sex havers of /r9k/, i have never had anything in my pussy and i am terrified of having sex for the first time because everyone says it is painful and bloody. so i am considering taking it with my own finger. but is it really going to be unpleasant to have sex with a real dick? it sounds like a dentist appointment.
>>83117134I dunno, the first time I had sex we were both virgins and we had a good time
>>83117134>Woman>Goes to the especially male loser board to ask this question, which they wouldn't be able to answer anyway because of anatomical differencesI'm sure you are a woman who's asking this question in good faith and hoping to get honest answers
>83117134Hey im a careful guy and I'd love to lose my virginity to you. Whenever something feels fragile or delicate i always am careful to not force things if i know itll break. So like if you wanna give your virginity to me id be really happy. I will go slow and careful amd if it hurts just tell me!! We can stop and sleep next to eachother and hug. (please give me your virginity if real)Btw im a 5'9 hapa in texas with 5 1/2 inch dick
Just try to have fun. Don't make it a performance thing like you see in porn
>>83117134its surprisingly more painful than i expected, felt a bit like getting stabbed if im being honest. there isnt as much blood as youre probably thinking there is. make sure you give your virginity to someone who will take things nice and slow to not make you feel rushed. if you feel uncomfortable, you wont get wet, and its bound to be a painful experience. most peoples first times are bad because theyre inexperienced people who are rushing through the motions due to them being excited over finally being able to have sex.
>>83117134>i am considering taking it with my own finger
>>83117547Please tell me this is pasta. I need this to be pasta.
>>83117134It's only painful and bloody if your hymen obstructs the way, otherwise it should be fine.I learned about this shit in school like 20 years ago, what are they teaching you kids these days?
>>83117134Why are there so many fucking foids on here?
your first time is never goodit takes a few times to find what you likeyour entire body is your pleasure zone, explore and find what you enjoysometimes you need someone else to do things to find what you enjoyr9k isnt the place to learn from
>>83117661Its not pasta im genuinely touch starved after years of forest homeschooling and adult loneliness
>>83117134This is a larp because you've absolutely used a tampon before.I remember my ex gf having to go downstairs and talk to her younger sister who was terrified of putting a tampon up there when she first got her period. That is way more painful for the uninitiated than your fingers.
>>83117789youre meant to rub the tampon on the bloody entrance of your pussy before putting in, stupid. thats way less painful than losing your virginity.
>>83117134First girl I deflowered was a bit squeamish for the first 2 minutes maybe, but it didn't seem to hurt much at all after that.Second and last one was extremely scared and clenched up a lot. Apparently it was painful too, so it took a few months of working up to it. She did stretching exercises in the meantime and got diagnosed with vaginismus.Once I finally did take her virginity it wasn't much of an issue anymore and we had a normal sex life for a few years until she cheated on me lol
>>83117134Assuming this isn't bait, if you're a robot, odds are he might have some similar qualities. He might suck at sex. Are you good at sex? If you aren't then can you expect someone else to be great at sex? My first time getting a blowjob was one of the worst blowjobs I have ever had because we were both 15 or 16 and we had no clue what we were doing so she gavea toothy, awkward, slow and unpleasant blowjob. She was a nice enough girl
>>83117547>>83117749holy pathetic
>>83117927dont talk to him like that, youll make him cream his jorts.
Moid here, have him perform oral sex on you to help you relax and get wet, then when actual sex occurs have him go in slow. Use plenty of lubricant if needed. you need to be patient and as wet as possible so he slides in and doesn't force himself in.Hope that helps calm your nerves OP.
>>83117134You dont need to do it with your finger. I took my ex's virginity normally but it did take us a few times to actually get it in. So how about it? Are you gonna do it yourself or do you want me to help you?
>>83117789She could have used pads, it's weird that you assume every woman uses tampons.>>83117834But if this post is OP then she clearly has and is absolutely retarded which proves the other poster completely right.
>>83117999most women dont use tampons before losing their virginity, what makes you think they definitely have?>>83117986most men hate giving women oral..
>>83118008Then try to find one that doesn't? I personally love giving oral especially if the woman is clean and tastes good. It's a good warm up, she's wet and satisfied and I can take my time working myself up to being able to cum. If I give a terrible performance then she's atleast satisfied beforehand.
>>83117134this image is so real but like every time I choose to let a man imageinside me
>>83118057i dont really like engaging in lewd conversations with people long enough to find out whether they like eating a woman out, but growing up ive often heard men say that eating a woman out is disgusting and smelly.
>>83118144Look OP you don't have to discuss it upfront, once you meet a man that loves you he WILL do it. It's not really fair if he expects you to suck his dick but he wont perform oral sex on you. It's bedroom talk, once you're comfortable enough with a man to have sex the topic will come up and you can discuss it then. As far as smells, yeah they can smell but right after a shower your vagina wont. Take care of your diet too, eat clean and healthy foods, drink plenty of water. Then you'll end up with a pleasant smelling vagina.
