>>83928263
Same. I have zero friends and dont talk to anyone except the 7-11 cashier when I go to buy snacks.

>>83928263
>>83928362
why do you guys do this?

>>83928370
I want to be forgotten I think, so the anonymous nature of 4chan helps with that

>>83928263
This shit backfired on me so fucking hard recently. I normally delete/block everyone who tries to befriend me online. Recently this nice girl added me so I made an exception for her because why not I can't isolate myself forever. Anyway, I totally fucked that shit up in record speed. You really don't know how bad you are at socializing with people until you're put in the position to. I was so afraid of annoying her that I ended up annoying the shit out of her, over-analyzed every single interaction, and finally freaked her out and ran her off.

>>83928712
>I was so afraid of annoying her that I ended up annoying the shit out of her
How does this work

>>83928370
I dont have a choice. I am avoidant and most people get the ick from me.

How can I befriend avoidant people? Idk if it's better to give them space when they don't respond or continue to message them to reassure them that I enjoy their company

>>83928507
>forgotten
That's kind of sad, dude
Difficult to disappear on the internet nowadays. Why do you want to be forgotten?
>>83928746
>avoidant and most people get the ick from me
Maybe you're chasing the wrong crowd. Where do you usually try and socialise? Apart from 4chan

>>83928263
Relatable. No online friends for almost 2 years now cause they ostracized me. Irl friends are barely ever around so I practically go to work, go home and be a loner.

>>83928735
NTA but I'm similar
>sorry if I seem annoying
>I hope you don't think I am annoying
>am I annoying you?
It turns out people, and especially women, hate when you're insecure and honest about it. It's over for confidencels.

>>83928810
>Why do you want to be forgotten?
Being remembered and recognised irl has caused me nothing but pain. On 4chan I can still chat and I also have no identity too, which is a positive that real life doesn't offer. I don't use other sites for interacting with people

>>83928735
Like I'll do something I think had annoyed her, then I contact her trying to explain how I didn't mean to annoy her which in turn ends up annoying her. I'm currently annoying her as we speak by sending her emails trying to explain how I'm socially inept, like this is somehow going to make her want to talk to me again. I know it won't but maybe I'll get lucky. (doubt)

>>83928812
>ostracized me
Sounds rough, but kek, how?
Can you not just go onto /soc/ or some vidya?
>Irl friends are barely ever around
Only gets worse as you get older. Soon they'll be busy with families, etc
Why don't you try meet up with more strangers?
>>83928855
>remembered and recognised irl has caused me nothing but pain
Sadge, can never escape society. Is it because of the way you act? I'm pretty sure I have assburgers and people immediately hold a grudge against me when I don't act in a way 'they' like (making the wrong joke, etc)
>which is a positive that real life doesn't offer
Kek, maybe you could exclusively talk to people who are about to black out

>>83928927
kek and I thought that my autism was bad

>>83928967
>Is it because of the way you act?
Yep. Aspergers too

>>83928263
Same....
I just have so little self confidence or motivation to ask anyone to do anything. I have friends i could call but i just dont. I havent worked or gone out for three weeks and i saw people like twice and it was by chance.
Should i be on pills or something? This really sucks

>>83928980
LOL soon after I've apologized for apologizing over 9000 times she'll finally understand that I'm a fucking retard. Juuuuuust you wait!

>>83929054
>Aspergers
Yeah, neurotypicals will never really understand us. Or at least try to, anyways. Why would they? Can just bond with other normies. ;_;
It's not over for you though, I don't think. There are really nice people on here + the internet in general. :^)
>>83929080
>little self confidence or motivation to ask anyone to do anything
I used to be like this. Have you checked for depression? I also struggled to relate with a lot of my 'friends' which drifted me away from them :^(, maybe you have a similar problem?
>Should i be on pills or something
Would recommend against pills. Genuinely, they make you... not yourself.
>>83928927
>contact her trying to explain how I didn't mean to annoy her which in turn ends up annoying her
Do you have some sort of anxiety disorder or something wrong with your attachments? I don't mean to be rude, but I sometimes overthink (similarly to you) to people I get overly-attached to.

>>83929224
Sorry, I sound retarded on that last reply. For better clarity: Do you have a disordered attachment style? e.g obsessing/avoidant

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Been doing this for over 7 years now. Mentally unstable and I want to unalive myself in Minecraft.
I know it's not a competition but it kinda hurts less the more you go into it. Trust.

>>83928967
People ended up being psychotic. Met some of the people irl, got cancelled from a whole community because I only merely learned one of the discord mods names at his own place when I was invited to go there. Wasn't aware of his red flags either.

>>83929224
>Do you have some sort of anxiety disorder or something wrong with your attachments?
I'm not diagnosed with anything but I definitely have some kind of social anxiety disorder. I'm not really knowledgeable about that sort of thing though. I get overly-attached like you said to anyone who shows me any kind of attention then I get afraid they'll abandon me. So it's best if I just avoid it. I've been trying to get better but now I've ran someone off and I feel I've regressed.

>>83928790
>How can I befriend avoidant people?
Like this:
>continue to message them to reassure them that I enjoy their company

t. fearful avoidant

>>83928362
I like the 7-11 cashier near me. When I go in before closing he usually gives me a free hotdog if there are any left on the rollers.

>>83929224
>Have you checked for depression? I also struggled to relate with a lot of my 'friends' which drifted me away from them
How would you check? And if no pills then what can you do?
Idk about relating. I see them at concerts and we get along great, but infeel awkward asking them to hang out outside of that because i dont know what id do with them and I feel like id be imposing. And when i do hang out with them all my worries are gone and wrong, but i still cant shake them when im alone

>>83929469
That's generally what I try to do but I'm always worried I'm overwhelming them or creeping them out.

>>83929542
>That's generally what I try to do but I'm always worried I'm overwhelming them or creeping them out.
Cheat code: ask them how they feel and if they're feeling overwhelmed.

I feel you. Every time I try to step out of the box it feels like some weird fucking normalfags want to menace me. I'm so fucking tired of society and people as a whole. It feels like a majority of people are looking for a fucking fight or to enact dominance over randoms and I'm sick of it. I genuinely want to fucking hurt people I am only happy when I'm with my sexy bf even then I grind my teeth so hard they hard so fucking bad