Like in the social sense, not in the academical/work sense.They don't give a shit that I'm 20 year old virgin, who sits at home every weekend and play video games instead of going to a party, club or whatever. They also don't find it strange that I have no real friend group and have never been invited anywhere.Every time I voice out my frustrations I always get the standard normie phrases:>it will eventually come around>you just haven't found your people yet>you're not missing out on anything>just focus on your studies>Well I knew a guy once, he also wanted to get anything fast and he overdosed on drugsLike the only thing they care about is me becoming a wageslave instead of enjoying life. Anybody got similar experiences?
>>34572142Boomer belief that you'll become a man through hard work and a house and wife will fall into your lap, because socialisation was effortless for them.They cannot fathom the modern autist, surrounded by isolating distractions, shit economic opportunities, and hoeflation.
why do you need them to think you’re shit before you actually do something? you won’t do shit
>>34572182Why can't they be honest?
They probably assume/know you are autistic or something like that and resigned from doing anything
>>34572202Just tell me that? It took me 19 fucking years to suspect that I'm an autist.
>>34572217"son, you're a sperg, don't worry about having a social life." You could probably think of reasons why they personally wouldnt just be able to say that. If you're truly angry then channel it into shocking and proving them wrong by working out and hitting the clubs
>>34572234>hitting the clubsplease consult the graph
>>34572142Have you tried acknowledging the fact the you are, by all intents and purposes, an 20 years old adult? They aren't really wrong for *apparently* not giving a fuck. You got food, shelter and internet connection to bitch about your relatives on 4chan. Wake up, retard, you're solely responsible for putting in the effort to try to change your life.
>>34572247>Le memeBut really your family have always expected you to never excel at least socially, and it's common with neurodivergent types. I believe to parents of kids diagnosed with autism the doctors mention stuff like don't expect them to achieve things others' kids will achieve
>>34572253They also didn't care when I was 9 or 11 or 14 or 17
>>34572247Yeah, keep on being a whining bitch dismissing any kind of advice whatsoever and wasting time posting /pol/ jokes. I'm sure it'll work out great
>>34572260but I'm not even diagnosed? They still give me the pep talks how "yeah you should be more confident anon" and "it will eventually happen" and "I should try more" and other wonderful phrases. They also try to push me into getting together with a girl, who has no interest in me (neither do I), they wouldn't do this with an autist, I guess?
>>34572268I'm not saying you're diagnosed just that it's society's view of how best to treat young spergs which your parents have probably imbibed, and yeah OP they do not totally give up hope or deny you advice when requested because they're your senpai, but you're wondering why they are relaxed about it
>>34572268To me this sounds like they DO care and they ARE trying to snap you out of it, which is counter to your thread premise. But they're getting no help from you on your end. Meet them halfway at least OP.
>>34572202This is the only real answer. If you're parents treat you like this then it's because they gave up on you having a real social life and have become content with you at least not being a NEET who depends on them.
