So I'm an MtF in a relationship with a pre-T FtM. My partner is bisexual, but does not respond the same way to me sexually since after I started HRT, because I no longer have boysmell. They do not initiate sex nearly as often with me and don't get turned on from being around me - we have to do foreplay to get warmed up (including for me, now). He says that he is still attracted to me and happy to be with me.I wish I didn't feel so guilty about this. I feel like I am taking sexual gratification away from my partner. I just want to meet all his needs, but I'm afraid what he actually wants is a guy, and his current attraction to me doesn't feel as good to him as before I started hrt. If my partner weren't in the picture I wouldn't have a second thought about getting SRS or continuing HRT, but I just want to please him and sometimes I feel that non-medical transition is the best way to do that. :(And maybe once he starts T this will change, but I don't know. Are there any others who have navigated this stage of a st4t relationship? We still do PiV but I am lucky that he is happy to fuck me with a strap-on so I get my own needs met.
>>35523508I know a funny trick that keeps you fem but gives you boysmell. Tbh thats what I do to retain trans masc, I simply pooned out.
>>35523508Gaydens, not even once
>>35523697what is the trick? I've considered maybe using t gel on my dick but idk if that will fuck with my levels.
>>35523748Thats the trick. Get on finasteride and use cream to slightly bump your T. You stay mostly feminized but masculinize slightly.
>>35523508i'm sorry anon. ftm here and since my wife's egg cracked we're both very hot for each other. wish you had more support. t4t love can be really amazing.
me and my very long term partner transitioned together we broke up when we realized we had always been each others beards and now we hunt tops together
>>35523508>pre-Tfound your problem
