New friend finder thread because people in the old one won't stop derailing it with dumb useless arguingSame info as before:>ASL?>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.>Other hobbies, interests?>What are you looking for?>Not looking for?>Contact info>Anything else we should know?
>ASL?20s/Woman/North America>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita with slight interest in cosplay>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Atelier Boz, Metamorphose, Victorian Maiden, Sheglit, AatP, Innocent World, AtePie>Other hobbies, interests?Art, Music, coding, DIY, anime/manga, philosophy, psychology, opera, Edwardian/Victorian era, trains and military history >What are you looking for?A friend to chat with, I love getting to know people, sharing and looking at coords>Not looking for?Tiktokers, permaitas, minors, no men, no woman pretending to be men, no men pretending to be women, non Lolitas >Contact infoGrosgraingull@proton.me>Anything else we should knowI’m open to VCing!
>ASL? 22 F NA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us. Lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc. I mostly own Baby, AP, and some Meta accessories, but I'm working on branching out.>Other hobbies, interests? Drawing, video games, film. Looking to get back into programming.>What are you looking for? Gulls to trade coord drawings with, or gulls looking to get drawn. I'd prefer art trades though! If you play otoge, Splat3, or MHW (on PC) we can play/discuss together too!>Not looking for? Trannies, Tiktoklitas>Contact info nona.ayih@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?I love wearing lolita, looking at coords, and collecting inspo, but I don't know anything about historical fashion or anything like that. I'm open to listening to you talk about it, though. I'm also fairly new to wearing the fashion, if that's a no go for you. I collected inspo for years but finally moved from otome to lolita last year.
>>10845849whoever did this redraw should die
>>10845849what lolita sub-styles? >t. coomer
>ASL?30/M/WA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Video games and anime cosplay.>Other hobbies, interests?Game dev, coffee, food tourism.>What are you looking for?Someone who is more experienced than I am with creating patterns for foam/tailoring.Someone who has an eye for male beauty.If you go to cons in the PNW, hanging out.>Not looking for?Spergs.>Contact infoTeuciont#8145>Anything else we should know?No.
>ASL?19/f/US>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita with some interest in cosplay :3>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.AP, Baby, Metamorphose, >Other hobbies, interests?Drawing/Art, anime, mlp, vidya, films, dolls/figures, music>What are you looking for?Mostly frens to draw with, talk ab interests with :D i love to play overwatch or other games if u play on pc>Not looking for?Coomers...., >Contact infoNEET#1838>Anything else we should know?I love horror media!!! Movies, games, u name it :3 i am also a huge photo/aesthetic hoarder so i often luv lookin at cool photographyI have a ton of other hobbies/interests as well we could discuss!
>ASL?Mid 20's,M, FL>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.n/a>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.New isekai's, really comfy>Other hobbies, interests?Been dabbling in cooking recently>What are you looking for?Nothing in particular, just a connection really.>Not looking for?downers>Contact infokosaki#0001>Anything else we should know?https://anilist.co/user/mondogrosso/I'm also fat as fuck
>ASL?23/F/US (MA)>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Mostly lolita, sometimes cosplay.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Mostly sweet lolita. My favorite anime/manga are Jojo and Berserk.>Other hobbies, interests?Sewing, making music, Vocaloid, video games, drawing, writing>What are you looking for?Vocaloid fans, and other artists, musicians, writers, or people who do anything creative in general. And really, just nice people to be friends with in general.>Not looking for?People who aren't nice. I don't want to talk to people who are racist, homophobic, and/or transphobic. I am not interested in looking down on or making fun of people in general either.>Contact infoNika_2ka#3678>Anything else we should know?I'm biggering the Onceler fandom.
>>10846039>I don't want to talk to people who are racist, homophobic, and/or transphobic.you ruined your chance with this enterprise-level coomer, sorry, eventhough I got to say I'm not transphobic towards cute 100% girl-like looking troons with a big cock
>>10846039posting your discord to r9k onceler-tard
>>10845856>>10846074take ur meds
>ASL?Mid 20's/M/South America>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Former cosplayer, briefly dipped into J-Fashion>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.No brand in particular. Was really intrigued by Karasu Zoku, Kurofuku Kei and some casual Visual Kei.Legacy TYPE-MOONfag. Other series I've been big on are Hellsing, FLCL (the og OVA), Kagerou Daze (just the manga), Countach and recently Chainsaw Man (the manga before the coomer bandwagon started).Quite into iDOLM@STER.>Other hobbies, interests?Huge on music. Emo, Post-Rock, classic Drum & Bass, New Wave, etc (fuck /mu/), used to be a regular gig guitarist for some friends but still fuck around with guitars since I love themAlso baseball fan..>What are you looking for?Primarily just friends and groups to chat with, but also friends or acquaintances to help shed more light into J-Fashion as I'm interested in experimenting with it for my daily life.>Not looking for?Troons, know-it-all fart-smellers, elitists, PC/SJW, coomer cosplay.>Contact infolostalchemytapes@proton.meMidorime#2530 (discord)>Anything else we should know?Send a dumb meme if you add me or some shit like that.Kinoko Teikoku and Holy Fawn are 10/10 bands and F/GO has been absolute cancer to the internet.
>>10840131>ASL?18/F/PA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.both, i draw a pretty hard line between them though>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.i dress in oldschool sweet, have an interest in classic. fav brands are jane marple and meta(tallita). cosplaying mostly jojos at the moment, looking to compete in a cosplay craftsmanship comp for the first time soon>Other hobbies, interests?really really into sewing so i use that for both cosplay and lolita, halfway into historical fashion, a few diff genres of music, pursuing baking and pastry/confections as a job right now>What are you looking for?east coast con buddies, jfash friends>Not looking for?itas, coomers, people who are insane about their political views all the time>Contact infosorrelseagull@gmail.com, discord from there>Anything else we should know?not really. i'm kind of shy i guess. also my sleep schedule is a bit strange because of the bakery thing
>>10841659check your email, anon!
>ASL?30/f/pnw>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Both, more lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Btssb, ap, attp, taobao>Other hobbies, interests?Crafting, games (all kinds), music>What are you looking for?Someone to chat, coord, and possibly go outside with so I don't keep asking my boyfriend>Not looking for?Trans, victim complexes, control freaks, kids, men>Contact infoiamlolita@tutanota.com>Anything else we should know?
>>10846039you lost me at not being transphobic
>>10850546I sent a reply!
Please reply to this post if you email me, I don't check this email otherwise!>ASL?25/F/east coast USA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Casual cute j-fash, nanchatte, sometimes cosplay (almost exclusively crossplay), recently started getting into vintage fashion>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Brands like Ozz on, ACDC rag, putumayo. I don't watch a lot of anime anymore desu. I like old school FPS like Duke Nukem and Doom. I like music along the lines of Tool, Nine Inch Nails, Nitzer Ebb, Skinny Puppy, Front 242, Gary Numan, etc.>Other hobbies, interests?I'm into knitting and mostly machine knit (flat bed, not those round toy machines). If you machine knit too, definitely email me because it's a very niche hobby. I'm also into vintage knitting patterns. I also crochet, sew, do other needlework/fiber arts, and like to go to concerts and dance.>What are you looking for?Other knitting nerds (especially machine knitters), con or concert buddies, people to chat on discord with, hiking buddies, email penpals. Age 22+ is preferred but not a requirement>Not looking for?Males, anyone looking for anything more than platonic friendship, stoners who make it their whole personality, people who drink too much, preachy vegans, people who use the word "queer", coomers, coomer bait cosplayers, anyone that talks about politics a lot, tumblr users, emotionally immature or unstable people>Contact infoEmail me! Reply to this post if you do>Anything else we should know?I'm a lesbian, I'm not going to hit on you, I'm not looking for any kind of relationship, but it makes some women uncomfortable so that's why I'm being up-front about it. I live a sober lifestyle, I don't really care if you smoke/use pot/drink (unless it makes you unpleasant to be around with or you try to get me to do it) but please don't smoke anything around me.
>ASL?20/F/SoCal>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.100% Classical Lolita, but I can make friends from anywhere!>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I'm the #1 IW Brandwhore. >Other hobbies, interests?A lot. Philosophy, chess, history, video games, J-fashion, sewing, movies (especially horror!), being a Pinterest and tumblr addict, Reddit drama. >What are you looking for?Someone who's great at text conversations! I'm also down to watch an anime or play a game I like together.>Not looking for?People who subsist entirely on salt and whatever phobia of the day>Contact infograviphantalia#0455>Anything else we should know?I ask a lot of weird hypothetical questions
>>10850884I'm gonna send you an email around a month from now
>>10851773Lmao
I would love to shoot(photograph) Lolitas if someone's in the PNW.They have become my favourite subjects to photograph.
Ofc never anyone in europe as usual
>>10854736I'm in yurop but i'm a stinky male.
>>10854736Make a post. Maybe I’ll add you
>>10854814Try showering.
