i really want a bf but im not in school and i dont have friends or a car or anything. im definitely not ugly but im kinda weird(?) and awkward. i dont have super high expectations or anything but im 19 now and ive never experienced love and im just so stuck. ik its lame but i genuinely might kill myself over this because ive been lonely for so long. and please dont start with the "women have it easy and can get men" bullshit men can get SEX from men i want LOVE. please help me i dont know where to start to what to do.
>>946294786>been lonely for so long>19fucking pick one dipshit.Tits and timestamp and or GTFO
Easy fix Talk to me, maybe we could have a connection
>>946294819do most romance movies not feature highschoolers? yes watching girls my age already have relationships is going to make me feel lonely i dont get why youre so rude
>>946294961Yea, I hear the most powerful connections are formed while under the effects of flunitrazepam.hook up with this faggot anon. I'm sure the sounds of your dick slapping your stomach as they fuck you in the ass will sooth your loneliness.
>>946295012There isn't a snowfuckingballs chance in hell you aren't a fat fucking hamplanet if you're 19 and can't get a bf. TITS.TIMESTAMP.NOW.
>>946295058Na, fuck that. even FAT ham planets get BFsYou gotta be a fucking troon that can't pass for shit. that's the only explanation.
>>946295074not fat, real vagina
>>946294786>19 >its over Shut the fuck up. You're 19, all you have to do is just exist and dick will find its way to you. You just have to sit back, choose, say yes, then fuck
>>946295231can you read? im not looking for dick im looking for a real human connection why are yall all the same
Damn that's good pussy. Where you from? What have you done to find connections with people? If you're 19 your life has literally just begun. Movies and shows all lie to you to sell their shit.
>>946295200/b/ seems dead as fuck at the moment but who knows, maybe you'll kick it alive. I'll make some popcorn and check back in a few minutes.I'd say drop the fucking pretense and just post your fucking info since this is probably just a shitty OF ad but whateverbtw. I did say TITS and TIMESTAMP. Reading is hard. I know. here's an idea, post your tits with the marker you used to timestamp your vag between them.
>>946295200>posts this>gets a bunch of replies in 2min or lessyea that's not sus as fuck. lol lmao even
>>946295286im from nc and i do have a job that i can meet people at but most of them are older women lol but other than that i dont really have a way to meet up with people i go out occasionally when things interest me like i went to a concert the other day and i plan on going to a pokemon convention soon but idk i wish it WAS like the movies where guys would just bunp into me or something TT
>>946295256Post your nudes on 4chan, that will so help you find the love you're looking for. what do you think an adult relationship is? Just holding hands and reading poetry to each other? or occasionally fucking because the two of you want to get your rocks off?
>>946295200dubsyou may get base validation on 4chan, but its probably not a good idea to indulge fuckin weirdos here. take life at your own pace, find joy in things that you can do by yourself. its scary to talk to people you dont know, but you gotta try to challenge ursulf sometimes. youll probably mess it up occasionally, but most people out there youll never see again. learn to be yourself i guess. single is not alone. and for the love of god just get off 4chan.
>>946295342trying to meet people through /b/ seems like a great way to encounter a serial killer, anon.Unless that's your goal here. If it is, then please continue.
Too bad, its not like movies. Life takes effort, you want something you have to work for it. I moved countries to get to my wife. Join online social circles like discord that revolve around your interests, go to public spaces, and try dating apps. You're young and in decent shape, you won't struggle.
>>946295305i didnt post tits cause transgenders can have tits and i wanted to prove i wasnt one but here and nope not an of girl literally just looking for answers
>>946295378im not going to share my info woth anyone here but i do occasionally on rare occasions respect that advice given on here because people are more authentic and real behind anonymity
>>946295398ive tried dating apps those guys never get my humor lol i made an obvious joke about cannibalism and the guy freaked out like dude obviously im not a cannibal. and i would consider online dating but it makes me nervous not being active in someones life
>>946295419What country? What ethnicity? Nobody on /b/ is going to give you all the answers and solutions to all your problems. Nobody is going to do that. Post actual timetamp. If finding real true love and a deep real connection were that easy it wouldnt be hard for anyone. There wouldnt be incels if all it took was a haircut and a shower. The most you'll get is questionable advice. What makes you think it'll just be handed to you because you exist or are a 19 year old woman?
>>946295463Dating is probably going to be hard for you then. Its difficult meeting someone who fits specific criteria who also happens to be nearby. Broaden horizons or lower expectations. Also, nice body, pics saved.
>>946295540my expectations are as low as they go, yesterday i almsot walked into a freaking magic the gathering meeting thinking it was my shot for christs sake, i genuinely just think this generation of guys are too scared to talk to women not that i can judge as im obviously scared too but its strange how not even a single man in my entire life has tried its crazy to me
>>946295588dubsi think everybody is more shy nowadays. ive found conventions to be a good place to talk to strangers, because everyon is there for the same thing so theres something to talk about.
