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how far would you go? how much would you do / take from them?
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no doms???
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i wanna a manlet to dom me
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>>35721428
only if you are a switch and wanna dom me sometimes too
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>>35721438
>only if you are a switch and wanna dom me sometimes too
in which way you wanna be dommed?
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The idea of bottoming makes me feel ill
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>>35721186
As long as I'm sure it's actually consensual I will basically do anything
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>>35721486
>anything
what the cruelest you wanna do?

>>35721477
>bottoming
so you are just a top
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>>35721461
tease and bully me, make me worship your body, sit on my face, idk stuff like that
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>>35721523
>tease and bully me
do you think i wouldn't do this when you dom me?
>make me worship your body, sit on my face
yes, it's a good stuff. If you into foot fetish it's cool. It all sounds really funny
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>>35721186
In every sense of the word that matters, me. I'm assertive, competitive, aggressive when it's called for, I go after what I want and usually get it, I naturally take a leadership role and do well in that position, and people generally listen to me and respect me. The same applies to sex and relationships.

However I like proper submissive subs who actually want to please me and follow my lead. Not cringey little internet-addicted masochists who will roll their eyes if we're not literally ruining each others' lives in pursuit of orgasm. Your porn-fried dopamine receptors are not my problem. I've got more important shit going on in my life. Take that as you will
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>>35721563
> I'm assertive, competitive, I go after what I want and usually get it, I naturally take a leadership role and do well in that position, and people generally listen to me and respect me. The same applies to sex and relationships.
Good stuff

>However I like proper submissive subs who actually want to please me and follow my lead. Not cringey little internet-addicted masochists who will roll their eyes if we're not literally ruining each others' lives in pursuit of orgasm.
I'm not like this, but i'm not proper submissive for you, i guess)))

Not bad.
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>>35721563
don't think there are many ppl who want a proper power dynamic outside of the bedroom
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>>35721691
>outside of the bedroom
it could be interesting, but i'm a bad girl
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>>35721186
I consider myself a Dom, meaning I like to take charge in the bedroom and be in control of my partner's orgasm. I like CNC, petplay, humiliation of many kinds, spanking etc.
I do not vibe with power dynamics outside of the bedroom, if I'm in a relationship with someone. Are we fuck buddies? Sure, I can treat you like a cumrag everytime I see you, but if we're in a relationship I like a partner who's independent, has goals and does stuff for themselves. It makes the bedroom dynamic even hotter to be fair.
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>>35721555
>do you think i wouldn't do this when you dom me?
bit of brattiness sounds fun
>If you into foot fetish it's cool
personally your thighs and ass would be better but it's nicer when the dom would tell me which body parts i should focus on
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>>35721754
hot
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>>35721754
>I like a partner who's independent, has goals and does stuff for themselves. It makes the bedroom dynamic even hotter to be fair.
I understand about what you are talking.

Not bad.
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I just wanna be a service top
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>>35721844
>it's nicer when the dom would tell me which body parts i should focus on
don't fall in submission too much.
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>>35721964
>service top
sub, shut the fuck up
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>>35721754
Can I be your cumrag? :3
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>>35721972
don't think we would match then
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>>35721990
fuck off
this thread only for op and doms!
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>>35721984
There is no need to be rude..
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>>35722006
i think a dom should be able to choose their sub, so you have to put up with competition sweetie
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>>35721563
>However I like proper submissive subs who actually want to please me and follow my lead. Not cringey little internet-addicted masochists who will roll their eyes if we're not literally ruining each others' lives in pursuit of orgasm. Your porn-fried dopamine receptors are not my problem. I've got more important shit going on in my life. Take that as you will
this
gooners are insufferable and ruin it for everyone
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i can play the part of dominant bottom, however in reality i am very submissive and really just want to please me man. also i love getting fucked so there's that
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I have a lot of cluster B traits and I fantasise about being a serial killer but have just enough empathy not to be
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>>35721186
Most "doms" are just selfish and don't do anything for your
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>>35722039
>you have to put up with competition sweetie
i'm too strong to be dommed by any of you))

