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How do you cope with loneliness in your country?
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Every 4 months or so I’ll reinstall Hinge and wait a week before scrolling through all the women who liked me, matching with a few of them, and then never responding to their messages. The momentary dopamine rush of realizing there are women out there who find me attractive enough to think “I guess I could date this guy” is enough to numb the feelings of loneliness and self hatred for a while.
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>>218571218
Before I fall asleep I'd fantasize about meeting a cute girl who's genuinely happy to see me. It works
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>>218571218
>>218571224
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masturbate 1-3 times a day everyday for the last decade
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>>218571218
Whenever my wife goes on her long business trips I just spend free time hanging out with friends instead.
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>>218571342
>15 seconds apart
wtf is going on. are we being raided by discordfag?
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>>218571414
I have neither
>>218571334
i can't do that unfortunately
>>218571291
maybe i should try that...
>>218571345
masturbation doesn't seem to help anymore
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>>218571218
Amphetamines and opioids
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stop being gay
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>>218571452
It was somehow a coincidence
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I spit a big loogie down my windoe and see if it lands on someone
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>>218571218
I pretend like I'm not alone. It still hurts but less.
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>>218571218
Visual novels
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>>218571464
i don't have those... Being on drugs must be nice
>>218571342
looks like we had the same thought...
>>218571485
i am not gay
>>218571521
does that help u in any way?
>>218571533
how does that work?
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>>218571580
why are you typing like a girl
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>>218571570
I feel like those would just make me even more sad
>>218571613
idk
I type how I type
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>>218571218
I make 4chan thread about it
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>>218571218
Watching anime
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>>218571570
This is all men want
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>>218571458
>maybe i should try that...
Fair warning, unless you’re at least slightly good looking you probably shouldn’t. Dating apps are very superficial and women often like men’s profiles purely based on physical attractiveness.
Not saying I’m terribly good looking, I’m just barely good looking enough to have women I’d actually want to date occasionally match with me. I’m what incels would call a “fakecel”, someone who could have had sex but still hasn’t.
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I tell myself that if i cared enough about that I would have some sort of breakdown and go looking for a gf.
anon belive it or not being alone is quite comfy. no its not a cope. of course there are people out there who could make you happier but alone time is genuinely better than 99% of the 'people' out there. just get one good friend who you can talk to in an honest way, anything else is overkill
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>>218572110
it's not comfy for me
>just get one good friend
i haven't gotten a single one in my 25 years of life
>>218572073
people have said that i am good looking
maybe it would work
>>218571690
there haven't been any decent anime lately desu
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omg stop being a faggot
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>>218572225
If people have said you’re good looking then it’ll probably work. Good luck. Maybe you’ll even find a girlfriend this way.
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>>218571218
come here and become my gf(male)
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>>218571218
idk i just cope
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it's been 7 years since I had a genuine conversation with a girl, I'm 26 now and I feel like irreversible damage has already been done but I'm not losing hope
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>>218571218
>>218571291
>>218571580
>>218571670
sex with all bocchers
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>>218572225
>i haven't gotten a single one in my 25 years of life
well, what places do you frequent? I met my closest friend at my job.
take a class if you have the money. everytime I took a class i made a small friendship. there was even a girl one time
i havent had an online friend but i assume that would also fulfill your friend needs. but nice people generally dont really go around the internet looking for new friendships i think
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>>218571218
You become numb to it after 3 decades. Romance and intimacy are severely overrated.
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Incredibly niche hobbies and interests about topics that literally nobody fucking cares about
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>>218574261
this is a good one. I'm looking into getting into graduate school.
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>>218572225
Rewatch older anime
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GFE escorts
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>>218572271
I'm not a faggot
>>218572540
i doubt you can genuinely get a gf from dating apps
>>218572655
i am not gay, sorry
>>218572753
how?
>>218572834
i am thinking of giving up tbhdesu
>>218573542
what sort of class
i feel like people don't really look for friends there
>>218573612
maybe for you
i am 25 and the yearning for that isn't going anywhere
>>218575209
prostitution's illegal here unfortunately
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>>218576162
>i am 25
How long have you felt alone or felt the need to yearn? I came to accept my situation at the ripe young age of 11 when every kid in my class was getting a girlfriend except for me.
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>>218571218
Just get a bf
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I don't really want a wife or gf desu. i just want a surrogate child and raise it in a multigenerational household. But alas women will do everything in their power to prevent artificial wombs
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>>218576179
I started really wanting it when i was in hs ig
>>218576203
Not gay
>>218576221
You could try adopting
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>>218571218
>How do you cope
>>218572753
>idk i just cope
ah yes, i love being chilean. memes aside, i met a girl on 4chan and we've been talking for a while. she's very nice.
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occassionally my moneybrain chimps out at me for not having a gf and i feel extremely lonely, but its usually fixed by having a good night's sleep
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>>218571218
Hobbies, friends, family.
I'm 35 and it feels kinda late for getting serious about getting a gf. It was way easier for me to get female attention when I was younger. I still get it but I feel its just women being nice. I always get told I look younger than my age as a complement. I'm bad at flirting and I feel I am not assertive enough to ask someone out.
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>>218576162
>prostitution's illegal here unfortunately
are you completely retarded? when theres demand theres supply easy as
or just travel
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>>218576221
yeah bro that child will be completely normal and not at all without genetic defects
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>>218571218
Maladaptive daydreaming, somewhat a mental disorder, but im able to create entire worlds and entire relationships that feel real through daydreaming. Combine this with the practice of lucid dreaming and you've basically breached the 4th dimension.

ALL without any drugs.



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