What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend? Isn't it just a mental block? And shouldn't you be anxious since most people already have a gf by college?
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?women
>>82927756Be honest, you're the problem. Not women.
>>82927744I only date to marry and i'll only marry another virgin like me, that makes my dating pool awfully small
>>82927744a girlfriend isnt an item you just go out and get. If you want anything in this world other than love or a relationship you can just go out and obtain it, it may be difficult but if you have enough perserverance you can eventually. A relationship requires someone else to see something in you.
Every interaction I've had with women had led to me coming away from it feeling bad about myself. I've come to associate women with negative emotions. Most of the time I'm actually a happy person.
>>82927744well one reason is that I gave up and stopped trying years ago.t. level 38 Wizard
>>82927744i've seen my fair share of incel faces and most of them are fuckable to some degree but need maybe a haircut or a shaveultimately i think it's a numbers game but women can sniff out weirdos very quickly
>>82927772if you're attractive it is. you ugly little fuck
>>82927780>but women can sniff out weirdos very quicklyYeah killers are a much safer choice tththetheh :)
>>82927744When I talk all the words and possible ways to say the same thing get mixed up in my head so even when I concentrate extra hard I sound slow, weird, off-putting and retarded. Plus reduced affect. Also I have self-esteem and self-sabotage issues anyway. Nothing could get past those filters combined, it's like God purposefully designed me to be forever alone.
>>82927744The fact that I'm short, ugly, have long hair, bad teeth, am unmasculine, unconfident, undominant, autistic, shy, timid, boring, and want egalitarian romance rather than the dominance and gender roles shit that most women today want... and that I actually like myself and don't hate myself and want to changeNo women want to accept men like me. Even the least desirable women, and the ones who complain the most about gender roles and beauty standards, only want traditional masculine and desirable men and don't want to accept unattractive men like me even though I'd be nice and loving and caring and wouldn't hurt anyoneSo, I'm alone because of women's high standards and the fact that they'd rather be abused by Chad than loved by nice guy incels like me
>>82927780>but women can sniff out weirdos very quicklydoesn't matter if you're attractive though, you fucking retard. nothing matters if you're attractive
>>82927780Females should settle for men who don't shave or cut our hair. Females can have short or long hair so we should also be able to have long hair. Fuck your standards. So women should accept weird guys. Weird isn't harmful. Often the most harmful guys are the most conventional and "normal" while weird people can be more caring and accepting
>>82927744Lots of reasons>Autistic>Socially anxious/awkward>Live with parents in a small rural town where all the young people leave unless they're losers>Afraid to drive to the city two hours away where all said young people are>ObeseHow would you proceed with these stats?
>>82927744I don't make enough money to interest any woman>mental blockeat shit, normie
>>82927760anon thats not whats stopping me from getting a girlfriend, thats why women dont like me, bc im a neet
>>82927793>>82927802>>82927811uh oh i poked a bearsorry fellas uhmm uhhh fuck them foids!! grr yeah!!!(ftr i actually like men with long hair, sometimes it just looks bad and need some shaping!!!!)
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend? Isn't it just a mental block? yes it's fear, social anxiety. it's crippling and so heart breaking. I failed to develope the necessary social skills and now I'm left completely unable to catch up. It's too late for me.
>>82927784I said in my post that a relationship requires someone else to see something in you which obviously would apply to attractiveness. Why do you have to be so mean anon? I dont even want a girlfriend, I genuinely dont care about women at all
>>82927793Foids have no rebuttal to this
>>82927826kys disgusting attention whore the only worth you have is your hole between your legs. Nobody can access it even if some simps try it, meaning you have zero worth.
>>82927780>>82927793>women can sniff out weirdosIf by weirdos you mean autism then yes, autism is the no. 1 predictor of inceldom, even more important than looks or height. You can cope but its the truth.
>>82927843It is pretty clear just be a dangerous guy who treats them like trash this is what gets them going. Being nice should only be reserved for other men since women hate it.
>>82927843i do but i'm not gonna argue on r9kI MEAN yeah!! fucking stupid women!!!>>82927845sorry i'm a dumb woman and all i can think about is how cute this dog is :p>>82927853i think that's part of it!!