>ASL?22 F Germany>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.OTT Sweet Lolita, Baby and old AP>Other hobbies, interests?drawing, graphic design, coding, vidya and working out. I collect dolls also. my favourite music genre is traditional goth and my favourite media genre is horror. I'm over my weeb phase desu but my favourite anime is Madoka Magica.>What are you looking for?friends or people to chat/game/draw with who share the same interests as me, exchanging coords>Not looking for?Moids and those pretending to be women, ita uggos, genderspecials, tiktokers, self proclaimed bimbos, kids>Contact info6ftmaggotangel@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?I'm a lesbian and taken in case my sexuality makes someone uncomfortable. I used to be a radical feminist, now I'm just transphobique ^_^
>ASL?18/F/FL>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.I'm a newbie lolita but I've done all my research. I also think girly kei is cute and would like to give it a try sometime>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I like a lot of different substyles but recently I've been really drawn to Innocent World's sweet-classic style, Putumayo and h.Naoto FRILL's casual punk-ish lolita stuff, and a bit of old school gothic too. Favorite animes are Death Note, Revolutionary Girl Utena, Black Butler (the manga, not the anime), and Banana Fish to name a few.>Other hobbies, interests?Art (traditional & digital), anime, Vocaloid (especially 2012-2016 era Vocaloid), SynthesizerV, visual kei (pretty new to it but currently exploring different artists), browsing Tumblr (probably gonna get judged for this one but idc)>What are you looking for?Just a friend/someone to talk to :) You don't have to be a certain gender or age as long as you're cool & respectful. I'm not a gamer but if you have a particular game you wanna introduce me to and it's free to download, I'd be interested in playing with you!>Not looking for?Drama llamas, bodyshamers, TERFs, transphobes, incels, loli/shotacons, alt-right, misogynists, racists, creeps>Contact infoGumiWorms#4390 on Discord>Anything else we should know?I can be a bit of a dry texter sometimes if I'm still nervous talking one-on-one and not 100% comfortable with you yet, so my apologies in advance if I come off as awkward at any time. Also I get overwhelmed by large amounts of social interaction sometimes so if I don't respond for a while, I promise I'm not ignoring you, I'm most likely just not ready to respond yet. It's not something I'm proud of but I'm trying to work on it. Also if we're talking, I WILL flood you with cute pictures of my dogs whether you like it or not <3
Am I allowed to post in here if I like 天使界隈, other types of subculture jfashion and have done so for several years, but don't do lolita or cosplay myself? Just a small amount at home, nothing really worth writing about.
>ASL28/M/TX >Lolita? Cosplay?Mostly just cons, and even then really just San Japan right now because its local, sometimes I hit up the smaller ones nearby too.Did cosplay a few times and would be down to do it again if other people want to go as a group.>FavesManga/Anime wise I just like fantasy stories, recently got back into Witch Hat Atelier and things like that are really what I enjoy. Soltier's the traveler and Nina's are great too.I also like yuri romance manga, not as big of a fan of the cgdct or smut side, but things like yagakimi or sasameki are just enjoyable to me.Mobages I like arknights but haven't played it in a good while now. And I really cut out most of my playtime for them, but I still like the characters and art work.Other vidya... honestly just haven't had much time recently but I'm looking forward to armored core and I love the soulslike-genre.>Other hobbiesI like to draw badly drawn anime girls on blank white backgrounds. >Looking forPreferably a local friend to go to cons with or hit up anime events with. Maybe watch anime together periodically if we get along pretty well.A gaming buddy wouldn't be bad, but as a forewarning I don't have much time these days.I like lolita but obviously its not for me, but I still appreciate it and wouldn't mind attending some events if someone needs a +1(alternatively a roommate,I got a spare room)>Not looking for/pol/fags, trannies, extreme sjws, etc...just be a normal person, i just want to talk about manga and play vidya while complaining about drawing, and have some fun at san japan in a few months.>contact infodiscord4chanon#9986>anything elseI'd describe myself quiet and unsociable, but friendly...I like hanging out and talking to people, but I admit I'm not much of a chatter and I rarely initiate conversations because I just never feel the need to talk to people unless we're hanging out in person where it just naturally lends itself to conversing. I'm open to talking however.
>>10859211I would say go ahead. I don’t think people will complain
>>10859211I think yes, /cgl/ isn't just for cosplay and lolita. Personally I view the "you tell us" part as an encouragemet to talk about anything in that vein, not just which one of those two you do.
>>10859211It's fine. People post about seifuku and gyaru on here too. Any jfashion style that doesn't really fit on /fa/
>>10846010Just sent u a request, I'm honestly knew to the lolital community but it's Interested me as of recent, also looking for an art buddy
>>10856806Sent you a mail!
>ASL?30s/F/Sothern USA>Lolita? Cosplay?Lolita, though I appreciate cosplay and used to cosplay but it's been a few years.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I am a burando wh*re. I wear mostly old school and gothic. A little bit of classic on occasion too. My wardrobe consists of older Baby pieces, Moitie, old AP, some old Meta, Heart E etc. >Other hobbies, interests?Sewing, making jewelry & accessories, random art projects, cooking, browsing JP burando sites.>What are you looking for?Online friends are nice and I am happy with that, but I would really love to find an irl friend to dress cute with and go to cute places.>Not looking for?Men (I'm married), transwomen (because men), anyone who is really into sjw stuff. I prefer moderate friends.>Contact infolonelita@protonmail.com - After a few email correspondence, should we get along, we can we can exchange Discord info>Anything else we should know?I really love cats and beautiful things.
>ASL?24/F/Idaho>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita, I have one coord so far>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I am most interested in getting together some guro coords and witch style coords. Fav manga is Berserk.>Other hobbies, interests?I like fantasy, drawing, messing around with music programs, and walking around. Im currently playing through Wadanohara.>What are you looking for?friends, artists and musicians specifically.>Not looking for?Transphobes, sex pests>Contact infokniroid on discord>Anything else we should know?Trans Lesbian just looking for people to draw with and talk to. Idaho is sad.
>>10862238>transphobesWhat?
>ASL?28, M, US west>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay with some crossplay>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I like studio trigger and shonen shit, and violent shit like berserk and goblin slayer, I watch a good amount of stuff though so it's hard to lockdown my taste>Other hobbies, interests?Card games and Vidya mostly>What are you looking for?Cosplay friends, either planning out group cosplays or just learning shit since all my buddy's I go to cons with don't cosplay at all >Contact infoDiscordTowarsama>Anything else we should know?I've got bad taste and the craftsmanship skills of a retard and no matter how much it's out of my reach for life, my dream cosplay is making the berserker armor
>>10862238>Trans LesbianSo you're a moid trying to weasel his way around all the "no men" posts ITT? Got it.
>>10865972NAYRT but she’s not trying to weasel her way around anything. She literally stated that she’s trans to let people like you know to stay away from her if you don’t like trans women. Clearly you didn’t get the message.
>>10865972it's glaringly obvious there's something off - there is no such thing as guro nor witch lolita, dude only has a single coord (likely amazon ita sissy garbage), and he likes some shitty degenerate loli "game" made by a loli rape fetishist. the whole post is one giant red flag.
>>10856806sent you a mail too !
>ASL?28/female/Germany>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita, I don't like Cosplay. Particularly I love sweet and bittersweet, my closet is randomized from taobao to brand.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I don't like most anime or any weeb interest. The ones I like are Ghost in the Shell, Ergo Proxy and Case Closed. Favourite brands are Chemical Romance, old AP, Sleep Doll.>Other hobbies, interests?Drawing comics, sewing, reading, telling moids to go dilate, graphuc design is my passion, science fiction, and dressing up in Lolita.>What are you looking for?A friend for Lolita meetups when my comm is too exhausting!>Not looking for?Genderspecials, troons, men; racist, homophobic and nationalist people. People who are entitled. Handmaids, minors, religious people.>Contact infonever.gonnagiveyou.up.mp3@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?I'm a fat, autistic woman and have radfem tendencies. I'm working on getting a Phd in design. And I love video games.
>ASL? 25/f/Illinois>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etClassic, sweet and old school> other interestsDrawing,painting,animation, art in general, sewing and videogames. >Looking for other lolitas that I can chat with and meet up and do things together!! :3 I'm open to talking to anyone 18+ really > not looking for men >contactlocket008@proton.me
>>10865989nta but guro lolita is a thing, it's a pretty old thing, it's just kinda cringe
>>10870134guro isn't a style, it's just a theme you can make any style into guro. same with witch. saying those are your favorite styles doesn't mean anything and doesn't describe any actual styles anon likes. it's like saying you like fruit lolita or teacup lolita, it seems like a larp.
>>10840131>ASL20/F/sweden>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Both! I've been sewing cosplays for years, and in the recent year I've been slowly collecting some lolita as well.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I love old school meta and innocent world. As for anime my favorites are higurashi, cardcaptor sakura, aot, and anything with good animation. My favorite cosplay I've made has gotta be my rena ryuugu one.>Other hobbies, interests?I love sewing in general, and I have a passion for fashion.>What are you looking for?Friends! Preferably local, although that might be a lot to ask. I really want to group/pair cosplay vocaloid stuff or just characters from an anime we both like. I'd also love a lolita friend to go out and wear coords with.>Not looking for?Sexual predators.>Contact infonanxmiki@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?I don't have anything personally against gender identity people but I will not take your pronouns and what not seriously.
>ASL?27 - N/A* - CA(*medical condition)>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.lolita >Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Mostly classic. mary magdalene, innocent world, baby, moities more versatile pieces, etc. not big on anime, but mostly enjoy mid 70s to early 2000s stuff. GITS, NGE, s-cry-ed, anything satoshi kon. guilty pleasure obsession is classic yugioh and touhou games. >Other hobbies, interests?i greatly enjoy sewing, organising events, cooking, and gardening. i sometimes draw and have a taste for old pulp novels. i collect obsolete media (mainly VHS and cassette tapes, some old video games) as a side hobby. >What are you looking for?friendly faces, EGL history discussion, people using CGL in constructive ways, lolitas closer to my age group, other 2007 era lolitas >Not looking for?transphobes, people under 24, people who can't have a nonpolitical conversation, and people who have nothing positive to say about any topic.>Contact infobootlegusakumya@hotmail >Anything else we should know?i am happily married and unresponsive to bait.
>ASL?22/F/PA and DMV area>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita, but I dabble a little in cosplay>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I wear old school lolita. Favorite brand is probably baby, and etc for more casual pieces.Favorite anime is steins;gate. Favorite manga are yotsuba&!, yona of the dawn, and sangatsu no lion.>Other hobbies and interests?Crocheting, drawing, thrifting, music (favorite artists are unwound, number girl, slint)>What are you looking for?Friends, preferably local>Not looking for?Men, minors>Contact infoamechanicaluniverse@proton.me>Anything else we should know?I'm a bit shy but a great listener :)I'll also be at otakon!
