>go on date (we’ve been friends for a year before that), admit we have feelings for each other, kiss>her texting is still indistinguishable from talking to a coworker or friend>she ignores flirty comments entirely but still replies >have second date coming upShould I even bother going through with this? No, I am not being cucked, there is no one else on her side
>>34668379Why is this a problem?If you like her and get along with her regardless of whether you're dating, wanting things to change just because you kissed is only an ego expectation.Do you need the validation of your kiss changing the way a woman communicates? Why? If your next few dates go well and you sleep together, ask her about it over the breakfast you make for you both the morning after you fuck (if you really badly need to know - odds are she's just shy or on the spectrum).
>>34668397Thanks, maybe I’ll ask while I’m inside her
>>34668379don't worry about text tone. I've dated girls who respond to texts like 24 hours later and sound like a robot lol, go based on how they act IRL. Not everybody's a good texter
>>34668379she sounds like a keeper desu
>>34668435It’s just hard to imagine how you couldn’t be a good texter with someone you like. I’ll wait to see how she is this second time; she’s staying over my house but it’s because it’s logistically required in order for us to hang out. She made it very clear we are to sleep in separate rooms which is fine with me>>34668439Is that sarcasm anon
>>34668379It's not surprising her style of texting doesn't magically switch. Especially if you were friends before it can be hard to now change the style of communication. How does she talk to you irl?
>>34668379Well, you've got both a kiss and an admission she's interested, that's something to work with. If you like her keep going, if around date 3-4 you don't start acting like something more than just friends then it's time to worry
>>34668529I feel you, I didn't like that my ex was like that either. I'm used to gfs texting me kinda constantly and with a cute tone, so I get that it feels weird. Idk tho I grew up on the computer chatting with people so I feel like I'm good at that kinda thing, and some people just didn't. Tbh using a phone is just a dumb thing that I don't think everybody should be expected to be good at. I have one friend who just barely checks his phone, it makes it kinda frustrating to make plans but I can't get mad at him for it, fuck a phone tbdesu he's right.Do you have an example of a flirty text you sent with her bad response? Also yeah if you keep this situation up for a few weeks you can just bring it up to her. After the first time you admit feelings I think it's pretty insane to immediately ask why she isn't texting you more cutely, but after a while you could bring it up casually. I told my ex that she texts like a robot after a few months and she was just like "yeah lol sorry, everybody says that I'm just not a good texter"
>>34668535I don’t know. When we were on the “date” it felt exactly the same as our other one-on-one hangouts. The only change was when we admitted feelings and I said I was nervous, she said she was too, we were both blushing like high schoolers. “Now what?” she said. Then after some tension I went in for the kiss. Did it two times more later on to “seal” it>>34668562Thanks anon.>>34668563For the next time I said I’m looking forward to spending some time with you and she said nothing. I once said irl “you looked cute today” and all she said was thanks
>>34668570Seems like it's hard for her to transition from being friends to something more. Doesn't mean she doesn't like you. If she didn't she probably wouldn't ruin the friendship for something like this.
>>34668582I appreciate it anon. I think she values the friendship maybe more than I do, I always thought she was cute and fun to flirt with so I never treated it very seriously, though we did share a lot of personal things when going through tough times. And even if this doesn’t work out I’m still happy to be friends desu for the same dynamic
>>34668570>For the next time I said I’m looking forward to spending some time with you and she said nothing. I once said irl “you looked cute today” and all she said was thanksyeah, I agree with >>34668582, it's probably an awkward transition for her. Let her take her time working through that and don't stress her about it, that's just gonna make it worse. I'd say after a while of being romantic like maybe 2-3 weeks you could bring it up. Like ask if she's having an awkward time with the transition, don't be accusatory or frame it like it's a huge problem for you, do it with the tone that it's okay you just want to make sure she's comfortable and is happy with the direction things are going. Tbdesu just admitting feelings and kissing a few times isn't necessarily enough to conclude that you're gonna start dating, and worrying about her tone here does kind of imply that that's the impression you're under. Just keep in mind she might not like that assumption. Just my 2 cents though
>>34668379>go on dateKys normalfaggot
>>34668633tpbp/thread
>>34668633>>34668719I’ve been on 4chan for years before /adv/ even existed, been here all summer kiddo
