>breast augmentation is exactly 1 month from now>nervous about what my coworkers are going to think Aaaaaaaa how the FUCK am I supposed to cope?????Everyone is going to knowI feel like this is such a "loss of innocence" moment for me, right now I'm just the quirky office tranny, but afterwards I'm going to be a grotesque BDD surgical abomination, or a gross faggy wench, or a even in the best case, a mentally ill image obseseed weirdo
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>>35513617your two options are>ignore it, it is inappropriate to talk about your tits at work>own it, and be very proud of the big tits you spent a lot of money on
>>35513905yeah ill probably go with the former but still, the gossip train is going to be going hard... I just hope people still see me as a person and not a subhuman...
>>35513617>I'm going to be a grotesque BDD surgical abomination, or a gross faggy wench, or a even in the best case, a mentally ill image obseseed weirdoIf you're applying these terms to who you'll be after BA maybe it's a sign you shouldn't get fake tits? Mentally ill people shouldn't be getting cosmetic surgery
>>35514534I mean, that's how I'm going to be viewed by my coworkers. Right now I'm innocent, I'm just a really introverted and shy boygirlthing But after I get BA I am worried that this image of me will be destroyed. People will begin to view me as a sexual creature or an object. Part of my charm will be converted into raw sexuality instead. Or alternatively, the coworkers of mine who just view me as a harmless girly boy will begin to view me as a mentally ill person mutilating my own body That's my fear anon, I've been looking forward to BA for years now, but I'm fearful as to how others will start viewing me
>>35516892Welcome to womanhood
>>35516909It's less about being a woman and having breatsIt's more about being trans and choosing to get cosmetic surgery which is associated with sex appeal Like men feel a degree of protectiveness and chivarly towards cis women that they don't towards trans women. This offsets the crudeness of a woman getting breast implants. A trans woman, even a passing one, and especially not one who was known by their coworkers pre-transition, is not afforded this chivarly, and therefore the taboo of getting breast implants for a trans woman is even greater idk, maybe I'm just being schizo, maybe every one will forget within a week, I'm so nervous, I'm so excited
>>35517002>it’s less about being a womanIt literally doesn’t matter if you’re a woman or trans or even a man, getting BA is a cosmetic surgery. You will get talked about and you will get looks, that’s the point. It has absolutely nothing to do with being trans
>>35517119It literally does matter an if you don’t think a tranny getting a BA is treated differently than a Cis women getting a BA you are delusional
>>35513617What cc and what ur underbust now?
>>3551813034 inch underbust, I have literally no breasts, just puffy nipples, 6 years Hrt, I've tried everything including prog, E2 injections, and weight cycling
>>35519166Should be fine unless you go really large and high profile