>>10840131>ASL?18, F, USA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I’m a classic lolita brandwhore. I just recently started collecting Mary Magdalene. Aside from them, I love Baby, Meta, some AP, etc. If it’s brand I’ll wear it! >Other hobbies, interests?I’m really into video games, more specifically RPGs. I also love fashion history and history in general. I’m into politics but in a normal, sane way. I promise I’m not an SJW. >What are you looking for?Looking for friends or lolita gaming buddies.>Not looking for?Men, cosplayers, people who came from tiktok, people with extreme political views, SJWs, coomers, incels. No itas or lolitas at heart, please. No one who worships taobao. >Contact infoVelveteenjumperskirt@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?I spend ~9 hours online per day, I will hunt for your dream dresses kek
As a young female from a country where some of you are from, I am scared shitless to add any of you. I would love to make contact with like minded people who like Lolita/Alt clothing but every interaction I have had with people in that demographic was sour to say the least. Entitlement and tendency to just judge and border out instead of giving actual advice and being welcoming to newcomers. Wish it were different
>>10871143have you tried not being an ita tranny?
>>10871162 When trannies are more sane and respectable than girls who are engaging in the female equivalent of hypebeasting then ding dong bitch something is up (dont get me wrong, i do enjoy this stuff or else I would not be here)
>>10871143Then post here exactly what you're looking for?
>>10871163You're not "sane" you're a narcissist who can't accept criticism and wants to be spoonfed by people who have already put in the time and effort to build their wardrobes, something you can't fathom because lolita is nothing more to you than something to jerk off in.
>>10871163i kek whenever i see this type of comment because literally every tranny in this fashion has only managed to put together a shitty sissy coord or an abdl getup with their single collective braincell. gtfo back to /lgbt/ so I can keep laughing at how you retards constantly infight and plead with each other over the simple topic of whether wearing lolita for sexual reasons is "valid" or not kek. you'll only look as good as much as you want to coom, sadly!
>>10871178Funny how a simple criticism has been derailed into calling me a tranny into infantilism even though I do not have a penis nor do I engage in age reversion. Just another example of how this community is so hostile for no damn reason.
>>10871179It's hostile partly because of the amount of sissies and the people who want to get into it for OTHER reasons. We have to be this way and there has to be gatekeeping or else some individuals will think they can just waltz in and do whatever the fuck they want. If you're an actual woman though I sympathize. If you're not ita people will be glad to teach you. But like, okay, no offense, I've encountered no troon in this fashion that is sane and respectable. There's always some posturing about kink or getting turned on/"gender euphoria", as well as being generally disrespectful, rude and ita. If it's in person, they smell bad and everyone feels like they have to walk on eggshells around them. Seriously, these are not good people. I don't talk about them coming from some internet echo chamber, these are literally the most annoying maladjusted pedantic people you'll meet in person. I wouldn't be okay with a real woman using lolita to get off so obviously I wouldn't give anyone else a pass. This is why they're gatekept so harshly because there's always some ulterior motive to getting into lolita.
>>10871179Give me your email, anon. I’d be glad to helped
>>10871185Oh I did not know that. Always been aware of the weird age regression pedo shit but never knew that the lolita community is that much affected by it. Thanks for letting me know!>>10871196I have had bad experiences giving my contact details out but here we go:dr.caligari2020@gmail.comThanks again for understanding and teaching me guys!
>>10871185yet another thread ruined by femcels jacking off about trannies
>>10871225post dropped. incapable of discussing anything that doesn't inevitably derail into a circlejerk about trannies.
>>10871210nayrt, and this is my first post weighing into this discussion but I agree 100% with >>10871185The lolita community in general has some very good reasons to keep being suspicious/skeptical of any person assigned male at birth who wants to enter the lolita community. I'm sure there's a few guys out there who like lolita for innocent reasons but I'm also sure it's pretty rare. There's also the occasional woman who wants to be in the lolita community for the wrong reasons. We do our best to keep all of the people who are into it for the wrong reasons out. The lolita community is not a kink-friendly space. Yet some people think they can bring their kink/fetish/AGP/Sissy/bondage/ageplay/humiliation/roleplay stuff into the community, usually by trying to fly under the radar first. The overwhelming majority of them are male. This is the exact reason why people are so skeptical of any guy who wants to be in the community.If you are female, and you're not into lolita for any kink/fetish/sex/arousal related thing, and you're willing to learn how to build good outfits, I'm sure you will be fine. If you're a beginner just stick to beginner friendly groups like Big Sisters of lolita fashion (BSOLF is on fb) and lolita fashion mentoring (also on fb). If you have any questions about lolita fashion it is highly likely that question has already been asked and answered a thousand times, and you're expected to google it and search BSOLF first. Experienced/senior/established lolitas don't mind helping beginners find resources but they dislike spoonfeeding them because it's tiring and there are too many beginners who want to be spoon fed. Most lolitas are actually really nice people. The ones on CGL are just exceptionally salty most of the time.
>>10871227>I'm sure there's a few guys out there who like lolita for innocent reasons but I'm also sure it's pretty rare.How can I enter this hobby if I fall into this category? I browse here sometimes but the threads seem to be a split between /e/-/s/ softcore porn dumps and actual on topic discussion, with the latter being difficult to participate in meaningfully if I can't exactly wear the clothes myself. It seems like all I could really do is save and post images or maybe sew for someone - not that I know how to sew - but I don't have many friends, let alone any that are interested in lolita or cosplay.
>>10871234What is stopping you from just buying lolita fashion and wearing it? You don't need to be part of a community to do so.
>>10871234if you for whatever reason aren't comfortable wearing lolita, i recommend getting into design. plenty of lolita designers are male.
>>10871240I simply don't think it would suit me; I have something of a twink body but not the face to match and thus am not handsome enough to pull off boystyle or aristocrat. The main appeal of lolita to me is that it's feminine at its core and antithetical to convenient and basic clothing like jeans, so I lean more towards dresses and petticoats than various types of pants. I tried purchasing a dress and a petticoat from Milky Ange a while ago and while I do enjoy wearing it, I still get the sense that it doesn't suit me. I'm sorry if I'm misunderstanding what you're saying about which type of lolita to buy.>>10871258That does sound satisfying but also like I'd need friends involved with the community already otherwise I'd come off as a creeper. I do appreciate the gatekeeping though because I think not enough hobbies care about it now.
>>10871263first anon here. Have you ever done a whole outfit with hair and makeup? If not, then you don't know if it suits you or not.But if, like you said, what you like about lolita is that it's hyper feminine, does that absolutely mean it doesn't suit you because your face looks too masculine? And can you then not enjoy wearing it because in your opinion it doesn't suit you? If it makes you happy to wear it regardless of how you look in it and regardless of if you think it suits you or not, then just wear it.I think >>10871258had a good suggestion. One way to enjoy lolita fashion without wearing it could be to design and make lolita items. Making online lolita friends is also super easy, even as a man, as long as you understand the basics of lolita fashion. Being good at sewing and designing is also something that's highly respected in the community.
>>10871263i wouldn't worry too much. cgl can give the wrong impression, but irl most communities don't give a shit about your gender as long as you behave like a normal adult. also, i don't think twink factor is necessary, but another option is EGA. EGA coords suit masculine people just fine, and don't require too much of a youth factor since it's more of an adult style
>>10871271>Have you ever done a whole outfit with hair and makeup?I haven't, but maybe I should. I have all the pieces apart from shoes to put together one coord+a variety of accessories although it's probably quite basic. Most of the women in my family are experienced hobbyist seamstresses so maybe it's not that difficult to learn. I'd like to try making something like this. Thanks for the kind words anon, it's encouraging. I'm nowhere near as masculine as other men here at least.>>10871285Thank you, I live in a fairly small country so fittingly I don't think there's much of an IRL community here. It's surprising though, I figured it would be a fairly exclusive female space.
>>10871591first anon here. If I have on the entire outfit but my hair isn't done I look ridiculous. Having a suitable hairstyle and taking good care of it (it must be clean and free of tangles) is that important. If you have a full outfit, do your hair and take pictures you might no longer think it doesn't suit you. If you do think it doesn't suit you there's nothing to lose by posting those pictures to a place like Big Sisters of lolita fashion or Lolita fashion mentoring on facebook. They can help you figure out what works and what doesn't. A common thing with beginners is that they haven't developed the eye yet for what's good taste and what's good quality and how to recognize things that fit those criteria and those that don't. Sometimes the outfit doesn't fit those criteria, but you might not know that and come to the conclusion that lolita just doesn't suit you.Judging by the accessory you posted you still haven't developed the eye for it yet. That's not uncommon. A lot of people have an ita phase they outgrow later. It's best if that phase is as brief as possible though.
>ASL?datamining thread>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.I’m sorry what’s the question exactly? >Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.anime is ok, late 30’s Hugo Boss and Victorian fashion are fine too>Other hobbies, interests?vidya, history, ideology>What are you looking for?an Aryan virgin who doesn’t want to end up like every feminist loser since suffragettes >Not looking for?whores, sluts, tattoos, daddy issues, shitskins, mental illness, older than 21, >Contact infoyou’re glowing>Anything else we should know?>wewho’s we faggot? go back
>>10865986>she
tfw now cosplay gf
>>10871701being afraid of datamining yet exposing so much about yourself, what a loser
>>10865989The game taste isn't as much of an issue as much as the rest you listed, to be honest.
