30+ thread - Last days of summer editionHow are you doing anon?Anything you are looking forward to?Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?Good how about you OP?>Anything you are looking forward to?New yob starting monday, cant wait it is a big step up.Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Stop with being comfortable rusting away in a dead end jobI cleaned up that one closet, you know which one.. And it made me feel alot better for some reason.
>>82347404Why does this general disappear for long periods of time and then randomly come back? It's the least consistent general on the entire board.Anyway, positive habits for me come and go. I guess it's good that I make a point of knowing when to say enough screen time, and force myself to do other things. Also summer is still around for 3 more weeks, technically.
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?bad, haven't had sex in 1 year 8 months>Anything you are looking forward to?hopefully a date with an 18 year old spanish virgin>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?started taking selfies like a woman/boomer when there is something cool so now i have more pictures of myself
>>82347449>Why does this general disappear for long periods of time and then randomly come back?because it doesn't even reach the bump limit usually
>>82347404anyone remember this shit?
>>82347436>Good how about you OP?Can't really complain, this week has been pretty good.>Stop with being comfortable rusting away in a dead end jobI feel this. I should have left years ago. Now I'm just another burnt out boomer just like my coworkers were 6 years ago.>>82347449Aso this anon said >>82347468 they die rather quickly.Also there is no dedicated OP as far as I know, I tried creating them now and then, different days and times, and the last one went pretty well so I thought about giving it another shot.>>82347481I remember neck pain from having the monitor to my left.Also gonna ask this>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?I always turn off the computer when it's time for dinner and I don't turn it on till the next day.After dinner if I'm at home I use that time for reading. Since I started doing this I'm reading way more than I did before.I also wake up 30 min earlier in the morning and read for a bit or maybe watch an episode from an old anime. Waking up to do something you enjoy really changes the overall mood of the day for me.
>>82347404its not that i want to die just yet, but i would accept not waking upprobably have high functioning depression heyput on a little weight (10kg), house is a mess, drink a little here and there, still go to work, hobbies and activities still don't hit like they used to. just feels like i am time traveling though my 30ssummer is coming, maybe this motorbike I bought will fix something in me, or kill me, lets see how we go
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?Terrible. My dad's 20th deathiversary is coming up. Had my mothers 10th in June.Just had my late grandpas birthday (d.2023), and also my own last week. Still incel.>Anything you are looking forward to?I'm 39 and so incel that I'll have to start using fags mouths.I wish I could even get some GILF cunny to nut in on a regular basis.Finally had a few claim to be DTF this year, before ghosting me anyway. Matches usually say nothing.>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Having an early night and waking at 0430 is pretty chill.Closest I can get to that based nocturnal feeling, while keeping a day pattern
>>82347436not sure which closet you meanthe mind?
>virgin>can't roleplay on Omegle cause they shut down Omegle>can't roleplay on f-list cause Texas banned lolicon>can't roleplay on /soc/ cause mods are banning end to end encrypted nsfw threadsI'm really sexually frustrated right now.
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?not sure. slowly coming back to baseline from a rough patch but feel like i can never go back to being ok with being by myself.>Anything you are looking forward to?no>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?going for walks i guess
Is this thread where I find woman desperate to find man and have children?
>>82348663>Is this thread where I find woman desperate to find man and have children?no
>>82348696Too bad. I'd like to have family without all the mindgames bullshit.
>>82347449Because apathy. Idk about the rest of ya'll but at my age I just don't care to constantly bitch or talk about all my problems or how much I hate my life, myself etc. Some young kid comes on the bored they want to constantly bitch and moan about how terrible things are because they're young and it's newish to them. Past 30 most people have just accepted the pain and misery. Everything sucks, nothing matters more at 11 o'clock same shit we knew 10-15 years ago. Again speaking for myself I also don't browse here often as in /r9k/ or even 4chan. I pop in every few days or once a week. Or maybe for an hour while I'm waiting on something but for the most part I'm doing something else for most of my day.
Im 31 and just wanna kms. I inherited a lot of money, have 2 degrees and even 2 years of experience. I fucked 52 bitches as well. But I wanna ens my life because I have an illness called sibo. I have diarrhea every day no matter what I eat. I can't work, fuck, train, lost almost all friends... Fuck this life
>>82348783These threads can be comfy. As you said most people have just accepted their fate and made peace with it or at least they are used to it, so you don't see the seme level of doomerism you can see in the rest of the board.Also if you guy sare looking for a hobby I suggest fishing again. As expensive as you want it to be. Being outside is nice, you can also do some reading or drawing there, or take pictures, and the kind of people that enjoy it are the ones that may welcome a conversation with a stranger.Sorry for the shitty pic, I should really get a camera for night pictures.