>>946295419okay cool. You played along and I appreciate that. I retract all the shitty things I said. So, you're a conventionally attractive 19yo girl and apparently wants a relationship that involves love or whatever and somehow can't seem to find it. That makes you >ImpatientDo you not want to jump on the cock carousel for the next 10 years or so and have fun because of the perceived stigma of being a used up roastie or what?No, really. That's what most 19yo moderately attractive girls do because why not. do you really want to get locked down by some goofy bastard and start pumping out babies or something? I mean, it might have made sense if you had a "high school sweetheart" but you didn't get that it seems.
>>946295635true, the most ive ever talked to any stranger is at an anime convention lol they may smell and be corny as fuck but at theyre nice and sociable so ʅ(◞‿◟)ʃ
>>946295419>>946295661by the way, gotta ask. You're looking for love apparently so. What's your type? age, sex, height, weight all that jazz..
>>946295661if im being completely honest sex scares me too i dont think i could possibly hoe around in my peak days but i know it will happen one day which is why i just want to find a sweet guy while im young and then when its finally time to do it its with someone i can trust. literally all i want is a guy that i can trust and love but i mean this generation suckkkkssss at that like so bad. im not really sure what the usual age demographic of people on 4chan are but i just wanna know what other people my age are doing im literally only here cause i dont have friends to ask myself
>>946295725that's fair. I'll concede that your situation might be genuinely possible even if it is rare.Any plans to go to college?
>>946295698honestly im not picky about looks id go for an ugly genuine guy before an attractive asshole but i would like someone taller as most women do and i like both skinny and fat men. not like the super hairy fat guys im sorry it makes me gag ew and i guess id prefer white or hispanic guys since im a white latina
>>946295762 was gonna go to college but then i got really confused about my path, i thiught i had it all figured out for the longest time till reality hit me and i knew that being a teacher wouldnt suffice financially so now im just sitting around thinking about ehat to do, i might go to be a massage therapist but that requires strength i dont have
>>946295588I agree with the guy who said you're impatient as well. Also, men can be fucking evil as well. They'll do whatever it takes to get a chance to spread your legs. Be patient and selective, show interest in men by being physical and attentive. As for which ones just want to fuck, you literally will never know for sure, its just luck based. If you wanna fuck tho lmk i promise ill love you forever or whatever it is you want to hear.
>>946295765okay so you're looking for someone older, that has their shit together, which also means having their own place, money, a car. Possibly a job unless rich or whatever. sounds about right. Shame that current day women are doing everything in their power to shame middle aged men into thinking it's wrong to get with 20ish year olds. lmao
>>946295588did you just unironically say you are considering pokemon and magic the gathering conventions and youre surprised the guys arent confidently flirting with you? this has to be baitnerds are taught and accept very early that their flirting and attention is not appreciated and keep to themselves. if you go in cosplay, youll definitely get a lot of bad attention, but you have options to weed through. You could take the initiative and just say hi to guys you think are attractive that arent walking with women.you also need to get over "not wanting dick". thats the relationship. everything else is just friendship. you should be able to share interests, spend time together, and even live with people who you see as friends. Its even healthy to raise a family with good friends. the love comes with intimacy and attraction. if you want love but dont want sex, youre actually just stupid
>>946295725im a guy in my late twenties. khv i guess. i remember a lot of people hooking up and getting into drama in high school, that really freaked me out. still does, i can relate to what you say about wanting to trust someone regarding intimacy. i get terrified imagining being made fun of or making a partner uncomfortable because i wouldnt know what to do.
>>946295807you can work out to get stronger, and you'd be surprised what the tiniest little Asian woman can do as a massage girl. If you did go that route I wonder if you'd be prepared for the constant propositions for happy endings.
>>946294786>>946295200>>946295419Okeydoke, so you are in decent shape, relatively normal, despite looking for advice on b, and want to find love right now? NGL, its gonna be tough. Love is hard to find for everyone, and people at your age are generally not looking for a long term commitment, men or women.At the most basic level, you just have to be open to meeting new people and trying to not let your expectations completely ruin the possibility of a relationship. For a start it's pretty unreasonable to expect love to blossom without any thought of sex, especially when you are still a teenager and you and the people you meet are still full of pretty strong hormones dictating your behaviour. I'm not saying you have to turn into a massive slut to find love, but if you immediately cut things off coz that is what a guy wants, you probably wont get very far.You have to give people a chance, and meet them halfway. A little give, a little take. And if you have any interests, try to find some kind of social gathering with other people who have that interest. Good chance of finding someone you can at least talk to that way.
