>>35038964
Schizofoid post you need to find a husband who gets you

It is what it is

>"that's just how people are"

>guys running up in a hurry to step in and help as if I can't handle it on my own. I get corrected on things that I know I'm not wrong about
You look like shit

>you have to rely on a man to speak up for you
Thats the root of your problems

I am articulate
Doesn't matter. The sooner you learn the better. Tone>words

>I can't stand people. Mostly men
Please don't date us

>>35038964
the world is a shitty place, filled with retards
the only solution to not get pissed off by some halfwit is to not talk with morons to begin with

Good fuck off.

>>35039016
It's like you didn't read my post at all
>>35039063
Why do you assume there's a problem with me here? I take all the safety precautions I'm supposed to, I do a good job. My tone is professional. I still get treated this way.
>>35039108
How do I filter them?

>>35038964
You're just like every other audhd femcel. Learn to speak in a pleasant tone of voice and smile, lighten up and have fun. Don't overexplain things. Other people are not in the same headspace as you, when they don't listen it isn't necessarily they don't care it's just you aren't a good communicator. When you communicate stick to what is relevant to the other person, do not communicate your inner thought processes or the entire journey of how you came to your conclusions. Less is more. Prioritize tone over autistically explaining things perfectly like a machine.
I can relate though, I've had those same kinds of thoughts. Doing psychedelics and ketamine many times and spiritualmaxxing helped me get over it and get in touch with how to pretend to be a normie when necessary. You might think you are so much more deep and intelligent than other people when actually you're just uptight and lame, and don't understand that other people's thoughts and attention are elsewhere sometimes. When you get confident relaxed and happy inside yourself, you just get into a different mindset where you think "why did this ever bother me?"
With men, if they rush to help you it means they like you, take it as a compliment. And men in professional contexts tend to be argumentative, full of crap and statusmongering, it's like puppies playfighting, just roll with it, don't take it so seriously. At work get paid and have a quietly solid reputation, that's what matters. Stay centered on being a person of integrity and competence, not getting instant gratification in social interactions.
Not saying act like a submissive stepford wife, on the contrary. You have to stop caring what other people think, and their moment to moment reactions to you. Lean into being "sigma" or a "lone wolf". It's okay to dislike humans, it's a perfectly natural response to how awful most of them are.

>>35039625
>Lighten up and have fun. Don't over explain things
This feels like what my friend does, just letting everyone see her as an airhead because it's easier.
>Doing psychedelics and ketamine many times and spiritualmaxxing helped me get over it and get in touch with how to pretend to be a normie when necessary
I've believed for a long time that experimenting with psychedelics might expand my mind to help me deal with all this but I've been reluctant. It sounds like it worked for you, do you recommend it?
>And men in professional contexts tend to be argumentative, full of crap and statusmongering, it's like puppies playfighting, just roll with it
If I just roll with it then it will hurt my career because men will separately be taking credit for my work and taking credit for "fixing" my work when it was never broken. I've even had the employee handbook and showed them how I did everything according to our standard procedures and they still acted like I didn't know what I was doing.

>>35038964
Well, Im a man in medicine (doc) and I feel same but towards women.
Women in medicine are for majority of time retarded and girlboss obsessed bitches.
Older ones are chill, but younger ones think they are all doc House and strut around obsessed about wrong things, and they do the work if they have time for it. But status games come first.

I simply do not udnerstand that level of thinking and acting.

Let me not get into lack of empathy in general that women en masse exhibit at workplace.

>>35040075
It's about picking and choosing your battles. You sound like you're on the spectrum and as someone that also is, I was often similar in that I very much value accuracy and attention to details. The thing is, normalfags could not give less than a fuck about this. At all. If you try to correct things they'll get endlessly pissed off at you, even if you're right. So I started going into the mindset of being less controlling and neurotic and that most things are not my problem. Besides being way less stressful since I stopped trying to control everything in my immediate environment, it made my interpersonal relationships smoother and I stopped disliking people as much. Now obviously in work this isn't going to work as well, but it helps to focus only on what you're directly in charge of. From what you're saying, if you're in IT or a similar field, most of the men you're working with a probably on the spectrum as well. You should keep that in mind in that case, since there is often a nearly obsessive need to make things "right" that they're struggling with as well. Main thing would be to recognize that people offering to help you aren't looking down on you or patronizing you, that's an insecurity of your own. Even if you know something and they try to "help" you, I find it best to just smile and go along with it. It doesn't affect me negatively and can also help in different ways, like giving another perspective, since autists can be incredibly obstinate and convinced we're always right.

