Why do mothers, sisters, aunts, etc give their male blood relatives dogshit dating advice?It's never "son, my dear, you're terribly out of shape and your hairstyle's messy" or "brother, you dress like a school shooter and you really need to stop looking at the floor when you speak to girls". Or "Nephew, your obsession with Japanese cartoons scares women away, tone it down a bit or keep it more to yourself".It's always some variation of "just be yourself, smile more, you're handsome, anyone would want you".Is it genuine ignorance, being in denial about being blood-related to a genetic failure, fear of exposing themselves as superficial outweighing their interest in having a happy son/brother? What is it?
>>82979424>Why do mothers, sisters, aunts, etc give their male blood relatives dogshit dating advice?Because they're women and thus live in a different dimension. They don't have to do anything to get attention and they're incapable of putting themselves in your shoes. It is pure ignorance. Tell them to make a dating profile for you to shut them up.
>>82979511This. People give advice based of of their own experiences exclusively. The thought of being disliked for being yourself never crosses the mind of an attractive woman. This is true for men as well, that's why bro advice like "just be confident" is so common.
>>82979424none of my female relatives gave me any dating advice. none. zip. besides.>le get yourself out there anon there is le plenty of le fish in le sea :)))))))>le someone for le everyone :)))))))then when i end up a kissless wizard because i'm ugly it's nothing but crickets.
>>82979424Idk what sisters you've had but they usually tell their brothers what to fix in order to get girls. If even your sister doesn't tell you what's wrong with you then you're probably the type of "one bad comment away from a tardrage". My brother doesn't trim his nails, rarely brushes his teeth, doesn't use his acne medicine, slouches, makes cringey noises, and doesn't greet people. Which is wild because I'd love to be in his shoes instead. He's actually got friends and is tall and decent looking. The little shit doesn't even try even though he has a great deck of cards.
>>82979511Moms and aunts give doubly dogshit advice because whatever worked when they were young and dating certainly does not work now.
>>82979932my older sister gave me zero dating advice. none. then when i complained about being ugly once she said "well i can't help you with self confidence sorry".
>>82979932My sister told me she would rather die when I asked for advice. When I had a gf (briefly) she was shocked and told me she thought I was going to be alone forever. Now I am.My Mom is exactly as OP described though and I have had plenty of female friends when I was growing up also refuse to tell me truths about myself.
My mom's advice>eat more, it's better to be too big as a man than too small>go outside, be more social>cut your hair, it's too long, try to have a more clean look>don't look away, make eye contact>get into more active hobbies, stop playing video gamesUnfortunately for her, I don't care about dating so she's not going to get the grandchildren she's hoping for.
>>82979424My mother never gave me dating advice. Altho she did Instill in me that she was the most normal women while being extremely mentally ill so you can just imagine the type of w*men I attract....
>>82979424My mom's dating advice was warning me about how bad women can be and not to be pussywhipped. She tried very hard to make sure I was not pussywhipped and she succeeded more than she probably wanted to because she wants grandkids and I hate women so.
>>82980328Why don't you just get a new gf normalfag? lol
>>82980492>she wants grandkidsThe ultimate aging vulnerable narcissistic mother flex
>>82979424>just smile and be yourselfBecause that's literally all women have to be. I know we like to pretend women are as smart as men and so on. But women are genuinely extremely stupid. Although some of them can occupy their limited mental capacity with some interesting information, they seem truly incapable of fathoming the reality what is required of a man and raise essential women. Allowing your body to waste away, telling you to be docile and agreeable. It's all very damaging.
>>82980724She's bad but she's not narcissistic. She hasn't brought it up in a few years but she used to be a nuisance about me finding a nice girl and bringing her a grandkid. I know she wants one from me though especially the way my aunt and uncle talk about their grandson.
>>82980309>>82980328Do you still want advice anon, I could give it, even if you're an uggo there's way to camouflage/work with it.
When you've got a female led household the streets are your only teacher. Or an uncle or something outside the house. But in most cases streets or say hello to vidya games and hermitism.
>>82980724People who want grandkids but themselves only have 1 or 2 kids are fucking delusional. One turns out gay and the other an incel, what now? Lmao. Serves them right though, most people don't logically plan their lives at all.
