let's assume you are a western moid who is not opposed to marrying and saving a poor third world foid (hypothetically me)>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?>do i have to be super pretty? >i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?>do you want me to have kids?>do i have to cook your culture's food?>how often do you want sex? what kind?>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?>would you hit me?>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?
The most important part of the transaction is that you have to convince me that it's love, not a transaction.
>>84208239it doesn't matter too much, but I am willing to work 70 hours a week just so you can stay home and do all the chores (you would never have to work a job)You just have to be mid in looks (I am an average looking man myself)Autistic virgin is fabulous as long as you are willing to have fun in the bedroom and care about meeting my sexual needs (I certainly care about meeting yours)I would like some kids at some point. You can cook whatever you want as long as it's edible.I want sex everyday but I'm okay with a bare minimum of once a week.if you fuck me more than twice a week i will probably never lose my temper on you about anything. A man with his balls drained is a man who never gets angry. men get very angry when their sexual needs aren't met.if I'm in love with you, I will never cheat. Men who cheat are either not fully in love, or their women aren't fucking them enough.I only hit women who like rough sex (they want it in bed). If you're not into that, you would never come to harm by me.I would give you an allowance of 800usd per month. You can explore wherever you want as long as you tell any man who approaches you to fuck off or your husband will kill him.I only let women who I am in love with drive my truck, it's a nice fucking truck (only one woman has ever had the privilege and she fucked up our relationship anyways).you can talk to your family anytime you want.
That you would not divorce me when I take you back to the U.S.
>>84208303Man there's no love at first sight. You have to talk. Get to know each other on a personal level. Show your vulnerable sides to each other. Then if you are compatible it's love.
>>84208239Yes to all the above except an allowance that's just mooching. Your also have to be around my age 18-22
>>84208356>Man there's no love at first sight.Who said anything about first sight?
>>84208369I wouldn't hit you I didn't read all of it. I'm American can you grill? Relationship. Not a normal fag.
>>84208303i believe in logic-based marriage because love makes people act wrong. you should create a mutually beneficial transaction to have a more successful relationship. people who marry for love have more issues and divorce.>>84208306thank you for the detailed response. i appreciate it. i think sex would be challenging for me. because i've never had it and i am not a very sexual person. i am shy and puritanical. but maybe when you are married you get used to it. i also don't care to interact with other men. i want to go outside so i can see more of the world. i grew up in a third world village so i have seen nothing.
>>84208239You stupid bitch, you just go to a country on a tourist visa and stay there or work with fake documents. Works 100% of the time. Or just find a husband while you're there.
>>84208385Interesting perspective what would you offer? In nta
>>84208239Weird fucking larp, no female from a third world village is posting on /r9k/>t. actual third worlder
>>84208385>because i've never had it and i am not a very sexual person.I would make it comfortable and fun and pleasurable for you. Most people who "aren't sexual" just have mental barriers about it that are pretty easy to work through with enough guidance and love. With enough practice, we would both look forward to being intimate on a regular basis.
>>84208369i am older than you. you are young so you don't understand the financial aspect of a dynamic like this. a third world woman wouldn't be able to work in your country. everyone has expenses. i think having a reasonable allowance is a good way to have stability and educate your woman financially to be resourceful.
>>84208239>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?Normalfag relationship. It's your life, I'm not your dad>do i have to be super pretty?Nope>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Actually it's better>do you want me to have kids?Do you want to? I'm kinda indifferent.>do i have to cook your culture's food?Depends on where you are from. There are some third world cuisines that are just obviously shit, however most cultures have decent stuff so no>how often do you want sex? what kind?Depends on the energy we have together. Sometimes multiple times a day, sometimes a couple of times a month.>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Uhhh monogamous >would you hit me?No, unless you had some kink for it but I'd be super uncomfortable with that to begin with>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?It wouldn't be an allowance because I'm looking for a life partner. Whats mine is yours, etc>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Yes>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?If you want, just don't do the permanent group call thing then get annoyed with me for not being involved.
