>Girl added me from /soc/ yesterday>We talk for a bit, seem to get along well enough>Wake up this morning>Send message to say merry Christmas>"This message could not be delievered because you are not friends"It wouldn't bother me so much if it weren't so hard to get girls to add me in the first place, like I get to talk to one every couple months at best and they always unadd me or delete their Discord accounts after a couple days/weeks
poor OP yea I know that feeling hope you'll get lucky again soonmerry Christmas from me an overweight NEET for all it's worth
>>83483887Same thing always happens to me. Girls don't view anyone they interact with as human beings, its all just entertainment to them. To them, ghosting somebody is the same as turning off the TV. Font take it too hard, its not your fault that these people don't possess empathy.
>>83484092It's macabre. It's like they are playing with dolls again but it's people.
>>83484110lover chickn
>>83484087>>83484092>>83484120Thanks for validating my feels anons, and merry Christmas2026 WILL be our year>>83484110Damn, you had my hopes up until that last sentence
>>83484110picrelated is how everyone felt reading this
>>83484120https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FzFPmx96nnA
>>83484145Well, I was being just being a bit of a drama queen, teehee.
They complain about abusechad and then go online and use men as temporary entertainment and to feed their egos then delete them when they get bored.
this is why I've started treating soc foids the same wayI pretend to be interested in them and whatever retarded gossip they have to share and call them pretty and smart and dote on them for a day then go appear offline and watch how they react to being used the same way they use menthey don't like it
>>83484207Fair, but I hope that's not making them more likely to ghost in turn
>>83484193being a abusechad is quiet fun however
I am senditive and that hurts yeah, then again it will start to feel labored pretty soon with both of you giving whatever boring updates about your boring lives trying to keep the conversation going, maybe better to leave it with one nice chat
>>83484318I've had some really good friends from 4chan who I talked with every day for years, mainly girlsZoomer women are just less willing to take the time to get to know people
>>83483887iktfwi made a post and someone actually added me, i messaged, they replied, i replied like 20mins later cus i was doing something irl and i was removed/blockedactually someone else added me this morning, we just had a chat and now she is going to bed. i expect her to never reply again.
>>83484355A couple times I've had it where they added me while I was asleep and they had cancelled the friend request by the time I saw it
>>83484324I wish I had that, I was hiding for all those years
>>83484375Really sorry anon, I treasure those friendships even though they're gone nowHopefully you'll find your people some day
>>83483887It's why I dont bother adding girls anymore especially from /soc/. You have to remember if they put their add on /soc/ they have like 50 different men trying to add them.
>>83484404OP here, I never ever add girls who post their own contact, I just talk to the ones who very occasionally add me
>>83484382It's not totally dire, most people are totally pleasant it's just hard to get it to continue. My instinct is to hide but I make it a challenge if I get the last message or last first message before they leave then I win.
>>83484411It's effort to speak to girls. Especially when you have to start off being "nice" and pretending to be interested in their dull lives. I'd rather just outright say I want an FWB but they seem to hate that and just block you.
>>83484231Obviously it is. Don't engage in zero & negative sum games if you don't have to
>>83484495I just wanna talk to a cool foid maaaan
>be woman>your attention is inherently valuable because it is desired by almost all men on /soc/, a board for losers>because your attention is valuable and since it is limited, you can be very discerning about who you give it to>retards can't understand this and chimp out when they get discardedIt's literally your fault. By chasing them you give them this power and by not immediately clicking with them you can be discarded because there is another simp lining up behind you to talk to some loser woman online. And the fact that you then resort to low T whining about it evidences why it's correct to ghost you.
>>83484404I added a femboy to talk to one time, probably about two hours after he made a post on /soc/. We talked that night and he told me the next day that he had 86 friend request since he had made his post the previous night. Now imagine how many requests a real girl gets. Don't be surprised when foids treat you as disposable, because to them, you are. They cannot see you as a human being.
>>83484559So if it's my fault, what's the correct course of actionThere's nowhere to meet non-normie women IRL and all the online spaces are sausagefests
>>83484578Sometimes I find it hard to believe that there are anywhere near as many women in the world as there are men
>>83484581>reads my post>replies with>So if it's my fault, what's the correct course of action>all the online spaces are sausagefestsYou're so incredibly low IQ, especially when you added >There's nowhere to meet non-normie women IRL
>>83484594It doesn't just feel that way. The stats show there are twice as many single young men as single young women. Online, those demographics are even more skewed.
