What's exactly stopping you from getting a gf?
>>82794431I don't leave my room ever c:<also girls have cooties
>>82794431why would i bother?
im ethnic so I dont have jbw to rely on, dumbass
>>82794431I don't know how to meet women.
I'm in the process of learning Japanese. I don't know if it will lead to a gf but I'm going to give it my best try.
>>82794431i'm socially inept, inhibited, poor, uninteresting, and a sensitive young man
>>82794431I'm a broken toy and nobody wants to play with a broken toy
>>82794431Because I don't want one.Ever since I began SSRIs all my desire for sex and romance has evaporated. It's an unwanted side effect for most who have that happen to them, but for me I enjoy it. I feel much more clear headed now due to no longer always thinking about trying to find someone to date.
>>82794431No teeth, disgusting balls, skinny dick, no job, no friends, social anxiety, ugly face, ugly body, boring, depressed.
>>82794431I'm not white in origin
>>82794642NO TEETH IS FUCKING CRAZY. LMFAO.
>>82794624This happened to me too. Now I just want a girl to do sick fetish stuff with instead of love. It kinda sucks.
>>82794431Asians in Europe stick with their own. And that guy mogs me
>>82794683When you don't want to live any more you tend not to care for yourself, couple that with smoking and drinking copious amounts of soda to stay awake during the day for 15 years and boom.
i dont have moneyorihginial
>>82794457relax with the reddit spacing, jessica
>>82794714oh man i'd love to see your fucking face, is it a total trainwreck or what are we talking here? spill the details
>>82794431im not tall and white.
>>82794814Ptosis, sunken eye sockets, wrinkles from drinking and smoking + age, freckles.
i cant travel to sea
>>82794991She is Chinese. Cope.
>>82794973i'm sorry, age?
>>82794431I am a 41 year old NEET who is also ugly.
>>82795014fixable or not
>>82794431He is tall and white. I am above average height and not white.
>>82795035>not whiteoof
>>82794431I'm an unemployed schizophrenic. Women like possessions, which cost a great deal of capital. Neurotypical personalities give women "the ick".
>>82795058im an "employed" schizo (<10 hr per week) but i get you. i only ever mess around with schizo girls, or really autistic ones.
>>82795094>i only ever mess around with schizo girlsnta, but how common are they? I don't think I've ever met a genuinely schizophrenic woman. I've met many who had bipolar with psychosis, but not schizophrenia.Seems rare.
Man, being tall and white is living in developer mode
I think its my eye area that holds me back.
>>8279501034 originaIly
>>82794935And even better, just being tall and white doesn't guarantee anything. I'm way over 6 feet tall, white, a healthy weight, and made like $250k last year. The best I could do when I tried dating years ago were women who weighed more than I did might go out on a first date with me but even they didn't want anything more than that.
>>82795116that much damage already? you can reverse the wrinkles so get to it, anon
>>82794997japanese and korean are hotter
>>82795118That's just women now, they have so many options that they don't need to "settle" for anything. They can open Instagram or Tinder and legitimately have a 6'5 male model with a 9 inch cock asking if they wanna smoke weed and fuck like animals at his rundown apartment, which is way more fun than some fuddy duddy who has a job and is responsible.
>>82795118250k rupees, congrats
>>82795133this, try tretinoinheard dermarolling helps too
>>82795133I've been moisturizing and using retinol but I don't know what else I can really do.
>>82795147why are you giving your two cents? fuck off virtue signaller...
>>82795094>Neurodivergent womenA schizo's only hope for romance or sexual intimacy. I've never really tied to seek them out because I presume they're also shut-ins. There's a clinic in my town that does consultative exams for people with mental illness. That'd be the best place to hang out if I was serious about finding one.
>>82795147I'll look into it, but the wrinkles are honestly the least of my problems lol.
>>82794997im not copingi would enjoy sea girls. i just dont have the money. you are talking to someone that has over 500 matches with asian girls on tinder and okc and talking to one in discord right now.im white and i figured this out about women.
