>every men and woman who has meet me initially though i was gayWhy does this keep happening to meIs being introverted apparently gay?Is being shy immediately a faggot thing?What the fuck am i supposed to do
>>82948119The average person is just lazy and thinks they're more intelligent than they actually are so they constantly are making assumptions based on how you carry yourself. If you're soft spoken or dress a certain way or don't act super masculine by their standards they'll jump to conclusions
>>82948119Basically this >>82948147It happens to me too.>What the fuck am i supposed to doThe only thing that can be done is to try to be more assertive. When you're passive as a man a lot of people will just assume you're gay (or just a bitch). The alternative is not caring about it unless it's a huge problem for you.
Autistic mannerisms register as a false positive on their daydar.
>>82948119I just assume niggas who act flamboyant ish are gay. Some guys just have gay femboy voices too
>>82948119I'm a diagnosed autist, and rather reticent. I get loads of assumptions about me, and they're all over the place. The reality is that the more that you enable the thoughts and projections of other people to crowd you and mold your mind, the more power they'll have over you. Obviously, sometimes it's not so simple as>don't care about what they say lol"Rather, it's more about making peace with yourself. In this case, it may be in owning that you are shy to yourself, and as the other anon mentioned, asserting yourself calmly and leaving it at that. A quiet guy who's quiet because he's fragile is a target. A quiet guy who's quiet because he chooses to be is more likely to be respected or not trifled with. Set boundaries with people and don't submit so easily.
Smoke cigs and deepen your voice maybe? Adopt more psychopathic traits? Idk, normies are hot trash and western women especially are ultranarcissists who assume every man they meet is trying to fuck them. Nothing you can do 'bout that
>>82948147>If you're soft spoken or dress a certain way or don't act super masculine by their standards they'll jump to conclusionsAnd they can't be wrong with their conclusions. Because real gay mostly aren't such.
>>82948119Maybe it's my voice but they we're right about the fag part
>>82948119same dudei've been told that its because i walk like a fag and have somewhat feminine body language. i used to hang out with only girls as a kid and i only have sisters so yeah, theyre probably right.
The mentally ill cause problems for themselves and for others.Gay ppl are mentally ill. Shy people are usually shy cause of some mental shit.People think you have some mental shit, and therefore, you are gay
>>82948119 (OP) #im a tranny and im only attracted to women but ive been asked if i was gay and asked out by a couple guys even BEFORE being out. being a guy and soft makes you like men i guess
>>82948119There are roughly three categories of people that come across as gay in a first interaction>Camp fags who make it clear what they are through their voice, clothes, and mannerisms>Creepy creatures who come across as a predator to other men>Shy harmless men who come off as innocent and weak and might unwittingly copy some feminine defensive mannerisms from female influences in their lifeSounds like you're #3.
>>82948947Yeah but which one are you?
>>82948957Closest to #3 but I don't doubt I come across as creepy sometimes. I've been told I come across as very defensive and shut off from others which is true.
>>82948119record yourself as you talk and do stuff, then watch videos on how normal people talk. exterminate the gay stuff you do.
