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Hi! Its my first time posting on 4chan so idrk how this works. Also purely posting this to get insight and advice :)

I am a attractive kissless virgin female. I have never been in a real relationship. I have never rly had a guy walk up to me and talk to me or ask for my info or anything like that. But literally everywhere i go without fail people stare at me (mainly men obvi). I am 5'8, 130 with a muscular/toned physique. I have semi long brunette hair, slightly tanned, have blue eyes, self proclaimed good style and have manyyyy hobbies (gym, surf, reading abt history, sewing, cars, hiking, etc). I have recently posted myself on one of those "rate me" subreddits and my post got a lot of traction with many people rating me a 8/9 out of 10.

I dont really know what to do. I dont rly want to use dating apps out of my intense fear that someone ik will see my account.

Someone on a subreddit said that when men see an attractive girl they will automatically assume that she is taken? Ive been told by some friends that they say i look somewhat intimidating and that i usually look mad lol and that might scare off men. Another thing thats worth mentioning is that i never make eye contact with literally anyone so i always know ppl are staring at me cuz they will literally turn their heads but i will continue looking straight ahead. The only time ive ever looked back at a dude he literally did a 180 and came up to me (first & only time that happened).

Another thing worth mentioning is that I'm also reluctant to approach guys my league bc most of them have alr had their firsts and I don't want to be the inexperienced girl with the experienced guy which I feel is valid :/. and I also don't want to date below my league bc I preferably date to marry and I don't want to be with someone I settled for, for the rest of my life. idk

advice/insight is GREATLY appreciated :))))