>>82927826>sometimes it just looks bad and need some shaping!!!!Nah. Your standards are too high and you should settle for less
>>82927822what the fuck are you talking about, retard? i deliver for fucking door dash right now in between jobs and have a girlfriend who has her own house, she doesn't give a fuck. it's just that i have a long penis and 8+/10 looks which overpower anything else in my life. she knows i hold all of the cards despite being a degenerate delivery driver for door dash, she knows i give her insane orgasms, she knows she gets her butthole licked by me, etc. etc.
>>82927862well if i lower my standards for men with long hair can i cut it to make it look better when we date
Over 80% of women are overweight or obese. Nearly 60% of women between 16-30 have one or more tattoos. White women under 40 are not even 20% of the population in the United States.The reason I can't get a wife or is because there's nothing but shit out there. Finding a virgin woman is pretty much impossible. My time is too valuable to waste on someone who doesn't meet the absolute bare minimum standards: virgin, White, not fat, no tattoos. There's no point in seeking a girlfriend if I wouldn't be willing to marry her.I wanted a family, but if that's impossible I'll just retire at 35 or 40 with more money than I could ever hope to spend. Cost of living is very low in America if you have hobbies outside of basketball shoes, Starbucks, and leasing a new car every two years.
>>82927869No, you should accept us as we are without making us change anything. You females don't need to change anything about yourselves and can be accepted as you are, so the least you can do is accept some fucking equality and do the same for usBut you females hate equality so fucking much when it comes to dating
I just don't care enough, that's really it. I'm not saying I'd get one if I did care and did try, but it's hard to want to care.
>>82927858Its not part of it, its the no. 1 predictor of inceldom. Its a triangle and you need all 3 sides for it to hold up but autism/non-neurotypicality is by far the most damning because even Chad-lites can be rejected by a foid if they dont maintain eye contact (hard to do for autists) or talk excessively about their hyperfixations.
>>82927744I was too demoralized to try for most of my lifeJust made huge physical improvements and had a talking stage for the first time with an outlandishly gorgeous girl. Shit was confusing as hell and I also found out I have massive attachment issues. I think I need to heal trauma before I can make something real happenKinda bullshit that 98% of people can just do it all automatically without a second thought, but I'm autistic and retarded so it is what it is
>>82927876lmfao, you're just another notch/minecraft creator. you'll have money but you'll have no woman which makes you invisible to all women on the planet. you will be a full fledged incel with no way out upon reaching 35 - 40. you will be stroking your own penis with your very own hand like a straight incel. meanwhile, i'll be cumming inside of my girlfriend raw that i currently have, or if not her, another one. don't you see, retard? nobody gives a fuck how much money you have, if you can't pull women then you're a worthless ugly fuck that's just taking up valuable space on the planet
>>82927864still a massive ick for them? like what? having something is ALOT different then having nothing
>>82927744im virgin only and an autistic neet
>>82927883romantic relationships require compromise, i can compromise but he must to by cutting his wack hair!!!>>82927887i hope everyone knows i giggle a little bit when i hear all this rhetoric because i am specifically attracted to autistic weirdo dudesif any of you post that one image i'll blow up!!! just take my word for once!!!!
>>82927927You arent attracted to virgin incels, its just your way of being quirky and unique without having to do anything
>>82927927No, relationships should involve acceptance. You should lower your standards and stop demanding men change themselves for you since you don't need to change your looks for men.
>>82927946>>82927942stop replying to a literal man on the internet, retard. you small cocked fucking dumb ass incels
>>82927942yuh huh i am!! i think they are very cute and silly>>82927946okay what if he can choose my hair color....do we have a deal :0>>82927954SILENCE DOUBTER
>>82927966Your fetish is short haired incels??
>>82927897Are you actually happy living your life only caring about what other people think? I want a wife. Not because I'd take joy in thinking about what women think about thinking I think when thinking about my wife. I want a wife because I want a wife. Your priorities in life are all sorts of backwards. Maybe when you turn 18 you'll have a better head on your shoulders. I'd suggest thinking with your brain instead of outsourcing all thought to strangers who would be equally happy watching you bang millions of whores as they would be watching you star in a snuff film.
>>82927966Nah, you should settle for incels who don't make you change anything about your looks and you don't change anything about theirs.