I want my oneitis FUCK
>>82348783i'm just now starting to realize the pain and misery so i have things to get off my chest. 20s was mostly "idk maybe any second now the good things will happen right" whereas now it's "no you're fucked"
>>82348903I get that. I had my ups and downs in my 20s but by my late 20s hope started to die and by now I'm 31 I've accepted I'm just completely fucked. At this rate I'm mostly living for my crippled mother. I take care of her. Without me she's screwed. But if she died it'd be hard not to eat a bullet for me. She was always there for me growing up. Only right I return the favor now. Still shit's rough.
>>82347456>bad, haven't had sex in 1 year 8 monthswow bro....that sounds like SUCH a long time......you should ask your mother for advice on how to cope with this setback
>>82348844Isn't there a treatment for that? Fucking hell you got everything else that shit just feels like God pulling a prank on you.
>>82348844karma for selfishly taking from your bros instead of getting yourself a nice gf.
>>82349098I paid like 10 grand already to get treated in different countries, currently on antibiotics. There is no sure fire way of curing it>>82349199Sowwie :3 I dont want to be in a relationship because I hate women. Also karma is boomer Karen speak, go to reddit
>>82347404>>How are you doing anon?doin pretty good id say, wbu>Anything you are looking forward to?paying off the debts and moving to a better location, in hopes to get better working opportunities>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?just enjoying my own company,
>>82348589You can roleplay on /trash/ and discord.
Dunno how long I can take being alone in my 30s anymore>Make plans to fix myself>Fail>Make plans to fix myself>Fail>Make plans to fix myself>FailAAAAAAAAAAA
>>82349390yeah you're a faggot, enjoy shitting your pants
>>82348903Same feeling. I spent 90% of the years from 14-29 utterly miserable, but I still had hope that maybe things would get better. Now that I'm 31 I know they won't and its like I have to deal with all that built up disappointment becoming a reality where I know it won't get better, the window has passed.
>>82347404If you're over 30yo and regularly post on /r9k/ you're a loser.
>>82349938I have nowhere else to go. I've been here for 12 years.
>>82349951>12 yearsJesus Christ 12 years??! Are your synapses fried? I imagine you can't even read a book at this point and use memespeak IRL (and if you don't you will soon)
>>82349938iiwii
>>82350020Its been on and off with a few years worth of breaks in between. I'm not a NEET or a khhv. The last 4 years I've been very isolated outside of work and am probably not far from struggling to make conversation with IRL people.
>>82349938Time is a cruel mistress anon.>>82350020I've been browsing 4chan for almost 20 years, I read at least 1h a day and always thought using memes and internet slang irl was extremely retarded.
>>82349938what is appealing about 4chan for people who weren't here when it was good? you can argue that oldfags have an excuse that they're too used to here and can't go anywhere else but for young people they don't have an excuse. if you like post 2013 4chan you genuinely enjoy rummaging in literal feces. i haven't met a single person here i can relate to in over a decade. i fucking hate it here, give me a decent alternative and i will gladly leave.
>>82350317Its very hard to explain to newfags, who keep getting newer, how fun 2010-12 4chan was.
>>823499384chan was created by so called Xillennials (millennials born in the 80s), basically millennials who have more in common with gen-x then core-millennials, but don't have the dumb=cool thing gen-xers had.Xillennials were edgy smartasses (vs core millennials who are more ironic sarcastic "reddit" types).The point I'm making is that there have been 7 sub-generational shifts since 2003 making 4chan extremely out of date, and the only reason it survives is because it becomes a refugee site for anyone censored on other social media THATS IT. Only old fags are here because they like the culture(or at least did at some point), everyone else is simply a refugee from normie social media who would not be here if they had any other option.
>>82349938everybody here thought the same as one point
>>82350440moot was born in 88 and came of age in the aughts. he's a core millennial. not even remotely close to gen x. my sister was born in 89 and has absolutely fucking nothing in common with gen x. late 80's is core millennial years.
