You know that getting a girlfriend won't fix anything, right?
>>82508961Yeah. I actually can't get a gf because in my head, I am not good enough. There was a girl, my literal soulmate, and I rejected her because I am a terrible person.>smoke too much >drink too much>goon too much >suicidal>no passion or ambition>not intelligent>depressedShe made me happy though. Sorry Lucia, I wish you are happy.
>>82508997Do you regret your decision?
>>82508961No it would
>>82509007Greatly. I miss her every day and constantly think about her. I just recently seen she found a boyfriend. My heart hurts.
>>82508961ig its not the same because its a different perspective but i feel significantly less suicidal and get way more healthier when i have a boyfriend. it gives me the drive to be better, to get better. and i feel way happier overall. even if its just a little shitty online relationship where im treated poorly i still feel this way
>>82508961>You know that getting a girlfriend won't fix anything, right?Yes, I've experienced it firsthand. My ex left me precisely because of my lack of ambition combined with the fact that I was and still am too broken/lazy/stubborn/demoralized to change as a person for the better
>>82509057Same. We try, but trying gets us no where. Back to the beginning
>>82508961Of course it will, I need to know that my life is worth living, that there's a light at the end of the tunnelI need a gf because I know we can help each other up and be there for each other, sex itself is a bonus, I just want someone as my witnessAnother living, breathing human being that knows I exist, I made an impact, that I'm loved and cared forI need love, anonsI need it so bad
>>82509126>there's a light at the end of the tunnelHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA
>>82508961pic related was what having a gf was like for me
>>82509133as Zizek once said, "of course there is light, it's a train coming right towards us!"
>>82509023>Greatly. I miss her every day and constantly think about her. I just recently seen she found a boyfriend. My heart hurts.If you love a girl you just hope she found happiness, you realize you aren't the one
untrue. i had a gf and everything fixed itself. lifelong depression gone. suddenly everyone wants to talk to me and hang out. huge confidence boost. woke up every day with a smile, looking forward to seeing her. having another person to live for gave me motivation and meaning to actually get my life in order, to try to be the best i can and strive for something long-term. everything was fixed and neither of us even had to do anything to fix it. soon as she left if all collapsed again and now i've been laying in bed doing only the bare minimum to not suffer physically and keep a noose in my closet
>>82508961i have seen testimony from multiple anons here that getting one completely turned their lives around and they finally became happy
>>82509705>>82509717then you were never robot, just a failed normie
>>82509732yes, maybe. that's fine. however she only got with me in the first place because she was mentally ill and developed an obsession with me for no reason before we'd even spoken to each other.
>>82508961My life is above average in many ways and almost successful. The only thing holding me back is the lack of women in my life and the shame I could never pull one, so it quite literally would fix everything, since that's the only thing that needs fixing.
>>82509732your day will come eventually
>>82510003>your day will come eventuallyi tried to be normie on pressure from my family, then had a mental breakdown and am now a hermit on disability
>>82509149Yeah, you should hope she's doing well... But you shouldn't think whoever's porking her is muh one. YOU were the one. You just failed, is all.
>>82510019what i mean is that one day you will feel the need for someone elseany faggot 20 year old posting they don't need no gf will get their rude awakening
>>82510124They have already felt the need, they just think there's still time to do nothing and have it somehow happen for them. The true panic doesn't set in til you're 30.
>>82510124>>82510143I've had the normie gfs who've realized im not a normie and cheated to trigger the breakup so she could find a normie. I'm am not some 18 yr old
>>82508961A girlfriend as a surrogate mother who's going to fix all your problems, no. Relationships are messy.
>>82508961The issue with those people is that if they could get a girlfriend and most of all do normal relationship-y things with such a person they would be entirely different people from what they are now.In their mind it's just "get a girlfriend" but they never stopped to think about what that entails exactly. Can they really see themselves doing all those things? Having fun together and conversations even kiss or have sex? They'd be an entirely different person if "getting a girlfriend" means more than>Some person agrees to be called "my girlfriend" but otherwise be barely meet and we certainly never really have conversations
>>82510539i don't really think this is true actually. while some incels/virgins really are essentially unloveable people most are not. but this idea you describe, of them being very and fundamentally different from a normal, functioning and accepted person is in fact the source of their distress and failure. the girlfriendslessness is rarely an actual obstacle in their lives in itself but instead a hangup and what they build their complexes and insecurities on. many incel-like people do sleep around and get into relationships. there is no fundamental difference between the person that does and does not, in my experience
>>82508961Correct. A girlfriend is the prize you get for having your shit together enough to attract a woman in the first place. Incels greatest mistake is reversing cause and effect.
>>82510720Your theory is quickly disproven by taking a glance at the world and seeing that having your shit together isn't a requirement for having a gf.
>>82508997Similar situation here. Rejected a girl's confession since I figured there was no point. I would've fucked up at some point anyway, terrified of people
it didwe've been married for 4 years now and i love her more than anything and she's made me a better personi'm far happier and i have way more constructive hobbies
>>82508961yes I knowand thats why Im not trying
>>82508961>have house>have friends>have money>have....i only miss a gf so infact it would fix everything
If we are living together and supporting eachother emotionally and financially as we both have jobs that set up would be oretty nice
>>82511177but why are you still here?
