was forced to be around males for most of my life, help
>>44960294its over >autismit was over before it even began
>>44960326where did autism come from
>>44960294Say one malebrained thing you do
>>44960360idk
>>44960360casually touching balls
>>44960294idk op i struggle with it myself and i feel like i'm inching closer towards genuine insanity surrounding my male brain status i try to wear a lot of make up and dress well and it helps a bit but I just feel so psychologically isolated from other women it's unbearable. Part of the problem is that I'm AGP and autistic and very good at masking, so I feel like it's basically impossible to form genuine relationships with women UNLESS they're also autistic as well, but those autistic women are usually very androgynous in personality so it doesn't really get my any closer to being fembrained desu
>>44960938we're literally in the exact same boat nona
>>44961976:( best of luck nona
>>44960294If you go to college or uni try to make friends, even if it's one or two, and go clubbing with them a few times. Same applies if you have coworkers who are cis try to be their friend and go out with them.Or you can just go to restaurants or cafes or whatever but for me clubbing was the biggest help because I was immersed in the experience of presenting and being treated as a woman from the streets to the bathroom, from getting catcalled, walking around until 4am, wearing cute outfits and taking Ubers to talking with other women in the bathroom while my friends peed.It's one of the most red-pilling experiences on womanhood because you see everything, you see how cis women put on band-aids over their heels in the bus to protect their feet from the cheap heels they bought that same day, you see the makeup slowly smudge or sweat off and the maintenance of it in the bathroom, but you also see the carelessness of the details, no contouring just re-applying eyeliner and lipstick. You see how packs of men try approaching you until the most annoying of the group shakes them off, you see how clocky the entirety of the female sex is in reality, when they aren't standing in front of cameras and behind filters wearing makeup that took 3 hours to apply.
>>44960294desu I don't understand this whole thing.if you have malebrain, how tf are you trans? if you have malebrain what's wrong with a malebody?never at any point have I not felt like my internal world is feminine...the whole point of transition was to change my body sex to match that
>>44962679>you see how clocky the entirety of the female sex is in reality, when they aren't standing in front of cameras and behind filters wearing makeup that took 3 hours to apply.good post mwah
the peak of being female is listening to men
>>44962679angelic mwahnon post. very good.
>>44960294>>44962679I also wanna add to this that fembrained/malebrained isn't really a thing in real life, I know some cis women who are the sweatiest of competitive video game sweats, girls who goon all day to some of the most depraved material, and just generally tomboyish behaviour. You learn at some point that liking a thing or two that are "malebrained" doesn't actually mean anything, there are plenty of cis women who love Warhammer, anime, or medieval stuff, and not even in a feminine way. I'm privileged enough to be friends with cis girls who are emotionally mature and woke so we even joke about tranny stuff, we joke about internet memes that are beneath taking seriously, etc.I sometimes show them snippets of the insanity (and honestly whimsy cuteness) of /tttt/ brainworms.
>>44960294listen to all episodes of the red scare podcast, you'll be feminized in no time
>>44960294That's the trans claim, no?That you already have a female brain. So if you have it, then be you. If you don'y have it, then you'e not trans.
>>44962679>how clocky the entirety of the female sex is in realityNo. they aren't. 99% of women look like women. 0 times have they been confused with a trans women.
>>44962797Unironically, not even as a meme, but touch grass. It happens more and more that cis women are mistaken for trans women because of the current trans panic but thankfully no one who cares about transphobia goes out to clubs/bars or out of the house in general.>0 times have they been confused with trans women.Got a chuckle out of me...Stop watching anime, take of the stripy socks and the spinny skirts, stop watching conservative grifters, and go out into the real world. Wide shoulders? Wait till you see the average cis woman of any ethnicity with a higher amount of testosterone. Long midface? Don't make me laugh. Remember to brush your hair and remember to use just a touch of skincare (you don't need a 12 part ritual).>>44962714>>44962741mwah
>>44962874They can have 1 of the male traits you mention. They still look like cis women. 99% of cis women, have been confused as trans, exactly 0 times.
>>44962914see >>44962874 Unironically, not even as a meme, but touch grass.
>>44962742>nooo actually real women are malebrained too!! ur just like them!!! very evil post mwah....
>>44960294the issue is that some cis women are literally just uninteresting and socially maladapted in the extreme. their communication patterns exist solely to play the constant hazing game that afabs are trained to play and they don't ever come up for air. these people crash out later in life but for now you're trapped trying to understand them and everyone blames you for being unable to do it. trust your gut, it's ok to avoid these people.