>>82348783I get it, I was mainly talking about it from a board perspective not an individual perspective.Think about it. Pretty much every other general has a laser accurate dedication to it. They are even numbered and they never deviate from their own norm. Almost like they are made either by bots or by extremely dedicated guys who devote their lives to it.Now don't get me wrong. If I was in charge of this general it would be on and off too. Knowing me I wouldn't be able to be as accurate with it as internet guys usually are with being on point with things.As you get older you don't complain as much but I'll be brutally honest, sometimes nothing can replace it. Some whining on the internet is always good for the soul.
no point in venting on a site infested with normalfags, sex havers, and tourists who see you as a clown born to dance for their entertainment.
when i take a picture of myself i want to commit suicide immediately upon seeing it
>How are you doing anon?Same as last week. For the past three years my overall mood has been worse than usual>Anything you are looking forward to?Cold weather, I can't stand the heat>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Cooking my own meals improved my health and allowed me to save money.I also try to avoid multi tasking as much as I can and I focus on weather I'm doing at the moment.
>>82350945I was there too at some point, is it about something you can change or the general passing of time?
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?Bad, I need to lose weight but remembering being skinny and still getting treated like shit creeps into my mind to put me off doing it, but I try to get past it>Anything you are looking forward to?Going to comic con soon with some friends>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Honestly no
i've decided to pick up a nicotine addiction shit is so over.
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?fine. my first summer as a 40 yo old virgin. i don't feel very different.>Anything you are looking forward to?just finished my masters and might be going into Phd. better late than never.>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?jumping rope is a 6pack cheat code. that shit burns calories like crazy.
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?Great>Anything you are looking forward to?Everything and nothing.>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Even if there's nothing to be positive don't drag on about it about longer than you need to
I signed up for a dating app 2 weeks ago for the first time.I'm not getting any matches.It's over for me
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?I'm doing okay.New job is going well, earning more, health is improving, home loan pre-approved, mentally happier.Still no improvement on the gf front.>Anything you are looking forward to?I'm going to stay the night at my fathers next weekend and help out with some stuff. I'll be practicing my welding this week which will be fun.>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Exercising and getting my hair/beard done professionally has helped my selfesteem.When i see something that looks fun/cool i try to save a time to do it later, at least one thing a weekend besides rot in the house. Even if it's just going out into the garden to take pictures of plants/bugs/animals.>>82349938and?
>>82353355>I'm not getting any matches.What's your profile say, what type of pictures do you have?You aren't holding a fish are you?
>>82349938I'm a doctor in real life but yes I'm also a loser.
Today is my 30th birthday>How are you doing anon?Sad>Anything you are looking forward to?I'm actively in the midst of a career transition with my current company which will be really great once it lands>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?I have a special countdown that I say to myself when I really have to do something that I'm putting off, and once I hit the final 2 (don't worry about it) there's no choice but to begin
>tfw 35>single>changing careersI'm fucked aren't I
>>82354243It's working out for me >>82353506, frengood luck
Walked aimlessly around manhattan again. I found that dead mall in Chinatown which was quite a unique experience for me. It's really grimy and uninviting, so it felt quite adventurous to enter. Must have been quite lively with chinese people in its heyday.
my kid broke his femur, my mother came down to help us out and is sleeping on the top bunk of his bunk bed now (lol)oh yeah, I quit my job recently. kind of a yolo, confident I'll be able to find something despite the job market -- just too tired of writing Python slop, and felt like business unit was going nowhere.hiked the Palisades today, tried to go fast. weather was perfect for it. on Monday I want to take my wife to the nude beach, why nothabit? when faced with a negative emotion, asking, "is this actionable? what should I do about this, if anything? if nothing, why bother feeling this?" an honest inspection reveals most negative emotions are useless, and more surprisingly, when revealed as such they tend to fall apart on their own
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?lol>Anything you are looking forward to?No. I do stuff but only because I fear I'll regret not doing it afterwards, despite regretting doing the thing in the moment every time.>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?there is nothing positive in my life
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?I cant complain. I mean I could, but I wont. I recently started dating again and its going okay.>Anything you are looking forward to?Getting out of debt, I have like $14,000 left so I should be debt free in a few months (finally!)>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Quitting alcohol
>>82354798>just too tired of writing Python slopwe vibe coding now bruh
>>82347404Ok, I guess.Getting my own place next year.Practicing guitar drills a little bit every day. 5 minutes of focused practice goes a long way over time.
>>82349938I've known I'm a loser for like two decades but thanks for the epiphany, broccoli head
>>82348738Good topic to bring up on a first date. Better to find out early rather than waste everyone's time. Obviously not the first thing you say, but just bring it up as a 'what are we looking for'
>>82349938i'm nearly 33 wizard so yes
>>82353355>dating appYou're better off going outside doing nearly anything that puts you around other people. At least you have the tiniest excuse to chat to someone in passing.
>>82355333All of those girls have bfs already.