>>35722037
>There is no need to be rude..
sorry, service top, you can speak here if you want))))

>>35722098
>Most "doms" are just selfish and don't do anything for your
the same for the subs actually)))

>>35722085
not a dom

>>35722093
to psych ward it
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>>35722118
>i'm too strong to be dommed by any of you
I doubt that, rather, I believe you might be stronger than the average, but I'm not average.
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>>35721754
Best kind of partner. I need someone who treats me like a useless sex toy inside the bedroom, and a cherished piece of art normally.
You're gonna make someone like me very happy anon.
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is this the thread where i can get a dommy mommy?
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>>35721298
here's your dom sis
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>>35722228
>I doubt that, rather, I believe you might be stronger than the average, but I'm not average.
Ok, actual dom is here. I'm happy. I would give you a shot.

Very good.
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>>35722256
rock bottom joke
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>>35722256
i'm good at manipulating the DOM, is this a good thing?
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>>35721563
>However I like proper submissive subs who actually want to please me and follow my lead.
Elaborate a little? I do like to please. I have a little issue where I get an urge to resist after a while even if I want and enjoy what's happening, but even a little pushback on that and I go right back to happy. I don't know precisely how much sub you're seeking though...

>Not cringey little internet-addicted masochists who will roll their eyes if we're not literally ruining each others' lives in pursuit of orgasm.
This won't be an issue as I am quite easily satisfied even if things are fairly vanilla; one of my absolute favorite things is just to kiss as long and often as possible.
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>>35721691
Depends what you mean by "proper." Power dynamics in relationships naturally occur when one person has more of a leader personality and the other is content to follow a leader. That works really well. But 24/7 power-games and degradation are not something I want in my life. Some of you honestly need to get a life and stop centering everything around sex and kinks
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>>35722332
I'm not a fan of html because I really want to be the most correct and efficient I can with my coding and the equivalent to that in html would be memorizing all the dozens of different tags and attributes that can all be made to render in the exact same way
I wish html was just primitives, like, seriously, why is it so bloated? do you know what a <dfn> tag does without looking it up? do you remember when to use <area>? what about <samp>?? why have all these random tags when it just ends up with people abusing the top 5...
I kind of get the idea of trying to be very semantic about what you're writing, but html doesn't feel like the right way to do it
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>>35722379
>But 24/7 power-games and degradation are not something I want in my life
Just sounded like you wanted something more like a D/s thing outside of the bedroom and not just where one partner is more assertive and leads the other. but what you said is way more reasonable and kinda nice
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There's not much I actively want in the bedroom, I have specific shit I'm INTO but basically all of it is stuff that only works if my partner is also really into it, cause their reaction is the whole point. Fucks up a lot of options for dating, especially around here, because my ability to dom hinges on what my partner is looking for out of it, their ability to communicate it, and their ability to convince me they aren't retarded when they say they want something really fucked. I think I could do CNC shit with the right contexts but most people - again, especially around here - come across as just horribly mentally ill and impulsively trying to make themselves worse rather than just having a weird fetish. I don't want to add to someone's inevitable mental break, ESPECIALLY not with someone I am likely dating. If you want to be 'used and abused' you're going to have to convince me you can handle it and also contend with the fact it doesn't come naturally to me.
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>>35722491
>, I have specific shit I'm INTO but basically all of it is stuff that only works if my partner is also really into it, cause their reaction is the whole point
pls, tell us what you're into
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>>35722430
Yeah like I'm talking about a proper relationship between two people that isn't entirely consumed by roleplay, even if it gets rough or kinky in the bedroom sometimes. I think people can fall into "dominant" and "submissive" roles in a natural and subtle way that isn't even a kink, even though it's hot to play that up at horny times, the entire relationship dynamic doesn't have to be constructed around kink

