do your parents accept that youre a tranny
>>35504098You don't look like that THOUGH
>>35504098They don't know I'm one
>>35504098no my mom says im her manly gigachad son
>>35504118why cant i just post cute pictures
>>35504098Yes but I'm still ashamed
>>35504098yes my mom and dad both support memy mom says she only ever thinks of me as her daughter now
>>35504143Post your tummy instead
>>35504143don't listen to that anon. let's have a hot transbian makeout session
>>35504098My parents died when I was a kid. I never even got the chance to have them reject me for being trans.I really am happy for the trans people who have accepting/supportive parents. But reading about supportive parents does also injure me in a very particular and deep way.
>>35504154extremely jealous>>35504157no>>35504164ew
>>35504098Not really but they haven't disowned me or anything
>>35504098yes
>>35504205>ewyou'll join the dark side once I am done with youmwah
>>35504098You watched those movies yet
I don't know...my mom doesn't even gender me as she/her...
>>35504199atleast you dont have parents that think youre disgusting and that you have demons in your head>>35504230stop clocking my threads :<
>>35504098No. They're delusional.
>>35504259mwah mwah mwahyou will never win
>>35504259I will never stop bullying you
>>35504098She's in denial and seems to think she can opt out of it while I girlmode elsewhere and still maintain an authentic relationship with me.
>>35504098yeh they both accept me as their straight daughter c:
>>35504098mom feels guilty about it, dad can't accept it at all bc he's a repper himself
>>35504290>mom feels guilty about itsame she keeps telling me how she wished she raised me right so i didnt have to turn out like this
>>35504098hell no lmao
>>35504277im gonna watch cure tomorrow okay...
>>35504098They are paying for my >college>car >hrt >**saving for my ffs >house >clothes >my mother even encourages me to buy more feminine clothes>my mother even encourages me to get full laserThey abandoned me when I was 10 years old, I suffered an accident, and at 18 I almost committed suicide. I think the feeling of guilt makes them support me so much now.t. 5'3 passoid, trooned out at 17, 4 years on hrt.
>>35504416Good girl :) also fun fact I was the fat retard guy too (though I am not fat really)
>>35504098yes, but you can tell that in their head im not exactly really a womanthey help me with ffs money anyway so thats nice, buy every return to home is always a burdeni have to listen to silly "him, i mean her" kind of mistakes, its so tiresome
>>35504098they tolerate it while hoping i will stop being trans one day like i'm just a temporary parasite they can safely separate from the version of me that only ever existed in their headsno idea what they'll do when i finally pass the point of no return and "kill" what they consider "their son"
>>35504418Wait who did you live with after you were 10?
>>35504437>I was the fat retard guy toowhat
>>35504493Just the the guy who said do you fw fat retards to one of your threads some time ago, since I think that was you. Could be wrong tho
>>35504098lmao, no OP, they do not.I wish they did though, or at least my sisters did.>tfw I will never be a lucky youngshit who had accepting parents
>>35504098I adopted one off of 4chan and accept her does that count?
>>35504478with my grandma
>>35504098lol no
>>35504418very nice
>>35504418why do i feel the urge to get angry at you
>>35504688Ah nice, what are you studying?
>>35504098No. My parents look at me with a mixture of shame and revulsion. My dad said that me just being around makes it hard for him to talk to his kids that he likes.
>>35504098after they realized it wasn't a phase, yes. starting e helped too. they don't like it but need to accept me to keep me around so they deal with it lol. they still call me he/him, deadname etc but idc and ive never asked them to stop. i'd rather they just do what they're comfortable with
>>35504098no they think im sick
>>35505812in the good way or the bad way
>>35504098>do your parents accept that youre a trannyYeah but I know they actively wish I wasn't. They still treat me like the masculine "son" they hoped to raise and that's probably the only way they'll ever see me, at best they just think I'm some poor mentally ill faggot.I still pretend to be a man for them 24/7 because I know my femininity repulses them. Praying I can move out sooner rather than later, this shit is poison for the soul
>>35504098at first my mom was a little more accepting and my dad seemed more bothered but over time it has switched. the more I pass, the harder my mom refers to me as her son. my dad at least asked what I like to be called. have husband and she pretty much just ignores him. dad makes conversation with him. I've just been going less and less contact over time with her. which really sucks because i used to be really close to my mom until I got my 1st YWNBAW from her. my dad I send memes to and thank him for good memories.