>>82355345Kinda. If they have a man, they're usually with them. What are you good at? Like scary good at? Get out and do that.
>>82354798>when faced with a negative emotion, asking, "is this actionable? what should I do about this, if anything? if nothing, why bother feeling this?"Based stoicism>I want to take my wife to the nude beach, why notI'm unsure if wanting my spoilers wife to be more adventurous/eager for things would mean me worrying about her
>>82355399>If they have a man, they're usually with them.Yes. The only other alternative is when they go out with their friends who are girls and form a forcefield pod to protect each other from incels (anyone still single in the current year). Single girls do not exist irl.>What are you good at? Like scary good at?poasting
>>82355413That's why you don't explicitly ask some woman out unless she's giving you the eye and you're getting positive feedback while talking. You're there to participate in the activity. Everything else is just a nice to have. Single women are out there, their numbers are growing. More older women than ever are not married and are aging out of carousel eligibility.What's your favorite thing to post about? Go do that. Or try out something that you've never done before.
>>82355535>unless she's giving you the eye and you're getting positive feedback while talkingThey don't look at me or talk to me because they already have a bf.>Single women are out there, lol>their numbers are growing.LMAO, unless you mean>More older women than ever are not married and are aging out of carousel eligibility.Of course. Yeah, and they're aging out of being able to have children and just worth being around in general too. Why would I ever want to be with a woman who's already lived her entire life and is now just looking for someone to pay for her room and board while she waits to die? How is that not even worse than what I have now?>What's your favorite thing to post about?/tv/>Go do that. Or try out something that you've never done before.What does that have to do with finding a gf when there are no single girls left?
>>82355735nta. Lets assume you met someone on the app, do you assume they won't have any baggage, ex's, their own social groups?
>>82356093I'm not the dating app anon either because I know it's futile. That poor bastard still thinks the game of musical chairs hasn't ended.If she's on a dating app she's either looking for meaningless sex, free rent, or validation. If you're still single at this point (your own personal age doesn't matter, there's been a societal cut-off) you can only possibly offer the latter two. She will never consider you for sex.
>>82356121>She will never consider you for sex.I didn't have a huge amount of success but I've also met enough women just for sex off tinder. It took me a while to understand how it worked but once I got it working it was ok
>>82356627Even if this was available to non-normies (anon i...) that's still not a gf.
>>82356640It took like like 3 months before I got my first match.>Realize taking time and looking at profiles>Never swipe on women who wouldn't give me the time of day irl>Learn about myself and how I deal with w*men>Keep busy with rest of life
>>82355333I tried that.Like the other anon said, anyone I tried approaching already had bfs.Amy girl who goes outside often gets picked up fast. Unless you are lucky enough to catch them after a break up.>>82356121>That poor bastard still thinks the game of musical chairs hasn't ended.I still have hope anon ;_;
For a small habit that had a good impact, I really recommend just Going. There is a festival in town, just go. Gun convention, go. New store, go. See a good spot for fishing, go. Don't make a not for later do it asap. It's really helped time slow down for me, I have a lot of new experiences all the time.
>>82347404>timing of these threads
living my best life as 37yo neet
>guys telling you to just shave it
>>82358078wrong thread but still somewhat relevant I guess
I'm still afraid to make the journey. My mother will be so incredibly upset if I do.
>>82358078Shaving hair is a humiliation ritual for slaves. Always keep your hair, even if you're balding. It's better if you just keep the hair you have.
>>82357881is that a snus can?
>>82358987nicotine pouches
>>82358078this type of demoralization is so damn strange to me because as someone who has always had thick, nice hair random older women have literally complimented me on and touched randomly when i grow it long.. it has done absolutely nothing for my life. i still ended up 30+ and a kissless virgin because i'm not good looking and not tall. i have been completely invisible to young women my entire life, never been flirted with etc, even after i got fit. it's as if people think hair is this big deal breaker but that would imply you had stuff like good looks and height as well along with the hair. don't give ugly bastards like me false hope like hair actually does anything for unattractive men to begin with. bizarre psyop that just wants to make men more neurotic.
>>82358078>A hair loss management company discovers data that pushes you to buy their products >their data sample is just Tinder accounts >and their experiment was giving them the same person just one touched up in photoshop moreI'm not sure what this is trying to prove or why even people fall into these baits on any topic. Your life experiences are all that matter, not what the internet tries to tell you.
>>82347404Coming out of a relationship with a BPDemon made me realize life is absolutely meaningless
>>82359292why do privileged sex havers always act like victims?
