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Her past is a dealbreaker. Sho(...) 04/05/26(Sun)22:50:46 No.34407968

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Her past is a dealbreaker. Should I have sex with her anyway? Anonymous 04/05/26(Sun)22:50:46 No.34407968

I fell for this girl and let my fantasies take control, imagining only green flags across the board. I found out recently that she engaged in hookups in the past, no idea how many, but that completely tarnished my view of her. I am thinking of acting unaffected by it and just having sex with her until I get bored and move on. She is at the age where she is looking for marriage, and I don’t see myself committing to her. I would feel legit like the beta bucks meme who tries hard in school and work only to end up with the slut. Yeah not doing it

Anonymous
04/05/26(Sun)22:53:42 No.34407974

Anonymous 04/05/26(Sun)22:53:42 No.34407974

>>34407968
Do what you want but making real life decisions because you're anxious about memes on the internet is autistic as shit.

Real a$s niga
04/05/26(Sun)23:08:49 No.34408038

Real a$s niga 04/05/26(Sun)23:08:49 No.34408038

Sure but be upfront and don't lead people on. And it's probably worth knowing what actually happened in/the nature of these "casual hookups" so you can assess more accurately

Anonymous
04/06/26(Mon)00:06:25 No.34408252

Anonymous 04/06/26(Mon)00:06:25 No.34408252

>>34407968
you're supposed to fuck her and get your own "past experiences". you'll quit being a baby about other people being ran through when you become ran through yourself.

Anonymous
04/06/26(Mon)00:58:07 No.34408351

Anonymous 04/06/26(Mon)00:58:07 No.34408351

>>34407968
>>34408252
this anon is right, only after you're experienced you will stop caring that much about it

Anonymous
04/06/26(Mon)01:03:56 No.34408370

Anonymous 04/06/26(Mon)01:03:56 No.34408370

>>34407968
ok if you aren't planning on committing and you're still staying with her you are being the tool. she only has until she hits the wall. move on and find who you want

Anonymous
04/06/26(Mon)01:04:33 No.34408373

Anonymous 04/06/26(Mon)01:04:33 No.34408373

>>34407968
leave her, my guy.

Anonymous
04/06/26(Mon)01:47:45 No.34408471

Anonymous 04/06/26(Mon)01:47:45 No.34408471

>her past is a dealbreaker
>uses 4chan

You realize the mere act of being on this website devalues you to almost nothing? All the women you know can tell you're involved in communities like 4chan. They all know what to look for. You're delegated to hookers for the rest of your life man.

Anonymous
04/06/26(Mon)02:19:25 No.34408549

Anonymous 04/06/26(Mon)02:19:25 No.34408549

>>34407968
You're emotionally immature and shouldn't waste her time out of human piety, specially since she is getting older.

Now that you know this, you can't ignore the consequences you bring without being a plain villain, a piece of shit.

Only past to legitimately consider is whether she has stds you're not willing to live with or if she cheated a serious partner. If the case is neither, you're just a kid and should leave her instead.

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