What are some steps I can take to stop being antisocial? I'd like to have more than 2 friends and perhaps a girlfriend/wife someday.
>>947795809Practice holding eye contact longer with people when speaking to them. Count in your head the seconds.
>>947796109I don't have an issue with eye contact. I've had girlfriends before. My problem is that I just don't really like anyone and find it difficult to put in even the smallest amount of effort into building and maintaining relationships. I only have like, 2 friends currently.
>>9477958095 year olds can make friends.It's not that hard.Strike up random conversations with randoms or coworkers.Yes and method.In the end it doesn't matter but if you can social pill yourself, you will be happier in the long run.Painful ..whats more painfull then being alone ?Humans are Socail creatures and your starving yourself.Perhaps Join a club. TCG, Games, RC dick ridding, Your choice really.
>>947795809>>947796428you're not antisocial.
you're asocial
>>947795809you have to want to be social, not just because someone said you should.
>>947797036I do
>>947797938Go in a random discord call and socialize.
>>947798112This is quite easy. I'd like to have some more real life friends though.
>>947799575Like I said, join a club / get a hobby.I run a local club in my home town.https://www.reddit.com/r/Hobbies/comments/zqwx6c/the_hobby_master_list_and_their_subreddit/
>>947799774Also Gn Anon & Good Luck
>>947795809The first step is leaving 4chan forever. The experiences you're having here are dragging you further and further away from society, and the constant lies, aggressiveness and hatred of /pol/tards are damaging your empathy and your ability to tell truth from fiction.The standards you're building for human relationships based on the advice you're steeped in here can only make you disinterested in actual people. That advice comes from lunatics who are certain they understand people better than anyone despite their extraordinarily dysfunctional social lives.
>>947799774It's nice they you're doing something fun :) goodnight
>>947799836Maybe this is a part of it. But I think it's a very small part. I have a pretty good job, take good care of myself and I'm a neoliberal/Moderate Democrat. I mainly use this site for porn and talking about video games. I haven't allowed stuff on here to rot my brain.
>>947799980Then maybe try socializing with less boring people? You say you don't like anyone, that very much sounds like you're not socializing with people that interest you. Try to get involved in some activities that are off the beaten path? I've met fascinating people in street theatre festivals.
go to church. I don't care if you're religious or not... just go. Great place to meet people and to network in general
>>947800454Might try it. My parents are very Catholic and go a lot.