>>10873313feels like shit stirring, funamusea is a woman and the only evidence of loli i found was the art style which is supposed to be tezuka inspired
>>10873341you sound like someone who has never played mogeko castle, i like funamusea but this is cope. Not necessarily a red flag tho it depends on the games
>>10873344i haven't, but i was also under the impression funa had kind of cut ties with the game for this exact reason. it's a fairly old game and the more recent games and manga have handled dark topics significantly more respectfully in my opinion. i won't say they aren't edgy at times but feel like "loli rape fetishist" is a pretty strong accusation to be making.
Do people actually make friends here? I would love to read any stories
>>10873365Loli doesn't bother me as much as just having one coord and saying there's "witch" and "guro" lolita like they were genres. I like stupid edgy shit so I'm not quick on judging tastes... Until they say they like western dogshit like Steven Universe. Anyway, as far as my case goes I'd like to talk about fashion itself more than games and anime, but that's just me.
>>10873523I met a few people near my region during the pandemic who I emailed back and forth regularly, but over time as lockdowns loosened we fell out of favor. I think both of us were just bored and wanted to chit chat during quarantine because there was no argument and we sort of mutually ghosted each other kek. But honestly, aside from one other friendship that we eventually exchanged contacts over email no, I rarely meet people here. I mostly come to this thread to laugh at arguments, bait or people like sir guro coord up there
>>10873365For sure it's strong, I definitely don't deny that, but at the very least their interest lies somewhat towards rape/guro shit. They take some pretty out there commission requests, and seem to enjoy drawing their characters in those situations.
>>10873543God forbid a woman has hobbies
>>10873534... being a beginner bothers you more than pedophilia? what are these priorities
>>10873543ah, i'm not familiar with her commission or request portfolio personally.
>>10873543You make it sound like a bad thing. You must be fun.>>10873545God forbid those hobbies or tastes in fiction are more on the edgy side of things.>>10873550Being a beginner at best and a fetishist troon buying a single coord off of taobao at worst bothers me more than their taste in cantonese drawn porn.
>>10873545Hey, you're the people who decide to be friends with this person. Just letting you know. If it's not a dealbreaker then great. But>>10873675> fetishistand the interests involved don't immediately give you a red flag when I say it's associated with some pretty strong fetish shit? What is this logic lmaoI'm not gonna say everyone who likes funamusea is a rapist or some shit just that it gives a moment of mental pause.
>>10873675>accusing someone of being a fetishist while excusing lolicon go to therapy.
>>10873679>>10873736What I'm trying to say is that not everyone that likes edgy or obscure shit in their entertainment is a sissy degen wanting to flaunt their kinks to everyone. I won't deny it tends to be a red flag when it comes to cgl, however; but I look at other signs beside it like, well, saying there's guro and witch lolita.I'll just stop thread derail because I want to still post on ita threads. I have yet to set a dupe email but if you'd like to discuss fashion stuff with the ocassional anime/game in there and not a sissy or troon someone out there wants to talk. I'd rather deal with /cgl/ than the travesties everywhere else.
Is Gyaruo completely dead, or is it possible there are one or two gyaruo lurking on /cgl/? Not posting my info, but if somebody wants to douche it up with me online/ discuss the aesthetic, I’d be down. Super no homo. Gals can apply too, but I might become like your father one day and mysteriously go out for cigarettes, never to return. I also have a girlfriend.
>>10873763my bf is gyaruo, we were just talking today about how dead the gyaru & gyaruo scenes are
>>10846010i know your kind
Only looking for female friends.
I’ve been trying to meet locals cause want to get into lolita design but it’s dead here
>>10846010You forgot to mention you're into DDLG and say UwU unironically.
Any Canadians? It’s dead here and no inspo
>>10873982Is he full blown gyaruo (ie: gyaru0boy) or is he just incorporating elements of the style?
>>10873982>>10874513don't respond to that guy, he's a troll. he's not gyaru and only wants to make fun of them.
>>10862179I know it's months later but I sent you a mail.
I know the hatred towards lolitas at heart but I'm saving to get a coord going and would like to find people to just talk about the fashion. No, i'm not buying taobao shit I'm aiming to be a brandwhore.
>>10874943Good, I can guarantee that if your first main piece is a good quality piece from a Japanese core brand you're very likely to never want to wear or buy the large majority (and the most common) of chinese brand.
>ASL?18 f new york state>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.lolita!!! I have done some cosplay in the past >Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Gothic lolita, Ouji, (I do a little of other lolita styles as well) Alice and the pirates, devilinspired, lace market>Other hobbies, interests?Vocoloid, other j-fashion, overwatch, sanrio, serial experiments lain, hunter x hunter>What are you looking for?a friend with similar interests (I dont have any lolita friends) :( maybe we could play games together, chat ect>Not looking for?transphobes, homophobes, racists, guys who only want to be friends with women so they can date/sleep with them>Contact infomai.is.outt@gmail.comwe can move to discord or insta or something once we know eatchother>Anything else we should know?im trying to think of something. uhhhhh uhhhhhhhh
>>10875034I will admit I really like what Dear Celine, Surfacespell and some Krad Lanrete stuff has to offer, but I'm not sure what's /cgl/'s opinion on those. There HAS to be good Chinese brands out there... R-right?I feel like some designs from China would be good if the overall quality of the materials wasn't so shit.As you can tell I'm partial towards classic.
>>10875075I own this set https://lolibrary.org/items/taobao-dear-celine-misty-morning-tartan-jsk-caplet-set from dear celine and whilst the design is okay (not garbage tier like a lot of modern taobao designs) it wasn't very well thought out. For example the fabric is way too heavy for this design and doesn't hang right. The construction is also a bit sloppy. I got it a long time ago because it was cheap and the tiny picture in the listing made it look promising. I had a look at surfacespell releases from the last few years, it's not terrible looking imo. But it's a good idea that when you have your eye on a specific item try to find out what kind of material it is made from and what does it look like when worn because the official photos can be a little deceptive sometimes. You should do the same for krad lanrete and dear celine.Also you might be happier with second hand older releases from VM and MM
>>10875075try some second hand older IW releases, some of them are very low price (compared to some other stuff) second hand.
>>10875067>brands>devilinspired and lacemarket????
>>10873523Yes actually! I've met some really great friends here. Friends that I talk with all the time. We even visit irl when we are able to. I'm actually really grateful for this thread. I can make friends who I don't have to pretend to like troons around. Mashallah.
>>10875067whats with all of the people who keep on posting that they arent looking for transphobes? you know where the fuck you are mate?
>>10875112Being that lots of people are asking for the same thing it seems to be fairly well placed, no?They literally fit in
>>10875112just look at the pic name and its obvious
>ASL?24/ O/ Western USA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita but I want to start cosplaying next year in my handmade Luffy or Inuyasha cosplays!>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Angelic Pretty, MAM, Glittertale, anarchyneverdies, mylolitawardrobe ((in order)). Ponies, raimbows, little cats, big cats, desserts, fancy soda ((no order)). Pastels and pink but im interested in bittersweet too!>Other hobbies, interests?I'm a student so I don't have a lot of extra time but I enjoy my relationship with God, reading, sewing, tea drinking and racing.>What are you looking for?A friend or friends to chat with. I've been a lolita since the plandemic started and it's lonely. I'm just looking to make a few friends who won't cancel me for liking Pokemon or saying retard. We can also communicate as penpals when we feel comfortable enough sharing addresses.>Not looking for?Racists, homophobes, transphobes, transgenders, men, Karens, cultists, Tik-Tokers, BPDchans, Lolitas-At-Heart, anti-choicers, body shamers.>Contact infoluffysobuffy@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?Cats
>>10875112if you can ask for no trannies trannies can ask for no transphobes. don't be a hypocrite.
>>10875075krad lanrete is decent, but to be honest if you want indie, go japanese indie. lots of classic options, usually better quality.
>>10875112Anon I hate to tell you this... But transphobes are INCREDIBLY annoying and unbearable. Even for cis people. Genuinely had a terf at my work and she would not shut up about kids genitals or how everyone was secretly trans or how the agenda was out to get her. She got fired because she sounded like a schizo. If they're not schizo they're bitter seething people, spoiler alert, nobody wants that for a friend!
>>10875280You're an actual retard.
>>10875287:)
>>10875287Nta but nah this is my experience too, anything even remotely adjacent to Trans topics makes these people foam at the mouth and spout shit nobody cares about or asked for. It's fucking annoying, I don't give a shit about transvestigating and how x lolita on insta looks "mannish" or "the gay agenda to trans the kids" or about the single trans teen in the entire fucking state school district being allowed to play soccer with the girls. I'm here for lolita, not for the couple people who constantly derail entire threads coming into my discord dms to take their insanity right to my doorstep.
>>10873543>tl;dr If someone's only interests are Mogeko Castle & Lucky Star, I don't want to be their friend.Anon, funamusea won't take lolicon commissions, I just checked. Don't get me wrong. If someone's only interests are things like Mogeko Castle, Di Gi Charat, and Lucky Star, I'm going to question. Knew a guy like that in my grade back in school. His best friend just got convicted for pedophilia. I'm sure Funa is into horror, but I don't think you should confuse chibis and lolicon. Perhaps some just look strange to you because they're in a bikini.
>ASL?21/F/Spain>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Oldschooler lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Maxicimam, meta, innocent world, Atelier Boz (RIP), moitie>Other hobbies, interests?Drawing, architecture, evolutionary psychology, health, philosophy (currently into Jung), nutrition>What are you looking for?I like chatting, discussing and being delusional about humanity's future, and discussing and trading EGL... anything! No doomers please.>Not looking for?No males, no SJW, I'm not interested in current politics >Contact infomewhuh18@gmail.com>Anything else we should knowI dropped out of lolita for a year, I'm getting back now since I've kept my collection.
>>10875464Stop derailing the thread retard. If you want to be offended go back to twitter since this shit lives rent free in your head. I can guarantee you, no adult with a real job gives a fuck about some artist drawing NSFW/""problematic"" content. Hell, the rape drawing wasn't even explicit. I'm so tired of zoomers going on their moral crusades in every part of the Internet. The fact that you're on twitter frothing at the mouth witnessing her being cancelled and decided to add to the already dead convo here is sad. But you sure scored your moralfag points for today, good for you!
