F in mid 20s KHHV (no, really)tallish bmi 19, get some attention, not bad looking by objective standards (idfk tho)was never fucked to go outside for anything but school and work and library/occasional solo driveshate dating appskinda want a bf but where the fuck do I even startcan talk to people fine, though I did have to learn how from textbooks, and people apparently think I'm witty or warm or w/e but it's like customer service 24/7. the only people I don't feel like that around have serious psych issues. mostly I feel free to drop unfiltered dark shit and then they drop theirs (usually way worse) and I'm like ok well I actually feel something in our conversations but that'll be two of us mutually destructing if we get togetherI don't want to end up like some fucked up couple where one or the other jumps off a bridge after an argumentis there some switch I can flip to be more normal? the fuck is wrong with me
Nothings wrong with you, its just hard as fuck to make friends/have relationships as an adult, although it's easier as a woman because men are desperate and stupid in 2026. If you see a cute guy on the street, try to befriend him first and see where it goes.
Get off forechan anon that will help
>>34680698already tried this unfortunately
>>34680708Then you are just as fucked as the rest of us. But atleast according to you lookswise you aren't completely busted. Idk try and be around male spaces more and hope some knight in shining armour likes your dark shit or then give up and hop on the femcel grind idk
>>34680720even if I like someone's company (not overly common) I have to start from zero every time because it feels like they're in disbelief I want to be friends with them or somethingbut yeah sure I'll try that. as long as inevitable return to work grind doesn't take me away from the spaces I'm in now
Just hiding your real personality will make the relationship miserable later on so I don't think it's worth hiding for too long
and for the love of god don't consider 4chan one of these afformentioned malespaces
>>34680726is this my personality or a maladaptive larp? I have trouble knowing
>>34680733how tf do you except me to know I ain't some 4chan psychic medium, but im guessing you are atleast a bit ''miserable'' since you are on 4chan and therefore not a normie or a goodlifer . Unless that is a larp too
>>34680673Dating apps
>>34680741ngl I was expecting 4chan psychic mediums. disappointed. only you're not charging $200 per half hour to scam people.and tbf it's pointless asking how to be less miserable on here
>>34680809Only ask how to be more miserable on here and do the exact opposite that is true wisdom
>>34680822actually that's kino
>hate dating appswhy
The gay community is the best male space for women to intrude in 2026 so try that i am sure they will love it when they know you post on 4chan
>>34680899don't remind me, I had a gay coworker somehow clock that I was safe to yap to about floptropica across multiple lunch breaksI never mentioned 4chan or being online once
>>34680698>forechanthere should be a jewish forum called 4skin and a porn site called 4play
>>34680899She should just lez out
>>34680911You sound safe to yap about my autistic intersets to desu
>>34680916also tried that kindathe first would-be candidate developed schizophrenia before it really started so that was over fast
>>34680673Find a social setting where you are among people (not one-to-one) in a completely sex-and-romance-free zone. A church group, an evening class, a club (in the sense of shared interests or activities), a sports team, etc. Just get used to being relaxed and having fun around people
>>34680920aww im flattereddo you jump off bridges after arguments anon
>>34680921Wow, that sucks. Was it weed induced?
Go to church, you need Jesus and if you find one with a community you solve all of your problems in one go
>>34680923I go to networking nights & events just like these and by god my face is frozen afterwards from all the fake laughing I did. maybe fake laughter is necessary but I don't think I've ever once left with a contactget your drift tho, objectively not bad advice
>>34680926unfortunately not. just shitty genes +/- chronic sleep deprivation I think. most of the cases I've seen in hospital were weed or meth-induced though
>>34680920>>34680926As we all know the best bond get formed on 4chan
>>34680934Holy shit I spelled so badly I should just ropemaxx
>>34680924Lmao what the fuck xD, you sound fun at parties, ill just make sure that no third person is with us
>>34680920 it will be so romantic if you both jump tho
>>34680945I just said that "you sound safe to talk about my intersets to" why is everyone trying to romancise that xDD, sorry maybe its my open personality i guess
>>34680957just making a joke anon
>>34680960I know i was laughing like a mad man, 4chan is truly a place lmaooo
