Just lost my trans friend group after the Melody video. both of them are a "there's no wrong way to be trans" "passing doesn't exist" "trying for that beauty standard is misogynistic" I feel like they are wrong but losing them hurts. Only person that stay's with me is a really sweet chaser.
>>42845167It’s all so tiresome
>>42845167>theres no wrong easy to be trans>most no voice training voice everi hate hons
>>42845183So called kill all 4chaners when she has no other community anymore :<
>>42845235Worse, they're both passoids and I'm the one that doesn't pass
>>42845246i'm referring to the video itself
>>42845271its's so frustrating, like i'm glad that you're not as dysphoric as me but please don't sabotage us
>>42845167alright nona, what was it you actually said to them because that's a detail very conveniently left out.
>>42845183It feels like I'm not allowed to be dysphoric because my dysphoria "comes from 4chan" but they can because they recognize that some women are masculine but they just don't like the masculine features
>>42845167Most of my friends are cis women now but got hit with the passing culture is toxic from my uni queer group. I just made friends elsewhere and do what I want, they can live in permanent victimhood.
>>42845313>Cis women look masculine sometimes, Cis men look feminine sometimes, everyone looks **different**This idea that 4tranners dream up that there is an ideal body to strive for is no different than a misogynistic individual stating that only thin waisted, big tit and assed, blond girls are the only ideal women. ITS LOONEYeven cis girls want that, it's a beauty standard>No not always, get your head out of your ass. It's an idea dreamed up by patriarchysame ways it's not always that case for trans women>Yea and the ones who do are literally brainwashed by misogyny and patriarchy and need to wake tf and do better, like you.same thing with cis women>Good job on making no point
>>42845327insane how seemingly progressive groups can't understand that passing is about safety for some of us. but they want only trans women to break gender norms by not passing, having body hair, being masculine.
>>42845370Seems like their issue wasnt that they were dumb trannies but dumb feminist trannies, which make them fem brained and obviously they would pass.
>>42845404While some I still talk too, most of them are insufferable to be around. They put zero effort into anything and it feels like they just use progressive talk to justify their jealousy and put others down for their learned helplessness. Like I really wanted to tell the most annoying person there that of course you don’t pass, you take the lowest dose of oral E and spend all your spare time playing gatcha games over learning how to groom yourself and don’t set aside money for anything important.
>>42845167Who cares
>>42845487>they just use progressive talk to justify their jealousy and put others down for their learned helplessnessYou've got the nail on the head. This is the real goal. They don't want to improve anything about themselves because that's too much like hard work. It would be much nicer if everyone else changed to suit their needs
>>42845602It really sucks just how common it is, it's in every uni and online space
I don't even talk about 4chan around them they just bring it up and then get angry about it
>>42845696Yeah well the real world doesn't give a shit. Time to develop a personality and relationships beyond being queer
>>42845821my friendship with them was 3 years long and I have other friends, I just feel betrayed that the "woke" one with two other trans women turned out like this
>>42845404I never understood that, like I'm striving for looking like a woman, not a man who dresses like one, isn't that like the whole point of being trans? Matter of fact, for me personally I don't even like the girly clothes all that much, I'd much rather just go about being a woman who wears cargo shorts and t shirts everywhere like I do now as a manmoder
>>42845167western(ized) pseudo intellectual brain rot goes both ways, either nothing means anything so it's all oppressive stereotypes except their own preference, or genes literally caused what u had for breakfast today and determine how u live ur lifeu can either ignore ppl like u don't care or u have to change who u surround urself with tbqh