>>35504098they both said they do, but my mother calls me a faggot when drunk (and denies it when sober), and my father's password for netflix is still my deadname after 11 years. he also has talked about how he doesn't like other trannies. im cutting them both off this year.
>>35504606could you tell us about your relationship please? how’d you meet, what made you decide to adopt her, etc sounds rlly sweet…
>>35504098
>>35506237your mom seems fun to be around :3
>>35506375We're close friends, she will crash at my place for a while soon and I will try my best to help her get back on her feet. Her therapist seems to think I will be good for her, too. And well, ultimately we met on this board, talked a lot and recognized each other by the way we engaged. I didn't want her to die. In fact I want none of you faggots to die but that is another matter.
>>35504098My parents are mentally sane enough to accept they can't control everything in the world, yes.
>>35504098well let's just say I hope they are "accepted" in the nursing home
>>35506413she isn't, she has hit me and insulted me numerous times. on multiple occasions she has tried to drive while drunk, very recently she tried to drive to her nursing job while hammered
>>35504098My mom says she'll tolerate me but eventually will accept meSometimes I'd get a glance from her and it's been a couple of weeks to months since she made up some small excuse to not let me accompany her to the grocery ( Oh it's just small stuff don't you worry ) and that hurts me a lot, I'm a neet with no friends ( I've got a government job lined up in 1~2 months ) so interacting with my mom brings a lot of joy to my lifeWhen she gets out of work sometimes we'd get into "talks" about my transition and today she was talking about how it's hard on her and sometimes she'd look at me and not see her son's face anymore, I'd be someone else. That I look different.She reassured me she still loves me ( she does she hasn't really changed how she treats me ) but hearing her say what I thought she felt hurts meBut I also got a little ping of happinessI've just hit 7 months and I don't think my progress is *that* good, like it's not nothing but it's anything worthwhile either but maybe things are better than I thought?I love my mom so much she's my world I don't want her to stop talking to me
>>35504098Yes, they paid for my transition
>>35506874maybe you should try being a better son or daughter (whatever what you mom likes at the moment)
>>35504098My parents accept that I’m a hon
>>35504098For mtfs are moms or dads usually more accepting? From these posts it seems like dads usually? Is it the opposite for ftms?
>>35504098i came out to my mom like i think a year ago but i think she's pretending like i didn't
>>35504098My parents were not supportive at first, but eventually have come around enough. My dad went from not wanting anything to do with me to being my best friend. Love you pops :3
>>35507911Usually dads are more accepting. My mother still doesn't thank that trannies exist tbqh
>>35507911my dad was way more chill about me coming out as ftm than my mom was. she was very upset about losing her daughter. but now she is cool and my dad has always been chill so it’s whatever
>>35504098i mean they said i'm not their son anymore!!
I've been boymoding about 9 months now and I don't think my mom has clocked I'm on HRT but she's somehow clocked other stuff because now that I've stopped repressing I keep saying or doing things that I would have previously tightly shut away and she's cluing into them with stunning precision. She keeps asking why I know about x thing with makeup, or why I'm walking a certain way, or why I want long hair, or why I have an interest in fashion or jewelry or whatever. She asks me like once a week why I 'want to be a girl' or 'why I want to pretend to be a girl' and I don't know what to say and just play dumb each time because it feels so humiliating being in a position where she's trying to pry it out of me when I know she would never accept me and just use that knowledge to hurt me.She was my first bully, she abused me physically and mentally constantly, she ruined my life in more ways than one - irreparably in some cases. I will never recover physically or in terms of the opportunities available to me throughout life because of things she did to me, which were morally abhorrent. I learned what it was like to fearfully beg your life with a knife under my throat because of her. I have tried to forgive her and do everything I can to be kind because I don't want to contribute to the cruelty this world gives us daily and I know it will never be reciprocated. I just can't bring myself to admit it to her. I don't want to be hurt in this way by her, I can't, yet she already is.
>>35510718> I just can't bring myself to admit it to her. GOOD. Do not admit it.i had a similar relationship with my parents.and a similar level of suspicion directed towards me once i started transitioning.never admit anything as long as you can..no matter how much you want to forgive them, no matter how much you want to move on,if they were able to be cruel before there is no reason to believe that they won't be again.
>>35507911Cis women are always more bigoted than any other demographic because they get to hide it in plain sight without being called out for it. Especially straight ones.