>>82794431I'm fat, balding, and too autistic to hold a woman's attention
I don't think I'm the right type of white for Asian women. I have brown hair and eyes. I'm 100% North West European however. It is what it is.
>>82795163>That'd be the best place to hang out if I was serious about finding oneIf you ever get committed to a psych ward, that's also a great way to find someone. Unless the one in your area is gender segregated, the ones I've been to never have been thoughever.
>>82795186I have brown hair and eyes (my entire family lineage is from the UK) and I have been with 4 East Asian girls and 3 Indian girls. I'm also 5'9" and autistic. Non-white women were basically the only women who were ever nice to me. Even the white chicks I fucked were just unreasonably cruel and enjoyed tormenting me.
>>82795201brown eyed dip get out of here, i don't trust any of you regardless of your skin color
>>82795201Another fake autist
>>82795105only met the one. she was everything to me, but she killed herself (happens a lot with that group) now i stick with autists and the occasional BPD girl for a quick fix. don't keep them around though because they get too attached.
>>82795229One day you will learn that huwhiteness isn't in eye, skin or hair colour, it's determined by nipple colour.
>>82795242>don't keep them around though because they get too attachedyou are the one that gets attached
>>82795163eh, you can find them at groups for that kind of thing sometimes, or the clinic like you said. some of them are weird and really clingy though.
>>82795199yeah, ive found a few chicks there, but it can be hard to share numbers, depending on how observant the staff are
>>82795256franz just shut the fuck up man
>>82795255BPD girls get crazy obsessive. i had one try to tell my work i was going to shoot the place up because I wasn't in love with her.
>>82795268im going to bite your dick off
WMAF is so all over the place when it comes to looks level. You have Chads with 4/10s. You have Stacy with 3/10s. You have mids with above average. There is no rhyme or reason. They always look happy as fuck tho
>>82795235I shouldn't try justifying myself to you, but I received multiple diagnoses as a child, have extreme sensory issues (noise and touch), terrible spatial awareness and fine motor skills, speak in a monotone and without gesticulation unless I force myself to, have actual spergouts under stress where I hit myself and scream and repeat the same phrase over and over, self-soothe by talking to myself, and have a tested IQ in the top 0.5%. Most dates I went on involved the chick I was with being visibly disturbed by my presence and finding my idiosyncrasies off-putting, frequently resulting in being ghosted. I just dated hundreds of women. I am a genuinely unbearable, awful sperg who nobody likes being around because I am so uncanny and creepy.I was only able to get laid by more or less acting like a sociopath and pretending to be various versions of myself that I wasn't until I learned what version of me people liked, and by drinking a lot. It helped that I was very fit and decently handsome despite being a manlet.
>>82795299just date an autie girl
>>82795299>I just dated hundreds of womenHandsome privilege
>>82795299>and have a tested IQ in the top 0.5%you clearly don't since you believe in and rely on fucking iq tests, holy shit what a shit show of a post of yours
>>82794431Not being white
>>82794431female hypergamy.it is often portrayed that women have the difficult choice between career and family.That is a false dicotomy, theoretically there's a 3rd factor to play with. Just like male primary breadwinners who can manage both career and family, all they need is a woman by his side who's willing to be the primary caregiver.The problem arises that the male primary caregiver role is heavily stigmatized in society, even more so than career oriented females. They are low social status males.there is a trifecta of:>having a great career vs. having a tightknit loving family vs. having a high status male husbanda woman can only choose 2 out of 3.If a woman>1) really wanted to be a surgeon or senior executive in a company, working 50+ hours a week and making well into >100K salary, but>2) also really wanted a tightknit loving family with children that aren't just being raised by nannys, daycare, or worse - an Ipad, with barely present parents,she'd be much more likely to find a partner who can help her achieve both goals at once amongst emotionally sensitive and caring part-time teaching aides making <35K a year that are really good with kids and wouldn't mind being stay-at-home-dads, rather than her high status male peers or superiors she meets in her senior management or surgeon job.Only those men aren't chads, and females are HEAVILY social perception focused.In the end they are still trapped by female hypergamy mindset.They cannot help but want to be seen with high status males, even if it is to her personal detriment, and they cannot help desiring being dominated (and impregnated) by a strong alpha male.And sadly thats probably just programmed biology rather than learned behavior.