>>83484610Enlighten us guru
>>83484614Yep, and a lot of girls who are on dating apps or soc threads have no intention of settling down with anyone
>>83484318>it will start to feel labored pretty soon with both of you giving whatever boring updates about your boring lives trying to keep the conversation goingHow do you prevent this from happening? Does it get easier once you're together in real life? I always assume it's my fault because I'm awkward and quiet.
>>83484620>retard still insists on playing the same game after losing>refuses to critically self-reflect so will never learn>expects to be spoonfed>will inevitably dismiss the original point because he is not autistically handheld and given an exact guide on what to do nextYou deserve what you got and that you can't see why is justification for it.
>>83484647It's easy if you find one you click with and get to know them well>t. had an e-gf for four years until I fucked it up
>>83484650Can anyone translate this into non-retard
>>83484634>settling downYou sound like a woman of yesteryear. >>83484647Your conversations become boring because you're likely a boring person who doesn't do anything, doesn't go anywhere, doesn't talk to anyone and nothing ever happens to you. Most of you likely sit in your room and if you leave it, it's to go to another room in your parents house. How could you continue to be interesting if you never do anything?
>>83484634>>83484614Let's be real, how many foids do you think browse /soc/? Must be 10% or less. That boards catalog is mostly just pictures of men's cocks and assholes. Not exactly the best place for a woman to browse. Similarly, r9k has a few fembots but there's no way they are mentally sound. They're either really young like teenagers or older with BPD
>>83484669Yeah. Its ragebait. You can ignore it.
>>83484697>If you continue doing the same thing in the same exact way, eventually the outcome will changePointing out that this is retarded is not ragebait. You're literally getting what you deserve as a non-competitive male
>>83484686Yeah, I guess it would be more effective to infiltrate the proper Discord servers with more like 20% women and slide into random DMsFor a while I tried playing FFXIV partly in hopes of talking to girls but it never happened
>>83484711Very smart anon. I'm sure no one else has tried this before and you won't just be another "hey" in a sea of DMs
>>83484711>For a while I tried playing FFXIV partly in hopes of talking to girls but it never happenedI've heard loads of girls play FFXIV though. You probably need to play a male character with muscles or some shit
>>83483887after a few experiences like that I don't even want to talk to foids anymore. On the rare occasion one dms me I instantly block them
>>83484720Looks like we have an expert hereWhat else then, get institutionalized to chat up suicidal hoes?
>>83484730>get told the truth>immediately become a condescending, passive aggressive little bitch about itKek
>>83484724That's probably part of it, I get the feeling a lot of XIV players are the types to be Kpop stans at 30 and have a very specific "type"
>>83484092Indeed, even if you're a decently attractive and socially skilled man you're still not enough to compete with their inbox
>>83484739You aren't offering any constructive advice, just being an esoteric prick
>>83483887I swear that these women do this deliberately, whether just to attention whore for a day or to maliciously belittle and fuck with men. Either way they just use men for their own ego and are not very nice people to begin with, so you didn't lose anything OP.
>>83484711When it comes to MMOs you have to employ cold hard VIOLENCEt. became frens with a foid that i routinely btfo in pvp
>girl added me from soc a few days ago>i send her a selfie>she says im cute>she starts flirting with me and says she will send her tummy when shes back from holiday vacation away from familycute incel chuds stay winning. never add women, always just post yourself
>>83484766Yeah, that's a good way to look at itGotta wonder where all the decent ones are hiding though
>>83484781PLACE YOUR BETSWILL ANON EVER GET THAY TUMMY PIC?
>>83484756Most anons are not looking for advice but an autistic point by point walkthrough of exactly what to do to make yourself desirable. If that isn't you, then you should have the intelligence to critically self-reflect. See >>83484673Honestly, you are probably not interesting, not attractive, not funny, not rich, not actually socially skilled, etc. So what exactly is your competitive edge? In a game where there are hundreds of even thousands of others who, at best, are doing exactly what you're doing and are exactly like you, what makes you think you're special or will stand out? If their attention is limited, why would it be spent on you? At worst, some of the guys doing the same thing you are doing are just better than you in some, most, or all of these ways.Point is, you're playing a game where the odds are stacked against you and you never stop to think whether you should continue playing it or change the variables to better stack the odds in your favour. Nope, most of you will continue being asocial, boring hikkineets in your parents house whose only point of value is "I'm me, not him" like it matters to anyone elseThis is the constructive criticism anon and if you want to continue competing with hundreds of men for a scrap of attention from someone you'll never meet, at least have the dignity to not whine about it on a public forum. Phone posting on the shitter, don't bitch at me if this doesn't flow properly or there are misspellings
>>83484828Holy shit you actually said something meaningful this timeI am indeed an ugly manchild but I've managed to click with girls in the past, it's just gotten harder in the 2020s for various reasons
>>83484876What I said has always been the same. You've just admitted that you needed to be spoonfed, as I pointed out earlier.>it's just gotten harder in the 2020s for various reasonsAgain, absolutely no insight from you on why this might be. It's not even that ugly man children can't find a girl because you see them all the time, but you should have to justify why, if you know you're ugly, you're still a manchild after all this time? As you get older, this becomes harder and harder to justify to others, especially women who are (partially rightly imo) told by society they should be provided for. Why are you still a manchild and what makes you ugly?