>>82927974AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA I CAN'T ESCAPE
>>82927966>says virgin incels are cute>won't have my babiesWICH IS IT NEPTUNE?
Its quite simpleI am ugly. I have empathy for women, so I don't want to lower their self-esteem by expressing interest. If by some random happenstance a woman expresses interest in me, I will try to redirect her interest elsewhere. As I can safely assume that her interest in me has nothing to do with my appearance, I have to assume she is suffering from loneliness or a desperation for a family. But because I have empathy for her, I cannot let her settle for me. In doing so, I feel I would be holding her back from pursuing someone shes actually attracted to.
>>82927999Nice tripsAlso for hair color, I pick bald cap. It's a non-traditional choice but I think it's a striking and in-vogue look. Even better, pad underneath it for a throwback to the 90s - the coneheads!
>>82927744crippling fear of intimacy stemming from childhood abuse/neglect. being emotionally vulnerable to a woman goes against every survival instinct in my body and it floods me with adrenaline.
>>829277441. Looks. You need looks to get a foot in the door, I fail that for the majority of people because of my face and I'm a manlet (sub 5'6"). No acne, I go to the gym.2. I have shit social skills. I've been told I need to be friendlier/crack jokes and just smile more.3. I am pretty boring. I watch movies and read books when I can mostly, the rest of the time is spend just searching the internet and filling my brain with random knowledge with whatever youtube feeds me (cooking history, science videos, etc.).4. I don't talk to enough women irl, the ones online end up ghosting me even before I show my face (see 2.) I don't want to show my face earlier because see 1.5. Death of third spaces6. Hypergamy 7. I live with my parents post uni8. I am brokeidk what else>>82927780>fuckableto who? you? what is your type usually? race/height? weight?
>>82928098literally described everything about mewe're twins
>>82927744unfuckables do exist and I'm one of them.
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?There are no single girls. inb4 cope>most people already have a gfYou already admitted it.>but girls cheat all the timeThey don't cheat with someone worse than their prime bf.
>>82928001I don't remember writing this but it must have been me.
>>82927744Probably the same thing that stops me from having friends or close relationships with my family.
>>82927744She would just get bored. They all get bored
>>82927773You would feel negative too if you were carrying the DNA of every man you have ever slept with. Imagine what that means when the average woman has had at least 100 partners by the time she is 30
>>82927744I am convinced I am utterly unlovable. I am ugly inside and outside. Talking to a woman I am attracted to, would only make us both very uncomfortable. So I don't.
>>82927744I just can't picture myself with someone at all. I am too different and too sad to be in love with someone. Even in my fantasies I'm too stand-offish to realistically be that kind of intimate and social with one person. At best I can picture myself mentoring someone but ultimately I'm always an alien and their ways are too alien to me to really understand.It's also just growing more and more awkward since I'm in my 30's with zero relationship experience. Never had time for it trying to keep myself and my family afloat.It's not like I'm asexual either it's just intimacy as a whole is an entirely alien concept and people are so fake I don't think I ever could be. I always feel like I'm going to be a stupid child at heart trying to live life as an honest man but I'm also too jaded and aware of the usury of relationships to even want to expose myself like that. Not to mention the sheer hate I had that tainted my development early on.And all that, I think it just ruined people for me forever. I can't help it, because I'm always right about these things, and it sucks. I don't want to be right anymore I just want to be happy but it just keeps happening.
>>82927744Because my life is a mess and i do not think anyone would want to be with me right now
>>82927858LMAO funny dog no ahahah why he have funny hat ohnonono look at the animal
>>82927756Then be gay, man, it's simple
>>82927744Their behavior is repulsive to me, and my body is repulsive to them.
>>82927744I'm too old to be broke.
i'm a 35 khv neeti'm good looking but i have a lot of mental issues, arrested development and no money. I have nothing to give to anyone. Thankfully ssri killed my libido so i don't care about being alone that much
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?Where do you even meet women, I work like 2 days a week with old men and all the women around me are really old. I don't even know how to get a gf lol. I am fairly decent looking but that doesn't matter when all I do is interact with old men and old women. Id be fine with dating a girl in her late 20s, early 30s. I mostly just watch anime and read. Girls on /r9k/ I don't find difficult to talk to since a lot of them are like me but I end up usually just nuking my discord account after a while because I know it will lead to nothing. Maybe I should go to bars? I dunno where do gen z women hang out?
