>>34539556
Join an extreme religion community.

>>34539556
Find really really dumb or really ugly people

>>34539564
I already am in a pious religious community. But I prefer to marry someone who isn't crazy religious because I still have trauma from my upbringing

>>34539556
Be a man who women deem desirable enough to lose their virginity to, I've taken multiple including my wife and wasn't selecting for that.

Could be that I just didn't give a fuck if they were virgins or not, most girls don't want their hymen on a pedestal.

>>34539556
Wait until marriage to have sex. Even if you don't explicitly expect the same, you're selecting for people who prioritize commitment.

>>34539556
It's literally only possible if you're religious

>>34539556
>I want a unicorn virgin instead of the literal billions of women available for me on the planet
fuck off and kill yourself you insufferable little faggot

100% convinced that guys like this know that they will disappoint women so want to trap them first

>>34539556
Talk to more women. Virgins are the minority, it is what it is, but they exist. You will have to weed through non-virgins to find a virgin. So just talk to more women. It's a numbers game.

>>34540099
>>34540105
The idea of marrying a girl that slept with and sucked off other guys is so unromantic and gross I have no idea how any man's fine with that. I literally don't understand the thought process there, how do you not find it offputting? I think I understand a guy who wants a virgin, but knows it's unrealistic, so even though it's a massive negative he dates a girl despite her not being one. But pretending it isn't awful is retarded

>>34539576
Bad advice. You'll just find women who had their heart broken by a guy who didn't commit and then swung to the complete opposite direction because of trauma.

>>34540130
>I think about men so much that even when presented with the prospect of fucking a woman I am still thinking about men
Holy fucking shit you are such a faggot.

>>34540146
Absolutely retarded argument that makes me feel even more justified in my views every time I hear it. "Just pretend it didn't happen bro". Subhuman fuck

>>34540156
>a man touched this woman therefore if I touch her I am touching the man that touched her
you're so incredibly stupid it's unfathomable

>>34540203
The second most common argument I hear. You use analogies which reduce the actual thing that happened to something insignificant. Another man didn't touch her. He fucked her. That's what happened. My argument also isn't that if I fuck her I am then fucking that man (are you retarded), it's that it's fucking disgusting that the woman I'm supposed to spend the rest of my life with did that with someone else. It's gross enough I lose all interest instantly.

>>34540210
>oh no a woman that's had sex is basically akin to committing murder
lmao have fun being alone for the rest of your life you fucking loser lmao

>>34539556
Work at a college in a city that is surrounded by small towns. Chances are the girls grew up sheltered and with small town values and didn't date around because there was never the options for it. A girl that grew up having to bus 45 minutes to a high school that collected every kid in a 100 mile radius just to be a functioning school. Then, when she graduates and "goes off to college" in "the big city" that's two hours away, she wants to finally get her life started and go through her college experimental phase. Identify those types of girls early and get in fast. Sweep them off their feet. Be their first. Let them get that first crazy heavy brain chemical dose for you. Ride that wave for the rest of your life.

>>34540267
>oh no a woman that's had sex is basically akin to committing murder
No. A woman that's had sex is basically akin to a woman that's had sex. It's a very vulnerable and submissive act, and it's very offputting that she did it for another man. It's enough for me to lose all attraction. You just made another analogy in order to pretend the situation is something other than what it is. Can't tell if you're a roastie or a cuck trying to pretend that shit doesn't bother you, but either way, you're retarded

>>34540123
>Virgins are the minority

Oh not this retarded bullshit again. You sound just like that guy that insists 7/10 of every White girl has fucked a Black before the age of 16.

>>34540284
>Oh not this retarded bullshit again
nigga what. are you claiming most women are virgins? are you okay? I wish I lived in your reality. Virgins are objectively the minority

>>34540277
>It's a very vulnerable and submissive act,
Yeah... and your point is?

>it's very offputting that she did it for another man.
Oh, so she's not allowed to have a life before meeting you?
Who the fuck do you think you are? Get the fuck over yourself dude.
Women will continue to exist without you. They don't need you and they don't give a shit about you.
You better be fucking nice to your right hand dude. Cause that's the only thing you're gonna be fucking for the rest of your miserable little life.

>>34539556
The most important thing is to resign yourself to having a completely dead bedroom after you're married. The only way you'll find a woman who is still a virgin is if she doesn't want sex with anybody ever, including you.

>>34540315
Knowing how retarded OP is he'd probably think his hand is disgusting cause it's been touching him all his life. What a fucking faggot.

>>34540315
Never in my life have I seen more feminine writing.
If you're a man you need to go check your testosterone levels.

>>34539556
marry a bisexual autistic man
you're welcome

>>34540363
It's because it's a roastie. These aren't arguments a male makes. A guy will say "yeah virgins are better but you gotta be realistic", as soon as they pull the "erm it's okay for her to have had a life before you chud" you know you insulted them on a personal level and it's a seething woman

>>34540368
I mean, it has gone through every possible point on "arguing with holes", but then I've seen men say the exact same things with the same vitriol.