>>82359191This will sound strange but I took my dad's advice and anytime older women complimented me I changed what I was doing and when they claim it was bad, I double down on it. It actually served me well and every time I did the opposite of what they liked or thought was good I get some feedback that I was doing the right thing for it. Don't know if it's a generational thing or older women just don't look for the same as younger ones.
My job is depressing. Got out of the military and got hired at some big defense contractor. I do nothing all day and I'm scared I'll get fired. I attend teams meetings and say basic stuff like "yeah gotta get to it haha". I get assigned tasks and I finish them pretty fast, but it feels like no one is really verifying it. It's all basic excel spreadsheet stuff and emails. Some days when I work from home I just play WoW while in long ass team meetings.I don't know if it's normal or not, I don't have any perspective other than the military where you always had a pile of things to do and never enough time.
>>82359314the only time i've ever been complimented in my entire life is when i grew my hair long and older women always said they loved it. everything else about me isn't worth complimenting. i should shave my head then? another bizarre take.
>>82347404do you guys ever get so resigned to a fact (that the average age most people in your country, even after the pandemic which supposedly 'permanently' made everyone more socially retarded, lose their virginity in their mid-teens) that you stop thinking about it for a while, say several years, but then come upon some statistic proving it again and feel blackpilled like it's 2013 and you're an invisible highschooler learning all this shit for the first time again
>>82359305>he thinks I actually stuck my dick in crazy
>>82359305Excellent post whinge-bot 3000.
>>82359337i knew fat, ugly, and short guys who had sex by 15 yeah. a rumor even started about one that he had a huge dick and i think he got even more popular with women. i swear to you this is the truth. >>82359352so you were her friend? if you didn't fuck the bitch you were never a couple.
>>82359305We are all victims. Victims of death. One day you will be dead, one day that "sexhaver" will be dead and you will be the same, because you are both gone and forgotten. Billions of people died before you were ever born. Do you know them? Did you account their lives in any meaningful way? All you really have is scratches of paper and recording claiming what they were but they are gone. Dead. Like you will be. Like I will be. So consider that anytime you hear a story or see a person, that behind their skin, no matter how ugly or smooth it is, is an ivory color skull resting there, and it's laughing at you.
>>82359372She was twice my size, squatting in my house acting like she owned the place and terrorized me with cutting herself every time I tried to kick the fat whore out
>>82359336I did say it would sound strange however: without more context I'd first assume you need to trim it or have a tighter style than long hair. You are taking a 'decapitation to cure dandruff' approach here.
>>82359392someone who has sex regularly still shouldn't complain about anything.>>82359395get better friends i guess.
>How are you doing anon?Every day when I wake up I know things are going to get worse as soon as I get out of the bed and I can't wait for the day to be over>Anything you are looking forward to?Not reallyMy current life, and a possible "normal" life are equally boring to meSometimes I think about just quitting my job and spend my time drinking, fishing and writing>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?Drinking moderately on a daily basis
>>82359406the point is the hair never mattered clearly since a woman my age or younger has never been attracted to me in my entire life no matter how i improved myself. it is absolutely my face.
>>82359408You can complain about whatever you want, he can complain about his bad break up, you can complain that you have never experienced a break up. I can complain you are both not seeing the forest for the trees.
>>82359408She told me she was coming for a month visit how tf was I supposed to know she was gonna squat 4 years
>>82359425Seems you already concluded the outcome of your story.
>>82359429if sex havers want to complain and receive sympathy from people less fortunate than them then i have the right to tell them to eat shit and die.
>>82359247A hair loss management company who advertises on some boards here no less.
>>82359438that women are shallow sluts who can tell whether or not they're going to fuck a man within seconds based on immutable physical characteristics like face and height? yeah thanks i found that shit out in high school when i realized i was ugly and life was going to be lonely and boring.
>>82359448>if sex havers want to complain and receive sympathyWhere in the post did the anon ask for sympathy?You are making too many assumptions. Did you make that post to jumpstart some replies? If no, then why are you jumping to conclusions? Are you saying that's what you would do in that situation?
>>82359448Lol. You really are an unlikable cunt. No wonder nobody wants to fuck you.
>>82359466Most of this thread is just one guy badly talking to himself. Just lurk like I do and don't take post seriously.
>>82359466>Where in the post did the anon ask for sympathy?everyone on this shithole board wants sympathy and attention, especially normalfags with massive egos who think they're god's gift to the world. don't act dumb.
>>82359481He post every time this thread appears and shits it up with his whining.Truly embarrassing behaviour for a man in his 30s.
>>82359475why would i act kind to a society and world that has rejected me at every opportunity?
