keep trying until you meet one who you actually feel a connection/spark with, if it's really a spark and not just you crushing on her, you'll pick up on her excitement too
when you meet her use everything you learned from all your past mistakes to try and not fuck it up
patience is a really huge
it can take a long time just to even meet that person who might be right for you, and you'll probably fuck it up and lose her, and the next time, and the next time too.
but don't give up because you're learning, and you always get more chances, and after enough years and enough practice, you'll just meet someone who clicks with you and that's it.
gl bro

>>82869822
The sad truth is nothing matters besides attractiveness to women. You could be a serial killer and child rapist but if a woman finds you attractive she will ignore those things. Figure out your flaws and try to fix them or compensate. Lose weight, get in shape, focus on your skin care, get on dht blockers to regrow some hair. Whatever it takes to look better.

I have no idea. I probably just need a bimax and some shoe lifts to get started

>>82869862
It is not fair so many people just meet a girl and they get to be with her. That never happened to me and I am already in my late 20s making things harder. It is incredible hard to even find a girl who even talks with me and just outright dismisses me. Why are women so much against having a relationship.

>>82869876
I know that women think that way and I try to look better but there are simply hard limits. I am tall and some girls have said I look cute and sometimes attractive but that is it.

>>82869900
If you are tall and white just go for asian women.

>>82869891
most women think men just want sex, or to own/wife them. you gotta see her as a person: to answer your question, yes you have to befriend her, but you're also simultaneously romancing her. it can't be all one or the other. it's tricky. The analogy of kindling a spark into fire is good I think. You need that spark %100 to get anywhere. But you also need to be really careful and show restraint in order to let it grow, or else you'll smother it. Everything else is stuff like your charisma, body, having your shit together, the more you work on this stuff the better odds you'll have to actually net her when you do meet somebody you're intellectually compatible with.

>>82869979
And what if you do all that and then find out she's asexual or has a low libido? What the fuck is the point?
When I love a woman, I want to bring her to the height of pleasure every single day with my mouth, my hands, and my cock. Giving her pleasure is more important than my own. I need a woman who sees things in exactly the same way towards me. Who actually has passion in her heart and a need for sex beyond just when she's ovulating.
Is that even possible, or should I just go for femboys/men? Cause at this point I'm just fucking done with women. I'm done with an asymmetry in desire. I'm fucking done in general.

>>82869948
They don't want me either. I don't want to import one from a place like Indonesia they are only after my money and usually have nothing in common with me.
>>82869979
That sounds pretty hard won't they get feelings when I don't flirt with them? I always have the feeling when I say something that goes in that direction that they will just see me as a creep who want just the things you said.

>>82869822
>Serious question how do you get a gf?
What most people don't realize because they've never had the misfortune of coming to this realization, is that it is beyond your control. It's purely luck. You can work on yourself all you want, buy better clothes, work out, learn to socialize and be more charismatic, none of that matters. There's an invisible element at play involved in attraction. Call it vibe or energy, or whatever, but it's unmistakable that it's there, and unfortunately for some men, the game's just rigged that way. Anyone who has to ask, "how do I get a gf," is beyond saving. Normies don't ask these questions because attraction just comes naturally to them.

>>82870069
> They don't want me either. I don't want to import one from a place like Indonesia they are only after my money and usually have nothing in common with me.
I meant East Asian girls. Like Chinese American or Korean American. They love white guys who are tall.

>>82870127
I would not post on here if I had to ask that I am not a normie. I also painfully aware that it is luck. I had a girl interested in me just by pure luck be she ghosted me after a few months.
>>82870140
They don't I have tried talking with them and they don't want me either.

>>82869822
No idea, anon. I just fucked up another match who said nothing (as usual), then the foid blocked me when it saw my message.
It seems that they have to be very into you from the outset if there is even a hope of having sex with them. Briffault's Law, and all that.
Meeting them IRL always seems better too. Despite any connecting with messages or texts, they can still get the ick when they meet in person.
Though as non-Chads, we have to be very lucky to score. They have to come to us, and make it easy for us to get with them, and hardly any of them ever do.

>>82870232
I have experienced that as well if they are not super nice and wanting to talk a lot from the get go it usually does not work out.

>>82870369
Indeed. Sadly, the only foids who liked me just stared at me, and never spoke. Always had cockblockers with them as well. Similar on the apps too.
If they won't break the ice, then I just cannot. I wish I could meet one who wanted to speak to me, and make it easy. TFW just too unapproachable to them.

>>82869862
>patience is a really huge
but at the same time don't be /too/ patient and pass up on chances just because they're outside your comfort zone. dating is an ambition. be a little ambitious.

>>82869822
Being black, rich, or tall is usually what it takes

>>82869822
met all of my gf's irl
i think your best bet is engaging with the real world and getting to know people who aren't as online
the internet and the culture around it is toxic