Some people calling themselves "subs" aren't really submissive - they just have an insatiable masochistic drive, often with a hyperspecific laundry-list of kinks, and they're very pushy and obnoxious about it. And they imagine that a "real dom" is someone who thinks of nothing all day except "putting them in their place" and consensually abusing them

These are the types who come on the internet whining about a "top shortage" or "WHERE ARE THE REAL DOMS?!" because they can't find anyone willing to make it a full-time job to service their kinks to their exact specifications
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>>35722530
such people want just a kink dispenser
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>>35722118
>not a dom
yes i am
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>>35722530
>the entire relationship dynamic doesn't have to be constructed around kink
Yeah I wouldn't want that.

>an insatiable masochistic drive
No thank you, vulnerability is hot, pain/humiliation is not.

I kinda just like to make my partner happy, and I'm pretty flexible in what I'll do to make that happen. That's not to say I don't have kinks of my own, but they are more fun side things, not necessary at all.
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>>35721186
>tfw a powerful man will never force you to your knees and ram his cock down your throat whilst calling you his little cumslut
>tfw a powerful man will never grope you from behind, force you to the ground and pound your tight little ass
>tfw a powerful man will never flip you over and chokefuck you until he explodes inside you right as you fall unconscious
Why live?
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>>35722530
>WHERE ARE THE REAL DOMS?
OP here. I created this thread as a meme on another thread but about bottoms.

In general, you are right and I agree with you. Hope you will find your love. You sound like a sane person.
kill all subs and doms
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>>35722728
>if "powerful" means confident, gets what he wants
based
>>if "powerful" means just physical strength
cringe
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>>35722728
i said this thread not for you, retarded sub
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tops are supposed to cater to bottoms' needs first, domming is simply a convoluted way of saying "sit back and relax, bottom."
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>>35721186
I'm MtF and had some younger guy on craigslist hit me up saying how much he was going to dom me, and put me in my place and make me his bitch. He picked me up in this old car with a big back seat, We got to a secluded area and got in the back, he had handcuffs but I didn't feel submissive in his presence at all, so I got ontop of him and started making out, it got hot, I had him pinned dow, he was really into it, I ended up fucking him in that car til the sun was coming up. At one point I had him handcuffed to the rails for the convertible top he had. First time I ever got to do that, it was a hot night.
I find that there are a lot of insta-doms who just like to talk, but when you meet them they don't know what to fucking do.
I taught that guy a lesson that night that really wasn't the dom he thinks he is.. and he loved it, he would not let my cock leave his ass, and the more he leaned into me, the harder I would give it to him.
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>>35722760
Both. I just wanna be used by a buff 6'2" Chad who loves me but can't help himself from getting off on hurting me. Watching me squirm in pain taps into his primal urge to conquer and after he's finished using me we spoon and he holds me tightly in his strong arms and whispers that I'm his woman and he wants to protect me even from himself.
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>>35722760
I'm sorry daddy, I think you need to punish me and teach me a lesson about doing what I'm told :3
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some people really don't know that dom !== abusive
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>>35722946
I only abused women when they paid me to do it
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>>35722946
But if he doesn't hit me and risk going to jail how am I supposed to know he really loves me?
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>>35722853
Yikes, you sure taught him a lesson, alright. I sure do hope my bottom never turns the tables on me like that. The mere thought of it is very troubling indeed
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>>35722530
youre talking about being socially submissive. people are just talking about sexual submission. a lot of socially dominant people can be sexually submissive
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need dom bf who turns me into a whimpering mess and then we go out for coffee and/or ice cream
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>>35721186
like 90% of the time i'm a sweet sub but if you push enough and actually piss me off i won't mind choking you with my monster hands and maybe digging my poorly filed nails into whatever i can grab.
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>>35723001
Sup
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>>35723117
hey, what's poppin
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Sex scares me altogether
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>>35722981
I feel like a dom should look like he's actually seen the inside of a gym once in a while. This guy was taller than me, but anytime he would put his hands on me I could just feel his weakness.. I think he knew it too when he was ontop of me for like 2 seconds and I threw him underneath me before he even knew wtf happened.
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>>35723169
>Sex scares me altogether
in any scary situation - punch in the nose
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>>35723160
Struggling to not fall asleep while watching YouTube
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>>35723183
wish to have your skills, sis