>>946295808>evil stop simping faggot. Kids that are young and dumb do young and dumb shit because they're immature. You're making it sound like murder or rape. Murder and rape is evil and wrong. Two 19 year olds not communicating and blowing each other off isnt evil, just selfish and dumb.
>>946295808youre funny LMFAOOO no unfortunately im genuine about this and thanks for the honest advice i know the dating pool is risky, i'll try to be patient and just wait for the right one
>>946295850are you supposed to be the other 19yo in this fantasy or what
NYPA 4chan isnt a therapy diary blogpost forum Kys
>>946295824its not that i dont WANT sex its just scary. it just seems awkward and i heard it can be painful, ik one day i'll get over it but i'd like to try the friendship part first, intimacy can come after, no?
>>946295837im the same way lmaoo ive watched porn before and i cant stand stuff like dirty talk LMAOO IT MAKES ME CRINGEEEEEE and just like even foreplay is kinda corny too id hate to be a turnoff because i cant take it seriously and then like the silence during sex like... ik you cant have a full blown conversation like hey how was your day but like just laying there seems awkward too idk
>>946295880>wait for the right oneI want you to remember this, anon.You will never. ever. meet the right one. it doesn't exist.You've been brainwashed by those high school movies you mentioned. You've been brainwashed by Disney fairy tale slop.I don't want you to remember this because I think for a second, you'll believe me. I know better. I'm too old and cynical. I want you to remember this, so it pops into your fucking head in 5 years after you've made the mistake of getting with what you thought was the "right one" and realizing they, in fact are and were not>the right one.:)
>>946295899You're deflecting from your simp rhetoric and trying to move the goalpost. There are men who will lie and say anything to get laid, there is also game. You're saying it is evil, there are evil men, in essence equating spitting game and lines with murder and rape. Playing games is not on the same level as ted bundy or ed kemper. Men and women play games. Both men and women play games. There is nothing inherently evil about wanting to get laid and have sex, there is something inherently wrong about drugging women and raping them, the way you worded it to appeal to her because you're doing a captain save a hoe white knight simp spiel is full of shit.
>>946295978>thinking im gonna read all that faggotryIt's great you took the time to type it though anon. good for you.
>>946295911then be honest about it. If they broach the subject, just say straight up that you aren't experienced, are a bit scared about it, and you want to take your time. Nothing wrong with that. But if you want a guy to hang around and wait for months on end... well you better at least get REAL good at blowjobs :P.>>946295940dirty talk is different when you can feel it right in your ear, as someone is kissing and caressing you. But you don't have to talk non stop, things like "That feels good" "Oh 'insert name here'"and a few moans can get you a long way. Also maybe just say if something feels good, or if it doesnt. Communication is how people get better at making each other feel good.
>>946295961thanks for the advice but i think id rather go into in optimistic, if i make that mistake of leading my life through rose tinted glasses then at least i would be happy for a little while
>>946295982Your simp rhetoric wont get you laid. She isnt going to fuck you but go ahead and keep on appealing to her through simp bullshit
>>946295978oh lord my sides.
>>946296016If I pander hard enough she'll touch my pee pee ahh
>>946296000>TRIPS FUCK YEEEEEEEEEEES.Managing your expectations is how you avoid crippling depression caused by massive disappointment.But like I said. You won't believe you. I didn't believe it when I was your age. Main character syndrome is a bitch. But to help you realize you don't have that going for you consider this. If you did. You'd already be with your prince charming, not seeking advice from 4chan of all places.
>>946296041you're literally the only faggot on this site that says ahh instead of ass. Never go full retard anon.
okay thank you guys for everything! it actually meant a lot to me the ones who stuck it out and dealt with my naivety, your advice is definitely with me now. i apologize but i dont think i can stay up responding to every single person as this thread grows so im just leaving now hope yall have a good one!
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>>946296087>nobody asked for my links/info Yea, I can understand why you'd wanna leave. Try again tomorrow anon, maybe during peak hours instead of 4 in the fucking morning.
>>946294786women can get lovebut if they're mid, they can't get it from chadin which case they would rather be alonenot being chads ourselves, you can imagine our lack of pity>im kinda weird and awkwardmen don't care, if anything that's a benefityour problem is you're mid, and have your heart set on chads out of your leagueyou're not a disney princess, you are not entitled to chad.so either lower your standards back down to earth, or get in line for a pump and dump on the chad cock carousel until you hit the wall and die alone with a dozen cats like every other woman
>>946294786I would give you everything you want like a simp just to feel love again, but we probably live continents apart. Alas, go out more, join a class, group and do stuff. You are a girl, someone will approach you eventually
I have never understood the obsession with having a relationship. You're 19, that's practically a child in the grand scheme of things. One day (if you don't kill yourself that is) you'll be 30 and look back at 19 and realise how young you were, or you'll kill yourself and - assuming it isn't just a black void - realise how short life is and how you threw away ~60 years all because you gave up on finding a bf at age 19. A life has more meaning than that, even the most meaningless of lives.Don't give up, Anon.