>>35039472
>I take all the safety precautions I'm supposed to
How effective are they really?
>I do a good job
Did it work?
>My tone is professional. I still get treated this way
Yup. Failed

>>35040182
This. OP sounds prudish but if she's neurodivergent, it tracks. I'm in a similar boat with her treatment but I work a no class job. I can scare people enough to not bother me as a man, and I don't work directly with a team so I can do things however I want. Those who don't know me think I'm a dick. It's fine for me in my position because they need my labor, not my input.

OP, nobody likes a know-it-all. Not in a white collar job. Especially not a woman. There might not be anything more disrespectful than a stubborn woman who thinks her shit doesn't stink. Especially to men, it comes off as extremely demeaning in a world where we already get shit on constantly. You might be smart or capable or whatever, but you probably only got your job because of DEI politics, and if you were a man, other men would let you fuck up or succeed on your own.

But you're a woman. It's natural for the capable sex to doubt you in everything. No one likes a woman who behaves like a man, and you sound like you've been indoctrinated into the feminist shit.

>I'm happier alone. But I don't want to be alone. I'm mixed up because I feel like I hate everyone in the world but I still want to believe not everyone sucks

I can't say who is "in the wrong" in your situation, but following shit to a textbook t and being proud of it is the most prudish, unbending thing I think you could exhibit to a living human being who is probably just trying to help you be efficient and relieve some of the stress of the red-tape, bullshit "official way."

You're repressing some part of you that wants to lighten up and have human connection. I can't say you should look for it at work, but if you're going to you have to lighten up. You are likely coming off as hateful, robotic, and inhuman as the people you claim to hate, and can't even see it. Get a social life outside of work. You need something else to spend your social brain on. When you don't have that you start misinterpreting work as socializing

>>35040182
>From what you're saying, if you're in IT or a similar field, most of the men you're working with a probably on the spectrum as well.
I am an engineer. I like working with machines because they do what they are designed to without worrying about whether they can interpret what I am telling them.
>If you try to correct things they'll get endlessly pissed off at you, even if you're right.
These machines can hurt or even kill someone if they are not properly maintained and configured.
>>35040302
>How effective are they really?
They are extremely effective when followed correctly but my coworkers find it tedious. It's almost sheer luck no one has been harmed by their negligence.
>>35040348
I've been doing volunteer work in my community to try to be more social but it only made me despise other people more.

>>35038964
I can't stand foids, but I take solace that they get sex trafficked from infancy to gray hair.
Protip- you should listen to men(your superiors) before you fuck everything up, like ruining Western civilisation to the ground.

>>35040710
>How effective are they really?
>They are extremely effective when followed correctly
Contain your autism. Why are you referring back to the process of your job when that's, as even you admit, something that's not even a problem

>>35038964
Does being transbian make it worse?

>>35038964
>well educated
indoctrinated
> It too often feels like nothing I say matters.
That is because it doesn't. You must be young if you still believe that people actually want your knowledge, opinion and advice. No. What they want is validation and endorsement of their own retardation.
> I still want to believe not everyone sucks.
They mostly do though. 90% of everything is shit. It's just Pareto.

>>35039625
Did the same thing came to the same realization. This dudes right on aside from the hating people part. Not everyone has the opportunity or capacity to analyze and learn as much as you. Be humble. It's everyone elses first try at consciousness . Don't do weed though

>>35038964
>Giving attention to a mentally ill femcel Tumblrerina in the big 26
Burn simps alive

>>35040710
>volunteer work
That isn't socializing. Work is literally in the description. You aren't gonna chill out there either. When you are always in work mode some part of your brain is being conditioned, and the more you stay there, the harder it is to get out of that zone. I was like that for like a year, but I made friends at my job who I can talk to anything about, but if you work white collar, don't bother mixing that. They will all betray you. You need some friends to let loose around and chill out. You sound like you're always in work mode. What hobbies do you have