>>83118197but he will probably think im a degenerate for asking for something like that.
>>83118242Have you seen how submissive most of the men on this board are? You'll be fine.Then there's the other group of men that enjoy oral sex like myself that will volunteer to do it. You're over-thinking it, take a deep breath and relax.
>>83118261im just too shy to ask. people here might be like that, but from what ive heard irl, most women say sex is painful and dissatisfying, that most men will cum and dump women, but i really dont want that to happen to me. it sounds scary and painful, plus i want to feel good too.. but im so scared of being looked down on if i ask someone to eat me out, despite wanting to experience it :((
>>83118281Again try to relax and don't rush it. Find a chill guy to communicate and bond with and start a relationship with then you can both discuss sexual activity like adults. If you end up in a casual hookup situation where you both try to rush things then yeah it can be uncomfortable for you.
>>83118008>what makes you think they definitely have?Maybe the part where they say you should rub the tampon with some blood before inserting it, and the claim that actual sex would hurt when entering a tampon wouldn't.Do you have absolutely zero reading comprehension or something?
>>83118334i wrote that, not the OP?
>>83118321have you ever turned a girl away because shes too smelly? sometimes if ive been really physically active, when i like uncross my legs or shift positions while sitting down, i can smell myself :( does it have anything to do with my anatomy, or am i just not cleaning it properly??
>>83118355I'm going to refrain from calling you retarded, but I am going to ask that you reread this chain of replies again.
>>83118407im too lazy desu, but the op never said theyve used a tampon. my point still stands, a small, 2 inch cotton tube is less painful than an average sized penis tearing your hymen.
>>83118364Yes once but that was because she hadn't showered in a few days and was bedrotting, I had to force her to the tub and bathe her myself.It doesn't matter what gender you are, you will probably smell a little bit from physical activity, it's just how the human body works, smells are acceptable. Humans always have a scent but that's why you groom yourself and maintain a healthy diet and get some fresh air to maintain.You're fine OP.
>>83118426what is an acceptable level of smell? because no matter how much i clean mine, theres always a slight crayfish odour.
>>83118446A little hard to judge since i'm not there to smell you OP but a slight odor doesn't bother me. Even the slight scent of armpit is acceptable. If the smell was overpowering like an old fish left to bake in the sun for a hours it would be bad.But also remember its human biology, every person produces a scent no matter how clean they are. I can be fresh out of the shower and cleaned up but if I don't put on deodorant or use cologne then my armpits will begin to smell after an hour.
>>83118491haha, for some reason, reading about your armpit smell made me a bit giddy. thank you for boosting my confidence, i hope i can find someone as patient as you!! :D
>>83117134If you love him and your bodies are healthy and bonded, then no. But you will also need to want it. If you want to have sex while being dry it will probably suck.
>>83118507No problem, i'm happy you're laughing now. You will find someone patient just take your time. Also remember to be direct with your needs/wants when you find a good man to be with. If he is a person for you he will understand and not act like a baby.
>>83117134AbsolutelyIn fact if you detach it from the love and the sharing intimacy with someone you like sex itself is pretty uninteresting. That's why solo play is nowhere near as fulfilling.
>>83117943... thsts mean you're very hurtful i did nothing to you guys
>>83117789you think that i must be larping because you believe there are no women who don't use tampons? i have only ever used pads. nothing has ever been inside my vagina.>>83117999it's not me. you are the retard.>>83118197>>83118426the person you are responding to wasn't me either, idk why they are refusing to clarify that.
>>83119087That's okay, I offered up general information and advice for any femanon that's worried about their body odor and their future partner.I hope my posts helped someone.
>>83119087I know you are LARPing because you cannot post a vocaroo. You will make a silly excuse that takes longer to type than simply linking a voca. Because you are male.
>>83119138i cannot post a vocaroo because i don't give a fuck what you believe
Wife had the same mentality and it was a bit painful so our experience was a bit awkward, but every time after that was good so it's just a silly thing we laugh at every now and again. The amount of blood was negligible, it's not like being on your period. If you're so anxious about your first time you might have trouble getting wet so vag safe lube might help honestly..
>>83119160>excuse exactly as predictedk bro
>>83118741I'm sure you're a nice guy anon but asking for sex on 4chan is pitiful. If your parents were well off enough to homeschool you in the woods you should be fine enough to go to community college and get over your social awkwardness. Don't rush to find a gf but if you find a chick interested don't blunder the opportunity either.
>>83117134i was pornbrained for a while and would finger myself often which never really hurt but when i had sex for the first time it was so painful. i think its uncomfortable no matter what. it hurt most to walk immediately after and even now i still experience discomfort for a while after sex. im just glad my partner is experienced and understanding so hes always gentle when i ask him to be and he doesnt get repulsed if i bleed or anything
>>83118415>>83119087That's why I said IF, you stupid fucking worthless holes.