>>82795315would you shut the fuck up already?
>>82795293Literally me and my gf.>HSG0N
I wont bother until I fix my self confidence issues. Currently dieting and exercising regularly. Maybe in 6 months or so I will have an actual answer for you.
>>82795325WMAF looks so kino in the snow. They are both snow people.
>>82795339what are you not confident about exactly? what part of your body? genuinely curious
>>82794431>>82794935>>82795035I'm white as snow with blue eyes and 2m tall (6'6?), fit and not ugly. I also have 3 homes in different cities with zero debt. No woman has ever shown interest in me. I'm a virgin at 40. So don't give me the fucking white and tall cope.
>>82795346Overweight, love handles, mild gyno, chubby face, ugly freak goblin disgusting pig waste of air future statistic.
>>82795343It's WMLF in my case :^).
>>82795309I have and fumbled it. The issue with sperg women is that they don't want sperg boyfriends, they want 6'6 rapist elves who will threaten to disembowel them, just like in their fan fictions. The ones who don't have insane standards like that get snapped up by alpha nerds (your tabletop GM or most talented guy in your Shakespeare theatre group, for example) before they are even 20. It's like how fat women hate fat men and only want shredded male models. High functioning autistic women are in very high demand. The one autistic girl I know IRL now legitimately compares every guy she meets to her OC who is a 6'5 serial killer assassin alcoholic demon vampire.>>82795311Riveting post. No better than saying "Ur gay". IQ is pretty arbitrary but you are obviously upset and threatened by the concept. >>82795310It was also just persistence. I never stopped going on dates with as many women as possible and asked out an insane amount of girls, a la Chris-chan. However, since I was handsome, I didn't have the cops called on me.
>>82795360just find a girl whos into that. lots of them are, i would know (similar build, + probably shorter)
>>82795385that wouldn't change my own view of myself which is far more important to me than a woman
>>82795368used to date a REALLY autistic girl (couldnt tie her own shoes) but she was curvy and fun to feel up on. you usually just have to get to know them first, and then you won't be able to get rid of them, especially if you're even moderately attractive.
>>82795385shut the fuck up, man, he's not talking to you right now you sperg zoomer jumping right out of the gates without a proper analysis of any kind for him>>82795360okay, overweight, so yea, definitely get that fixed because that absolutely crushes everyone's confidence and it has nothing to do with how strong you are, having love handles hurts everyone, so i get that. gyno, non issue or can be handled later, not priority. chubby face, will go away with leaning out, your features will show more. ugly? in what ways exactly if you can describe your face
who would want an asian girl like this ?
>>82795322>would you shut the fuck up already?but ...this is my first post ITT?
>>82795402but then again, I do fall into the "alpha nerd" status i guess
>>82794431Because I am overweight and have insecurities related to that. Not to mention at this point, I am not even sure what exactly to do not to fumble if I do get a gf.It's a shame really, given I got lucky with lot of other stuff like being tall, fairly okay looking, mentally mostly healthy, smart etc...
>>82795411my face is average i think. i've never been very lean so hopefully a better face is there waiting for me. if not i will just learn to be content with myself.
>>82795419>>82795402Yeah, see, I'm not an alpha nerd and can't be because I genuinely do not care about or recognise social status in others. This results in extremely uncomfortable group dynamics where people assume I am being disrespectful because I don't acknowledge their "rank" over me, but the reality is that I don't expect respect in return because I genuinely don't care. Unless someone is physically threatening me in an actionable way, their opinion of me doesn't really matter. It's not that I think I am better than anybody else, it's that I don't think anybody is more or less deserving of respect than anyone else.
