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I turn 26 next month and im so bitter at how I wasted my youth. I started balding at 18 and I never recovered. Ive been a NEET since. I think about how ill never be young with a group of friends, I'll never flirt with a bunch of cute college aged girls, ill never express myself and expiriment with different looks, etc. There is so much I lost and never got to do. Now im pushing 30 and I just think about suicide daily. What am I living for? A foid to take pity on me so I can live a boring domestic life and never get to be young free and have fun? I have no interest in growing up because I never got to be young. I dont see a way out
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>>82985285
how does it make you feel knowing they very likely have the cure for balding but dont release it because it wouldn't be as profitable as treatments that barely work?
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>>82985298
Finasteride/dutasteride work and they're only <100 bucks a year
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faggot trolololol
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>>82985285
Start going to the gym and read books. If you do that already then do more. Start a garden and farm max when the season comes.
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>>82985285
im 27 and im not balding. how do i meet a girl like in pecrel?
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>>82985285
You're life is basically over at this point. If you didn't accomplish the things necessary for your social development it's basically over for you.
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>>82985312
Im OP and Ive been on finasteride since I was 19 as a nw2 and now im firmly a nw3. These drugs definitely work but its not as much of a cure as people like to tell you. For 10% it doesnt work at all, and for many it at best slows the bleeding.
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>>82985388
Get a hair transplant
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>>82985378
old fags will say "ur still so youn"g but the growing years are dead, all that's left is holding strong against the slow decay of life
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>>82985378
>>82985467
This genuinely kills me. Im 28. I think about what is ahead of me and its hard not to put a bullet in my head. It feels more dignified
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>>82985450
Funny part is I got one. Spent 8k. 1200 grafts. Result is terrible.
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>>82985388
>simply slows the bleeding
I though that this was the intended purpose. If you want to reverse balding you need a hair transplant.
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>>82985830
That's pretty grim, did your doctor suck?
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>>82986253
People talk about finasteride as if it freezes your hair loss at a minimum, with some lucky people getting regrowth. When in reality a large chunk still lose ground while on the drug, and some dont respond at all
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>26 next month
>wasted my youth