>>84208385>i believe in logic-based marriage because love makes people act wrongIn that case you and I wouldn't be compatible. I believe in logic-based friendships, I believe in establishing platonic relationships with someone because you enjoy discussing the same topics or sharing the same activities. If there's chemistry, if there's a romantic spark, then that friendship can evolve into a romantic relationship. But that spark and that chemistry don't operate on logic, they're just something you feel in your heart. And if you don't feel it then you're better off staying just friends.
>>84208404The guys on this board are so thirsty they'll literally believe anything. It's actually so sad.
>>84208387that's illegal you retard. i have no interest in that.>>84208397i would do everything expected of a wife, chores, childrearing, sex, etc.>>84208404no, you're the larper.
Why are the thirdies data mining us?
>>84208436>no, you're the larper.What country are you from then? If you live in a village what is your primary source of income? How do you know English? Just total bullshit you dumb larping faggot tranny.
>>84208413Well good luck finding your anonchad green card. Also, you are more then capable of working. I think you just want to sit on your ass all day fart on his bed watching TV and mooch off him the 1st world under the guise of a "transactional" relationship do you can buy shitty makeup. Yuck. Don't sperg on me I don't care.
>>84208239>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?Normalfag but casual to account for both our autistic tendencies. Whatever works really.>do i have to be super pretty? No.>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes, virgin or not i don't care about that.>do you want me to have kids?Maybe, it's still something i'm thinking about myself. I wouldn't want to force the issue or do anything that endangers someone either but everyone i know with kids is happier for it.>do i have to cook your culture's food?I fucking hope you don't because i'm british. I'll learn to cook yours but only the recipes i enjoy, or that you enjoy.>how often do you want sex? what kind?I don't know how horny i'd be with sex. A lot of people say they don't need as much when they start having sex. Preferably you'd be as open minded to trying stuff as i am but i'm not interested in making people do things they don't want to the same as with hobbies and other things.>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?I don't want to be cucked or cheat.>would you hit me?No i'm not violent and I don't like shouting either.>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?Preferably you'd learn how i make money and you'd make money this way too. (it's easy and low time/skill requirement that you do at home) But if your idea of a relationship requires an allowance this i'd be open to it, it sounds very traditional though.>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Lmao of course i'm not looking for a slave.>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yeah you can scratch and dent it as much as you want just don't break it,>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes and we'd be traveling back and forward hopefully unless you hate your country.
>>84208387This just go to California. Nobody gives a shit out here. If you're paranoid you can wait until Trump is out of office but you could still easily do it right now.
>>84208419thank you. i have not made up my mind on having kids. i am open to either option. if my husband wanted them i would. if not then i wouldn't.>>84208422that's fine. i think you should be careful because love can mislead you into being with someone you logically shouldn't be. i see that all the time. but if it brings you happiness then there is nothing wrong with it of course.>>84208441i want to become a mail order bride but i can't find information about these things, only information for men seeking brides.>>84208443i didn't make this thread to talk about myself but to ask others questions.
>>84208484I literally know several people who did that and they became US citizens after a few years. LOL.
>>84208490>i didn't make this thread to talk about myself but to ask others questions.That's because you're a fucking retard tranny larping
>>84208449it's not sperging but you are just incorrect. what do you expect a woman with no first world level skills, education or work permit to do exactly? who do you think is going to employ that? >>84208457you are very understanding. i am not opposed to working from home and learning something i can do this way.>>84208484that is not an option for me because i am not a low impulse spic with money and nothing to lose. i cannot even enter america because our passport is worthless. nor can i afford a flight across a whole ocean.
>>84208239My wife is irish, does that count?
>>84208532>you are very understandingThis is something i would require myself. Understanding each other is paramount.>i am not opposed to working from home and learning something i can do this way.What i do is very easy and requires basically no time or effort. The more you put in the more you get out however.
>>84208532It takes a week to get your GED and then you can get a 40k a year job as a secretary just clicking shit and taking phone calls.
>>84208532How old are you? I'm not interested in this but I plan on moving to Asia after finishing my degree. Is it common for third worlder females to try to find first worlder men? From the perspective of a first worlder man it always seems deceptive from the woman but it's hard to trust the intentions of any person in this day and age.
