not as excited as I used to be with the course I'm starting at uni, whereas I used to dream with studying there one year ago. I want to reverse this situation and gain my life back. Also focus on myself and lose weight (not like my BMI is >30, tho).Why am I so bitter? That's a good question. I don't fucking know the exact cause. I've suffered all throughout my pre-teens until now. I don't have friends and also no gf. Only two bitches approached me and the two were bottom of the barril. Both were cold approaches, as it couldn't possibly be otherwise; I don't have any female friend because I'm always so shy around girls. And I also don't have male friends, maybe because I'm boring, or just too socially anxious.I want to get better. I want to be a better person. I don't want to get in trouble for being the dumb little shit scum I am
>>34258247just lighten up, on yourself and on everyone else, it always is what it is.Would you kick a dog for eating its own shit/ I hope not, so why hate women for what they do
>>34258247hating women with logic is okay and actually healthy. hating women with emotion is bad, and its only because youre not getting the kind of attention from them that you need & want. the solution is to get that positive attention rather than negative.
Brother this has nothing to do with women, if you can't care about your coursework and you have no friends male nor female you are just a wreck that needs some serious social rehabilitation. Even in a world where women weren't allowed to be whores you would still only be personally compatible with a small percentage of them, so while things are definitely worse these days in terms of options it sounds like you're expecting to have pussy thrown at you or to easily find a girlfriend which isn't how it's ever worked. You just sound like an unsocialized retard who expects people to like you despite being so obnoxious that you don't have a single friend. Friendship (especially platonic friendships with the same sex) is something that arises by accident for most people, if you have zero friends that indicates that you are actively repulsive to people due to a bad attitude or something. You can't hope to have a single chance of getting a girlfriend if you can't even make and maintain friends with other dudes.
>>34258247realize that women, like men, are a product of society. it's really not their fault.why spend time and energy hating women when nothing is going to change? shift your focus to hating society or God if you need to. I recommend stoicism and light nihilism.
>>34258658how can society precede the instinct and nature of the human? it doesnt make sense. society is determined, formed by what the human is.
>>34258664not that I disagree, but society is the result of what we tolerate.humans 2k years ago knew women were shallow whores. muslims still treat women like second-class citizens. it really isn't anything new, it's just that our society now allows and encourages it.
>Only two bitches approached me and the two were bottom of the barril. Both were cold approachesCongrats. You're attractive.
>>34258247ok you don’t have to become a saint, start by being less sure you're right about everyone i’ll say this as someone who's seena lot of bitter or/and lonelier guys behind screens around here: hate sticks because it's easy and easy is addictiveif you want to stop don't start by lashing out at women.. they're not here to fix how you feel and THAT'S YOUR OWN WORKi used to be 'furious' at certain people too (not to women really) until I realized my anger mostly came from feeling 'small' and due of poorly produced idealizationsthis anon >>34258658 got it exactly right here>realize that women, like men, are a product of society. it's really not their fault.>>34258664disagree, instinct doesn't dictate everything... society or values can soften redirect it even make us kinder than our impulses would allowwhatever, about 'women' a tiny thought.. most people are grown by their circumstances and blaming the person you meet is easy, changing what made them is harder but it's acurratewomen, like men are mostly products of the stories and pressures around them.. expectations, roles, porn, social scripts they don't appear out of nowhereI mean blaming them for acting like what they were taught to be won’t fix the thing that taught them... and contempt and revenge feel energizing at first but they hollow you outI say all this as someone who’s seen that kind of anger before not only on 4chan of course and I don’t really need to know what you told those women you mentionjust hope you give yourself the chance to feel lighter than all that bitterness and to find the peace you've been searching for
Sounds like your hatred is an easy distraction from your general dissatisfaction with life and yourself.Work out who you want to be, then how you want to get there.
>>34258247Hating woman is normal guy. Everyone hates women. Even women hate each other lol stop worrying so much and go study for your degree which will get you a nice comfy job and then women will jump on your wealthy dick!!!
>>34260287constantly hating something in general is retarded and a waste of valuable timethe only one who loses is the hater
Make some actual friends. You'll have bros to talk to, meet girls through them, have people to go to events with, etc. You can't just skip over social steps in the same way you couldn't run before you figured out how to crawl as a baby. Talk to women. Start with ones you won't feel nervous around. So a casual chat with an old lady cashier for instance. Most of the gender war bullshit like the man vs bear thing is just internet noise that well-adjusted people haven't heard of. It's not worth seething over. Don't click on ragebait content or go on /r9k/ or any incel forums. Spend more time outside and lift weights. Eat less processed food. Modern urban life is full of depression fuel but there's a lot of practical things you can do to stave it off. >Only two bitches approached me and the two were bottom of the barril.Bruh, if you have mental health issues, a bad vibe, and zero friends, those girls were in your league. I'm not saying to go out with someone you're not into out of desperation, but you have to be realistic.In general, don't expect girls to approach. Top-tier, cute, average, and even slightly below average women are used to being approached by tons of guys. Why would they stick their necks out by approaching a guy?
>>34258247meds and a male therapist. once you stabalise you can find out how bad men are too and balance out your issue. get on with something else in life.
Unironically get off this fuck ass website and stop feeling sorry for yourself. That's the way to do it. You need to understand your issues are not caused by others, but by yourself.Being in this website or any kind of gay ass content that caters to retarded shit like "foid this, redpill that, go to the gym here to fight your demons there" is only going to damage your psyche more.You surround yourself in an echochamber and refuse to understand the outsider's perspective because you're afraid of being wrong or afraid of something new. Imma sound lame, but this is how you start;Stop calling women "foids, females, bitches" etc. Stop projecting your insecurities on these women you called "bottom of the barrel" and practice spcial rehabilitation like this anon mentioned >>34258606 and realize you aren't fucking owed pussy. Tl;dr stop blaming others and realize you are the common denominator to your problems and reflect and FIX THEM
>>34258247>Incel culture has made big damage to my psyche.Then stop participating in it.
>>34258247Well it helps a lot to have positive experiences with women. Even if you’re not hanging out with them romantically, you can still appreciate things about them like maybe they make a good point in class or say something funny. Joining a social club could definitely help if you’re in uni. Nothing with heavy time demands, but just showing up and being helpful to leadership and just being friendly, and your hygiene taken care of can doing so much heavy lifting.For friends that can take time. I’m pretty out going but I didn’t really meet my good friends at uni until a full calendar year later. I’d focus on men for individual friendships and hangout with women in mixed settings. Male -female friendships can be really tricky, there’s usually some level of sexual tension going on and I think guys catch feelings a lot faster. Woman do inherently have a lot more options, so they’ll probably get with someone who they connect with romantically right away, rather than converting a male friend to a romantic partner. Just keep in mind if a romantic connection is forming it can happenreally fast, like going on dates on the same week or even day of meeting with someone or even sleeping with each other the first day you meetMost of all, get out of incel echo chambers like certain 4chan boards, incel boards etc. Be really carefully about self-help spheres too. I’d recommend Todd Valentine if you want to learn about dating and just the norms of male-female romantic communication. It’s useful to learn. But you sound young and you have good intentions. You’re starting in the right place. Just take it slow. Be really patient because it takes time. Keep rejecting hate because it hurts you more than anyone else and it will make you behave in anti-social ways, both subconsciously and in more glaring instances. Find female figures you can admire for traits other than their beauty, like their intelligence, creativity, or good deeds they have done.
