I don't think I'm the right girl for my boyfriend. I found some messages he sent to his friend saying how clingy and whiny I am. I love being with him, I'd like to be together 24/7, but he doesn't seem to appreciate my company that much. Maybe I really am clingy and annoying for wanting to be with him and wanting affection... I just don't know if I should break up with him and let him go back to his womanizing single life and go back to being that messed-up femcel, or if I should be less affectionate and less clingy. Like, it's just my way of being, geez... ugh, I just wanted him to love me for who I am, it hurt to read those messages... :(
>>83713665Yeah anxious attachment style is just annoying to deal with, at best you can find someone who romanticizes it and is mentally ill enough to not shatter the fantasy when experiencing the reality.
>>83713665lol I was gonna give a thought out response and then i saw the tripcode
>>83713678>at best you can find someone who romanticizes it and is mentally ill enough to not shatter the fantasy when experiencing the reality.>>83713665hey OP, I'm damaged goods, you're damaged goods, let's make this happen
>>83713665i want a egf a whole lot and i didnt fuck a dog and i didnt lie about being suspicious that i got raped in the homeless shelter or by my parents my parents probably didnt actually rape me but they are dumb as hell and were probably trying to psych me out cause they want me motivated to move out without me having definitive proof of them being assholes my ex one hundred percent lied about me being a dogfucker tho
Lighten up
>>83713665Are you the cupcake?
>>83713665Hi from a moid who got dumped a couple of weeks ago and is still completely broken because of it. For the love of god just TALK to the guy.TALK to him and ask if he really means what he wrote.TALK to him and tell him what you think about those messages.TALK to him and discuss what he'd prefer, what you're willing to do, and what you can't accept.This kind of shit festers like an open wound and destroys relationships on the long run. Talk to the guy an only then, if you two can't find a compromise, think about ending it or adapting to his desires. Keeping it inside or asking what to do to strangers on 4chan of all places is one of the worst things you could do.
