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I have no friends and I am desperate for them.
How immoral would it be if I were to just go on a gay dating app, pretend to like dudes just for the sake of having someone to hang out with. They won't be too mad if I pull the "Im not ready for a relationship, can we stay friends?" routine?
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Los puedes hacer desde cualquier red social sin hacer eso claro que si quieres no hay ningun límite
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>>34959395

that would make for poor friends, anon.

if you just want people to hang with, then go where people just do that. if you're trying to build interpersonal relationships of any kind, starting by misleading them is going to end in failure
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>>34959395
You could do that but you would turn gay in the process.

Do >>34959419 and just start comment on people's stuff with enthusiasm, tell your personal experience and asks for theirs, get their number and 2 days later invite them to hangout, maybe some online game, maybe an outing. Keep asking how their lives are going, that's it.

The hard steps right now are feeling enthusiasm while feeling you're missing something, the other is finding people with room to accomodate for you. Go back to college, join hobby clubs, meetup groups on facebook etc.
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I don't understand how it's so hard to make friends. I went to barnes and noble and just talked to a guy at the bluray section about his favorite movies. bam, friendship. just don't look like a serial killer and you're good.
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>>34959395
>They won't be too mad if I pull the "Im not ready for a relationship, can we stay friends?" routine?
They may not be mad, but none of them will say yes. Plus, you'll need to have sex with them first; are you really up for that? Gay men usually fuck on the first date.
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>>34959395
Grindr isn't even on the list of possible places to look for friends.
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>>34959395
That's a sure way to get gay-raped.
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>>34959395
Friends rub off on eachother, you'd turn into a fag OP
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>>34959395
Why would you want to be friends with a gay?
Might as well just shoot yourself at that point.
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>>34959519
Thats basically acquaintance tier friendship. I want the kind that I go do stuff like escape rooms and shit like that. Somebody I can call if I need to move a couch.
Thats pretty much how all my attempts to make friends have went so far. We're I somehow to get married I wouldnt have a single person to point to and be my best man.
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Hey man i hear you im in a similar situation, i dont have anyone who would be my best man. Hell i dont have anyone i could call and just hung out. Want to play video games with a stranger you meet on 4chan?
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>>34961368
I mean unless youre super into fighting games. Im only ever on Avatar and Tokon these days.
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>>34959395
Let's be friends
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>>34963586
dont listen to this schizo anon trying to capitalize on your misery like a neoliberal demon destined by the 7th hells
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>>34959395
If it helps, I think Bumble has a friend mode just for finding friends. don't know if the people who use that app are the kind of people you want to hang out with but you are looking on Grindr and so that probably would be an improvement from making friends with perverts
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>>34961295
Right. I can make friends but i want allies too. If u cant drive to deliver an item to me in good times u aint my friend ur someone who wants my stuff
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>>34963638
At some point u have to engage with ideas otherwise u get left in the dust. All im saying. We need u to think outside the earth now towards the bad guys. Not fighting random inventors
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>>34959395
Let me know if it works.
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>shills products to despairing isolated men on 4chan
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>is a literal neoliberal demon
>profit?
>America
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>>34963644
on gods OP DO NOT USE BUMBLE FRIENDS ALL MEN ON THERE ARE GAY AF SUSSY BAKA AND THEY WILL RAPE YOU speaking for a friend



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