hi guys. i'm really frustrated about people (specifically tumblrites) who make such a deal about listening to trans women and whatnot and then when i speak they suddenly don't listen to me ever. do you guys think that it's my personal failures as a human that makes that happen, as if i'm not allowed any sort of "good ending" to put it simply or are these people just jackasses. any similar experiences of people feigning near-servitude just to not even care really?running on no sleep so this may be badly worded