>>84208556NTA but i think alot of the mismatch in perception comes from stuff like OP asking for an allowance.Here that is very abnormal and seen as golddigging but over in other places it is a cultural requirement. In the same way that some places expect children to give their parents all their money or work in the family business.It's just a perception mismatch i think. It's not being done with the same base incentive as in the west.
>>84208532>nor can i afford a flight across a whole ocean.Ok now does everyone understand this retard is larping? Literally third worlders commonly have the latest iPhone even in villages by taking loans but this person can't afford a flight.
>>84208532i think young anon is mad because you genuinely can get an okay, (or great by your standards) job here in america without any prior training or minimum certifications. most normalfaggots screaming job market are just mad they have to settle for something 30-60k$ a year instead of 6 figures or they feel like they wasted their degree for their desired profession. they are ungrateful and would kill themselves after 2 years in your country doing shitty manuak labor for 15k$ a year.
>>84208239love me and dont be a bitchnoyesyesyes but you can cook your own food toooften, every kindideally monogamous but if i cheat ignore it, its only because youre not satisfying me in someway noyesyesyesyes>>84208385>people who marry for love have more issues and divorce.the alternative to this is marry someone you dont love for a mutually beneficial situation... as a woman that is not sexual im not sure you would like this, unless you plan on just being a live in maid essentially. but i disagree with your statement, people that truly love each other do not have issues, its people that want to love someone and are willing to settle and convince themselves that have problems. im not saying there should be no logic in a marriage, but to marry someone you do not love at all just because the situation is relatively okay sounds horrendous for the long term, when basic needs are met people want more
>>84208580>doing shitty manuak labor for 15k$ a year.They actually make under $7k a year in most third world countries. Sometimes under $3k.
>>84208607thats inhumane. my minor little brother got his first job recently and makes 40k$ at mcdonalds.
>>84208552anon, i literally am not allowed to enter america and it is a bunch of very complicated, expensive procedures to even have a chance of making it happen. i know your country is full of illegal spics but they can do that because they are close and have their nepotism network. there are very few people from my country there and they are all rich.>>84208556here it's not really common. we are conservative so most women here marry within the same culture. i want to get out personally because the living conditions are horrible.>>84208577lmao what are you talking about? everyone in third world villages has an iphone? i use a third hand samsung. and yeah, i just looked it up and i absolutely cannot afford a ticket to america. it's far away.
>>84208635Where would you want to go if not america?
>trusting a poor foreigner to not divorce rape youwe're living in your country instead
>>84208635All you have to do is marry some fat lonely incel chud and tell him you'll love him forever for a marriage visa. It doesn't sound that hard.
>>84208580i don't think a foreign woman with my profile could be qualified for those jobs though. you have to remember those people who can get those jobs are american citizens. they have legal rights to be able to work.>>84208596marrying for logic is not exclusive of love. like i would not have rules against everything romantic. but i am saying it should not be the deciding factor, people mistake lust for love, they let their emotions pick a partner instead of their reason and they start having issues after the honeymoon period is over. if you enter a transactional relationship where both sides are getting what they want from it, they will be happier.
>>84208672could you see yourself living the rest of your life in a loveless marriage if you had your basic needs met, like what you ask for in the OP?
>>84208672No it's not I live here I know retard. The person who views applications just goes click click accept. You just need some ID which is like 20$ from your local pharmacy to prove you aren't a dead person
>>84208239>what are your main expectations from me?The main thing I expect from my hypothetical future wife is love and loyalty. To me, to my family, to her family, and, if we choose to have them, our children. Almost everything else is negotiable.>do i have to be super pretty?No.>i'm a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Depends on what kind of autism you have.>do you want me to have kids?I'm not sure whether or not I could make a good father. I want to say yes, but part of me worries that I'd screw up fatherhood just like I screw up less-important things.>do i have to cook your culture's food?I expect my hypothetical future wife to cook at least as well and as often as I do (which, to be clear, is a low bar. I currently make about two or three dinners a week for myself, with the rest of my diet being freezer meals and my mom's cooking.) I don't have a strong preference of what kind of food I'd want her to make.>how often do you want sex? what kind?I'm not a sex haver. I dunno, maybe when I try it, I'll get addicted and want it ten times a day. Or maybe I'll be indifferent towards it and only want it when we're trying for a kid.>do you want the relationship to be monogamous?I'm porn-brained enough to think polyamory could be hot, but not porn-brained enough to actually think it's a good idea. Monogamy all the way.>would you hit me?No.>would you give me an allowance of $400 per month?Depends on what you spend it on.>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?I can't think of a reason why not.>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?I don't like driving. If I trust my hypothetical future wife's ability to drive, I want to be her full-time passenger princess (male).>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Sure? Although I don't want my hypothetical future wife to think of any place other than our house as "home."
