for one it seems like nearly all guys who date trans women have a fetish. it feels like these guys dont care about my humanity or personhood so like idk weird... ig ill just fuck them right? well thats an issue too. guys cum wayyy too fast. its before i can even get close to cumming myself so it feels like miserable doing anything with them plus douching and shaving is a pain.i just feel used after getting with a guyi dont mean to dick ride women but istg even if some lesbian has a fetish for trans women they still treat me nice and show interest in my beyond my transness. like my bar is so low and yett. bi mtf
>>42655231stop talking to guys who are only interested in u sexually then. if they try to steer the convo in that direction, let em know politely thats not what ur looking for. as much as u say you dont want sex all the time, it sure seems like that's most of how ur relationships go.Or maybe dudes consider u fuckbuddy material but not wife material.
>>42655243>as much as u say you dont want sex all the timei never said this???also idk its hard to find guys who arent like that. they always focus in on how i look
idkijdki can't find anyone to date either it's crazy
>>42655260>>42655243but also id be down to find a guy to fuck but they all like cum in 5 minutes if they lasted longer id be happy
>>42655260well u kinda provin my point lass. if u truly want a wholesome chungus relationship, take sex out of the equation until youve been with them for several months. no matter how horny u get, dont expedite that stuff beyond maybe a picture here or there. i doubt youve done that, i bet u just give in to ur urges and fuck.>they always focus on how I lookdarlin unless u a model, they aint focusing in on how u look. they just test the waters and u fall for the bait every time. you strike me as quite the ditzy type, no offense.
>>42655281>. if u truly want a wholesome chungus relationshipi dont but as i said the sex sucks too
>>42655281>darlin unless u a model, they aint focusing in on how u look.i dont they theyd be into me if i didnt look feminine tbqh> you strike me as quite the ditzy type, no offense.youre the one who keeps assuming things
Besides sex, most cishet men I've met are pretty boring lol and it's the group of people who have discriminated against me the most. I stopped focusing on relationships a while ago honestlyAlso I made that drawing woahh
>>42655296then what DO you want idiot. u said people view u in a fetishistic way, but then u claim the sex sucks. so you'd like to be viewed in that way IF the sex is good? but then you also Don't wanna be viewed that way because you want a relationship where you're doted on and loved?>>42655305horny guys got a low level for standards, especially GAY or BI horny dudes. its why grindr has a "RIGHT NOW" option whereas tinder simply has "open to exploring short term". they know their demographic well.And yes. you are ditzy asf based on our conversations. but dw some guys are into that.
you know guys can have sex more than once at a time right?
>>42655329yeah idk there seems to be nearly no pros for men in dating compared to women>Also I made that drawing woahhi stole it (-:< also i enjoyed ur post>>42655330> u said people view u in a fetishistic way, but then u claim the sex sucks. i mean itd be nice w/o the fetish i think but idk. its more so that despite all their interest the sex just sucks idk anon. >. its why grindr has a "RIGHT NOW"i use hinge and tinder>>42655468idk about u but most guys are kinda spent after they cum
>>42655329also if u have more doodles id love to steal more
>how do i find men worth dating or even fucking
>>42655584It's so unfair that cis guys are so fuckin hot and make me go crazyzyzyzThank u :) it was shocking to see my own drawing on the catalog loll
>>42655584alright my point ain't gettin across. u def are the dumb blonde type. I think you might actually be pretty, but ur just a bit retarded. where u based?
>>42655639I haven't posted any more doodles here but maybe I will :P
>>42655649yeah physically i find men super attractive>>42655654you keep misinterpreting what i am saying so i think u win out on being a retard> I think you might actually be pretty,duh, i wouldnt transition if i look manly>>42655659yayy
>>42655688post a pic or smth. let's see if ur actually pretty or a liar. I'm a good looking dude myself and i've had the misfortune of my brain being attracted to trans girls. except most of em are not that cute at all
>>42655714ive been good about not posting my face on here anymore so im sorry but ill have to decline, tho idk u can see my body if you want idk. im two weeks on E also also im not like super attractive i just look androgynous. most ppl call me "cute" but ive never really had issues pulling ppl. i have that artsy/nerd lookanyways all compensate for lack of face w more statsHeight: 5'9 Weight: 175 lb Waist: 31Hips: 39Bi-deltoid: 21
>>42655884sorry i should have proof read this lmao
>>42655231skill issue>bi mtfso a transbian. got it. this is why you will never find a good man and end up going t4t. sorry, I don’t make the rules. >inb4 copebi trannies always get so mad when i say this, but every single one ends up with a cis woman or a trans woman and ends up apologizing. enjoy your fate
>>42655910yeah it does seem like dating men is a nightmare. i think im better off dating women lol.