>>82927744i don't know how to broadcast myself to enough women to make up for my tism
Women don't like me, never have (except to manipulate for money, etc)I'm 34 and the constant loneliness has broken meProlly wont live to 40, hope I dont, too.
>>82928866I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I've come to the conclusion that I have to create something that gets enough attention and forms a small community in order to have a chance. That or I find a way to do some kind of mass scale messaging on a social media app. I've been thinking of writing a tiktok crawler for this if I reach an extreme level of hopelessness.
>>82927744Being disabled. Can't even keep friends let alone a gf
>>82927744I'm pretty much too socially or culturally far gone to keep a woman entertained long enough to keep them interested in a conversation let alone fucking date them, COVID and years of isolation even before or after that shit pretty much sealed my fate
>>82927744I genuinely dislike them as human beans and how l am expected to act towards them
>>82928834If you were good looking, a woman would have raped you eventually without you even trying.Stop the cope, anon, it's only and solely LOOKS LOOKS LOOKS!
>>82929438yeah right lmaono woman can rape me if i never leave the house
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?The same as nearly everybody. Living in a random "civilized" country, the dating market is shit. Lots of competition to any decent girl, most girls picking from hordes of orbiters on social apps, increasing expectations due to being spoiled and offering less and less since they expect to be cherished for themselves while appreciating a guy only for what they'll give them, gender equality my ass. Tried all that shit and even when I succeeded it was a hollow achievement - not worth it, wouldn't recommend, no matter how horny.Western women are either taking themselves off of dating scene due to career (and then bitching "where good men have gone" when they want to settle down in their thirties), wanting casual partners or just looking for a walking ATM. The few exceptions also avoid dating scene due to creeps and if you didn't get to know them and got close by lucky circumstance, you won't. Let's not get into how many of the "exceptions" have mental issues worth a minefield you only uncover once you're with them for a bit.>Isn't it just a mental block?If you call being ostracized, demeaned or villified just for showing some interest but not catering to their expectations a "mental block", yes. You can get past that with some and I have, but again, point above, not worth all the bullshit and mind games coming with a modern girlfriend.>And shouldn't you be anxious since most people already have a gf by college?You shouldn't be and they don't, not anymore or as something lasting at least. Apparently modern definition of a gf is "someone I sometimes fuck, but am also obliged to cater to" and most guys are better off without.Yes, I come off jaded but I seriously tried. A few times. It was always a disappointment no matter differences between girls. Maybe I am unlucky, maybe just a bitch-magnet.I blame feminism, simps putting them on the pedestal and "boss girl slay queen" trash.
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?I have no social circle or exposure to single women.
>>82927744I simply don't feel like trying, I am a 6'5" mid white guy, but im boring too.
>>82927744My teeth are rotting out of my skull so that's a major deal breaker for the vast majority of women and I can't afford dental care so uhhh guess I'm just unlovable forever
The incels sure are bitter and sensitive in here lmao. None of you, not a single one of you is deserving of love or a girlfriend. The only thing you deserve is the air you breath and your share of taxes. You want to get girlfriends? Stop being slovenly, unhygienic weirdos. If you have gross long hair? Cut it and get something flattering. A nasty beard? Shave that shit. Bad skin? Fat? Other physical excuses? It's 2025 and there are gyms and skin care. Go take a fucking walk outside and see that it's not supermodels and chad. It's normal ass people together. But I guess I forgot. You porn addicted, microdick having losers think you deserve a 10/10 when you offer nother, NOTHING of value. >B-B-B-But I'm shor-Shut the fuck up and get a personality besides victimhood.>B-B-B-But Chad doesn't have t- You're not chad, you're terminally online shutins who can barely be assed to wipe your lazy asses. Go get a job and be a functioning member of society so you have the minimum amount of value at the very least. All this stupid shit you incels complain about is self-inflected. You want women to lower their standards when you turn up your noses at your own equivalents. I frankly don't feel a bit bad if every last one of you died alone and miserable, you all honestly are the makers of your own misery. Get a grip.