>>82359481Noted I'll stop after this reply. I forget a lot of 4chan posts get mine to other places as "proof" of certain things and vice versa. >>82359486>everyone on this shithole board wants sympathy and attentionnice projection there >epecially normalfags with massive egos who think they're god's gift to the worldsounds oddly specif>don't act dumb.you first
>>82347404>How are you doing anon?feeling like shit desu, cant find a purpose, feel guilty because ive given so little to my mom and dad after all their support, i was a failed kid, teenager and now im failing as an adult, dont really know where to start?, not like i hurt no one or rob or did hard drugs and sold our car, then why i feel so useless>Anything you are looking forward to?wish i could at least be strong enough so i can at least put on a fight if someone tries to zero me so im training, im talking to this girl who is 10 years younger, im 34, she is really cute and it makes me feel nice to hear her voice at work, dont want anything beyond that with her because i would feel like a creep fuck but it just feels so ok to talk and hear her day and hobbies, she is a bit of a whore but i know cute girls are bombed with tons of guys giving them plenty attention or whatever they want.im looking for an apartment so i can move from my folks, its pretty hard to find something that is cheap and not in a ghetto, im scared as fuck but at least i want to die with some pride.>Can you share some small habit that had a positive impact in your life?i stopped the following a few months backeating shit, meaning candy, chips, icecream, pastrydrinking soda, only drink on sundays and like 1 glassstretching, this shit changed the way i feel physically, 20 mins everyday will erase my work stress and other shit i have going onno drinking alcohol on weekdays, this makes me feel with more energy than everdrinking water, i have a reminder on my phone to drink water at least a fucking liter a dayno jerking off only when feeling like i cant handle the horny anymoreno talking more than 40 mins with whoever, being a chick (except for that girl from work) a dude, a friend, family doesnt count talk to them as much as i want.no socials, i only use my phone to check on news, the weather, time, msg mom or dad, reminders, etc., only go on socials until weekends
>>82359486You should really start talking for yourself and not others. Nobody else is as pathetically desperate as you.
>>82359496>Truly embarrassing behaviour for a man in his 30s.what's even more embarrassing is you think they're some ah-ha enlightened moment where you suddenly become a mature and responsible adult. when in reality everyone is still in high school mentally and is either honest and blunt or masking because they're normalfag cattle who want to be accepted by their sociopathic peers who would sell them out in a heartbeat if it helped them out.
>>82359528You do an awful lot of projecting my dude.
>>82359528>they'rethere's*
>>82359533>my dudego back cocksucker, nobody asked for snarky ledditor opinions.
>>82359547Lol you should read what you post it might help you figure out why you get no pussy.
>>82359511all humans are desperate for community and acceptance. if you found yours without any sort of effort or if you're a retarded autist who'd be happy eating dirt and licking the walls alone then more power to you.
>>82359558>erm akchually wimminz can telepathically read what you post on the internet anonymously chuddy>do bettergo back.
>work at place for 2 years>ask for raise a trillion times>no. quit>new job kinda okay>coworker takes my tools misplaces them>clock out. didnt realize someone else stole them>woman supervisor says its my fault theyre lost>hours cut in half>cant afford car nowgrow up they said just work hard and work in le factory they said
the funny and ironic thing is if i acted like an uncaring rude asshole irl i would be literally drowning in pussy because women are fucking retarded.
>>82349843The first step is realizing that there is no such thing as "fixing" yourself. You are a feeling, breathing consciousness with intrinsic value. Your worth isn't tied to your economic output. You are hurting because you feel like you need to earn your worth as a human being. Once you realize this, you will start to connect with people again 8or maybe for the first time ever).
>>82359760>You are a feeling, breathing consciousness with intrinsic valueis that why pretty much all first world countries want to round up and kill homeless people? cause everyone has value? it sure seems like a small number of people have the most value and the rest of us are on our own.
>>82359787i'm pretty sure most countries would even vote in favor of culling disabled people if it lowered taxes. if you're able-bodied and contributing to society in some matter and being a good little bootlicking slave who knows his place then yes you have "value".