>>35038964
Happiness is a choice. Prioritize happiness. You don't feel or see it but, your main problem is you are controlling and narrow-minded.
Your friend is not an airhead, you're being negative she's kinda gray-rocking you. There's no constructive way to respond when someone comes up to you and complains about social interactions that have nothing to do with them.
Focus on things you are grateful for. You could've been born a Bacha bazi boy in Afghanistan getting your butthole reamed out by stinky old men all night. You have a good job, money, free time to write fanfics, appreciate it. This is real life, not a tv show or a novel where adults always have scripted conversations that are intelligent and logical.
You're "I hate men" shows you've been online too much getting brainwashed by feminist crap. It makes sense to hate men but don't make it your personality and women deserve just as much hate. As a snowflake NLOG generally I find males less annoying because males are distantly polite or ignore me, while females do the whole "open up to me instantly or else you're mean!" Then when you open up a little they are like "Eww, you're weird."
It sounds trite but I have experienced it, words cannot do justice: find confidence and happiness inside of yourself instead of trying to get it from other people. When you find that happiness and centeredness it really transforms how you look at your experiences and interactions with other people. 4chan is worst place to look for advice, perhaps even worse than reddit. Ironically video social media like instagram have more positive influences and happy normal people on it. Oprah-tier new agey advice and practices are better.
One of the best things I did for my mental health was accept I don't like people often. It's like how I don't like asparagus, not something deep or something to "fix". Just forget it and go think about things you like instead.

>>35038964
You're a gross person with retarded priorities, OP

>>35040776
It's only not a problem until someone has an accident and that becomes more likely with each day.
>>35040946
It's my first try too, and I'm tired of feeling like people who should be older and wiser than me are the ones making the dumbest decisions.
>>35040999
I like to do creative writing exercises on AO3 and I write fanfics for the media universes I like best. I am asexual so it's not smut as most of the fanfic I find seems to be. I'm not bothered by people being sexual, but the constancy and inescapable amount of sexual content I'm exposed to leaves me tired of the notion as a whole.
>>35041068
I believe I am happiest when I am alone, and that is when I am the least angry. I do not like the idea of being alone though, and I would like to avoid fully giving up on people as my wants would incline me to do.

>>35038964
That is just how people are. You may not believe this, but if humanity didn't evolve to be 95% sheep and 5% wolves, we would have all killed one another all the way back in caveman times. We simply can't all be leaders, there would be no way for us to build families, which assemble into tribes, which assemble into city-states, which assemble into nations - if we were all leaders. Every single individual person alive would insist on doing things their own way, which deprives humanity of all of its strengths as a species. By the time one individual working entirely from scratch figured out how to make fire or the wheel, or develop stone tools, they would be too old to take advantage of the technology and would have to destroy it to keep other individuals from getting hold of it and using it to destroy them.

Being able to cooperate and to pass down knowledge from one person to another by working as families and tribal units is what allows us to build a basis of work that encompasses more than just one person living for just one lifetime. We literally evolved in such a manner as to encourage this, and the only way that it works is if the vast majority of people alive 'just go along' with the wishes and drives of a tiny minority of people who encompass leaders, movers and shakers in history.

>>35041278
>asexual
This is not a real thing, but I'm curious why you think this is what you are, and everything else you've said is definitely nerodivergent leaning. I actually think you have a lot in common with intelligent men, so maybe you feel competitiveness with them.

You have friends? Or just the one you mentioned? The thread has been a lot of venting, I wonder if we can get at the core of what it is you think you want. You want human connection, or to be around less stressful people?

You seem very self-aware for a foid. I'd be your friend if it wouldn't inevitably lead to unrequited romance. You talk about yourself like a woman I used to be intimate with who was ultimately cold, calculating, and unable to show affection or warmth. She left because I think her priorities always mattered more to her than human connection, despite her words. Too many concerns about money and the future, and getting the "best" out of life, never slowing down, or really living in the moment. Maybe you're like that. Amygdala always active, never settled or calm.

I can't imagine it's a happy way to be all the time, and I know from experience. I still see work that way, but can turn it off with enough practice. I can't turn "being happy and fake" on, but I can let go of the minor particular grievances I get from others. It doesn't keep me up on 4chan to post about it once I clock out lol

>>35041543
Hey everybody, get a load of this faggot

>>35041278
If you are asexual, as in you don't find anyone of either gender attractive and don't have sexual thoughts, then you should consider mentioning this to your doctor and asking for a hormone panel. If that test comes back normal, consider being tested for autism.

>>35039472
>How do I filter them?
this is kind of a skill thing, you should get better at profiling people
after deciding that you dont want to talk to someone, you just have to present yourself in such a way, that other think that you are useless or even worse, a burden
I guess it might be harder to do that as a woman because men always want to fuck