question for straight trannieswhen you were early in your transition, did you become seriously attached to a man, whether a lover or a friend, and despite viewing him as a brother/father figure really wanted to make him sexually attracted to you? would you say that you had to learn to outgrow this person?as a straight tranny, i kind of imprinted on a guy when i was early transition last year and im curious if this is a common experience
straight trans women are just larping gay men
>>42782865yes but i have bpd
>>42782865im not straight anymore but i thought i was at the time if that counts (im bi now)and yeah i literally had exactly that with my best friend and over the course of time i learned to accept that he would never see me that way and is just a really good personwere still good friends though
>>42782865i did, and he was in a relationship and i still had these weird feelings. he initiated cuddling with me and i agreed to because of this, and we did that a couple of times. no sex stuff at all, but still. it was so fucked up. we stopped talking. looking back, it's really weird he asked me to do that. he said it was because he's touch starved, but he was in a relationship with a girl? idk. i should've told him no and maybe we would still be friends.
>>42782887Before I was trans I was a straight boy, I found my love for a man after hrt
>>42782887i was into girls before hrt but i date guys now
>>42783157>>42783147Meta-attraction
>>42782865in high school (and pre-transition) he and i were in the same friend group and our group would have sleepovers at one friend's house. one night we spooned - he the big spoon, me the little spoon - and i really liked him. now he is married which makes me happy but i still feel a bit raw about it. like idk what the hell that was.
bisexual here but this did happen with me just under a year into my transition. one of my best friends i’d known about a year pre transition and he definitely matched the sweet kind of masculine man i’m into. i was lucky enough for him to reciprocate and ask me out and explicitly say how exactly he was attracted to me. it was super affirming and the dates were cute, sex was okay. after a bit the relationship kinda rubbed up against our other mutual friendships and art projects so we friendzoned each other and it was awkward but now he’s even closer of a friend and more like a big brother to me. unfortunately he started dating another trans woman recently who passes way better and is way more normal than me and i got too jealous and felt really bad about it. guess that shows im still super attached but im trying to just get over it
I mean I’m bi but currently crushing super hard on my best friend and I wonder if this is like real or it’s the hormones making my brain melt. Then again I did have some degree of feelings for him even before I started hrt
>>42783222Trannies can't even find men attractive without 4chan armchair psychiatrists diagnosing them with a paraphilia these days
>>42784016Yes, was my a close friend from 2010-2017 that I grew attached to more and more over that time while hanging out. It would have never happened, he was already seeing someone, and I had no chance over her.One day, I just disappeared, removed him off everything and didn't reply to his messages when he tried for my own sake to try and move on. I still very much have feelings to this day for him, like it's 2026, and I still think about him regularly.
>>42782865nowe just fucked
>>42782865I didn't have friends or anyone to get attached toSpend months alone in my roomGetting high, posting otb
>>42782865No, not really.But then again, I was a lonely bitter incel and I was busy building a personality before daring to date. Didn't have a true friend when I started. And then later on I made mostly cisf close friends.I'm still shocked, almost a decade later, how well things fit together in retrospect.
