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I met some guy off r9k and then again on here (suspicious but here's the thread https://archive.4plebs.org/adv/thread/34113785/#34113785) and we got along pretty well on discord. HOWEVER, he started getting too mentally ill but I suspect it was on purpose to see if he could make me spiral too. After a while I told him I've gotten too attached (he did not want a relationship with me, just my attention). Anyway, he made mean posts about me behind my back, thinking I wouldn't know it's him, calling me crazy, ugly, etc and he promised me he only made one post (it was more than that ofc) and he still did it today. I made a vaguely threatening post today on /r9k/ after he made another targetted post at me and I noticed he started deleting all his messages on discord at the same time. How do I stop falling into this pattern? I want to meet someone and be happy, not whatever this is. [spoiler]Also I may or may not have posted a couple of his pictures I saved to spook him[/spoiler]
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>>34280050
no idea what you're asking
>how do i stop meeting people on 4chan
don't post on 4chan
>i want to meet someone and be happy
do that irl
>also I may or may not have posted a couple of his pictures I saved to spook him
i guess that's the end of his life
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>>34280072
>do that irl
I've self isolated. Also no guy has ever approached me irl
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>>34280081
>I've self isolated. Also no guy has ever approached me irl
both are you problems not objective ones
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>>34280085
What how could I possibly have any impact on the second one
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>>34280089
smile more, flirt more, or approach yourself
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>>34280092
Ok ill go to a bar next week and post results. Never tried that before desu
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I am not neurotypical btw are you sure that's a good idea
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>>34280095
Nta
Dont go to a bar alone, only alcoholics and prostitutes do that.
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>>34280050
Just stop using the internet you fucking retard
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>>34280361
OH god what
>>34280420
Why?
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>>34280050
Stop meeting men on 4chan
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>>34280453
I don't know where else to meet them, i'm a freak, a loser. Any ideas?
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I posted a picture of him again, I'm going to hell but he hurt me so bad
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lamento mucho eso, creo que todos hemos pasado por un rechazo, y duele bastante, acepta que lo que te hizo te lastimo, al amar siempre va a ver una posibilidad de salir lastimados, siempre, sin excepciones, pero es normal, si la otra persona hizo esas cosas, habla de el, no de ti, son problemas de el, nada de eso fue tu culpa.... y en cuanto a ti, pon limites, piensa en ti, de verdad quieres permitir esos tratos? no porque todoos lo hobre sean iguales si no que algunas personas nos hacen daƱos porque ellas mismas no saben sostener cosas tan complejas como un vinculo, animoo no se quien eres pero suerte, y espero que algun dia te seintas tan amada por ti misma, que puedas sentirte bien.... y es dificil, porque yo lo logre solo cuando alguien me demostro que incluso con mis fallas, el se quedaria, y que no tengo que hacer nada para merecer amor, mas que respetarlo, y ser emoatica con el... pero tambien conmigo y si algun dia el se va, no va a quedar de otra que sentir mi dolor y saber que yo estoy para mi, yo, mi familia, mis amigos, animo, no estas sola
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>>34280505
hracios mucho, besos
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>>34280514
gracias* i'm off my rocker sorry
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Where are you from. Why don't you date me im in west europe
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>>34280629
If it's you again I will fucking kill you, you irish fuck
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>>34280640
No it's not me I'm from mainland
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>>34280645
Why do you want to talk to me???
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>>34280647
Uh to get a gf and cuddle and have sex duh
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>>34280659
I'm not in europe



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