shut the fuck up you stupid fucking idiot
YOU ARE STILL A FUCKING BABYYYYY
YOUR BRAIN DIDN'T STOP GROWING UNTIL ONE FUCKING YEAR AGO
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>>82985363
Escort service
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>>82986291
Real young people will call 26 year olds unc
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>>82986649
Real young people are also real retarded.
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>>82986308
This, a lot of these zoomer goth girls are becoming unironic prostitutes because they believe it's empowering. They're out there. I've been banging one for 3 years, she was 19 (and now 22). Looks just like every other hot zoomie goth girl and fucks like them too she gets insanely into it, it really do be peak tho. As long as I get to keep seeing her to unload my balls deep in her, I don't care about anything else. If that's what works then it's what works!
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>>82987362
lmfao, fucking incel has to resort to fucking hookers to get sex. get a girlfriend you absolute ugly fuck of an incel. how much have you paid her over the course of those three years? five figures?
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>>82987377
Sex is sex kek, your gaslighting means nothing to me as I have let go of my ego a very long time ago... I am too far gone for judgement to have an effect on me. Absolutely shameless lmao get fucked nigger.
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>>82985285
Same thing here, anon. I've been coping with drugs, and honestly, being on four or three different substances at the same time can make life actually fun sometimes.
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>>82987393
incel, i don't care about your boiling raging blood right now, don't give a fuck at all. at the least, answer how much you've approximately paid her in the last three years
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>>82987432
I'm the one laughing at you buddy, kekk look at this guy's superior ego complex
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>>82985285
A good way to improve your life massively is to delete all of these pics from all your devices, your phone should have zero pictures of random women, the only pics you should have on your phone that involve a women are families, friends, and girlfriend/wife.
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>>82986308
>>82987362
>>82987393
>>82987718
where do find an actual escort though? do you use tryst dot link? a lot of sites are scam shit, i feel like it would be easier to use social media for younger women but idk if i just go on twitter and look up "my state" and "escort" where tf do you go
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I'm in the same boat op, I don't even look that bad I'm nw2 on finasteride I'm like a 6/10.
My PTSD is what drives women away, I have a decent friend group at least but I can't even go to parties because normies like to gatekeep losers by being mean, and women love that. I'm not even a loser I'm decently succesful as an artist but getting tortured and raped as a kid really fucked me up and normies notice something's wrong with me so they act mean until I leave, especially women. But hey at least neoteny and skincare makes me look 19 so that's that, but it doesnt change shit I'm still not good enough.
It's not all about looks, I'm way younger and look slightly better than one of the groups chads that brings a different model home every week, but he can dance and talk to women and I can't so that's that. Also he's a bully and people love that.
Truth is every generation needs a scapegoat, back then it was jews and niggers but now it's our turn, if you're a neurodivergent man you're basically fucked especially if you're white since you cant play the race card, also depression and anxiety doesnt count that's like normie tier. They ain't worth it anyway, their idea of conversation or entertainment is punching down on those they deem below them in the social hierarchy, I'd rather smoke weed and play mario kart with the boys than have to deal with this shit.
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>>82985285
F. I rapidly baldceled from 23-28. I had to accept it. I did the whole crew-cut / head-shaving thing in my 20s and was glad to give it up before I turned 30. Now I unashamedly horseshoecel, and since 35 I seemed to have aged into my looks. Pushing 40 now. I have a good beard too, but it has been greying around the chin and throat for the past decade. I somehow still get likes and matches, but they never want to talk, or fuck. So I'm stuck as an incel anyway.
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>>82986655
Old person cope.
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>>82985285
Listen to me. I genuinely turn 36 next month and was posting the same fucking thing at your age like a fucking retard. You are PRIME age to FUCKING to something about it, women yur age are still young and you can EASILY date 21 year olds.

Lift fucking weights, go on a diet, go learn to teach english as a foreign language and move to asia for a year. You will fucking SLAY over there, seriously.

Seriously though, if you don't do it NOW you will end up like me and you do not want that. Dating in your thirties fucking sucks arse and I also am starting to get actual scary health issues (back, sleep apnoea, heart problems, high blood pressure) because I didn't change when I was young.

Also go see a fucking therapist and read the stoics and taoists, and get off this godforsaken shithole. I've been coming here since 2007 and it fucking ruined me.
Finasteride is great though.
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>>82989960
Do you still get some young tight pussy from time to time anon
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>>82985285
Lmfao crazy how niggas will let one insecurity ruin their lives
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>>82987393
Sex is absolutely not all equal. The context and tension behind it determines everything. The more transactional or expected the sex, the less erotic it is, which makes it a very very different experience
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>>82989960
>you can EASILY date 21 year olds.
50+ bodies average and no pair bonding. Not worth it.
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>>82991805
I had zero bodies and I felt no "pair bond" after having sex with my girlfriend. I am starting to suspect that was all bullshit.
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>>82992349
No chance if she can't either, she's damaged goods. You can't love someone's used cumrag.
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>>82992381
She had like two bodies before me. She clearly loves me but I cant really feel anything. I dont think im a sociopath but im doubting if love is something i can feel
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>>82992414
>She had like two bodies before me
Ruined. She's damaged goods, anon.
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>>82992438
Not the guy you're replying to but women with bodies are the best because they know how to fuck good. Why would I want to fyck the equivalent of a child who has no experience doing anything
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going ER is only hope for us
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>>82992456
>women with bodies are the best because they know how to fuck good.
I don't care about "le good fuck", if you don't love, it's just disgusting masturbation where someone tolerates you enough to use their body. It's abhorrent.
>Why would I want to fyck the equivalent of a child who has no experience doing anything
Never said a child or even compared it to that, fuck off, disgusting.
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>>82991805
Total fucking meme you only believe because you're chronically online and definitely not the case in asia. This thinking right here is what you need to avoid like the fucking plague, it will poison you.