>ASL?22/M/Baltimore, MD US>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay and, while not ouji, I dress casual alt.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Bro Demonias be slappin'. Favourite anime would probably be the first half of Death Note. Favourite cosplay is a tie between White-Suit Kaneki Ken and Joker.>Other hobbies, interests?I'm big into first- and second-wave emo and pop-punk music. I'm big into vidya, of course (main ones are Minecraft, Starbound, Stardew Valley, and Overwatch). I'm also a law school student, so I'm into law. obviously.>What are you looking for?I just want to have some additional friends to chat with occasionally. I don't have a lot of free time, especially during the semester, but it would be nice to find some more people to chat with to keep me sane during school.>Not looking for?Degens. Fuck degens from up-country.>Contact infowyltk.weatherboy0120@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?I'm pretty busy with grad school and soon two jobs, so I may neglect the email a bit. Responses may also be a bit delayed, but I'm a person who can't stand unread notifications so I'll probably hop on at least once every couple of days; at the very least once a week.
>>10875487ew a male
>>10875410>humanity's future>no politics> no doomers> no sjwsSo not about humanity's actual future at all, got it. Just say you like Sci-fi ffs.
>>10871143>tendency to just judge and border outAnyone who does this isn't actually alt and is just doing it as a fad. I have never met a truly alt person who does this; only those shallow, just-did-it-to-be-quirky jackoffs.
>>10875504you got me there
>>10873982Please ignore 10873982, I have a small but very devoted fanclub that follows me out of the gyaru threads and tries to keep me all to themselves.
>ASL?26/F/Ireland>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita, alt/vintage fashion>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Classic, gothic, oldschool, military. I don't care much for prints or OTT >Other hobbies, interests?Vidya, (nature) photography, cooking, art/drawing, history, music>What are you looking for?Pleasant & relaxed email correspondence with someone who shares similar interests >Not looking for?Troons, coomers, anything romantic/sexual, drama>Contact info6hexen@proton.me
>>10840131>ASL?22, assigned female at birth but i occasionally dress up like a boy for fun, florida>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.i like cosplay, uniforms, j-fashion, upcycling. interested in Lolita but i’m a broke bitch.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.i like 90s anime a lot and uniforms or uniform-inspired fashion in general. K-On! is my favorite anime.i like visual novels. big fan of Type Moon, ryukishi07, subahibi, etc.>Other hobbies, interests?mathematics, physics, biology, health and wellness, fragrance, soapmaking, horror, abnormal psychology, writing, art, language study, all types of music>What are you looking for?buddies :)i am LGBTQIA+ friendly and not judgmental. other university students would be nice.>Not looking for?racists, creeps, narcissistic types, insecure people who think they are competing with me for some reason.i am a queer woman, to be clear, and i don’t mind if you do not approve of queer lifestyles but don’t bring that shit up to me.>Contact inforeply to this w ur discord or email and I’ll contact you.>Anything else we should know?im just a lurker. i speak english, Japanese, and Spanish.
>>10874518aye thanks. reminds me why i dont reply to moids on here kek
>ASL?30s female PNW>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Both! I've been into lolita forever and am just getting back into cosplay, I love other jfashion and normie fashion stuff as well>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Btssb, oldschool, smaller Japanese brands like physical drop and sheglitI love sailor moon cosplay and currently working on a couple of thoseFavorite anime are dbz, sailor moon, trigun, FLCL, food wars, record of ragnarok, bleach, steins;gate, idk I like a lot mostly shonen, love ai yazawa manga as well>Other hobbies, interests?I like reading and learning about finance, the economy, business, psychology, health, and other subjects, I like cooking, making things, cats, I like some video games, particularly pokemon and just dance, I like shopping, fashion, kawaii stuff, conspiracy theories, internet culture, vaporwave, old internet>What are you looking for?People to chat with with similar interests or other cool interests they like talking about>Not looking for?No hardcore sjw, no relationships, friends only>Contact infostarlightmiku on discord>Anything else we should know?I'm pretty chill but sometimes not great at keeping up a conversation
>>10875280this is way too true
>ASL?31/M/Canada BC>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Mainly seasonal shows from last few years>Other hobbies, interests?Video games, gachas>What are you looking for?Friends to go to local events with, cosplay tips, ideas, group cosplays, etc. PC gaming friends would be cool as well>Not looking for?Toons, sjw>Contact info_nephalim discord>Anything else we should know?I'm shy and autistic and a bit of a shitposter
>ASL?22/M/Switzerland>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay>Other hobbies, interests?Raves, gym, gaming, game dev >What are you looking for?Friends to go to conventions with in Switzerland (we have two big ones annually)>Not looking for?I would prefer men, I don't get along well with women platonically No leftists, LGBTQIA in general>Contact infodiscord navy0798>Anything else we should know?Not really, I'm kind of a normalfag with a pinch of edge I guess
>>10876989>no women>no leftists>no lgbt>im normieok cope harder buddy
>>10877077Nta but normie men really do be like that kek
>>10877082tbf if he's like that he really doesnt even have to mention no women lmao
>>10877094most of the women ITT don't want to talk to you weirdos either
>>10877098picrel POV you're a woman reading this thread
>>10877098Ayrt and who is "you"? I'm a woman and I'm making fun of his ass.
>>10877119Me every time I come back to cgl
>>10877146Did you miss half the female posters here also excluding trannies and leftists? Fuck off to Reddit or something, you're not wanted here.
>ASL?25/f/pennsylvania, USA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.jfashion (cult party kei, yamikawaii, mizuiro) and lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.baby, innocent world, older AP. I like oldschool and sweet/classic but nothing OTT.I don't watch as much anime anymore but I like lain, alien nine, witch hat atelier, mp100>Other hobbies, interests?drawing, painting, psychology, sociology, internet culture, coffee and tea, cats, reading about jfashion trends and subcultures (and drama), thrifting>What are you looking for?someone to chat with and/or design coords with, especially locals. I go to cons once or twice a year, so it would be fun to meet up and go shopping together>Not looking for?coomers, anachans, people who obsess over cartoons and shit being "problematic">Contact infomymero@proton.me>Anything else we should know?i'm lgbt-friendly but i'm not interested in having political conversations
>>10877298You sound really upset about me telling you you aren't getting any bitches non- you ok? You take your meds lately?
>>10873547ik this is so pointless but. why post here then. ik cgl is dead but just let it die.
>ASL?21/F/ South Carolina>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita + otome kei>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Innocent world + baby. I like sweet and classic. I'm not much into anime other than JJK and Black Butler, but I do like kpop. Also a fan of xianxia novels + shows.>Other hobbies, interests?Graphic Design, tea, reading, learning Chinese, art history, and dance. >What are you looking for?Friends who wear lolita that I can chat with, talk abt lolita and school/work.>Not looking for?Am already in a relationship. No men. No alt-righters.>Contact infoshaibutter on discord>Anything else we should know?Am mixed race and in an interracial relationship so if u didn't read before, no racist weirdos. Also am a radfem
>ASL?28/M/South Texas>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay Lolita looks neat though>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.I like seeing Metal Gear and Final Fantasy cosplay the most.>Other hobbies, interests?Typical vidya, anime, History Science, Tech, (I just like being studious for conversation starters) Fitness. Wanting to do stop motion but never get around to it.>What are you looking for?Just general friends. If one is female then maybe a GF if not platonic relationships are fine.>Not looking for?Overtly political people regardless of their affiliation to ideologies even if I might agree with it. I have other friends for those things. I want more chill and casual interactions.>Contact infoDiscord:m107barret , 8deathtehkid8@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?It's on my bucket list to go a con with a girl in a couples costume( like LoidxYor for example), before I get too old. Odds are nothing will come of this but one can try!
>>10878908>Not accepting friend requests on Discord
>>10879264Sorry Anon I turned allowed all on for friend requests you should be free to add now. Was it a default setting?
>ASL?30s F PNW>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita with no interest in cosplay.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Sweetfag to the core. BtSSB, older Meta, ETC, JM. Brand whore but indie supporter. I like casual jfashion styles, vintage, and whimsigoth for normie wear.>Other hobbies, interests?PC videogames, baking and nutrition, internet culture, reading, thrifting, horror movies. Currently no-lifing BG3. I don't like anime, manga, cons, or pop culture.>What are you looking for?Irl and online friends. People who want to play games together or talk about them, share recipes, discuss our favorite cows, share our latest book, article, or movie finds, and go thrifting or hiking together if we live close enough. Platonic relationships only.>Not looking for?Romantic relationships, coomers, SJWs, taobao-litas, minors, creeps.>Contact infocglff@protonmail.com>Anything else we should know?We should probably connect via discord after a few emails because I chronically forget to respond.
>ASL?Early 30s, F, Midwest.>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Innocent World, Meta, Heart E, old Baby.>Other hobbies, interests?JRPGs, the occasional VN, reading, writing, cats, interior decor. Not super into anime or manga anymore, but I do read horror manga sometimes (my favorite is The Drifting Classroom).>What are you looking for?Friends into similar styles as me and who also live normal, adult lives in addition to being lolitas. There's no need to be local, because I'm a bit shy in person and likely won't want to hang out unless we've been friends for several years, lol. Would be nice to talk about what we're buying, beauty routines, lolita history, what we find ita, etc.>Not looking for?I'm married, so please no relationships or men. Also, I have no interest in being friends with people who are weird about women liking BL. No overly political SJW types (lesbians are fine, and I don't care about your politics, just don't want to hear them), and no one way younger than me. Sorry!>Contact infogobelingoblin@proton.me>Anything else we should know?<3
I’m moving to Australia in three weeks as an international move. I haven’t had much luck finding a comm in my current country but holding out for Aussie. Are there any Queensland/NSW based Lolitas here? I’m an American but I’ve been living overseas for over a year now and Australia is where I’ve settled on.