>34>living at dad's place>divorced since 9 months>work in one of the most prestigious sectors of my location>still can't find a fucking place to rentI just want to live alone man I'm tired of trying and trying and trying non stop.Since I'm 18 I improge my situation each year and each year I'm at a worse place. It's like swimming against current
>>82360177>humblebragging normalfaggot #48281493gee i wonder why these threads never catch on or get posted regularly. it's a motherfucking mystery to us all.
i need to quit smoking weed
>be me>still live at parents house in 30s>coworkers keep getting on my case were I live>be embarrassed every day at work
>34>unemployed>stuffed my ass last night>extremely sleepy todayKeep on truckin'
>>82359875Keep in mind that economic value and human value aren't the same. All economies today are basically a giant war machine, it's us against China or whoever.Think of it this way. If a soldier is sent out to die for their country, that doesn't mean that was all the value he had to give, only the value in this particular wargame. He has value beyond that, like kindness and the capacity to love. Same with sacrificing homeless people to keep the economy running.
>>82360272>coworkers keep getting on my case were I livewhy would they do this? why does it matter? everything is shit right now living at home if you can't move out is normalized. where do you people work where someone is shamed for saving money during an objectively garbage period in history to exist.
>>82360222checked, start vaping it instead its way better and cheaper
>>82360334it's not really cheaper. a gram of juice is like 20-30 bux and 7G of flower is like 30 bux. they last about the same amount of time
>>82360361i get 2 grams of thc oil for $35, that usually lasts me a week, also gets me way higher.
>>82360381i just like the bite from smoking flower, idk.i used to smoke cigarettes so i like joints and bongs because it feels like smoking. an oz lasts me about 2 weeks but i've smoked 7 grams in a day too
>>82350020bruh I am here since 2009
>>82355295At least this guy is pulling chicks. Albeit he's too socially retarded to even be embarrassed. Being smart can be a burden.
SuhSuh, I say SUHSuh, I can assure you that this ten-year-old bitch had titsNow excuse me; I have an appointment with an anal-ravaging demon from planet Hell.
>>82360301>Coworker 1: Where do you live?>Coworker 2: (jokingly) in his parent's basement.>Me: Yeah.>Coworker 2: Oh.>*awkward silence*
>>82356844>Never swipe on women who wouldn't give me the time of day irlAnd if I followed that rule I wouldn't ever swipe right, or yes, whatever the fuck direction yes is.
>>82360941>normalfags are sociopathic demons with low to no empathyis not big surprise. look around this site and you'll see the same sort of bullying.>but le 4chan is le Internet hate machine you just want le hugbox have sex incel have sex le 4chan was never for outcasts you are le not wanted here...no i just don't want the very people i tried to avoid my entire life coming here to remind me about what i already know when they have the entirety of the internet to talk about normalfag shit i don't give a fuck about.
>>82356954>I still have hope anon ;_;You shouldn't, it hurts slightly less.
>women: social justice! open borders! free palestine! stop lgbt hate and racism!>also women: ew that guy looks like a creepy fucking weirdo i bet he's an incel what a loser freak kys incel society
>>82347404Nothing will change if you don't make a change. I'm living proof. People all have varing degrees of ability to attempt and make those changes. Losers don't make change, winners make change.
Are you just bumping this thread in hopes of more replies? Work on the material. I won't always be able to give a (You) when you are this needy.
>>82361248what would be your response if someone made an earnest attempt at turning their life around and they still failed? "oh well lol"? people always say to put in the work but isn't that what everyone is doing? isn't it unrealistic to assume everyone would get back what they put in? the middle class is being eradicated and the richest people continue to hoard and amass more and more wealth and the best advice we give people still is muh bootstraps tier garbage. it all feels like people desperately clinging to an american dream that hasn't existed for the majority of people for decades. societal collapse seems more likely year by year and we're still telling people to just grind bro just grind lol.
>>82361291who are you talking to? the voices in your head?
>>82361305>what would be your response if someone made an earnest attempt at turning their life around and they still failed? "oh well lol"?That or you haven't tried hard enough because they're so deep in the trap they have no idea every outcome is decided by random chance.
>>82361305That's just coming from a place where I never made an effort and I'm living like a loser, with his parents, in a state i dont like, having never had a gf, working a job for a retard with qualifications i never attempted to get because I never tired to take chances because I'm a coward.I'm sure if I tried harder at any of those things I'd be living a better life. All I have in my life is money. I'm jealous of my friends with gfs and their own place. Even though they're broke and have worse jobs. They seem more progressed in life. It might just be grass is always greener thing. But if i had kids I'd tell them to take chances and do things that'll probably not work. Just try stuff.
>>82361332>you haven't tried hard enoughtried what hard enough? tongued enough privileged assholes hard enough so someone puts in the good word for you and throws you a bone?
>>82361358i cannot relate to you since you have money. this discussion would go nowhere and help nobody.