Take it from a divorced old guy. Don’t marry or look for a woman based on some checklist you whipped up. I did that shit and lost half my stuff and my kids because “liking and getting along with the other person” wasn’t put high on the priority list when it should be #1.

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>>34539574
>anon thinks his wife was a virgin

>>34540377
"liking and getting along with the other person" is something that can only come to light after dating for a while. If you married someone you didn't get along with, that's on you, and it has nothing to do with standards. You got along just fine at the start of the relationship.

>>34540123
What's the best way to weed out non-virgins without being weird about it? You cannot just bluntly say, "Yeah, so I am only looking for a virgin and find it highly undesirable if you are not one?

>>34540210
Agree with you, anon.


>>34540203
Imagine it like this: if someone defecated in a plate, would you feel comfortable eating food from that plate, even if it were thoroughly washed? I would still feel the ick. It's even worse than that for an actual woman because it's not just washing the vagina. She is permanently mentally corrupted, losing her pair-bonding

>>34540269
I thought about this before actually. I am genuinely a decent person --- I don't have a virgin fetish or anything. I would 100% wait until marriage for the right girl ---- there has got to be girls who respect that and are looking for something similar.

>>34540377
I wouldn't say I am extremely picky. I am not looking for a friend or someone I can confide all my thoughts to, someone who completely understands me. I do have a checklist, but it's rather vague

>find her attractive
>virgin
>wants kids
>loyal

Really just absence of a negative

>>34540798
>What's the best way to weed out non-virgins without being weird about it
"Have you been in a relationship before?" or "When was your last relationship?". If she pushes you on why you're asking, just admit you've never been in one. The only people who find it to be a negative in men are non-virgin women anyway, so you don't care about the stigma. Even if this is a weird question to ask a friend or a woman you're casually pursuing but you aren't going out with yet, when you're going out on dates it's pretty normal to ask about relationship history at that point anyway.

>>34540804
>"Have you been in a relationship before?" or "When was your last relationship?".

That isn't a good metric though. Like, in the religious community I grew up in, it's normal to date multiple people before marriage. But dating =/= sex. If you're talking about more secular dating avenues, then, yeah, she's probably not a virgin. But at my age, I am pretty sure everyone has at least gone on dates before

>>34540363
>>34540368
>>34540376
And yet here you are, having to resort to asking other incels on 4chan on how to find your magical unicorn virgin wife that does not and will never exist.

>>34540798
>You cannot just bluntly say, "Yeah, so I am only looking for a virgin and find it highly undesirable if you are not one?
Well, of course it is, because you know it's incredibly insulting and the woman would swiftly kick you in the nuts if you ever said such a thing, and rightfully so.

>>34540798
>if someone defecated in a plate, would you feel comfortable eating food from that plate, even if it were thoroughly washed? I would still feel the ick. It's even worse than that for an actual woman because it's not just washing the vagina. She is permanently mentally corrupted, losing her pair-bonding
Oh you're such an outstanding high quality guy, comparing having sex to taking a shit. So if you have sex with a woman, virgin I presume, and you don't like her for some reason, she is now to never have sex with anyone else ever again cause she's "damaged goods". No other man is gonna wanna touch her cause YOU took a shit on her? Listen to your fucking self, you're such a fucking retard.

Go ahead, continue posting on 4chan about how you desire to find your unicorn wife cause that's all you'll be doing for the rest of your shit life.

>I am genuinely a decent person
No you're not. You treat women like literal garbage. You know damn well no woman is going to say that about you when they find out you would never date them because they had the audacity to have sex with some other man that isn't you.
>What's the best way to weed out non-virgins without being weird about it?
That's why you have to be a sneaky little shit and lie about your true intentions cause no self respecting woman would touch your otherwise. Cause they would know straight up that you're a piece of shit.

They've got some great sex dolls on Amazon, good deals. Perfect virgin wife for you.

>>34540907
Seething lmao

>>34540911
Where's your wife? Hmm? Where is she? Oh that's right. You don't have one.

>>34540907
What is your incentive to simp like this? Did you grow up in a single-mother household and have daddy issues?

>>34540912
I honestly don't know what's going through your head to think any of your arguments are effective. Me and OP want a VIRGIN woman. I don't want a girlfriend or a wife if she isn't a virgin. Telling me I'm single and I'll remain single is worthless, because the goal isn't to just date any woman, but a woman that I actually like. It's like trying to tell a guy who wants to be a pilot that he'll never be a chef. Lady, that's not the goal here. I don't even mind being single, if I never find what I want, it's literally the better outcome.

>>34540923
>>34540926
Where's your virgin wife? Where are these virgin women that are lining up to date you? I don't see them. You're making shit threads on 4chan looking for them but you ain't getting any.