>>82990983
Yes but it took me waaaay too long to learn how to
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>>82992621
>Total fucking meme you only believe because you're chronically online and definitely not the case in asia.
I've never seen a female older than 16 that has never had a boyfriend. If her cherry has been popped, you already know she's climbing those numbers.
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>>82985378
So many anons that were losers in their teens get whiplashed by this. Your 20s piss by pretty quickly and they expect it to be a slow drag like school was so they have time to fuck off but you really don't. Those 10 years felt like 5 at best. And then you're 30 and lost/defeated.
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>>82992638
First girl I fucked was a virgin at 20, second had 1 previous sexual partner at 24
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>>82992753
>First girl I fucked was a virgin at 20
Absolutely doubt it.
And if true, you stained someone. Hope your family dies in an automobile wreck.
>second had 1 previous sexual partner at 24
That too.
I can make averages of previous couples with information from all the roasts in my college campus and find the average to be 10 by 21. They've all been ruined. This is false, she was damaged as fuck.
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>>82992621
>took me waaaay too long to learn how to
What are your tactics anom
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>>82992786
'stained someone' go masturbate to christian youtubers cunt, we loved each other and it didn't work out.
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>>82992852
>we loved each other and it didn't work out.
Doesn't seem like it. Three generational punishment with neonatal leukemia if you have a son is needed! Souless.
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>>82992796
Mostly things that sound like memes but actually aren't 1. have self worth and never degrade yourself or tolerate bullshit games from women 2. 'have confidence' which I remember being the piece of advice I hated most but boils down to a. don't be scared of women or intimidated by them b. don't overly moderate yourself or try to adopt a persona on their account c. remember that they need to impress you as much as you need to impress them on first date. If they are boring or stupid, don't get blinded by their looks d. learn to ignore rejection. That's the toughest one but literally just use apps and practice talking to women by rightswiping on uggos who'll definitely add you and just talk to them for a bit. 3. If you're older and trying to pick up younger women the magic line is 'ha, sounds like you're sick of dating boys' or some similar variant ie. you're a mature man. 4. Obvious things like not dressing like a twat or child but without going all elliott roger or fedora in pressed suits. Literally get a decent shirt, decent jacket, ok jeans, okish shoes. 5. on dating apps like their worst picture or whatever picture is of an animal, not the one where their tits as massively visible or whatever.
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>>82992878
You've never had a realtionship and are applying insane, ideologically tinged standards to things which is crippling you. I remember this.
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>>82992796
Oh yeah and number 6. if a fucking cunt tries to friendzone you after rejecting you or entices you to orbit when she's in a relationship fucking COMPLETELY and fucking UTTERLY end shit with that fucking bitch. FUCK THAT. Never, ever EVER allow yourself to get into that fucking situation, fucking EVER. Bitches will have 'emotional affairs' and shit with their favourite orbiters for YEARS and say total bullshit to keep them trapped eg 'I could see myself with you in the future.' As a man, NEVER, EVER EEEEEEEEEEVER fall for that - you get psychotic self-important cunts actually trying to have a 'reserve' male that they string along like this for the future and they justify the most evil fucking shit by 'hurr durr battling patriarchy or some shit. NEVER fall for it.
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>>82992968
>You've never had a realtionship
There's no love to be had or important things to share, people ruin themselves and get accustomed to fondness, not love. You ruined a young girl for a possible true lover. Now you just have carnal desires and walk around masturbating with other people's bodies. It's disgusting.
>I remember this.
You should feel guilt when remembering ruining a woman.
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>>82993011
Lol I was also a virgin, did she 'ruin' me?