>>82927744What would I even do with one? I'm always at home and I'm totally socially inept. she will get more of me quickly plus I don't want to deal with all those social customs like going on dates or having to share my private space or whatever couples do. That's also the reason why I don't want friends.
>>82929675Then why are you on the official "whine about women" incel board?
>>82927744Social retardation. I still act and treat them differently and weirdly because I get flustered easily.
>>82929675>she will get more of me quickly She will get bored of me quickly*
>>82929659Have sex virgincel nobody cares about your stupid bait.
>>82929680>Why are you on my boardNot your board faggot
>>82929684Have sex? That thing you'll never do, little man?
>>82929687Answer the question, chud
>>82929700>Answer the question, chudL
>>82929659>If you have gross long hair? Cut it and get something flattering. A nasty beard? Shave that shit.Tastes differ. I got myself a lay once or twice because the girl was into 90s metalhead look.>I frankly don't feel a bit bad if every last one of you died alone and miserable, you all honestly are the makers of your own misery.You sound like a faggot no less sour than people you complain about. Get a grip yourself before advising others.
>>82929700You will never be a woman, you faggot
>>82928098>>82928163No choice. You have to both become twinks and have gay sex several times a day. That's how it works, that's the way for you.
>>82929720>alt right incel losers who commit mass shootings and victimize women on the dailynah, we are not the same, learn how to be a normal human and women will touch your dick if you're lucky.
>>82929808>alt right incel losers who commit mass shootings and victimize women on the dailyHoly fuck what a projection.You should get enough help to be at the level of an average anon fuckup before you'd even consider talking about normal. Right now you seem more disturbed than incels ITT.I sure fucking hope we're not the same, I'd rather maintain some self-respect and belief in my worth. Being like you would undermine it severely.
>>82929808>learn how to be a normal human and women will touch your dick if you're lucky.>in response to anon saying women fucked him digging his metalhead look...are you too retarded for reading comprehension?GTFO out of board and back to elementary school. Maybe with room temperature IQ you'll get a woman to ever care about your dick.
>>82927744My own laziness. I keep finding excuses not to go to the gym, I have not had a haircut in months. All I do is watch anime and play vidya. My attention span is completely fucked as well.
>>82927744I'm trying. I got rejected recently even.
>>82927814>AutisticEmbrace it. I'm autistic too and it's a major handicap but not insurmountable.>Socially anxious/awkwardExposure to social situations.>Live with parents in a small rural town where all the young people leave unless they're losers>Afraid to drive to the city two hours away where all said young people areDo it anyways.>ObeseGo get callipers done to determine lean mass, eat one gram of protein per pound of lean mass and only eat carbs around workout time.Lift 4 days a week.Eat a 700 calorie deficit.Whatever you do don't rot away and waste your time, or you will wake up one day at 40 and be truly hopeless.
>>82927744>most people already have a gf by college?I'm a physics major. Maybe if I was white I'd be able to get a cute nerdy physics girl but I'm black and there is barely any black women in STEM besides engineering. Woe is me. Bunch of jeets and chinks, though. I could talk to people from other dpts but I don't really meet that much people outside of my classes
>>82927826If you are a weirdo then don't try to pretend otherwise. If you internalize a positive frame to your weirdness then women will be more inclined to view it as positive as well since while they are great at sniffing things out, they are also susceptible to influence.
>>82927828It's not too late for you to get to an acceptable level that gives you acceptable options. Not easy and requires hard work though.You will probably never be normie or Chad but you are closer to being able to get a gf than you think.
>>82929983Lmao I am also a black stemcel. I went to a decent university in the Midwest which was 98% snowbunnies. The black chicks I did see where dating the fucking athletes, I never stood a chance :(
>>82930308did yuou died? :0
>>82929849>>82929866Just stay in your basements with your porn and body pillows. The farther you stay away from women the better, you vile little pukes.
>>82927744All the women around me have small tits and even if I find one I want I wouldn't know what to say nor would I be bothered to learn.
>>82927822So get a job or a neet gf??? Retard
>>82930003I'm 28, I only go out for work (all male coworkers) and buying groceries. I have no idea where I would meet women, and even if I did, most wouldn't be able to deal with my lifestyle. I like staying at home working on my hobbies rather than going out. It never even began for me.