>>10876989I’m sorry to all the fellow lita’s who fell victim to this grown ass man’s 14 year old behavior
>>10881234spill nonny
>>10881234spill the tea
>>10881225>30s>marriedWhat the fuck are you doing here attention whore?
>>10885207didn’t know you couldn’t have friends once you’re married.
>>10885207>>>/r9k/
>>10840131>ASL?29/Man/North-East Murica>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.I typically cosplay characters from shounen anime>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Fav anime/manga in no particular order - Dragon Ball/Z, HunterxHunter, FMA, YYH, Steins;Gate, Naruto, Bleach, One Piece, etc>Other hobbies, interests?Cosplay, Guitar>What are you looking for?Nothing in particular>Not looking for?Negativity, coomers, political shit>Contact infoDiscord: nobuhiro_obata>Anything else we should know?I may be slow to reply to Discord
>>10885213isn't it funny when coomer scrotes roam over here thinking they are gonna get a cute lolita gf
>ASL?18 / trans guy / Central PA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Mainly cosplay, but branching off into jfashion>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc. early 2010s AP, smaller brands. Anything with pretty lace, pink, strawberries are my favorites.anime/fandoms: Love Live, Persona, One Piece, Vocaloid, Madoka Magica, >Other hobbies, interests?drawing, baking, anime figures, ecology, overwatch, barista work>What are you looking for?friends to stick with at cons!! Maybe people to ask advice from. talking is scary for me (. ᴗ .) Also potential ppl to share hotel room w/, other afabs only>Not looking for?creeps, romantic relationship, sexual advances, transphobes, tiktok gays/itas>Contact info sushig0re on discord >Anything else we should know?freshman in uni, pretty shy. trans friendly. chronically online. not interested in debate/arguing
>>10885343>"Trans guy">feminine interests>feminine typing style>"afabs only," intrinsically understands the difference between her and real menKek if this isn't bait
>>10885347Bad experiences expressing myself feminine, easier to be masculine bc people don't catcall you. I don't see what's wrong?
>>10885352cgl is transphobic so if that's going to rustle your feathers, go to reddit. also like. wearing lolita is undeniably feminine expression
>ASL?24/F/US(MN)>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.styles: classic/gothic/"Military Interests Me", dolly kei (rip)brands: VM/MM/IW/Atelier Boz/Milky Ange/Atelier Pierrotanimanga: otoyomegatari, alien nine, xxxholic, phoenix, nausicaa etc>Other hobbies, interests?world folk/classical music, oceanography, east and southeast asian history, sewing, painting, geology, deep sea life, shallow river creatures, silly little music/poetry composition games>What are you looking for?creative friendship.>Not looking for?all the obvious stuff goes (don't hit on me), but also if you're so poltarded you're gonna give me some climate denier screed when i excitedly tell u about ENSO events and meterology we probably won't get along.>Contact infocarpetsharks@proton.me
>>10885343>trans guy>barista>Not looking for tiktok gays/itasyou ARE the gay tiktok ita
>>10885343>transman >"trans friendly">"afabs only"well, you've managed to be too tranny for the transphobes and too transphobic for the trans lurkers here. you should probably just detransition and terf out and get it over with.
>>10885393Sent you an email
>>10885352Ok I'll drop a serious reply. Even if you express yourself in a masculine way (and Lolita is very much not that), it doesn't make you less of a female. Maybe you can read that as "less of an afab" if that helps you follow what I'm saying. It's something that's an immutable part of your life, for better or worse. And I understand that being a woman/afab comes with a lot of unpleasant things, and I don't blame you for wanting to shield yourself from them, but at the same time you will simply never match the life and experiences of a male/amab person. I'm sorry, but it's not possible. It seems you already recognize some ways you might face particular risks and differences, like with rooming.It's okay if you still want to present in a masculine way, but it's not healthy to run away from the reality of being a woman as if it's a ghastly thing or as if it's something you can opt out of to begin with, because that is part of who you are and you can set yourself up for unattainable expectations otherwise. Especially when it pertains to body parts, please try to accept yourself. Being a woman doesn't mean you have to sexualize yourself or shave or whatever else you might not like, you're already just fine. You can love yourself as a boyish or just not feminine woman.This was disorganized and not worded the best but feel free to ask for elaboration if you're willing to talk about it, this was brought to you by an ESL-chan who had a "i wish i was a boy" phase for a lot of her life. Sorry for bulli anon, you're still young, take care
>>10885421No worries, this is a good way of looking at it. I don't wanna get cheesy but how you explained it makes a lot of sense and kinda captures what i was running from and shooting myself with how delusional it kinda is. Thanks again
>ASL?Late 20s/F/Western Europe.>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.My most beloved substyles are classic-sweet and folk. I love jewel tones! My favourite brands are Metamorphose, AP and Excentrique (still haven't managed to find the pieces I want from them... RIP). I enjow wearing Listen Flavor for casual outfits.>Other hobbies, interests?Art, animals, paranormal, fashion history, esoterism, psychology>What are you looking for?Other likeminded lolitas or jfashion enthousiasts>Not looking for?-Males (this includes trannies)-Twitterbrained retards (people obsessed about politics in general)-Wannabe meangirls>Contact infomeowtistic@proton.me>Anything else we should know?I'm wear jfashion daily!
>>10885499ntaIt's ok it happens all the time, please don't feel bad about it. It's not your fault there's no messaging anywhere that says it's ok to not identify as a label and to simply be yourself. >be methat's all you have to do.
>>10885499no listen to fish how to be fisherman. I manliest man teach you be man. see f in thread add. ask f wanna b lolita/cosplay gf?. simply as
>ASL?26 / f / georgia, USA>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.lolita, mostly oldschool but i also like a lot of pieces from the 2006-2010ish era>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.baby, old IW, & old meta are my favs>Other hobbies, interests?i collect lots of different things, i'm learning to sew, music, old lady activies in general>What are you looking for?friends especially if you live near me, but you don't have to>Not looking for?moids, fetishizers, sjws (still a leftist tho), homophobes>Contact infoe-mail me at fawncherub@gmail.com & we can eventually move to discord :)>Anything else we should know?i'm a lesbian but not looking for anything atm so don't worry about that. i suck at responding sometimes but i do get better as i get more comfortable; it's not you, it's me. i have a cat who i will send lots of photos of because i love her so much. i like silly things like astrology (not pop astrology/horoscopes) but i won't push it on you if you find it annoying, it's just fun for me.
>>10846019based ping pong enjoyer
>>10885343afabs only lmao. just say no men and no creeps ur going through all this effort to sound inclusive in the most awkward and stupid way possible.
>>10885920I met you a momo con before, you're an insufferable militant lesbian, get fucked fatty.
>>10889650KEK op btfo
>>10889650someone got rejected
>>10889708Why would I a prettier woman, want to date a fatty like you? I have standards, you're a handsy lesbian and it's fucking gross.
>>10889710nta you're talking about anon, you're seething publicly. from the outside, you look like you have a stick up your ass over something for this person just existing
>>10889711What a rampant sex pest, who stalks conventions, to molest other female cosplayers? Fatty is worst than some of the moids who pursue cons for the same reason. Get your greasy hands off my dress, bitch. Your pussy soaked fujoshi fingers, might stain it.
>>10889713the virgin becky vs the chad obese fujoshi
>>10840131>30's/m/Cali>Shonen or fighting game chars>Guilty Gear, Street Fighter, Fist of the North star, ju jitsu kaisen>cocktail making, manga, manhwa, LN, skating, racing cars, travel>people to go to cons with>trans, terrible communicators, bad hygiene>ツSツMヅIツLヅEツYツFツAヅCツEヅ#0690>not a fast replier b/c busy with business
>ASL?30/M/South America>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.No brands in particular. Most of my wardrobe is NeoLudwig/FpF, some SurfaceSpell and handmade. Style a bit of everything, leaning more towards gothic.>Other hobbies, interests?Ballet, piano, classical music, classic cinema, clothes/accessories designing, sewing. A bit of anime (light hearted stuff like cgdct).>What are you looking for?Friends to chat about lolita and preferably some of the above subjects. "Lolitas at heart" only if you're serious about the fashion and looking to get into it now. I don't mind beginners but no bs please.>Not looking for?Anything sexual, "cute lolita gf", drama llamas, sjws, terfs, femcels, incels, creeps, trannies (crossdressing yes, tranny shit no)>Contact infoprobirbs@proton.me>Anything else we should know?Looking forward to exchanging emails. I'm not really into social media, and not much online either (I'll still try to reply promptly). Speak English and Spanish. Some French and Japanese.
>ASL?Mid-20s/F/southern US>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita + dolly keiFor lolita, sweet and classic>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.IW, AATP, JetJ, some AP.>Other hobbies, interests?Music, tell me your favorite songs! I listen to a lot of whirr>What are you looking for?Online or irl friends to exchange coords & concrit with, and dolly kei wearers>Not looking for?Coomers, passive aggressive people, anyone under 21, same things as the other lolitas ITT regarding men **unless you wear dolly kei**, racists, people who don't actively wear j-fashion.>Contact infofloralsfloralsflorals@proton.me>Anything else we should know?Leftist, but not a big identity politics person. i won't bring up politics, but i'll respond if asked a direct question.I work full time so I can't always respond immediately.
>>10885843>wanna b lolita/cosplay gf?yes! omg! i can't believe you finally asked!