'Carnal desires' are what every functional man has and are entirely natural. Christian death-worshipping slave morality descending from the abomination known as judaism hates the natural world and wants to characterise everything as sinful and evil which can be used to elevate man with sensory experiences. Fucking random whores constantly? Degenerate. Fucking in love? No
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>>82993056
>Lol I was also a virgin, did she 'ruin' me?
You ruined yourself. You are disgusting and destroyed someone while leaving yourself a stained corruptor.
>'Carnal desires' are what every functional man has and are entirely natural
And can control them, unlike animals.
>Christian death-worshipping slave morality descending from the abomination known as judaism hates the natural world and wants to characterise everything as sinful and evil which can be used to elevate man with sensory experiences
Never said anything about the rabbi. Sex is trauma and gets ingrained in your brain, your first time and first person are the total cast for your brain. There's no going back after it, you are ruined.
>Fucking random whores constantly? Degenerate. Fucking in love? No
Last one is as degenerate if you are a corruptor who can't love and will just go into carnal mating.
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>>82993098
Ok so you're trolling.

If you actually do believe this, then elucidate how exactly you think relationships are supposed to go and any relationships you've been in + whatever religion or ideology you have that makes you believe this.
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>>82993126
>Ok so you're trolling.
Not trolling.
>elucidate how exactly you think relationships are supposed to go and any relationships
Virgin marriage, no divorce, pure monogamy, being raised for marriage and love since youth.
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>>82993166
Ok so something which is never going to exist again, didn't even exist at the level of incidence people think it did when it did as it was a religious ideal and isn't really a natural way of life since it was largely imposed by a sex-hating death-cult descended from the most evil, psychotic religion to ever exist (judaism).

If you get people who stay with their first love, great and even, I would say, ideal. But that naturally happens to very few people so you would get vast numbers of shit marriages and extra-martial affairs (look up the historical incidence of non partner paternity in genetics for socities like this) + people outright killing their shit partners if they couldn't divorce them. Sexuality in the modern era is diseased, yes - but this sort of unnatural rejection of it is equally pathlogical and what led to modern degeneracy through the hegelian dialectic of antithesis.
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>>82993256
>Ok so something which is never going to exist again, didn't even exist at the level of incidence people think it did when it did as it was a religious ideal and isn't really a natural way of life since it was largely imposed by a sex-hating death-cult descended from the most evil, psychotic religion to ever exist (judaism).
It should happen again.
So a people got it succesfuly? Then it seems good.
>If you get people who stay with their first love, great and even, I would say, ideal.
The only way it should happen.
>But that naturally happens to very few people so you would get vast numbers of shit marriages and extra-martial affairs (look up the historical incidence of non partner paternity in genetics for socities like this)
And that's why death for adultery is good. It ruins everyone involved.
>people outright killing their shit partners if they couldn't divorce them
Ruined and corrupted people always existed, yes.
>Sexuality in the modern era is diseased, yes
Even more than diseased. It's dead and rotting.
>but this sort of unnatural rejection of it is equally pathlogical and what led to modern degeneracy through the hegelian dialectic of antithesis.
It is not unnatural if you are not an actual retard that just acts on impulse, in which case, you shouldn't be considered human.
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>>82993295
You're too simplistic in your outlook and reactionary. There is more under the sun than in your philosophy, Horatio.
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>>82993334
>You're too simplistic in your outlook and reactionary.
I simply understood what has been going on and will happen. There's a simple way out, but it requires "people" to not act like chimps. There's just black and white, zero and one, winner and loser, I don't believe anything that isn't absolutes. That's the law of the world.
>There is more under the sun than in your philosophy, Horatio.
There's nothing more, what's out there is gibberish.
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>>82985285
>25
>pushing 30
you still have time
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>>82985285
i also turn 26 in a month or so. life got better when i started trying. i will never have those experiences or even a friend group probably, but life doesn't feel as unbearably painful anymore. a thorfinn's life was never going to look like a coming of age movie, but peace and growth are real and possible.
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>>82993126
>DURRRRRR someone believes something different than me they must be LE TROLL!
You are an impossibly stupid dipshit



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