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?I simply never got desperate enough to want one enough to put effort into it. And as a teen I was too shy and awkward around women. I'm 30 and I'm still kinda awkward around them. They kinda scare me because I never spent a lot of time around them and I don't know what to talk about with them. Also, masturbation feels so great that I don't see why I'd put in a lot of effort, time and money into getting a gf. Most women simply aren't nice to be around or interesting to talk to, so sex/cuddling is all I'd be working for. Not worth it.>Isn't it just a mental block?It is, since I'm 6'2'', not fat and not bald. Even have a good job. But again, none of this matters when women find 80% of men ugly and even guys like me have to approach and put in effort in order to get something. >And shouldn't you be anxious since most people already have a gf by college?Why be anxious? I don't need a gf and don't want to marry or have kids. I could very well keep living my life like this until I die. In fact, I've noticed there are great advantages to living pussy-free. You only have to talk with normies and heat what they say about their relationships to realise it's not bad at all to be single.
>>82927744I need to build a better nest to attract a mate (and for me), so that takes priority. Thanks for reminding me, God bless.>>82927858You have been mentally raped. For your sake, please change your ways, lest you become a statistic. God bless.
I have nothing to offer them and they have nothing to offer me.
>>82931487i'm not sure what that means!! um!!i'll bite however, what should i change :p
>>82931834Is your fetish self transformations, you want to be a werewolf?
>>82931834You seem too afraid to be wrong, so you feign ignorance or willfully lower the quality of discussion. You contribute nothing in this state to yourself or those around you. For your sake, leave this place forever; you have nothing to benefit from being here, and everything to lose. Staying here will only exacerbate your condition.
>>82932064werewolves can be hot but i don't think i wanna be one!!!!>>82932102>You seem too afraid to be wrongit may sting my ego a bit but i assure you i could argue my way through all this redpill nonsensei just don't because that's stupid!! i'm on r9k!! it's like fighting with a wall :p>Staying here will only exacerbate your condition.TRUE but for reasons entirely unrelated to what you said!!!anyways check out this other dog ehehehe
>>82932251>werewolves can be hotYou want a werewolf to kidnap you and then you develop Stockholm Syndrome during captivity and fall in love and start a family BUT the werewolf meets his old friend, a 6'3 werecat named Daniel, realizes he's gay, cheats on you, and leaves you for him because your fetish is actually netorare?
>>82932251So be it. I pray you don't suffer too much, but there will be pain. God bless.
>>82932287dude you got incredibly close whilst being so far off idk how you managed this>>82932291okay that is very sweet of you!! thank you anon!!
>>82932321>you got incredibly closeI am SO excited. Your fetish is captivity related? You want to be locked up? Or is werewolf related?
there are no friendly, modest, patient women near me who share my hobbies.i can only find those online, rarely
>>82932347i'm giggling because you accidentally nailed something and you have no idea what it ishohohhohoit's not what you think at all i'm afraid!!!!
that whore is ugly asf
>>82932372Ahhhh!!!! Gay werewolves? Men named daniel? Being cheated on? Starting a family? Pregnancy? Breeding? You have a breeding fetish! With animals? Wait Stockholm Syndrome you want it's, you want brainwash you want to be brainwashed! Hypnotism!
I think I just looked really, really young until recently and must have had some insane glowup after turning 27. Women wanted absolutely nothing to do with me until recently but now I've had creepshots taken of me so I don't know what the fuck is going on. Prior to that I was convinced I'd be a wizard on account of looking weird and having autism but I'm not so sure now.I got my first gf earlier this year but we're only e-dating.
>>82929795no, fuck off. i'm not queer
>>82927780>but women can sniff out weirdos very quicklydamn, it's over then
>>82932425The only weirdos they can sniff are autists or other antisocial types. Abusers, narcissists, sociopaths, murderers... they slip through.
>>82932470>other antisocial typesdoesn't that include sociopaths?
I'm in my 30s and I'm basically an incel right now, but I got lots of sex in high school and had a couple of flings with /soc/ girls in my first year at college. I will say that dating seemed to hit a difficulty cliff sometimes in my mid 20s and I don't think it was anything that changed with me.