>>10889650i've never been to momocon, retard, nor am i a fattychan. kys
>>10840131>ASL?20/M/Florida>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell usAnime, Video games, interested in cosplay>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Anime; basic shit, AOT, Fairy Tail, Cyberpunk Edgerunners,, Games, Also basic shit, Minecraft, Elden Ring, Elder Scrolls, TWW3 >Other hobbies, interests?Skater noob, Piano noob, Music: pop punk, fake emo, hardcore,, D&D, Going to the beach>What are you looking for?Friends, Online or IRL, someone to play games with, go places with, whatever else you do with friends idk>Not looking for?Meanies, jerks, or dummies, minors>Contact infoBeachedAlien#1096>Anything else we should know? I go to bed early and work late, and have social anxiety, so if I dont answer I'm working, sleeping, or scared, send me something funny first
>ASL?26/F/TX>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.lolita and jfashion, cosplay on rare occasions>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.i love baby, heart e, cornet, putumayo, BPN, and innocent world. main substyle is old school and i tend to like anything with alice motifs (bunnies, clocks, card suits, etc.) i'm into shoujo/BL manga and watch anime adaptations of the manga i collect.>Other hobbies, interests?i read all the time (2-4 different works a day). i like cooking "healthy" and keep a curated digital recipe folder; i would love to hear about any recipes you've tried. i travel when work allows and go to anime cons in my state every year. i love art and collecting trinkets.>What are you looking for?a friend that wears lolita or jfashion! online or irl, both are good.>Not looking for?romantic relationships, i'm happily taken. if you don't wear lolita/jfashion i wouldn't know what to talk about, sorry. i stay out of drama as much as possible so please don't obsessively fixate on that if you want to chat.>Contact infolapinchoux@proton.me and then discord after a few emails if that works for you. twitter if we get close since that's the only sns i have lol>Anything else we should know?i work and go to school full-time so if i don't reply right away that's why. i took a long break from lolita and jfashion so i'm building up a wardrobe again (it's been fun)! i can talk a lot but i'm patient if you're slow to respond back.
>>10890529I’m >>10881225, I also like BL and shoujo! I’ll write you an email when you I get home if that’s okay.
>>10890534of course anon, no rush!
>ASL?25 Man Germany>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.• Uniforms• Sukeban / Bōsōzoku / Delinquent Style• Gothic (Not TikTok Goth Thot)• Works by Yoshitoshi ABe>Other hobbies, interests?• Hong Kong 97• Campy PS2 era video games ex. Fatal Frame, Shadow of Destiny, Kuon• Crime films, HK Cinema, Mystery• Boomer Shooters• Bass guitar• Screamy angry music, Webcore• Literature• 3D Modeling• Korean food• Graffiti (Allegedly)• Working out>What are you looking for?Computer friends that share my interests, or want to hear my input about these topics. I enjoy listening to other people's con experiences, perspectives and opinions as well.>Not looking for?I will terminate contact if I suspect you to be underage.>Contact infomelphomene_ on Discord>Anything else we should know?I consider ghosting to be immature and careless, if we don't vibe I'm gonna give you the courtesy of letting you know instead of just cutting contact abruptly
>>10840131>ASL?29/M/TX>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay! Just started so learning the ropes. I have a good job so I may spend some dough making a decent one. I’d also like to learn how to sew. Might need to buy a sewing machine. >Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Video games and video game cosplay!>Other hobbies, interests?Cooking, military history, history, anything engineering related, making stuff, fixing stuff>What are you looking for?Friends to watch anime with, platonic grill frens, cosplay frens to go to Texan Cons with. People you’d want to grab a beer with. >Not looking for?Trannies, coomers, PC/SJW’s>Contact infozigalu@proton.me>Anything else we should know?Love horror movies, also sci fi. Even better when sci fi horror. Also Futaba Sakura is waifu material
>>10896131>29>military history>PC/SJW’s>Futaba Sakura is waifuCheck this man's hard drive immediately
>>10896416idk what you’re reading into lol>oldfag>likes history>don’t like buzzkills>she’s a kind reminder of one of my exes that unfortunately didn’t work out
>ASL?24/F/TX>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.cosplay, but wouldn't mind being better educated on lolita - been browsing this board since before it died unfortunately.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Recently been getting back into anime after watching so much in highschool, have been mainly focused on vidya for the last several years (and still am) - but slice of life really. open to getting bullied into watching more regularly. favorite anime is School Rumble if that helps>Other hobbies, interests?vidya, getting better at cosplay, recently got back into VRC with FBT (finally upgraded the headset)! trying to cook more, journal more, read more manga, trying to get better at my crafting/DIY skills. oh and VTubers (yea)>What are you looking for?(women) friends, hopefully active in going to cons, someone to be autistic with really (online and/or irl). part of my resolution is to be more active, more cons this year! i have a severe lack of irl women friends due to moving around, also they were all pretty extreme normies. i would kill to have a cosplay/gaming buddy that i can see outside of cons and hang with casually doing dumb shit>Not looking for?men. don't care about your beliefs or what you are, but don't shove it down my throat or make it your entire identity - i don't really care to discuss politics either. i'm not PC either, which i shouldn't have to say that if i'm on this board, but we all see the state it's in.>Contact infohelloeverynyann@proton.me>Anything else we should know?i'm easy going, open to trying new things. i recently started a big new job so i'm pretty busy during the week, but also somewhat chronically online when i can be and try to go back to being a NEET when i can. i never respond to these threads for obvious reasons if you browse enough, but taking a shot in the dark here and trying to branch out and try new things
>>10897981there is a new friend thread, just so you know.
>>10897987didn't even realize, thank you anon
>>10897987The new thread doesn't allow cosplayers, larpers or general j-fashion. We still need this thread.
>ASL?Late 20s/ F /Midwest US>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Still building my wardrobe for lolita. Used to cosplay primarily until I got too busy with work and couldn't justify the project time needed. Still like to express myself so I use my newfound adult money to buy the pretty dresses I always wanted. Want to get back into the con scene, so I'm planning on easier cosplays to get back in the saddle.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Fav would be Meta, Atelier Boz and Haenuli. Maybe one day I can afford ye olde Moitie. Used to be into mori girl until I realized I look terrible in it. My love for lacy layers lives on in gothic. I'm slowly acquiring pastel goth pieces for more styling options. Have trash taste so I read current season stuff and vilainess manga primarily, but I love Mieruko-chan.>Other hobbies, interests?Like to play vidya, read, draw in spare time. I enjoy tackling big projects, was refurbishing my rusty bike until the cold put things on hold. Might pick up a sewing project instead.>What are you looking for?Friends, hopefully women who are also weebs. It's remarkably hard to find friends who aren't PC. Probably because we're all trying to keep our jobs. I'd also love to go to events/cons(j-fash & anime) with fellow lolitas/cosplayers.>Not looking for?No trannies. No men. No kiddos. Pick-mes will be radicalized.>Contact infopiplaton@protonmail.com>Anything else we should know?Work full-time but I have wfh freedom - I'll be slow to respond but it'll be easy to incorporate messaging into my workflow if we start messaging regularly. I'm open to playing online together too if you're into that. I won't talk politics if you don't.
>ASL?28/F/bongerland>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita appreciator, I'd enjoy your sperg about it even if I'm not a member of the community>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Classic/school/sweet IMO are the cutest. For myself, I'm more into alt/dark formalwear. I haven't kept up with season anime for a few years, and I've fallen off of manga a little, but my favorite manga are Houseki no Kuni, Inuyashiki, Dorohedoro, and Innocent.>Other hobbies, interests?Getting into lit recently and movies, would love some recommendations if we share tastes. Horror is my fave genre (Terrified being peak true horror). I love tea, but not that artificial bubblegum-tasting-rasberry shit. Coffee too but my Moka pot broke so I'm downgraded to using the french press. I also used to customize dolls and I've upgraded to sculpting bjds. Still not finished on my current project (a single joint bjd) but she can stand on her own! Oh, I also write fanfiction. >What are you looking for?A female friend, haven't had a real one since high school and I'm dying inside being surrounded by moids. Radfem mandatory, full-blown misandry preferred. Husbandofags appreciated.>Not looking for?Scrotes, pickmes, youngshits, and bpdchans* >Contact infononitanon@proton.me>Anything else we should know?I'm nervous/shy/socially maladjusted so email would be the preferred method until we click enough to have organic convos over discord eventually, if you'd like. Picrel [spoiler]this could be us[/spoiler] *If you're a fellow ASoIAF sperg idc what you are.
Weird how all the men need to bring up their political faction.
>>10898508Thats why I made a new thread because men force themselves into these threads secretly seeking a relationship and pushing their agendas, no cosplayers = no men who make “cosplay feet/boobs/thighs/butt etc.” threads trying to add girls
>>10898508you say that like every woman in this thread isn't a poltard
You'd have to be pretty fucking desperate to ever add a male anon from 4chan in any way. That's just asking for trouble.
>>10898647>anyone that doesn't agree with me is a man!!ok whacko
>>10898648kek no matter how many years pass this will always be a cgl classic
Yeah this is exactly why I'll never add any of you insane lunatics (most of you being incels larping as women hating other women, just like at the cafe)
>>10898026this why is it lolita only? other jfash exists.
>>10898812I'd rather befriend random homeless people than a good majority of the retreads who still populate this dead website for most of their day.
>ASL?24 M Northeast US>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Cosplay exclusively, but lolita/jfash in a group setting would be fun!>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Made in Abyss, GitS, Haruhi, Eva, also shoujo anime. Mostly only interested in cosplaying anime/anime-stylized series.>Other hobbies, interests?Vtubers (mostly hololive and EN indies), video games, vocaloid, animals, and anything cute. I am also very active! (lifting and running)>What are you looking for?People to chat with about cosplay, makeup, conventions and anime. People to go to cons with.>Not looking for?Racists/transphobes, romantic or sexual advances>Contact infoDiscord: pendula>Anything else we should know?I'm rather inexperienced in cosplay minus a few group things, and I'm interested in crossplay.May be slow to respond, but I'll hit you back in <24 hours!