This is false. I got an internet gf 4 months ago and I've felt like a million dollars ever since. I genuinely have not been sad since we started talking. I feel motivated to do stuff and sort my life out because I have someone else to do it for now. My self-esteem is no longer in the toilet. I'll be unstoppable when she visits in a couple of months and lets me sploosh my goo in her.Even if she breaks up with me I'll have the knowledge that it's at least possible for a girl to like me enough to say "I love you" and that is infinitely more reassuring than not knowing.Anyone saying a gf won't make you happy is a dirty liar. That's why people have them.
>>82508961It would fix my insecurities and confidence issues THOUGH
>>82511481>I got an internet gfFAGGOT! Get a real life girlfriend
being surrounded by people who are nice to me and fulfill my needs would literally fix every problem I have.What other problems do you even think I have?>duhh bro doesn't have his life in orderI don't give a shit. The only reason I would do any of that is so I could potentially be desired by other humans at some point.
>>82511681She will be my real life wife soon enough.
>>82511703>The only reason I would do any of that is so I could potentially be desired by other humans at some pointWow, fucking sad
>>82511481why do you sexualize the gorillaz
>>82511721As opposed to what? GDP go up?I don't give a fuck. I'd rather the economy collapse if I can't be happy.
>>82511419where am i supposed to go when i log on to cyberspace? i've been on 4chan since 2007, nothing else is good enough
>>82508961Getting a gf literally does fix everything though. Having someone who you know genuinely cares about you will make you want to become a better person. You find joy in getting up in the morning, you become more motivated, you start enjoying the smaller things in life. The problem is relationships are tricky and if you run into a bad one it might be more of hassle than it's worth.
>>82508961i will give you a feedback report once i aquire one. is that ok with you? thank you. we stay in touch.kind regards,anon.
>>82508961My biggest mistake was getting a girlfriend while being a depressed worthless loser. Can barely care for myself and now there's a whole other person i also have to care for. It's exhausting. Truly get on the pills and therapy and get a job you like before you decide you need to add a shit load of problems to your life
>>82511725Demon Days awakened something inside of me when I was a lad.
>>82511481Does she know you use the phrase "sploosh my goo"
>>82510086>YOU were the one. You just failed, is all.that's even worse
>>82511481>I got an internet gf 4 months ago and I've felt like a million dollars ever since. I genuinely have not been sad since we started talking.Ooff. Enjoy the honeymoon phase anon, but know that women are fickle and they can leave at any moment. If you don't prepare for that RIGHT NOW you'll be devastated the moment she leavesYou've been warned
>>82511727What? No, that's not what I meant. I was trying to say that living only to be desired by someone else is sad.
>>82511948why are you fags so allergic to being happy for other people?
>>82512073Who says I'm not happy for him? That however doesn't change reality.If anything, I care more for him than you do.
>>82508961>You know that getting a girlfriend won't fix anything, right?i disagree
>>82508961I'm the kind of person that women will strongly reconsider if they even want to have kids once they take a look at the absolute state of my existence I cant imagine a relationship at this point unless it's with a woman who has the same human condition
>>82508961It will fix me.
It's all about the money right?
>>82508961Probably not but my life is already okay alone so in my imagination at least a good girlfriend would help alleviate my loneliness and give me something I could passionately care about
>>82508997this is all hot i want to marry you. im the female version of this
>>82508961I know man. I just wish i could feel the intimate touch of a woman. Won't solve all my problems but i'm pretty sure it would at least make me feel better. I'm not even talking about sex more like cuddling and kissing and all that gay shit.
>>82508961>getting a girlfriend won't fix anythingi know you are baiting but couldnt not post this pepe
pepe with glasses = jager
All they ever want is me to binge drink on this liquor and then not smoke and grow up to be a prostitute in Japan And the roomie keeps cockblocking after a week with each.
>>82513828You are a tranny right? This has to be a joke.
>>82508961A live in GF who pays half the bills would help tremendously, and I would be motivated to live more neatly and cook more just by having someone to share my domestic life with. I don't have mental problems that need to be fixed, I just want to be a husband and father, and the right GF would be a step closer to that life.
actually it would solve my not getting my dick sucked problem
>>82508961It would fix everything because a girlfriend forces you to be consistently the best version of yourself. The feelings are stimulating like a never-ending caffeine high yet so relaxing as being perpetually drunk. Love is literal chemical enhancement that makes you a more productive human being.
At the very least it would show me that Im worth loving or that I have someone. It provides you with a little more reason to exist and keep going but we cant have nice things and maybe we shouldnt. Its best to die in a hole in some foreign land instead
>>82509057>lack of ambitionWhat does this mean for women? Like if you're not constantly grinding to end up at a really high paying job you're not ambitious?
>>82508961Uhh it will improve my mental health when I am able to stick my peanus into her hole. It's called TMT and evolutionary environment matching stimuli OP.
>>82508961Really... news to me. >gets girlfriend>web app developer who likes my game dev and electronic skills.>talk every day play games even code together.>she decides to make a portfolio using all my projects and photos I've saved.>reason why I am getting interviews for jobs that I fit in and not moving shit from one place to another.I don't know man. Having someone give ya a push and a direction to go seems to be helping me a whole hell of a lot. But yeah I guess no one having your back is a boon.
>>82508961This is the baitest bait of all time
I feel like its gonna make everything worse.