>>34540931
Isn't that the point of the thread though? OP is looking for advice because he's struggling? If you've got advice on how to be a better male so a virgin girl is more likely to pick OP, you should post your thoughts and give advice.

I'm in my 30's and met an 18 year old virgin on /soc/ who wants kids and to be a stay-at-home wife. She's moving in this week.

I wasn't actively looking for ones, I added girls of all ages from 18 to my age. I wouldn't have cared even if she wasn't.

As someone else said, it's just a numbers game. This thread do kinda give me the 'ick tho. If you are also a virign then I think it's fine seeking another virgin. But if you're not and you're super hung up about finding one, I think women will detect that. They have a sixth sense for this stuff. If you start fetishizing them it is game over.

Good luck.

>>34540941
How do you even meet girls on soc? I keep hearing success stories, but I went there and it's legit like 99% dudes all swarming the 1% of girls. Plus all the degen shit being posted. Literally worse than tinder

>>34540938
Struggling? You fucking kidding me? You pass up hundreds of thousands of women just because they're not virgins? This is a problem you created for yourself. I have zero sympathy for you. You want a virgin? Go hit up some 13 year olds in middle school or something, cause you ain't gonna find them anywhere else.

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>>34540945
The /aan/ threads have lots of young girls desperate to escape their living situations. The SFW discord threads work as well. I only go on there a couple times a year so I just got lucky. Yeah it's basically /b/-lite it's horrible to browse. I recommend just using the filter/search feature. If you're looking for a well adjusted girl I wouldn't recommend it in that case. Most of them are mentally unwell and damaged, but I am into that.

>>34540941
lmao imagine lying on the internet

>>34540959
>The /aan/ threads have lots of young girls desperate to escape their living situations.
I will go there when I have money to "save" them, lmao

>>34540959
It's actually kind of crazy how many of these highly attractive young girls there are who come from semi-broken families and just want to find a decent guy to gtfo. I used to go on the old omegle and match with tons of them --- added her on discord and she was legit a 10/10. I am not saying this as a a lustful simp. I am somewhat picky on looks but she was absolutely gorgeous. She kept saying how much she hates niggers, I shit you not. Realized she had some sort of mental illness and became obsessive attached to me. Had plans to meet her over summer and then just suddenly she becomes cold with me and get blocked

>>34540970
She would always try to voice chat me at random times also. And ask me for permission to eat. I would be the one who decides what she eats for the day. Absolute nutcase

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>>34540941
>I'm in my 30's and met an 18 year old virgin on /soc/ who wants kids and to be a stay-at-home wife. She's moving in this week.

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>>34540970
Yeah this one is super racist as well, just casually dropping all kinds of racial bombs. Kinda hot ngl. Sorry she bailed on you. When I was younger I met a hottie nerd (would have been considered an e-girl by todays standards) on Stickam that somehow lived like 10 minutes from me. I walked to her place and we just hungout. She had a keyblade it was pretty cool. Never talked again after that. She probably wanted to hook up and I was too shy/cowardly back then around girls. Gotta swoop in fast while their interest is peaked I guess. I do firmly believe that even the most mentally unwell girls still know they have pick of the litter. Like other creatures in nature, males dance and females choose. Something you did may have given her the ick or some other guy she connected with better hit her up.

>>34540964
>>34540989
honestly I'm still in a bit of disbelief myself.. only been talking with her for 2 weeks now.. she's from an extremely bad home and just wants to get out ASAP. We vibe really well and have been talking basically constantly all day every day huge paragraphs/sentences. She knows I don't make much and am basically a loser. I'm either going to live happily ever after or get murdered in my sleep in a year two. Oh well.

>>34541004
oh yeah? then if she is real post her plump luscious breasts for me to gawk at

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>>34540941
>I'm in my 30's
So, 39? Why so insecure about the actual number faggot
>>34540130
Just don't think about it. For what it's worth it, I had relationships with two virgins (my first and second gf) and I could have married them, but it wouldn't have worked out since I was n insecure poorfag. My perception is that it's easier to marry a virgin if you got your shit straight early on, if you are 30+ just give up man

Take the muhammadpill.

>>34539572
I had a similar upbringing and I would ideally like to find a girl who was born into an extreme religion because I don't think somebody from a more carefree background can really relate to me. I don't care about virginity though, unless she has an insanely high body count or something.

My problem is it's really hard to find girls who are also "masking" in that environment and somehow signal to them that you're also not really religious without outing her or yourself to others, and the ones who left the religion entirely usually go for completely different men than them.
Maybe we remind them too much of their past trauma or they're paranoid that we're lying to get close and reconvert them.
I've resigned myself to being forever alone.

>>34540105
I don't understand the mindset that you either have a talent for sex or you're bad at it and will be forever. unless you have a micropenis or something you can always just talk to your girl about what she likes and practice.

>>34541032
That's hot