>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?I'm a 36 yo wizard. I work as a programmer. I live with maparents, I'm balding, I can't grow a beard, I'm completely dettached from news and trends and my main hobbies are reading and fishing and I have no future plans or ambitions besides living a life with as little worries and responsibilites as possible.
>>82932484hmmmm, I wonder what the "socio" in sociopath means
>>82927744I just don't know how to make random strangers like me. That's it really..
>>82932395so close yet so far.....sorry anon.. you will be forever clueless.....
>>82927744I'm not good looking.I'm 167 cm tall.Will be a 25 year old khhv next month. By november 2030 I will achieve wizardhood.
>>82932554(retarded brownoid predditor)you're a retarded faggot lol
>>82932623Nothing about you is worth knowing
Because I want a virgin gf as a virgin myself.
>>82932741spoilers: no woman is a virgin past 14
>>82932769>spoilers: no woman is a virgin past 14They exist, but rare. I'll stay virgin until I find her, even if it means being KHHV until then.
>And shouldn't you be anxious since most people already have a gf by college?what the frick is your problem man? putting that shit on me, it's perfectly normal/ok for a man to go full virgin his whole life... didn't Isaac Newton do that?anyway fuck outta here with your shaming tactics; people will say and intuitively know that "comparison is the thief of joy" then brazenly juxtapose your position alongside perceived success storieswhat's the point man? being alone is punishment enough -- stop rubbing it in
>>82932784I wish you luck. And not that I can criticize, my life is no less hopeless.
My life is a mess. Taking care of my mother who is special needs. I don't dislike it because I've been the primary caregiver since age 12. I'm 35 now. I've never had a job. I dropped out of school at 15. Dad is mostly absent and just exists around the house.I don't want to burden anyone with my life. Maybe if I outlive my mother I'll try and experience life for my own sake. But that's not even a fantasy. I just try and survive. Never had a relationship because of it. I don't blame my mother or anyone. I'm not bitter either. I'm okay with a life of solitude for now.
>>82933123Your mother can be your gf anon
>>82933156I'm not Chris-chan
>>82932784They're rare in the sense that their fathers keep them in chastity belts until they can be sold off to a better groom than you.
>>82927744I DON'T WANT A USED GOODS WHORE FOR A GIRLFRIENDHOW HARD IS THIS TO UNDERSTAND LOLI'D RATHER JUST HOOK UP WITH SLUTS INSTEAD
>>82932837>it's perfectly normal/ok for a man to go full virgin his whole lifeIt's not ok if you don't want to be. And no, sour grapes cope doesn't count. You didn't go volcel at age 5.
I'm the wrong skin colourthe type of women who interracial date are mentally ill. not worth rape accusations
I don't know where to find eligible women, and I'm afraid of being thought of as crazy.
>>82927744im good on that thnx>i already pounded pretty pussy, prissy pussy, healthy pussy, nasty pussy (run), fat phussy, innie pussy (goat), phat booty, lil booty, white booty, black booty, latina booty, lightskin booty, white/black/latina/lightskin oral, pretty girls, gorgeous girls, rich snobby girls, leftist girls, conservative girls, MILFS, GILFS, elite goth mommy girls, outcast girls, fat girls, skinny girls, short girls, educated girls, career girls, riff raff why tf did i do that girls, quiet girls, rude girls, famous girls, married girls (dont), cheating girls, druggy girls, semi famous tiktok girls, hot coworker girls, depressed girls, suicidal girls, mean girls, popular girls, loner girls, wifey material girls, lesbian girls, bisexual girls, gym girls, famous actor girls, famous singer girls, family friend girls (dont), family friend girls mom (dont), ex girlfriends mom (heh), ex girlfriends friends (score), ex girlfriends sister (hot), dumb girls, borderline autistic girls (same), military girls, and saving the best for last, 4 virgin girls.and im still STD freei can still pair bond easily and still want kids, but they are literally all the same. i feel for anons who go insane due to being unwanted and tfw virgin, but once you puun enough VuHeena you realize its not everything to life. so for the love of God, stop sending them tons of money for no reason on streams or discord unless they are sending nudes back or giving you SOMETHING in return.also, i never paid a single penny to smash any girl. im a handsome guy and a pretty boy, with a decently big 7inch nice sword. im also well known, very strong, sharp wit, good status, charming, funny asf, caring, artistic in many ways, gifted writer, came from nothing type, a warrior, bright future, brillant, prophet, part angel (literally), a leader, and have REAL (holy) alpha ways, but also savage when necessary. i was way more deadly in my yout, when i bagged most of them. >pic related (yout)
Lotta shit, honestly. I got married really young and am now divorced and I have a kid. I spend a lot of time at work trying to pay for home repairs and shit for the boy. I'm not confident I would have the time to give to a woman to be a good relationship partner. My standards are admittedly probably too high and I would want a woman with a similar body count to me (1) which basically doesn't exist in the single-parent sphere. I have a personality that scares a lot of people off, I have trouble opening up to people, and despite this I'm clingy as fuck. I also plan to die before I hit 50 years old because Alzheimers disease runs in my family and I want to die in a gunfight. Also I look like a caveman and am slightly overweight. So uh... yeah not many takers for me.