>>42655910>so a transbian. got it. this is why you will never find a good man and end up going t4t. sorry, I don’t make the rules. also i like the idea that all the good men are hiding from me cus i date women
>>42655884I only wanted to see the body, not the face. and yeah just like I guessed, ur normal, it's not super feminine. MY waist and hips are better than urs and im the epitome of masculinity hahahaha get mogged
>>42655231wya op
>>42656031>I only wanted to see the body, not the face.who says they want to see if someones pretty and doesnt mean their face? >MY waist and hips are better than ursidk y u are trying show off how feminine you look but go off girl> hahahaha get moggedy no pics?>>42656049why do you ask?
>>42656080>why do you ask?im a top bi dude that likes tranners
>>42656080I'm not feminine at all. I am simply saying my ratios are superior to yours despite being a masculine, muscular dude. I don't post photos on here, I look quite unique and I've seen them be reposted a few times. Maybe if I added you I'd show you to mog u to death, but alas.As for your question, the body usually follows the face. If I see a trans girl with a body that's mid, her face is almost always mid. and vice versa.
>>42656124im confused as to why you have gotten meaner and meaner throughout the post. idk what i did to make u feel the need to be so rude> I look quite unique and I've seen them be reposted a few timeslol im sure you do
>>42655231I'm saying this as a guy who is "worth dating" and is a chaser, but usually connects both emotionally and sexually with trans women.I almost never approach unless i'm given signals. I think most men who are looking for something longer and more deep will tend to have approach anxiety as we are constantly being told not to. The guys who do approach tend to either be the more abrasive types who don't really care to listen to the current rhetoric around dating or the guys too socially awkward to care. I think if you are kind of attractive the strat is to hang in a place where you regularly interact with people, and if you fancy a guy give him signals.
>>42656144It comes from a place of love darlin. Just glad to see that there's still ditzy chicks like you out here pondering on certain questions when the answer is literally right there.
>>42655231First one is free - blow him so he lasts longer in the next roundsMost do not care about you and do not want a relationship let alone a trannyYou should prob meet more people
>>42655231dating is skill based matchmaking but trans women hate it when i say that lol, you’re just getting matched in your “league”. higher quality men are either dating cis women or trans women with better prospects (university educated, top 1% passing, rich etc.)
>op asks how to find decent guys>guys reply>ghostsclassic
>>42656382I'm aware of that but I think I'm just pathetic and doomed to be alone. Without counting chasers in 4chan, I've gotten 2 guys kinda interested in me in my whole life. One of them was an ex classmate who blocked me everywhere after a few days and the other was a schizophrenic dude who flirted w me and blocked me everywhere after a few days too
>>42655231Older men last longer in bed and the sex tends to be genuinely so much better. They're also more willing to buy you stuff and take you out to places.
>>42656180i never thought about this in this way desu, as in approach anxiety also existing in straight men, as dumb as that soundsregarding ur third point i feel like uni is that sorta hang out place to meet ppl, and looks r of course important but desu as a tranny i just try to somewhat blend in and keep to myself, u could prob clock me from my somewhat alt/androgynous face irl but im always on the move so its hard to perceive me much iga few months ago I found a cute guy on here and we had some nice conversations about all kinds of stuff, and it felt really nice to talk to someone who's more "well adjusted" to "regular society" compared to me where i still dont do too well in it. so I kinda end up spending too much time on 4chan trying to find other nice ppl. anon nature is cool too.sry 4 rant
>>42656791I think approaching terminally online people will select for avoidance. This is why you hear a lot of stories about people randomly blocking people on here instead of having a conversation. I have my own issues but I fully know what im getting into and try my best to communicate. I never want to leave people on a high where everything seems fine and then "oops time to ghost"
>>42656926id love not to depend on 4chan for socializing (dont use twitter/instagram and barely use discord servers) but it feels hopeless, it feels really difficult to find meaningful socialization irl
>>42656513im not dating anyone off 4chan. i dont think thats a crazy boundary to have
>>42656180true, tbqh im bad at doing irl dating unless ive been friends w them for a while which sucks cus all my friends are women.>I think if you are kind of attractive the strat is to hang in a place where you regularly interact with people, and if you fancy a guy give him signals.this is prob the best for dating but im lazy /:>>42656211>calls me a retarded hon>i care about you>>42656382maybe?? but the cis women ive been able to date seem way more attractive to me then the men but also this isnt about physical attractiveness this is about behaviour >>42656776it grosses me out to think about dating anyone whos around my dads age
yeah it sucks. im prettier than i expected but i might as well be living in an apartheid state. i haven’t had sex in years. when guys hit on me i just kinda freeze up because after the whole “oh” after i say im trans i just don’t really want to feel that disappointment again so i avoid them
>>42655231>it feels like these guys dont care about my humanity or personhoodEveryone is an object of fetishization. Everyone. Boohoo, someone wants to fuck you. Congratulations on existing in the same reality as men do, idiot.
