cause the guys in good relationships dont tell you

>>82937740
i don't really know what you're talking about considering i'm attractive and everything revolves around me in relationships, i genuinely don't know what i'm reading right now.

>>82937740
I want the outright crazy. A completely broken, worthless fembot. To rebuild into something useful.

>>82937740
the first time it happens you dont know its happening until after it ends
then you learn what to avoid

>>82937740
1/ Loneliness. It's all they can get. BPDemons change guys often which means it's easier to get in a relationship with them but harder to keep that relationship without getting cucked.
2/ Emotional abuse. BPDemons lovebomb you at the beginning to lure you in then once they've acquired you they get bored and go to their next victim. Resisting the lovebombing phase requires experience that most guys don't have.
3/ Sunk cost fallacy. Once you've been familiar with someone for a long time you start gaslighting yourself because you've invested a lot of time and money into the relationship.

>>82937740
those girls are easy and ready to make themselves available whenever at first. then after some time the dude gets attached and sunk cost fallacy kicks in which ultimately leads to him getting stuck mentally. every abusive relationship follows a pattern similar to that. shit partners act good until the non-shit partner gets attached and then theyre back to their shitty ways and the other retard is stuck with them.

>>82937740
Dated bpd. She often chimped out and gave me hard time but usually was really affectionate and loving. It was tolerable until she did it publicly and I dumped her after that.
It's hard thing but while there more good stuff than bad stuff you just take it

>>82937782
Only works if a male can wield any sort of authority over a woman. This is impossible in the modern age. A modern woman would immediately start bitching out at the slightest discomfort and leave

>>82937790
>then you learn what to avoid
you avoid all of them

>>82937824
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH LOL NIGGERS IN RELATIONSHIPS WITH BPD WHORES I CANT LOLOLOLOLOLOL. I KNOW A NIGGER JUST LIKE THIS LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL. My wife will be a non personality disorders, shy austitic women.

>>82937740
This is the next step of Philosophy

>>82937740
Most people are legitimately retarded and terrified to be alone that's really all their is to it. They accept trash and misery rather than have nothing. Also generational fetal alcohol syndrome and alcoholism has made poor decision making out of control.

No, men just explicitly love horrible women. Some smart ones may marry a waifu out of cold calculation, but then they will cheat on her and waste family money with bpd demon

>>82937824
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>>82937790
These pretty much covers it. And theres way more delusional people that just deal with it for life than the sane self-respecting people that see it for what it is and avoid it. I had one 5 year relationship in my early 20s with a bpd/npd retard and the sunk cost fallacy and trying to force the situation into something good for all your effort and time is real. Fortunately I finally woke up and stopped lying to myself and asked wtf am I doing? Got out. Never again.

>>82937740
Women are just objectively terrible people. So, by extension, they inflict terrible relationships as well.

>>82937740
>cheating sluts

Yeah, turbo loner in recovery here. It really is to some people the loneliness and also just seeing everyone else being in relationships and craving it so much.
After 20 years of absolutely not existing in the eyes of anyone except my parents, i finally got a girlfriend. It was like heroin. Not even her, but the fact of having a girlfriend on its own

Yeah so within about 5 months of dating i found out she cheated on me. I found out because when she was sleeping i unlocked her phone with her fingerprint, she was a deep sleeper. This was back in 2019, so i read the messenger shit, and sure enough, there it was. And i just gulped and repressed down all the sadness and anger, so when she woke up, i just pretended i didnt know. I kept being with her for 7 more months before i finally couldnt take it anymore and broke up with her. She kept cheating and i kept pretending i didnt know, because i just couldnt stomach going back to that insane loneliness.

Took me more than a year of abuse to figure out i cant do this. 2 years of therapy later and i managed to start socializing again. Still single but i have friends IRL now, which is just great. Maybe there is hope or maybe i will just kms as a lonely 35yo idk

>>82937740
>Why are so many guys in horrible relationships?
Are they in relationships?

Maths:
In 1980 6% of 40 years olds were unmarried.
In 2020 it was 25%.
If it's about a 5% change per year the predictions might be:
40% of 40 year olds will be unmarried in 2025.
65% of 40 year olds will be unmarried in 2100.

Not divorced, having never actually been married.

>>82939204
Sorry this was for the USA.

>>82938456
BPD is no joke. That's what they diagnosed Jeffrey Dahmer with. He was trying to create zombies using acids injecting into living people's skulls. He had a demonic shrine of skulls and apparently someone who talked to him was weirded out that he was in contact with some local politicians.

If 75% of 40 year old men in the USA have ever been married, and the divorce rate is slightly lower than China and Russia, 42%, that means 31.5% will be divorced.

25% + 31.5% = 56.5% of older men are either divorced or have never been married - a majority

The male suicide rate peaks at 47.

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>>82939272
I think it probably gets worse and calling females Jeffrey Dahmer >>82939215
all day long is a bit much.

>I've been to prostitutes
Relationship having faithful men are just different from you. Imagine a slut woman making a thread like this, asking why women get married and have kids instead of riding the cock carousel and getting free drinks for life
That's your female equivalent
You have the soul of a nigger congratulations

>>82938642
This is true. It's because men with healthy test levels enjoy a challenge. Full stop men just like it more when we're a little mean sometimes. Stacy fucks Becky sucks

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>>82937790
lol shit !- dayum its like shordy flashbanged and stun grenaynayed me at the same time! wdf ! who ru
>pic related
void deep inside an insane situation, among other things happenning
lol holy fuck !

>>82939378
i cant understand (you), but if you are in insane situations regularly, its time to get the fuck out.
i.e. public chimpouts as another anon pointed out are the time to leave.

>>82939405
i hear you, but where the fuck ima go? i have nobody. im NOT staying in a homeless shelter. i dont want to pester them cus i cannot sleep there at night.

>>82937740
Women are just dogshit people. There's no excuse for the way they are other than that people are forced to deal with them or the species ends.

They really can't manage to meet the lowest possible standards for humamity.

>>82939439
it isnt just my romantic relationship, its all of them. im literally living in the lions den with no escape. where the fuck ima go with no money no car no house no connects no food ? huh?? thats insane. i gotta stay cool here at my familys house but i cannot keep pretending. ts is a nightmare.

>being single is better than being with a shitty person
Correct, this genius cracked the code.

>>82939455
get a fucking job, look into 'budgeting' so you can save 3 months worth of expenses or first+last months rent + security deposit for an apt, buy a shitbox honda and gtfo you nigger.
if you stay at home rent free (in your head) you can stack bread easy.
if you are really in the lions den youd find a way out

>>82939541
thanks !
helps alot man !