>>84208607same, here it's around $5k/year for most people.>>84208646i am okay with anywhere in the first world because they are all better than my country.>>84208655i would get a divorce if he was beating me or something. besides that, i wouldn't have a reason to. it makes your living conditions worse as a woman so it's a low iq move.
>>84208672> don't think a foreign woman with my profile could be qualified for those jobs thoughCertain governments would pay for your education, some will even pay for your workplacement.>if you enter a transactional relationship where both sides are getting what they want from it, they will be happier.I think what you suggest is to one-sided but I understand the practicality of it. It is like an arranged marriage, something many anons here champion, but I think ideally there would be balance between the romance and transactional natures. We don't live in an ideal world.
>>84208672Any romantic behaviors and romantic actions feel false if they're borne from logic instead of love, both false for the person on the receiving end and false for the person performing them. Imagine you're an actor in a play, and you're portraying a character instead of being yourself. Everything you do is meaningful to the character, but not meaningful to you. And you have to keep playing that character in that play for the rest of your life, never again getting to be yourself.
>>84208695>i am okay with anywhere in the first world because they are all better than my country.Isn't there nice places in your country? What if your western husband could afford to live there and work remotely?How would you feel about frequent traveling too? To see the world and visit home often.
>>84208682yes. i think the modern understanding of love is unrealistic and degenerate. i never saw the appeal of it personally.>>84208686i am not mexican enough for such endeavors
>>84208709so youre not looking for a husband really, youre looking for someone thats willing to marry a live in maid so they can reside in that country, and pay them $100 usd/week, on top of paying for your food, rent, utilities, clothing, and anything else...i dunno i honestly think you'd be better off finding someone you love enough to marry from a first world country and making it work as long as you can until you decide you need to divorce them. the impression i get from you is that youre incapable of love, or have given up on it, or never gave it a chance at the very least
>>84208709Yeah you are. I've worked with a shit ton of people from everywhere for a bunch of jobs who weren't born here or permanent residents. If you can watch YouTube all day in a quiet cubicle next to a grandma hearing buzzing lights while occasionally reading a phone call script off for customer service you could make more then a PhD would get you wherever you are I'm guessing the Philippines, bengladesh or Indonesia.
>>84208709there she goes she just admitted she wants to leach in the first world in a loveless relationship paying with her pussy occasionally until she finds some other chump after the first one gets fed up or she gets bored. this screams bpd
>>84208696>Certain governments would pay for your education, some will even pay for your workplacement.is this even a real thing? because i have actually looked into it and found no such opportunity to apply to. you have to be rich or academically exceptional to oull these things off.>>84208704there are some but i want to leave this country and don't understand why somebody would leave the first world to live here, it's a hopeless shithole. traveling could be nice. i have never been abroad and barely seen any places so if i did it with my husband that would be special.>>84208726maybe i'm just autistic but i genuinely don't understand the distinction you are making. everything else you listed afterwards is looking for a husband. why is your definition of love mutually exclusive with it? because mine is not.>>84208727is this real? or even legal? who is employing them?>>84208733you have a very childish view of marriage. you'll understand the world isn't disney cartoons as you get older. you are way more likely to end up in fucked up relationships with bpds if you think marrying for love makes more sense than logic btw. i'll be in my stable marriage with zero issues as your super loving relationship crumbles after the honeymoon phase.
>>84208852>is this even a real thing? because i have actually looked into it and found no such opportunity to apply to. you have to be rich or academically exceptional to oull these things off.The EU do it alot, I know my government does. Use Chatgpt or another ai to save yourself all the labour of looking it up.But I have a genuine question for you, would you consider anyone from this board potentially?