>>83484902That may be part of the reason, but typically they ghost me before even learning about my loserdom or seeing my pictureIt feels like a cultural shift, zoomer girls expect constant gratification and variety whereas millennial ones had at least some patience
>>83484828not that I recommend wasting your time on them but if you're a genuine simp like me, it's not that hard to stand out against 100s of mostly normie men sending her low-effort messages who are only looking for nudes and a quick nut. Women are extremely vulnerable to words.
>>83483887>It wouldn't bother me so much if it weren't so hard to get girls to add me in the first placealso why are you beta men like this? ONLINE DOESN'T MEAN SHIT.unless you see her in person and can fuck her IN PERSON, you are just a SIMP
>>83484946I'm too much of an autist to be able to flirt, but I try to make them laugh and ask them a lot of questions about their interests and whatnot, but maybe I'm not enough of a wordsmith>>83484950It's this or nothing, I have no interest in normie women who exist IRL and they have no interest in me
>>83484945I'd probably agree with your second point that things are getting worse in this environment for the reasons you suggested, plus the sheer number of simp ment vying for their attention. This means they can be even more brutal in their discernment and it does seem like guys have to Jestermaxx. But ultimately this is mens fault.Also the fact that you're now spanning generations with your online socialisation suggests that it really should be time for you to look at transitioning into something else.>>83484946Congrats anon, what you're describing is a competitive edge I mentioned before.>>83484978Dude you're sounding like a retard. Unless you're talking to a bot, every fucking woman you even consider adding online is also a person IRL that you can speak to
>>83484092Copebeen waiting on a reply from a guy I added from 4chan the last few days. Im a foid.
>>83485144You're what we call an outlier
>>83484978>>83484978>I'm too much of an autist to be able to flirt, but I try to make them laugh and ask them a lot of questions about their interests and whatnot, but maybe I'm not enough of a wordsmithI'm a diagnosed schizoid NEET, up until my late 20s misdiagnosed as an autist. I don't get flirting and I've never had a longer than 2 minutes casual conversation with a woman IRL. My IQ is 96. Definitely not a wordsmith but I did consciously try to make my messages more verbose.I wish I could tell you what worked but I have no idea but please keep trying with normie women, I'm convinced that robots have a better chance with them than with nerdy girls or egirls
>>83485144>im a foidthen add me then nigga
>>83484092This is true. They will discard you without regard, even if they had some sort of relationship with you beforehand. They don't give a fuck about others.
>>83485316I remain loyal to him. In fact, I am absolutely obsessed
>>83485325A few men get this treatment while the rest are used like dishrags
>>83485144Please realize that you are an anomaly (which you probably aren't even) but women are genuinely evil towards men.I watched a coworker ghost someone they were talking to because they were "too nice. Women really don't treat men like human beings then act surprised when men treat women like shit, gee I wonder why, maybe it's because all attempts at being genuinely a decent person towards a romantic interests literally always ends up intense, unreasonable heartbreak because women are evil fucking children
ITT nobody realizes foids get post nut clarity too
>>83485364But the conversation wasn't even remotely sexual
>>83485325yeah but i actually reply unlike your little dude over there
>>83485347Yeah, I see what you mean although I'm not quite sure about the occurence of these women. I hear stuff like this often whenever I talk to a male friend or acquaintance. I guess it's the equivalent of the "abusechads" not understanding consent and treating women like objects to fuck, talk to any woman and she probably has witnessed this kinda creature. It's rough when the majority of people just suck and seem to have not realised that other beings are not just for their own enjoyment but have independent feelings as well. My comment you replied to was just me being hurt a bit cause I'm scared he is actually gonna ghost me when I thought we meshed quite decently.
>>83485382most of these egirls are coomers
>thread with truth nukes dropped regarding the issue>some tranny rocks up pretending to be a lonely women>simps immediately begin simpingIt's good that women do this to you because you deserve it
>>83484781>she starts flirting with me and says she will send her tummyNo woman worth respect sends body pics this quickly. Good luck with your slut.