>>82795442a better face absolutely is waiting for you and anyone who leans out. you have bones under your face there, those will become more defined and visible to you and everyone else to indicate to the world that you're not overweight. your confidence will skyrocket, robot. when someone looks in the mirror and they see a fat/chubby face, it's hard to be subconsciously confident knowing that in the back of your mind, so it seeps into all of your interactions. again, even the mentally strongest people will shut down, i don't give a shit, they will even if it's in subtle ways, but their lack of lets say their full potential confidence will not be there until they lean out
lol i can take his girl
I've honestly been considering joining the US Navy and just gambling with getting stationed in the Pacific. That way maybe I meet Azn. It's retarded but the alternative is just doing nothing with my life in a small town.
>>82795358Walk up to an asian girl and ask her out. It just works.
>>82795507Yeah and he would probably just kill you. That's where a lot of men are now.
>>82795485hopefully i will know for certain in the next 6 months to a year. i'm running a large calorie deficit so time is really the only thing stopping me. my appetite is essentially gone so i have no issues sticking to my calorie goals.
>>82795199I would if being in a psych ward wasn't so fucking boring
>>82795526naw he would get destroyed
>>82795534if you're running a large calorie deficit on top of cardio then you're on the fast track, anon. as long as you're able to sleep okay with the deficit and aren't waking up hungry then stay right where you are with your plan. 6 months to a year is undeniably more than enough time to see a total transformation with your current plan. enjoy your new face
>>82795457i get that, and i do similar, but most people dont have a problem with me, or else i just dont associate with them.but then again, I'm really visibly autistic so the expectation with me might be different from with you. IDK
I'm short, black, and autistic. Triple whammy of unattractive traits.
>>82795594I agree. Good luck next time.
shitty personality, i guess. dont really know what i did wrong but no matter what friends i made they all drifted off after less than a month. i kinda gave up a year or two ago and just started drinking pretty heavy. still do.
Why hasn't the East Azn saved me? I'm as white as it gets and I'm not even deformed :/
Watching asian girls going crazy for white dudes makes me feel bad for asian men
>>82795293>They always look h---
don't ever feel bad for asian men XD
I'm a nice guy but not masculine, dominant, confident, extroverted, tall, controlling, and shit like that, so women have no interest. They just want chads and will never give me a chance
>>82796208it seems to be a lot of luck sometimes, no matter how outgoing you are. dont get too hurt anon. you could be chad 3.0 and not get shit.
>>82796208ok but how short are you? are you under 5'8?
i would stretch and dig out her tight asian pussy and her bf couldnt do shit about it
>>82794431cause i'm fucking asiannot only do other race women not want us, asian women would rather go for those deformed whites than a normal asian guyliterally suifuel, whites cannot be incels
>>82796274kekekekekekekek. you ugly ass asian boi. you fucking loser chud.kekekekekekekekek! sucks to suck. you fucking loser.
>>82794431i have opportunities but id rather be alonealthough i might change that soon. the woman im with might want more than what we have right now, and she is worth not losing
>>82794431I'm not a white.
>>82796443fuck that downie looking white fag bitch. and fuck you too.
>>82794431id beat this dopey looking faggot just on principal.
>>82794624I took SSRIs and that didn't happen to me. I just had trouble ejaculations. I want it to happen.
>>82796236Yes I am. Females should just stop caring about height and being so shallow but of course they won't.
>>82796532>under 5'9BITCH. even that downie faced retard in the OP is bigger than 5'9.BITCH FAGGOT
>>82796523Which ones have you tried? And did you get to the maximum dosage of them? Everyone reacts differently to each SSRI, so it's possible you just haven't found the right one.Or it could just be that you're one of the lucky (or unlucky, since you want it to happen) ones who don't get that side effect from SSRIs. I'm not sure how common it is as a side effect in the first place.You could also try SNRIs too.
>>82794431>What's exactly stopping you from getting a gf?my high IQ and big dick that give women the ICK. BTW that guy stole a chinkgirl from a chinkboy. He caused inceldom in the Phillipines to go +1. Thats transfering a problem from point A to point B like seeing trash on the ground and kicking it to the side of the road. This isnt how thing should be.