doms shouldn't give up like this. it's cringe
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>>35722530
lmao holy shit it's nice to see someone writing this in plain text. I am so fucking tired of babytrans people being like "i'm a bottom uwuuuuuuu" and violently combusting if someone even implies they would make the first move or be socially forward whatsoever. You're not a sub you're just a lazy cunt who wants someone else to be so wildly into you that they swoop in and catalyze every fantasy you could dream of without you even having to ask for it. So you want to be worshipped and have every one of your demands met by someone obsessed with you? Sounds pretty dominant sis, may I please give you a footrub after I cook your favorite dinner tonight and then beg you to wear the sexy lingerie I bought for you? Oh but of course you'll be bottoming, so that means you're submissive.
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>>35723278
Idk what worse actually, when they are like this or when they are clingy masochistic shit wanted to be punched and slapped and do bad for this and would say how stupid they are, how bad they are, how they can't do anything. They are pathetic and disgusting creatures without social life. It's so selfish. They aren't subs.
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>>35722491
this >>35722520 anon
I must know
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>>35723413
yeah in one case they're looking for a life coach and in the other case they're looking for a therapist. I've seen subby people unironically saying that having a domme would fix them because then someone would be telling them what to do all the time. Truly they do not understand what doms are actually interested in participating with.
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>>35723463
>a life coach and in the other case they're looking for a therapist
of course, for free))))

If i'm so weak, stupid and pathetic how even anybody can be interesting in me? could be cool have a smb who help me in life, but who cares lol?

people treat me as a dom all the time, it's sad
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>>35722520
>>35723446
Had an appointment had to run to.
It's not that interesting. Like, take choking for example. I like the way some people get when you choke em, but the act itself doesn't do much for me, y'know? If someone wasn't into choking it wouldn't be fun.
The weirdest fetish I got is picrel or maybe petplay, but with that it's really just the more typical shit, anything getting into "you have to sleep in a cage and eat out of a bowl and walk on all fours" I'm indifferent towards; only really interested in doing it if my partner really wants to.
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>>35724256
nta, but you like brushing your subs teeth? or is it just generally taking care of them/seeing how they get when you take care of them
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>>35724256
Yea that's fair. Immersion factor is big imo, way more satisfying when you're both into it. Certain level of gratification when your partner reciprocates. Tend to get too caught up in my own head worrying about it otherwise.
>anything getting into "you have to sleep in a cage and eat out of a bowl and walk on all fours" I'm indifferent towards; only really interested in doing it if my partner really wants to.
Pretty common tbf. Kinda ties in with the gratification etc. above in my experience. Super fun and hot seeing them melt like putty, even if you're not big on it.
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what I HATE is the people who lie and say they are dominate, but then are actually submissive in person.
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>>35724347
I guess the later? Can't really imagine wanting to do any kinda 'caretaker' role stuff if the person you're doing it for seems to dislike it or just not care at all. I think the act in specific is cute, and also just kind of awkward and a little bit patronizing, which can throw em off and get the reaction(s) I'd be looking for.
>>35724471
>Super fun and hot seeing them melt like putty, even if you're not big on it.
Pretty much exactly this, yeah.
Worth noting some shit doesn't reach that point though, even after seeing how into it someone gets. Had an ex who was into watersports (them on the receiving end) and even though I could tell they were into it I was just, eh. I'd do it again but still wouldn't get anything out of it. Still feel like I'm still only into choking for the reaction it brings but I couldn't really say what the defining difference is.
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>>35724629
I typically lean pretty submissive overall but that doesn't mean I automatically have to be that way in the bedroom or even in all relationships.
If you're going to insist that you need someone who does that song and dance 24/7 then I would assume you either don't realize what you're actually asking for, or actively want something that's got a non zero chance of you winding up dead in a ditch.
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I'd like to coldly and autistically apply various stimuli to a nude transgirl, but I don't believe this is what most people mean when they want a dominant partner.
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>>35724847
can I be a test subject
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>>35721186
I only dom for money. I go as far as the client is willing to pay for.
>t. tranny
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>>35724847
>I'd like to coldly and autistically apply various stimuli to a nude transgirl, but I don't believe this is what most people mean when they want a dominant partner.

