The average woman wants a tall man, a confident man, a masculine, dominant man, a provider who stands above her.But someone driven purely by instinct like that can t truly love. Love requires vulnerability, softness, and trustTomboy/Masculine women MIGHT be able to accept/love someone fragile..
>>82869253they can love a man, just abusechad
>>82869253when two people are sexually or emotionally intimate they're vulnerable to each other. pretending otherwise is retarded. having a dominant submissive relationship does exacerbate the vulnerability, but on both sides. not a matter of which gender is what role, assuming the dominant side isn't vulnerable to the submissive side is incorrect.
>>82869253I'm "submissive", but I really do believe I'm capable of love. Sure, I'm drawn to guys who are somewhat masculine and boyish, but I want him to be vulnerable too. I want us to share our most vulnerable parts of eachother.
>>82869271Days gone by without thinking about your boyfriend: 0Chasexual moids disgust me
>>82869379>Chasexual moids disgust me????im not chad sexual. girls aretf?im a guy
>>82869253men are not supposed to be fragile you are retarded, women are not genetically more dominant nor masculine this is just societal mental illness, femdom exists because of the lack of dominant women out there and only reason they do it is to get paid, youre a stupid chud faggot with gross mommy issues and you will never find a dominant woman, they do exist, however they dont like easy retarded men like yourself. you have no appeal simply for the fact you probably obsess over this and jerk off to the idea
>>82869412>"I'm not chad sexual">is obsessed with chadEven kikes lying about why infant genital mutilation is a good thing are better liars than you
>>82869416QUIET LOW IQ APE
i dont want a 100% domme, I just want a woman who is sometimes bossy, sometimes bratty, who shows me how much she desires me, who is possesive and asserts her rights over me as my wife.
>>82869441no what i said is true actually you are just in denial if u want to be dominanted become a faggot ez
>>82869379Stop projecting your love for Chad onto us.
>>82869369Wrong, any hint of vulnerability from a man immediately gives women the ick
>>82869253As someone who spent more than a year now in femdom spaces, honestly most 'dominant' women are rather annoying to be around in my experience. I do also have a preference for dominant women, but I guess just not of that kind. I just want someone who is generally a normal person but is also teasing and assertive in bed. Not some mommy or a dominatrix or whatever.
>>82870874Dommes are rare and good dommes are even rarer. There are a lot of women who are either abusive and looking to prey on weak men, or just findom grifters. That said, though the gender ratio is stupidly skewed, actual good subs are frankly almost as rare as dommes and all the genuinely dominant women I've spoken to complain about the atrocious options they're given. So the best thing to do is to try to improve yourself to be a truly good sub, and also accept that it's a rough market at the end of the day. Oh, and also to make a woman fall in love with you and convince her to give femdom a try. I've dated women who first claimed to be purely subby who ended up enjoying domming me. You just gotta be smart and sincere about it.
>>82869416Having emotions besides the ones you see in your shitty hybristophilic romance novels isn't the same as "being fragile".
>>82869416>men are not supposed to be fragileWe really need women to kill themselves en masse immediately. Imagine spending generations fighting for gender equality only to make sure it applies exclusively to women and not at all to men. Absolutely disgusting subversive shit on a level even worse than kikes. Fucking kill yourself, whore.
>>82869253identifying as fragile is a gigantic red flag
>>82871060So men aren't allowed to have been traumatized etc in the past?
>>82871074What purpose does integrating past trauma into your identity serve?
>>82871150Ah yes, that's how PTSD works, you "integrate it into your identity". Nigger give me a break, it's a mental illness, not an ornament. People don't choose to have their traumas affect them.
>>82871165Ah yes, the lashing out against any ideas that threaten your fortress of self-pity. Classic.
>>82871176Ah yes, the "lmao just don't be mentally ill" 4chanigger IQ89 attitude. I'm not even traumatized btw nor do I consider myself "fragile", I just recognize that things that people don't have control over do in fact affect than and there can be very good reasons for a man to be sensitive.
>>82871040gender equality does not exist. men and women are not equal and never have been. stop being a jew and be a strong dominant man how you are supposed to be anon
>>82871150it helps with functioning in society without hurting myself or others
