I am a virgin. There is this guy I am seeing and I have given him a handjob. I am planning to suck his dick soon. I know that he will eventually want to see me butt naked and touch me. But I don't want that to ever happen. For some reason, I don't mind seeing him naked and interacting with his dick but the thought of myself being naked from the waist down and him touching me there freaks me out so much. I could tell him that I am on my period and come up with excuses once or twice but I can't get away with it forever. I wish we were able to have relationships where moids never expect you to be naked or have penetrative sex. Because giving a blowjob wouldn't bother me. I just don't want anyone to see and touch my genitals.
>>82798928Just tell him lmao
>>82798945What if he thinks I'm weird
>>82798928He will see your penis and throw you out.
>>82798928You're externalizing your autistic OCD thing. People have sex. Were you abused as a kid? Are you a very anxious person? Are you germophobic? Are you religious?
>>82798928>touching me therecan't even say it. well, the thing is, he's going to want to see you, unless he has a cfnm fetish or something.
>>82798959No, I have a pussy and I hate how it looks I don't want anyone to see it.>>82798966>Were you abused as a kid?No >Are you a very anxious person? Extremely>Are you germophobic? Yes>Are you religious?No>>82799008I wish I could find someone who is okay with me staying dressed during sex
>>82799041dont the mormons do that? or jehovas witnesses or something?im sure if you told your moid bf about this he might be understanding, youre going to have to, or you'll have to be naked. i dunno what choices you have here desu
>>82799075I didn't say it was wrong? It just makes me feel very uncomfortable to be naked and be touched, I want a relationship where it is not expected
>>82799041If you dare not let him see and touch your genitals, and then he somehow finds out that you let other guys who do so, he will never forgive you
>>82798928Just be honest you fucking dipshit. Not just with this, but with everything you're thinking/feeling in a relationship. It's the only way.>>82798950He will, and it might be a dealbreaker for him. Or maybe he'll be understanding and help you through it. You'll never know until you say it. My ex was basically like this, and it was a huge pain, but I still stayed with her and helped her through it, and she got better. We broke up for other reasons after a few years.
>>82798928Interesting story femanon, so how tall is he?
>>82799295I'm a virgin, no one has done that>>82799338I don't see my preference changing>>82799405178 cm, why?
>>82798928How old are you and how long have you been together? Intimacy issues are a pretty major roadblock to any relationship.
>>82798928Get therapy to work through the issues around your frigidity. It's not normal and not conducive to a healthy and happy relationship. Obviously you have some issues with your self-perception and possibly have experienced some past trauma. If you can't get past this then it will eventually be a problem for your relationship and it will be a major roadblock for relationships in the future thus making you increasingly unhappy. So either get some professional help from an appropriately qualified therapist, or talk to your bf about it and develop some resilience and work though the issue with him.
>>82798928I recommend starting with the lights off and idk maybe finding a way to build trust so that theres not much to fear. I did that to a girl and had a positive relationship but I never had sex with her.
>>82798928You have body dysmorphia OP
>>82798950But, you are weird. What you are suggesting here is very weird. 90% chance that he will like your pussy no matter what it looks like.
>>82798950>>82798928This is super normal to be freaked out about being seen naked. The best thing you can do is be honest with him.Pretty unlikely that he runs with head on the table. What is he going to do, say no to a blowjob?
>>82798928Tangential, but:>tfw no virgin trying to give me a handjobI'm so jealous. Must have felt very intimate and endearing from the guy's perspective, even if not at all efficient or successful at getting him off. The idea of a girl putting her hand which has never touched a penis on mine feels so special.
Rip of the band aid and go straight to anal. Just be like ~uwuu im a shy virgin can we just leave my panties on and you fuck my butt
>foid talks about having sex with chad in the virgin board. I fucking hate women.
>>82798928>>82798928Talk to him. 99% of relationship problems can be improved just by fucking TALKING TO YOUR PARTNER ABOUT THEM. Maybe he's ok with only getting blowjobs. Did you bother to ask or are you just assuming? BTW lying to him and saying "I'm on my period" or coming up with other excuses is a recipe for disaster. Strong relationships are built on honesty and you owe that to one another. Lying to him will backfire one way or another.Why do you have these feelings by the way? Have you considered what it is about this that makes this so scary to you? Figure out where your feelings are coming from and you will have more answers.It's also possible that once you blow him you'll get horny and feel more comfortable and you'll want to do more with him. Young and inexperienced people like you usually work their way up slowly before going all the way. And you can have sex without him seeing you- just be mostly clothed and keep the lights off. Wear a skirt with no panties, snuggle your ass up to his dick under a blanket, and he can fuck you without ever seeing you naked. People do that sort of thing all the time and he would probably be ok with that. BUT YOU'LL NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU TALK TO HIM.
>>82798928You don't have to get naked to have sex.
Man, I'm so fucking jealous of the problems people here have. Like how do you even get into a situation where you're giving guys handjobs
clothed female, naked male...hot
>>82798950He'd be right.>>82799041>I wish I could find someone who is okay with me staying dressed during sexIt's probably a lot less impossible than you think. Most guys prefer looking at boobs over pussy anywayAs everyone else has said, talk to him about it if you want him to be your partner.Worst case scenario is doesn't like it and then you know he's not the one so you can both move on quicker.
Ok boys, you cannot be fat, must have a large dick, must have a lot of money, must be attracttive (7.5+), and MAYBE you'll get oral sex. What, you expected vaginal sex? From your gf? What the fuck is wrong with you? Don't you know she's self conscious!?!?
>>82798928Blowjobs are demeaning anti woman bullshit. Females should let men eat them out without needing to have their dicks sucked. Females have horrid sexual taste.
>>82798928vocaroo because i'm in a rush and wanted to rant a bithttps://voca.ro/1cpQqi7TOyjY
where are you from and how did you meet him? I want an anxious fembot gf that just sucks my dick 24/7 and never wants me touch her roastie
>>82801617shut the fuck up and go straight back reddit. That's were you belong cuckold.
>>82801543Spoken like a virgin>>82801617Also spoken like a virgin
>>82799855 I am in my early 20s and we started dating a month ago>>82801067Yeah, doing it in the dark would decrease my discomfort by a lot>>82801134Aww I am not sure how well I did, he did not say anything negative, told me how to do it and it was a sweet memory. I feel very comfortable and excited about touching him>>82801237>>82801969Okay I understand your point that I'll have to talk to him eventually but I am too shy. It feels embarrassing to say "I can suck and jerk you off but I am not comfortable with being touched and seen". But it is still the elephant in the room. I guess we could figure something out. I don't know how he would react but I don't think he would literally break up with me over it
vaginas/vulvas look absolutely disgusting OP. you'll just have to get over it.
>>82799821>I'm a virginWow so you're shy and insecure about your first time. Who could have ever have imagined it