not bad
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>>35724859
It depends. What makes you believe you're well suited for the role? It's best if you're highly emotional and responsive.
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need me a top to beat the shit out of me and give me scars >.<
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>>35724960
hey faggot
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>>35724972
hiiiii
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>>35725028
you're going to look so pretty covered in scars for me
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>>35725037
discord or xmpp?
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I can't dom but I like the idea of seeing one man get brutally dommed/cucked/humiliated by a stronger better man and don't mind being the conduit
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>>35725041
discord
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>>35725079
82ikal :33
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>>35725073
hot, sadly i'm only into other guys that are also twinks
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>>35725073
Based
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>>35724722
Can you stop projecting ??? I literally never said any of that nor did I imply it. I literally said that people like to over play how "dominate" they are, but they aren't at all. maybe you are on of those people and it hurts to hear, but you gotta just look at yourself honestly.
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>>35725073
Cage me, please.
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>>35725097
>>35725099
>>35725226
I'm actually really happy this idea has some positive reactions lol
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>>35721186
im a switch desu i just wanna fuck
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>>35725197
I mean I said I was making an assumption. You know a lotta people unironically want some Fifty Shades type shit right? Despite that objectively being an abusive relationship. I see complaints like yours a lot and most of the time when you dig for details they also just describe an abusive relationship. Others are really adamant that lying about ones role is really common in T4T but I cant speak to that.
Also I directly told you what I was. Being weirdly defensive just makes me think I was right in my assumptions.
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>>35725698
Fair enough fren, sorry for getting mad at you just don't like assumptions. I mostly mean in the bedroom lol. I don't think the idea of structuring your ENTIRE relationship around BDSM is really all too healthy.
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>>35725594
You have exactly the right idea about it. Even if you don't feel particularly dominant, I bet you can grow into what we'd like to see in the role!

t. >>35725226
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>>35721186
I don't do blood or scat play and pet shit is cringe. You get locked or tied to whatever is handy. Vibes or plugged to keep what I leave in. Blindfolded to keep you to your own thoughts. If company is over, you're gagged. Touch and sense play when I feel like it. When you're loose to do chores, don't stop when I bend you over. Be ready with my books and booze. Conversant when told to speak.
For games, I allow you to go first.
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>>35725785
Tell me more about what you would like about this dynamic/role?
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>>35725822
I have a strong craving for masculinity, both in myself and others. At the same time I feel an essential inclination towards submission. Even if in my regular life I'm normal or even a hard-ass, in the bedroom I want all that power stripped away instead. Chastity is a huge kink of mine as it's the ultimate in removal, and a constant reminder too.
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>>35721186
Im only dominant out of frustration and disgust. I just want lovey dovey intimate sex but bottoms need abuse and degradation and think less of you if you arent interested in providing it. So I dom them with no aftecare and let them realize that I care just as little about their sexual needs as they do about mine. If im just an actor in a porno they shoot in their heads, then theyre just an onahole.
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The world of bdsm is full of poor communication/understanding and a great deal of assumption that any given dynamic must always look like X or Y default template or else it isn't "real". There are simply too many variables to qualify or deny a role like Dom or Sub from being genuine so to speak.

One can be a cartoonishly exaggerated alpha wolf CEO muscle chad and be submissive in bed. Or vis versa, or anything in-between.