>>44962699I think all transgirls are fembrained, else they wouldn't be trans. I think the people who are insecure about being malebrained are people who, like OP, mostly interacted with men all their lives so even though they're fembrained, male social dynamics is all they know.I'm kinda the same, I was an only only child and only ever really hung out with boys as a kid but never really felt like "one of the guys" even though I really did try... a lot of that is autism of course but it never seemed to explain everything.in hindsight there were a lot of ways that I was more feminine than boys my age but how was I supposed to know that? Everyone thought I was a boy and expected me to act like a boy and I had no idea what the other side was like so I just coped and coped and coped until I couldn't cope any more and it took much longer than it should have.
>>44962797not quite 0 but yeah almost no cis women are clocky like where the fuck did that retarded proposition come from
>>44963295no i feel moidbrained even after pretty much only having real friendships with cis girls
>>44960294best way is to get a girl friend. I now have some black woman mannerisms after living with one for 5 years
>>44963295so malebrained = male socialized, except that it took instead of bouncing off like mine did? I don't understand how tf you could be trans feminine and not have always gravitated towards women. I've never felt comfortable or one of the guys, all my friends and inspiring figures were women...maybe there's some truth in the faketrans thing after all desu
>>44960294active listening and taking a passive role in a conversation. it is extremely difficult as an autist so i fail to do this constantly
>>44963451no that just makes you moidbraintransbians aren't women
>>44963672girl friend, not girlfriendyou can always trust insecure moidbrains to tell on themselves
>>44963720i concede that i am an insecure moidbrain but it was literally just a simple misunderstanding why be an assholeand that doesn't help anyway; i have basically only girl friends and am still moidbrain
>>44962679fetishistic postreal experience of femininity is being around sub 50 iq morons who'll chew your ears with judgemental garbage and somehow make themselves look like victims
>>44963789retarded postmoids are overall the more retarded sex in developed countries
>>44963789Are you one of those angry sissies I pissed off a while back? I'm pretty sure at least one of them is either a mod or literally hunts every single thread to see if I posted in it.
just bee yourself
>>44962742how do you get comfortable enough to be yourself around others?
>>44964133It wasn't easy, it really wasn't.For years I was a soulless wagie who was repping so I didn't actually care how I looked or what people thought and when I came out it took a few solid years to build up confidence, style, etc to actually start leaving the house more than once a month (for prescription). It was going to university that allowed me to ease myself into social life, even if it was extremely difficult for a bit to find the courage to go and not cry about it, which I did on my first day I was crying at the park on campus. I just don't talk to strangers and do my own thing, I read books, I order whatever I need, and talk to friends who all of them have approached me. I have a little Choso plushie on my bag and that's how one of my current friends approached me after class was done, another saw I was trans and immediately wanted to be friends, same with the third I guess, and I just talk to them when we go out.I came up with a very good and quick makeup routine that takes just about 20 minutes all included and doing your makeup well and quickly is something you learn by being forced to adhere to beauty standards on a daily basis instead of once a month. I used to do it for hours, sometimes redoing it entirely, because I would wear it once a month, but now I do it every morning. I also just wear normal clothes, usually wide pants and cropped sweaters, sometimes skirts and dresses, so that might also help with just living like a normal person out there instead of looking like the average twinkhon puppygirl, you know the ones with the layered tees, the ripped jeans, 10 chains, etc. I dress my age.Ultimately it comes down to not caring and just doing your own thing.
>>44963921maybe but it's easy to be alone as a man and tell others to fuck off
>>44962924Yes, in real life. Cis women aren't clocky. Vast majority. Close to 100% of them, have never been confused with a man. I've only met 1 woman who was 1.80 mts tall and was chubby. People called her "Sir'' sometimes, until she turned around and they saw her face. Then they were all apologetic after seeing she's a woman. Only 1 woman, her back was clocky. t. retail employee for over 5 years. Cis women aren't clocky. >you see how clocky the entirety of the female sex is in realityThe above is a ridiculous statement to make, and outright wishful thinking.
>>44962945>some cis women are literally just uninteresting and socially maladapted in the extremeAnd cis men aren't?
>>44960294honestly, as long as you do what make you happy, you'll forget how to males even think. i started at 19 and im 24 now and I can't understand males now. It's a totally different world from what I experience and I only have 2 male friends now, only because they're the only two males who don't annoy me.
>>44960294get off of 4chan to start
