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I don't understand how other trannies are capable of believing they are women. No matter how horrible my dysphoria is on any given day or how often I realize that I have little to nothing in common with cis men, I just can't perceive myself as anything but a delusional man. Because of this I just can't bring myself to do anything in order to properly transition or address any of my dysphoria. I feel so disgusting even just trying put the slightest amount of effort into any of it, because it all just reminds that I'm just a man attempting to skinwalk someone I'll never be.
I feel like if I were actually capable of believing that I'm somehow genuinely a woman, I could transition without feeling so disgusting. Whenever I read about the experience of genuine trans women, I can't help but believe that transition is a necessity, but I just feel like a vain and disgusting narcissistic pervert for it all.
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>>44898202
me neither
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>>44898202
sucks to suck
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trans women are delusional men who crossdress
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>>44899238
nuh uh
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>>44900493
shaved men with long hair who wear dresses are never women
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Just take hormones and do ur best in regards to everything else in life. Hit the gym, brush after every meal, don't eat fast food, read books.
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>>44898202
You are doing this wrong. Being a woman is a lot of things. Part of it is physical transition. Part of it is integrating into women's social groups. Part of it is just experiencing social womanhood within society.

You aren't supposed to "feel like a woman", you are supposed to treat dysphoria. If you are a trans woman treating dysphoria properly, you end up being a woman in every sense that matters.

This is why I don't necessarily like gender being viewed in such a binary sense: are trans women actually women before we transition? Sort of. Some aspects of our identity are, many of the ones that can't be changed. That's why our bodies don't fit right, our social interactions feel forced, etc.

Was I a woman before I took any estrogen? Sort of. Plus, I was mostly part of women's friends groups before I transitioned. Am I a woman now? In every way that matters to me.

Don't think of being a woman as a binary thing that you are or are not. Think of treating gender dysphoria. Growing into womanhood is a process.

Is everyone going to accept you as a woman after you finish HRT, get bottom surgery if you want/have the money, make some new friends, pass, etc. well, if they know you are trans, not everyone as you see from the trolls here. But more people than you'd think if you spend your time on 4chan. TERFs and transphobes like to think everyone agrees with them, but I assure you that's not the case.

Transition was a necessity for me not to die. Not at first, when I came out at 6 my mom wasn't happy and I hid. But over the years everything got worse. It only hurt more until it was suicide or transition.

Basically: do your own reading. You are taking your body in your own hands and taking full responsibility for it. Read on what biological transition actually is. Decide if that's right for you.

I just hope my explanation was helpful, but it is only one experiance.
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>>44900585
I agree, femboys will never be real women. Trans women, on the other hand, are.
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>>44900639
trans women are men
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>>44900647
Transphobes are morons



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