Why do you want to be a girl's boyfriend? What is it about that role that makes you desire it?
>>82978606I wish to enter a relationship of mutual support and benefit one another so we can grow and become the best versions of ourselves, and eventually have kids and form a family
>>82978606I don't. women should just come up to me and suck my dick because I'm that awesome.
>>82978606men don't want to be boyfriends they just want to have girlfriends like it's basically objectifying you because they want to own you instead of wanting something mutual where he has to put in effort to make you happy he just wants so the benefits and none of the responsibilities like just look at the other replies already it's literally just about what a girlfriend can do for them just a sex toy a baby factory and a sex toy. that's all they want from a girlfriend is just a object that can do the things that they can't do by themselves
>>82978755what part of "mutual support and benefit" didn't you understand?Sex is just part of the package, no self respecting guy is going to be with a woman who doesn't want to have sex with him
>>82978805I just don't believe you I have never met a guy who actually wants to support his gf or wife they only want to be supported and fuck her and have her take care of everything
>>82978606because i don't like being selfish or alone. i want someone i can talk about memories from 20-30 years ago with when i'm old. i love women also.
>>82978755>>82979020Congratulations you have the same logic as the guys of this board claiming all women leech of their bfs and and only see them as betabux
>>82979020This is just a matter of us guys being dumb. Up until about age 27 I sincerely thought, with all my heart, that cooking and cleaning were natural inclinations of some, not all, women. I mean why else would they do it if they didn't have some deep, intrinsic desire to do it? And I didn't have any such desire, so a good partner for me would be someone who did have that inclination, and I would contribute with things that came naturally to me but she never felt like doing. It was only a couple of years ago that I came to realize that you find those things just as unpleasant as I do, and did it anyway.
>>82979097>Up until about age 27 I sincerely thought, with all my heart, that cooking and cleaning were natural inclinations of some, not all, women.Lmao
>>82978606>Why do you want to be a girl's boyfriend? What is it about that role that makes you desire it?A significant other is more than that. The best way I can describe it is that they're like a very good friend, but you also give them a part of yourself in exchange for the same from them. In that sense, you're in this strange yet pleasant stare where you inherently share a portion of each other's experiences, and are collectively stronger/happier in doing so. You may also exchange habits and interests at a greater rate, while the difference between you two as both individuals and members of the opposite gender compliment each other.Sex has a part to play in all of that as an intimate ritual of bonding and one way in which this aforementioned exchange may occur, but it's not a major part in my opinion.I find that the act is overly time consuming and often stops being fun if I do so more than once or twice a week. ...Not that I don't miss it to a certain extent after being single for nearly two years.
>>82978606>Validation from her>Validation from the people around you>someone to talk to about your day>someone who can tell you about their day>someone to embrace>that magical feeling you get when you feel the touch of a woman>all the oxytocin released from being in love>someone to experience things with>someone to share memories with>someone to plan a future with>someone to build a family with>someone to give life meaning>someone to give color to your world>someone that makes the struggles worth it>someone to come home to at the end of the day
>>82979151ugh anon why are you so selfish men r all da same huuurr
I used to hype up the idea of having a gf and when I got one for a bit it I found the whole thing was a nuisance. She was unintelligent, annoying and, most importantly, boring. I tried a couple more times after that and continued to be disappointed. Having engaging talks with women is all but impossible for any smart man. You're stuck finding that needle in a haystack or learning to tolerate retards. Women reading this (if there are any), know that men aren't just interested in sex. If you think they are, it's because sex is the only interesting thing about you.
>>82978606You just know the white guy slaps her and screams slurs during sex
>>82978606I find it difficult to live a life of solitude - like all human beings I have an innate desire for social belonging. Due to physical/emotional abuse inflicted upon me by my father, and sexual/physical abuse from my male peers growing up, I am fundamentally incapable of forming an emotional attachment to another male.The only outlet I have for the most basic of human needs is the romantic, outside of that I have nothing, no emotional nourishment, no sense of physical security. Apart from that>exploring the world with someone at your side>cooking together, and sitting down each evening with a meal and conversing about your days>sleeping at night with someone by your side>back/head scratches>learning new things from them, being introduced to new experiences by them>having that person you can trust to be there in an emergency, to look after you when you are sick, and in turn to look after them in such ways
>Why do you want to be a girl's boyfriend?Sex>What is it about that role that makes you desire it?SexBut in all seriousness that is a bizarre way to phrase such a question and thus is unworthy of any sort of effort or sincerity.
