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Transition is a personal choice you make. No one else is obligated to use your preferred pronouns or treat you like the opposite gender. Stop being control freaks.

When I see those videos of ugly trans women being like “it’s ma’am!!!!” I cringe so hard. You can’t police thoughts you can’t force people to view you as a woman.
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>>43144640
I agree. I have people at work sheing and hering me when I never told them to do that. I wish they'd cut it out desu but I won't force them
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>>43144718
That’s how it should be as a courtesy not an obligation
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>>43144789
Alright but if you have a problem with it you better take it up with the courteous people and not me. I didn't ask anyone to call me that, they forced it on ME.
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>>43144864
I don’t get what you’re saying. Ideally, we would just use whatever pronouns people prefer even if they don’t pass. I’m saying on a broader scale. You really can’t get upset if people don’t conform to our notion of gender. Because for most people, gender and sex are the same thing.
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>>43144869
I'm saying that, hypothetically, if you are someone who has a problem with people using she/her for me even tho I'm AMAB , you should take it up with those people. They chose to do it. Now I don't mind but I do know it's a little awkward for everyone else who doesn't share their beliefs. I never asked for this. I just want to do my thing and be left alone. That's all.
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>>43144897
Girl, shut yo bitch ass up
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>>43144640
None of us act like this, the people who behave like this are 50% crossies and 50% AI generated avatars

Every so often, you will actually have a situation which is basically a normal looking trans woman being verbally abused by people around her who get punished for bullying her and then whine they're being censored

Deliberate misgendering is basically like calling a Chinese guy chingchong
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>>43144908
You started this shit. Follow your own advice nigger.
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>>43144640
i think people become obligated to when you look like a woman
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>>43144936
Lily Tino got facial feminization surgery and plans on getting bottom surgery, but the bitch is still clockable. Presenting as a woman should be the indicator that you go by she/her pronouns.

It tends to be a pretty good rule to go by. I think only once when I used ma’am, the guy corrected me telling me he was just gay. But he was one of those long-haired wears make up and girl clothes type of gay guy.
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>>43144640
who taught you how to use 4chan, dad?



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