>ASL?29/M/Mass Shooting Empire>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.I like cosplay and would like to get into it. I enjoy looking at lolita and j-fashion.>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Alt/punk shit. I love anything cyberpunk or horror. I'm only just now getting into anime, so what I've seen isn't very much but I like what I've seen a lot.>Other hobbies, interests?I like horror, DC Comics, subculture history.>What are you looking for?Human contact, I guess.>Not looking for?Yunno, I'm not sure. If I hate you, I'll let you know.>Contact infoMizukumosickness@proton.me>Anything else we should know?I'm making attempts to not be such a bitter prick.
>ASL?72/gay doll/WA>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.dolls wearing moi meme moitie>Other hobbies, interests?BJDs>What are you looking for?more gay dolls>Not looking for?dollfuckers>Contact infogummiholen on LINE>Anything else we should know?i'm not a very nice person
>>10904410why are so many doll collectors hideous ogres
>ASL?29/m/ us west>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.I would like to try lolita at some point but I just cosplay characters I like >Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.TTGL, mmo junkie, Kuroko, berserk, Vinland saga, danmachi, goblin slayer, Kaiji just to name a few of my favorite seriesMy recent cosplays have been goblin slayer, bell cranel, zero two, AsunaI'm still shit at it but I like making armor I literally can't sew at all though >Other hobbies, interests?Card games and vidya, V chuubas>What are you looking for?People to cosplay with at cons since none of my friends cosplay, I'd love to do group cosplays and just have someone to talk about cosplay stuff with >Not looking for?>Contact infoDiscord: towarsama>Anything else we should know?Slightly autistic
>>10905690>People to cosplay with at cons since none of my friends cosplay, I'd love to do group cosplays and just have someone to talk about cosplay stuff withWhat cons and what cosplays do you typically go to/do?
>>10905812West Coast cons, we usually hit up sac anime like twice a year, also AX and when it was still going CRX, those are just the usuals There's a lot of cosplay I wanna do, I wanna try to improve my bell cosplay before AX and Im planning on doing onigashima sanji and a crossplay that I haven't decided on yet, making armor and props is fun though and I definitely wanna get better
>>10840131>ASL?f/18/us>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.lolita >Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.innocent world, gothic lolita & a little jirai kei, girls und panzer>Other hobbies, interests?i like to collect vintage military history, listen to noise music, and read >What are you looking for?friends to talk about fashion and share music c:>Not looking for?men>Contact infoascendingplanes@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?once we get to know each other we can exchange discord users or other socials ^.^
>>10906243Emailed you! :)
>>10906243Just emailed you as well.
>ASL?30, woman, europe>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.Lolita fashion! I've been wearing it for almost a decade now, but I don't mind if you're new! >Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.My favorite brand is Baby! I just adore Usakumyas. I'm not too interested by cosplay sorry >Other hobbies, interests?I love crafting, video games and used to be a huge weeb. I'm always happy to discuss animes and vocaloid shit>What are you looking for?I want a friend to share lolita fashion with, show off coords and make stuff. Preferably in Europe too, so I can send you letters and stuff. >Not looking for?Men, politics (no transphobes or racist please), minors>Contact infoFriendliest.seagull@gmail.com>Anything else we should know?
>>10906979amerifag here, but i wouldn't mind a penpal!
>>10906979Just emailed you!
>>10906999Send me an email! It was just to avoid expensive shipping a letter but if you're okay with that then I am too :)
>ASL?26/M/USA (West Coast)>Lolita? Cosplay?EGA, vkei>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Moi meme Moitie, Alice and the Pirates, Atelier Boz, Virtu More/Suppurate System>Other hobbies, interests?Visual kei media collecting, bass guitar, growing carnivorous plants>What are you looking for?Friends who like Jfashion and listen to visual kei>Not looking for?Cringe people without self awareness>Contact infoDiscord: voxmelodia(they got rid of numbers :0)>Anything else we should know?Nah guess not
>>10874193I know this is extremely late but I feel like this should be talked about more. I’ve seen a lot of young girls like this one (>>10846010) that post about their interests in J-fashion or cosplay that get bullied or even doxxed because of it. Im sure it’s just jealousy but I do wonder what makes people so mad, especially since older people on cgl have been in j-fashion and cosplay for decades.
>ASL? 23/M/georgia>Lolita? Cosplay?why not both?>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc. I like old school 90s and 00s cosplay and anime. I also enjoy menhara, and old-school j-fashion.I enjoy satoshi-kon (magnetic rose is one of my favorites), GiTS, Berserk, Mindgame, Inu-oh, NANA, Armitage the III, and Dungeon Meshi>Other hobbies, interests?I enjoy drawing, cooking, reading, sewing, lifting, and vidya.>What are you looking for? artbros to study drawing with, maybe some light vidya on the side.>Not looking for? femoids, poltards, and troons. it's not that difficult not to tell me, and i don't want to know.>Contact info gullongullaction@gmail.comexchanging discords after a few emails, is a possibility.>Anything else we should know?women have scared and hurt me in unimaginable ways.
>ASL27/M/US, FL>Lolita? Cosplay?Visual kei and j-fashion albeit I'm new to fashion>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Na+H, MmM, Vampire Hunter D, Golden Boy, Blood+, Prison School, Kaiji>Other interestsMetal, punk, noise/ambientMore specifically brutal death metal, metalcore, nu-metal (yes fuck you), first wave black metal, pop punk/skate punk, thrashcore/powerviolence, noise rock, death industrial, deathrock, post-punkAlso into creative stuff, I draw, do photo manipulation/editing, in the process of learning guitar, also interested in getting into painting and assembling BJDs>Favorite moviesThe Blair Witch Project, The Mask, Borat, Versus, Angela, Solaris, The Dirties, Seven, Cube>Favorite bands/artistsDir en grey, Rise of the Northstar, SpaceGhostPurrp, Malice Mizer, Endless Dismal Moan, Ali Project, Yokai Jaki, No Zodiac, Mindless Self Indulgence, Kickback, Art Marju Duchain, Jig-Ai, Maximum The Hormone, Reol, Godflesh, Kuroyuri Shimai, Rufio, ZebraheadWe can exchange last fm and letterboxd profiles if you wish>Looking forMostly just friends/acquaintances into similar things>not looking for/pol/tards, unironic racism (I don't care if you're edgy and like to say nigger or something though), people with twitter personalities/lingo, /fit/fags, people who believe in gender/trans ideology, misandrists (unless you're funny), >disctagdisorder_is_claimed
>>10909298Go back on tiktok and Twitter >I’m new to everything and actually typed out the hard R I hate moids
>>10909308I don't use either site and they bleed into other sites so it's unavoidable without narrowing down people you interact withWas expecting more impressive male hate from this place though, sad
>>10909309Normie newfags like you ruined this place. I know #1 rule is to not feed the moid trolls but how’s posting on the cosplay ass thread going?
>>10909298Racist and transphobic at that big age of yours? Average limp bizkit fan I guess
>>10909298Reeks of incel.
>>10909324lol>>10909327Love you too!
>>10909317I don't get these projections, why are you convinced I'm a troll?I'm a newfag and that's about it and the cosplay softcore porn threads are annoying so I just filter them
>>10909388Would add if it weren't for the anime and doll shit, weird
>>10909441Getting into bjd as a 27 year old man and posting a limbless flat chested sex dolls while white knighting yourself? Someone check this dudes hard drive
>>10909298This has to be the worst freak to have ever ruined a ff thread. This is sainte 2.0
>>10909298>metal>noise>entry level horror anime and movies>boratkys
I'll give this a shot, new to this board/cons>ASL?25, male, midwest>Lolita? Cosplay? You tell us.I don't actually cosplay but I like anime/nerd stuff and this seems to generally just be the con board since /a/ bans everything that isn't FOTM generals>Fav brands, substyles, anime, cosplay, etc.Bit of a yuri/CGDCT appreciator myself, fav anime is probably madoka magica, basic answer but solid one, I believe>Other hobbies, interests?Would love to start a band if you play anything. Other main hobby is just being a weeb, practicing Japanese, going to japan or just traveling when I have the time, reading manga, etc.>What are you looking for?Maybe someone to just grab a drink with in between events at a con or something, potentially split the cost of a room or hang out more if we vibe>Not looking for?I don't really wanna tell anyone off before I know anything about them>Contact infodiscord the_lizinator>Anything else we should know?nope
>>10909510>>10909298 someone get these newfag normies awayThese posts reek of gross old thirsty incels
>>10909528>25-27 is old nowFucking Kill me
>>10909532If you are over 19 and you haven't made you first million, it's over for you and you need to ropemaxx
>>10909532Don't fall for the psyopYou're not old lol + it's the same shitty hag samefagging
>>10909441as opposed to being into lolita fashion?
>>10909538>samefaggingAnd yes 25-27 is too old to be barely getting into jfashion and conversations to try and creep on girls on cgl
>>10909545Conventions **
>>10909545I have no interests in the "girls" here lol This is just a glorified cc with taobao dresses
>>10840131>ASL?19F / PNW (NA) >Lolita or cosplay?Cosplay>Other hobbies/interests?Vidya, film, art >Looking for Con buddies! Male or female.>Not looking for Anyone over 25. Minors. No trans, sorry. Leftists. Tiktokers/influencers. >Contact info Velveteenbunnies on discord. >Anything else we should know? Nope! Contact me if you’d like, I’m friendly :)
>>10909736Hey! I tried adding you (PNW) and it says invalid? can u please update if u are still around
>>10910708Hey yes! Sorry, I changed it because of creeps, what’s your email or discord? I’ll just message you there.
>>10910712NTA but I'd like to add you as well if that's ok with you>Discord: cowgucci
>>10910712Munch3r is my discord I am in south washingtonIm going to Kumoricon in November