>>82927744I don't really care about stuff. I feel forced to stay alive so I don't make my little sisters or mom upset and I'm not even sure how much I care about anymore. My sisters have kids so now I have to keep an eye out for my nieces and nephews as well they seem to like me a lot unfortunately one day they'll be old enough they'll be sad their uncle killed himself. I just want to close my eyes and sleep forever. I'm very tired and I don't care about anything. I don't have a girlfriend because I don't care about women, I don't care about small talk, I don't care about looking presentable. I care enough to eat, shit, and go to work. Literally everything else is unimportant.
>>82933295If you don't want one why does not having one bother you?
>>82933223if you're a girl and want advice from a well expierenced man on how to be attractive, its this simple:>get yourself a nicely rounded booty (ass shape >> ass size. any girl can do this via gym)>have GOOD hygeine down there, and overall >dont show your private parts so easilybut>be a tease on very rare occasions (posting online, or irl outfits)>dont give yourself and your personality away online for free. keep life-posting at a minimum>post pics with nicely fitted & nice clothes, but not too much>DONT post your ass or tits, at all. most men dont care for the imagination anymore, and want to see it asap. make him work and damn near beg, but still dont show your body unless your going to marry him fr or long term relationship>that it. if you're pretty, in shape, and have nice curves, if you keep it modest but also make it known you got it, but also be very conservative about who gets access to your sacred wombs>pro tip: you can be a slut without having sex. dont be so open online! dont give away your inner being to strangers! if you have a nice body, be a tease on very RARE occasions>be ready for the hurricane of men coming at youlove you guys. brush your teeth!
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriendmy sub8 face and my sub6ft height. Also the fact that i m a gentleman. Bitches hate gentlemen.
>>82933639>Bitches hate gentlemen.literally true. Women are cave dwellers at heart, they haven't evolved much or been domesticated. They do not like civilized men, they like grugs who will do what they want in exchange for pussy access.
>>82927744>girlfriend>posts a troonGross.
>>82927744Insecurites that prevent me from approaching women and also relatively specific/high standards. But I am coping by thinking I still have time and that some day a girl will approach me.
>>82927744Maybe a few years ago I was a bit desperate, but having had contact with a few foids through e.g. dating apps (not just getting ghosted after a while but weeks to month of contact and even meeting up, still a virgin tho) I have realized that I do not actually want "just a gf" I want a soulmate, someone I want to build a life with and get old together.Someone I can relate to and have trust and confidence in, someone who isnt just my "lover" but also my (platonic) best friend that I genuinely enjoy spending a lot of time with without any sexual implication of that interaction.Am I gonna find a virgin girl who wants her first relationship being a near 30yo virgin guy who's never been in a real relationship either (and probably wants to wait for marriage with intimacy despite being non-religious)?probably not.But I'd rather attempt being contend and living a happy life on my own rather than to force myself to be with the wrong person.But damn, I sometimes wish I could just rightclick->inspect people IRL to check their bodycount stats, that way I could easily filter out all the women who I never could relate to as a potential soulmate and life partner.
>>82927744>What's actually stopping you from getting a girlfriend?My crippling autism and social anxiety.
>>82934684>rightclick>inspect body countso true. i have a high body count but im a male so it do not maaatter ! but i gots to know if shorty is going. i dont want that >:p