It get's even more convoluted with subs wherein you anything have people who literally want to be abused, total submissives who simply find joy in being told what to do whatever that thing is, people who want varying degress of 24-7 to Scene only dynamics, dynamics encompassing both kink and vanilla aspects of life, people who want to be "dominated" but only in such an exacting and particular way that they hardly seem to be a sub at all and are really just a Dom themselves seeking a pleasure top, not to mention differing levels of emotional maturity as well as the entire concept of brattiness. Lots of extreme and 24/7 dynamics could actually be more likely to work and be healthy if people took the time to communicate properly and understand what they even want themselves before reaching out into the world and ending up in some awful nightmare scenario.

Too many people get bogged down in semantics and surface level assumptions rather than explaining what any particular dynamic or role means to them and why. Thus you end up with situations like endless confused subs unsure as to why their empty and generic posts asking for a "true" Dom aren't working, unable to comprehend subjectivity and the fact that nobody can read their minds.
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>>35725953
Very true, there needs to be mutual understanding where both parties understand that they're both human beings. You can't hypocritically just expect drama and acting from someone and expect to have all your needs and desires filled without ensuring the reverse is also true.

Especially toxic in long term 24/7 dynamic where subs require nonstop thespian level nonsense from their Dom or else they roll their eyes. They're either a maniacally bratty sub or a Dom who wants to command their sub to Dom them, and they can't realize or articulate it whatsoever.
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>>35725953
They're getting exactly what they want and you're hurting yourself in the process of giving it to them
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>>35726203
This is the truth and why I just stopped playing the game anymore. I'd gladly pick through a million people to find someone who doesn't expect me to larp the entire time, and I basically have at this point, but I've found some real options finally. If they don't work out, well, there's always suicide.
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>>35726124
>Thus you end up with situations like endless confused subs unsure as to why their empty and generic posts asking for a "true" Dom aren't working, unable to comprehend subjectivity and the fact that nobody can read their minds.
just wanna remind that it's the mirror thread, but about doms. don't be so mean lol
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>>35726349
Not attempting to say anything cruel, most humans and most subs can communicate just fine and are perfectly reasonable. Just referencing an observable phenomenon in myriad communities and subreddits etc resulting from some people having difficulty understanding what they want and then conveying that to others.
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>>35726265
Good luck! Is it that hard to find vanilla bottoms where you are, or ones with normie-tier levels of kink?
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>>35726124
This extends to relationships as a whole, not just sexual dynamics, but you're exactly right. Emotional intelligence, a willingness to communicate, and self awareness, are all in agonizingly short supply.
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>>35721186
Probably not very many, especially not mtfs. More than none
>how far would you go?
It depends on how well the sub lines up with my autistic special interests. No I won't elaborate even as anon
>how much would you do / take from them?
If you know what HDG is, sometimes I kind of want to be the plant. If not, I guess "all the way" is a decent short version
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>>35726435
Oh them being vanilla or not isn't the issue. Most of the people who catch my eye end up being into some more out there stuff. I have limits, but in regards to BDSM stuff, the issue is just that the average person who WANTS to be treated rough is terrible at communicating what they want or thinks that telling me what they want and setting up boundaries ruins the experience. So, really, it's about people actually being mature.
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>>35727003
You originally said you really only want lovey dovey sex and you dominate because it's expected of you >>35725953
Or did you just randomly reply to a post that wasn't replying to you?
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>>35721186
my hard limit is permanent damage. (and scat or vomit.) anything else? they ask, they get.
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>>35727045
There's no rules or expectations, written or unwritten, on who can reply to what, anon.
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>>35721186
sometimes, some rare times, i encounter someone who's got The Vibes. they just radiate something that makes me go "gods i want to make you melt. i would do it with my ropes and my steel crop and my floggers. i shall make you fly just to get to see you float."

and sometimes i meet someone and i think "please.. make me hurt good"

switches have more fun!
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hsts mtf that wants to Dom colored trannies. either that or just bottom and be dommed by men. basically the only things I'm into
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>>35726988
based affini enjoyer

t. wishes to be floret
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>>35725606
what turns you on?
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>>35721186
I feel like only bi/straight men can be actually fully dom. Most exclusively gay men are somewhat effeminate and essentially switches.