>>946296218>just put urself out there anon.no no you see, they apparently already did that and it somehow didn't work. They also said they live in North Caralina. So maybe closer than you think?
>>946294786Pt.1 This is to the OP /b/tards hop off my dick I'm just trying to give my advice to someone who I think or hope is actually looking for real advice. OP I hope you take the time to read this and honestly take it or leave it just consider what I've got to say. First of don't get two down on yourself you're still relatively young and it's never too late to turn things around trust. Second. Don't be too worried about getting in a relationship. At least not to start. Start by just trying to make friends. Like lots of friends. Force yourself to say "yes" even if it's not your thing. Someone asks you to go to a Superbowl party. It's probably not your thing but it will let you meet new people. (Don't do anything stupid, you are a girl and people will try and take advantage of you, most people are nicer then the Internet will have you believe but that 1/100 will eventually come up and you gotta have the street smarts to say no and ideally not get in that situation to begin with, but that doesn't mean you can't put yourself out there the other 99 times) Introduce yourself and be honest about who you are. If you haven't already you need to really know who you are, what you like, and be comfortable with that. Most people won't shit on you in public if you say you're into magic or even something socially "crazy" like fur suits or whatever. And if they do, be comfortable enough with yourself you can just say thank God that guy just showed me he's not going to be a good friend, now I can move on. Not ooh no I'm going to kms so cringe. It's called the network effect. Most of your best friends and opportunities will be introduced to you by people your basically good acquaintances with. You want as many people who know enough about you and that you talk to just enough that if they meet someone who you'll actually be really good friends with they will introduce you to them.
>>946296303they left 15 minutes ago anon but sure, go off. I hope they see this.
>>946296326My retarded ass only went to see the replies after I posted my comment. I hope they read it but other people have already given good advice.
>>946296303Pt.2If you feel like your struggling to even make these good acquaintances, I'd recommend just forcing yourself to talk more, like literally just yap. Do something new, join a new club or school or job and then just go up to people and say "hey I'm new here and haven't made a lot of friends yet, can you help me meet some people" I've done this personally to surprisingly effect, it doesn't always work but I've found it does more then you might think. Also try being really positive and the kind of person other people want to be around. Don't be fake that will turn people off, if you're having a bad day it's ok, let them know. But try and be the kind of friend you would want to have!Now hopefully you have lots of good acquaintances and a couple of really good friends. (You don't want to many close friends, close friends are highly time consuming but they are an important resource for you. The key difference a friend is someone you can turn to for advice, and that's what you should be looking for in your friends. Obviously you want people you have common interests and get along with but what makes them a good friend is they are someone you can trust and rely on to help you with advice when you're struggling socially or otherwise) Now turning that network into a romantic relationship. You said you want love not just dick. That's not easy(also why I don't recommend dating apps, they can work but are more about dick then love. Being a girl just makes getting in the door easier not the follow through. It will be slightly easier to get that first date but getting a relationship is just as hard as it is for anyone else. Don't beat yourself up because it doesn't work on the first try. It most certainly will not. Even then give it a real try to make it work, you'll learn more that way, but don't beat yourself up if it doesn't, focus on what went well and what went wrong and how you can carry your successes into the future and work on the things that weren't great
>>946295419Nice tits. Want milk.
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>>946296529Finally. Some sage advice the absolute best way to make friends and lovers is to imagine the kind of person you would want to be with, now what kind of person do they want friends with? Is it you? If not how do you become that person? And then I'll recommend some books. These are all basically books for autist and psychopaths that have no idea how to socialize but can give pretty good advice if you have no idea how to do that. > How to win friends and influence people > The value of others> Mastery> Art of seduction I hope you got some good sleep and good advice from this thread that works for you and it's still up in time for you to read my reply. Hopefully you can say so long nerds to all the fags in this thread and not need another post in here again.
>>946296303>>946296529>>946296681you're too kind for this world
>>946294786basically if you don't have an army of beta orbiters as even a mildly attractive female what even are you doing wrongnobody has been interested probably because there's nothing you have somebody else isn't already putting out therewhy else do you think the average female has 2-3x the body count of the average male
>>946296262I am in ass shit fuck nowhere in Victoria Australia so hey
>>946296973on one hand, yea. that sucks.on the other hand, you're away from everyone else's bullshit. You might be surprised how desirable that is to some people.
>>946295378I met my wife hereI was originally planning to choke her out and leave her in a dumpster but she was cuter than I expected
>>946296303>>946296529>>946296681>>946296712samefag
Stop showing yourself to the guys beautiful you dont need to do that.If you wanna chat and not be trolled I've got kik.keep your chin up !