>>82797322She is Chinese. I don't know why people keep coping with SEA
>>82794431Because i am not american nor roch and attractive.I am a 6ft2 yuropoor, never had a girl be interested in me ever and ive been to multiple asian countries mind you
>be 30>female has never showed any "signs">never talked to a woman in that way, let alone all the other normalfag shit like kissing, fucking, handholding etc>lost some weight cause felt like I was fat and ugly>manned the fuck up and asked out a cute coworker>get turned down>now she's on my mind all day and has been for the past month and there's no signs of me getting over it>still have to stomach it and politely say "hi" while avoiding eye contact as much as humanly possible so that I can get the images of her out of my memory >I'm not that fat anymore but still uglyWelp that's enough effort on my part for a lifetime, I'm going back to my comfortable black box. It's safe in here, no one can harm me. I'll just work and keep my head down and maybe use money to fund my hobbies until I die alone. Adios.
>>82794431immutable laws of physics
>>82794431>Autist>NEET>Bald manlet>Hate socialising and going outsideYeah, it's hopeless.I get matches sometimes, but they never mean shit. It never leads to sex. Fuck dating. I could never afford it. I don't want a job interview in some overpriced restaurant. I actually need a foid who is willing to fuck me in spite of my issues, but they always ghost. Even the old ones too.
To all the fags saying they are not white. JBW doesn't exist. Even an ugly pajeet midget can get married to a reasonably attractive woman. You have no excuse.
>>82798547>spams the same uberrich outlier eceleb/grifting youtube channel over and over againNot brown but Women dont want us regardlessThats enough of an excuse
>>82794431I need money. >but anon, there are plenty of broke guys I know of that have gfs >just be confident bro With financial security comes the stress relief. Women cost money >so you need money to feel like you have a shot? I don't believe in struggle love. >>82794478also this. Real
>>82794431Nothing, I just don't want one
>>82794431What's stopping YOU from being happy?
>>82794431too bitter to get a girl my agetoo out of touch to get a young virgin zoomette
>>82794431I'm short, funny looking and autistic also I don't have a personality.
>>82794431>4/10 incelcore heighmaxxed bongcel>8/10 asianfu das it mane
>>82798547>2/10 midjeet (get it? midget + jeet? =midjeet?????) cursed bloodline giver>6/10 (+1 due to asian aesthethic in western standandards) waifudaz it mane
>>82796071>>82796192why noti'm resigned to a life of lonelinessbut i shall find a white gf
>>82799596he wouldnt even be bad if he hit the gym and lost his chudfat.
>>82794431>mentalcel>no flashy income>agoraphobia (managing it now)>no hairstyle, bad teethOnly have a chance with e-foids who are for the servers desu
>>82794431I'm 39, balding, and won't date single moms
>>82799674He doesn't need to, by being tall and white can bag a cute east asian.
>>82794431I'm lazy and don't want to put the effort into talking to women
>>82794693That was so fucking strange to experienceIn Uni in Europe:>tons of Asians>they all stick together>almost no White got with an Asian even if he tried>insanely closed off to all non Asians (why tf did they do a foreign semester then)Then foreign semester in Asia:>get basically sexually harrassed by college stacies for being White>life is literally like in a porn movie with some lectures in between
>26>higher education>job in cyber>own house>stocks portfolio>hobbies are wh40k and motorcycles>volunteer for blood bikes scotlandI have 2 main issues:I do not speak to women, studied cyber so no women, work in cyber so no women, do groceries online so no women my hobbies are motorcycles and 40k so no womenI seen every single man in my family completely fucked over by women. The work of my ancestors and inheritance went down the drain. I learned on their mistakes, im saving up to buy one of these chinese artificial wombs in 10 years.
>>82794431the current social economy, my low self-esteem, and me getting easily fatigued after talking for more than 10 minutes with a woman because they have nothing interesting or funny to say