>>82361314we could ask OP the same thing
>>82361370Probably, but I wouldn't know since I did exactly what other people around me did and got significantly less out of it, because they were determined at conception to be winners and I was determined to be a loser. More of a question for >>82361358.>>82361358>I'm sure if I tried harder at any of those things I'd be living a better life.You mean it didn't even work out for you? You just think it would have? Escape the cave.
>>82361384How? Dissatisfaction in life can come from a million directions. Unless all your troubles seem from not having money I'm sure there's things to talk about. And it not like I make a ton. I just have ton in savings because I've always lived with my parents
I finally started brushing my teeth
>>82361416money is god in this life. i'm broke, we live different enough realities that your advice is useless to me. like a guy who's never had issues with women trying to connect with me in some way. zero want to interact with people who can look down and be condescending towards me.
>>82361446I have about $200k between cash and retirement savings. I'm going to kill myself long before you ever do, so you know what it all means to me? Nothing. There's not a single living organism I wouldn't trace places with on this planet.
>>82361464>I'm going to kill myself long before you ever doi don't know you so why would i care?
>>82361446Ok let's pretend you had money. What would you do to make you life better besides buy food and clothes.
>>82361484sounds like a question for someone with money and their life together friendo.
>>82361495>let's pretend you had moneyClearly a question for someone with no money
>>82361528let's pretend you're not a bitch who asks stupid questions so he can get advice from retarded rejects.
>>82361536That what this entire board is for
haven't been to psychiatrist in 6 years now it seems i might unironically need it. i wonder if he would put me in a ward straight away. surely i will snap out of it any week now
>>82361545is it? you want advice from people worse off than you because...? if you're successful financially you're already doing better than 90%+ of society. why do you think you're entitled to free advice about anything when you have arguably the most important shit figured out already? i don't owe you shit, fuck off.
>>82361481You seem to think money solves things. It doesn't. It just looks that way to you because to you the people who have money also have the other things they want so you correlate the two.
>>82361545I agree with the "let's pretend" part for sure
>>82361620>man with money tells poors he's suffering and that his suffering is more valid and real than the ungrateful and lazy poors whatever fag. cry to someone who gives a fuck.
>>82361642>man with money tells poors he's suffering yes>and that his suffering is more valid and real than the ungrateful and lazy poorsno
>>82361608Secret to being rich is living with your parents for 30 years while they dont charge you rent and having a job.
>>82361664i am dirt poor and disabled and my parents still charge me rent. can't relate. must be nice to have well off parents as well though.
>>82361668It is. However im pretty unfulfilled and loveless. Suffering im pretty sure extended to every level of life. Not just on the bottom. But a lot settles down there.
>>82361707>However im pretty unfulfilled and loveless. didn't ask and don't care.
>>82361711>waaaah look at me and how miserable i want to be
>>82361664And having rich parents too.I live with mine and I only have 140k to my name after working for 12 years.
>>82361719>waaaahh look at my cushy life where i have money and wealthy parents but still want sympathy and attention from people worse off
>>82361711I dont care about you either. I hope you get diarrhea today
>>82361725>cushy lifeWe went over this already.
>32>realize I need to start caring about my future and can't just NEET all my life>losing weight>quit weed and booze>enrolled in college (again, for the LAST time)>started putting money in a savings and in an emergency account while paying off my debts every month>will have about 15k to start investing once my savings mature this decemberWAGMI
>>82361791I don't know how you guys can go back to college. I hated every second of it and it was the worst mistake of my life.
>>82347404After massive depressions in my 20s where I was unable to do anything (stuck 10 years in university for example), I finally have over 100 credits at age 31 and only have to do a few projects until I can do my bachelor degree.
>>82361791Happy 4 you to be improving your self
>>82361812college was the best time in my life and I miss it dearly
>>82361812I have the GI bill and it expires in 5 years. I'm only going back to college at this age because I'd be a fool to let these benefits go to waste. It was honestly a pretty good kick in the pants to motivate me
>>82361812Because despite what grifters tell you, college is essentially the only chance for a person who isn't exceptional to reach an middle class to upper middle class lifestyle. Still is.
>>8236179132 and still posting fucking retarded redditfrogs.
>>82361852>hahahaha yes YES chase that carrot goywhen everyone goes to college and has degrees and qualifications then what? oh looks like there's not enough spots for all these new graduates... huh, oh well!
>>82361834yeah that is something a normalfag would say
>>82352537>finished my masters and might be going into Phd. better late than never.You sound successwhere are the women?
>>82362309nah you don't get it anon. posters like him are just here to remind us fuckup anons that even if you do improooooooooove and grind chances are women still won't want to fuck you.