Literally every single gay man i have met both IRL and online wanted to get fucked without exception. I'm convinced 'total tops' aren't even real.
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>>35721186
i layed on top of a girl once and i kissed her and she got flustered and i got rly proud does that make me a dom?
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>>35721186
I would trap them under my blanket and not let them out anymore aka total domination.

Something I like to think about is branding/tattooing someone with symbols of ownership; that's probably the most extreme thing I want to do.
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>>35726203
>They're getting exactly what they want
no lol, they genuinely break without aftercare because it makes them realise they truly are worthless
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>>35722884
you have been deemed based
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>>35721563
>I like proper submissive subs who actually want to please me and follow my lead.
that's hot
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>>35722231
I hope so. It's been a hot minute since I've been with someone since I don't really care much about the dating scene offered by apps.
>>35722289
I don't know if being strong is what makes me a Dom. I just really fucking hate people trying to control me. Hypothetical: if you tried to call me a good boy and push me down, I'd immediately grab you by the neck and slam you against the wall, and it would be a rage response, so not awesome really.
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There are no real male doms here OP; posting on this forum is feminine. The responses you'll get are just vaguely top oriented bisexual males who want a bedroom-only scenario with the occasional CNC scene.

Real men don't waste time on here.
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>>35721563
Ya, the /lgbt/ "submissives" are like all neets that want genuine harm. I'm pretty submissive but more-so want to be like "second-in-command" but still submissive to someone rather than just a weak little bitch to everyone.
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>>35729541
>Real men don't waste time on here.
they do, but not this board
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>>35729443
>if you tried to call me a good boy and push me down, I'd immediately grab you by the neck and slam you against the wall, and it would be a rage response, so not awesome really.
fuck maybe i'm a stupid sub, but it sounds sooo hot. It's very fun and what I want.

Actual Dom is here. Good boy.
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>legbutt is taught for the umpteenth time about the difference between actual kink dynamics and fucked up terminally online fetish chasing
Should we have weekly classes? Do we need to write it on the metaphorical walls? Is everyone's agp and/or hormones turning them into braindead rats pushing the "dom" button hoping for a spanking and a "good girl"? Please, listen to the folks above emphasizing communication and understanding each other. We have this thread way too much, and it's basically asking "is coffee good for you" in the gayest sense possible.
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im not dominant but im willing to top. in a neutral way
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>>35730017
Brat.
I know the game you play, dealt and dealing with some of your kind. I do like brats though, the teasing really fucks with my rationality and I lose a lot of restraint.
Good girl.
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>>35730536
man, just tell me how to spot somebody like you irl!!! i need it so baaaad
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>>35730611
I wouldn't know, I could ask you the same question to be honest: how do I find cute subs out in the wild?
The issue is that we don't wear our bedroom preferences on our faces, so only through some flirting we'd be able to recognise each other.
Don't lose hope though, we'll both find someone sooner or later.
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>>35730960
If you wanna proper brat sub I think you should look at dom traits in person, I have a lot of it. But. How to find cute? Idk)

Honestly i stand for dom4dom)))))) What can be better???
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>>35731141
Dom4dom sounds like a terrible idea, at least for me. Something something, Better to die on your feet than live on your knees.
I can be friends with Dom, sure, totally, sex? Maybe if we keep it neutral and we don't engage in any sort of power play. Anything else would call for violence.
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>>35731435
>Dom4dom sounds like a terrible idea
i think it can work if one is top and another is bottom, and good communication.

I'm not dom, sub, or switch. yeah, i hate all this terminology and should touch the grass, right? Right.

at least if you really liked my behavior, I have hope that would find somebody. Have a nice day))
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>>35730221
umm, ok..



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