>>84208876i think that's some colonization reparation or refugee thing. i don't fit the criteria for either. and yes of course i would consider someone from this site because i use it all the time too. but i didn't make this thread for contactfagging. i wanted to ask questions because there are no answers anywhere else.
>>84208852>maybe i'm just autistic but i genuinely don't understand the distinction you are making. everything else you listed afterwards is looking for a husband. why is your definition of love mutually exclusive with it? because mine is not.no one marries another person without some degree of love, most people want some form of love, at least in first world countries. i can understand being from a third world country where people marry for more utilitarian reasons, but that just doesn't really happen in first world countries unless theres two extremely autistic and completely asexual people.where i live, people are more likely to remain married than get divorced, maybe you just have examples of bad marriages. i honestly believe the majority of people that get married because they love each other have good marriages, but yes, not all of them do. but the smaller amount that have bad marriages is no reason to forego love imo.i dont think id marry you. i think id fly you in and out of the country so your tourist visa doesnt expire until you can attain citizenship, at which point youd be entitled to unemployment benefits and you could live as a maid until you found work, if you wanted it. maybe even move out and live in your own one day. im guessing youd want to at least, you want to live in a first world country more than you want a first world husband.
>>84208905>i think that's some colonization reparation or refugee thing.No it's not but I could go into more detail if you had a destination in mind and work that you'd want to do realistically.>and yes of course i would consider someone from this site because i use it all the time too. but i didn't make this thread for contactfagging.So no basically. Because how could you consider anyone from this site without contacts lol.
>>84208239>>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship? Literally just give me attention. Tell me about your life. I'll tell you about mine. That's it.>do i have to be super prettyNo, but you have to care about your looks.>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you? Yes.>do you want me to have kids? Yes.>do i have to cook your culture's food? Depends if I like your food. But, I also like to cook so this isn't a problem.>how often do you want sex? what kind? Idk. I haven't had the chance for sex. I don't know what I like besides porn. Something, though. >do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating? Monogamous. Don't ignore cheating.>would you hit me? No. It's not how I was raised.>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month? If I could afford it. >would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop? Would I "let you?" Kek. You're not a pet dog.>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license? Yes.>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Depends on the gender and sexual orientation of said friends. Gay bottom men and straight women are fine, but no men, except if they're your family of course.That said, idk about racemixing and culture mixing b/c of my family. Have you have your IQ scored? How tall are you? How big is your father's dick? Will our children be miserable incels or miserable dumbasses? Which 3rd world country are you from? 3rd world Indian is different from 3rd world asian is different from 3rd world african is different from south American is different from middle eastern. What's your family like? Do you natively speak English, or is it a second language? Will you teach me it? Do you like the idea of Thru-hiking up to 6 month long trails outside with me? Do you like any literature? Do you have any skills or special interests?
>>84208239Faggots and western women keep calling women outside the anglosphere 'peasants' this and 'third world' that but honestly they're more civilized I was in shock and awe when I heard some Japanese exchange students speaking in college. A girl said to her friend "my boyfriend back home wanted me to lose weight, so I did." My jaw was on the floor. My impression was that normal japanese couples can speak their minds to each other without pretense. Then I had the awakening that not all women on earth are overgrown evil toddlers.
>>84208239>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?I wouldn't really consider myself "trad" per se but I do want to live in a more rural area and somewhat follow traditional gender roles(I make the money, you primarily take care of the house/kids). I've lived in a big city my whole life and it sucks so you'd have to be content living in an american town with 80-120k people. >do i have to be super pretty? No. As long as you're not fat I'd be happy. >i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes that sounds fantastic. >do you want me to have kids?Absolutely, that's a dealbreaker for me. I very much want children.>do i have to cook your culture's food?Not necessarily. I like food from all kinds of cultures. As long as what you make tastes good and is healthy I'd be more than happy. >how often do you want sex? what kind?Several times a week ideally. As for what kind, vanilla I guess? I'm a virgin so I don't really have any sexual desires beyond it being being passionate. >do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Absolutely no cheating ever.>would you hit me?No. >would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?I would give you significantly more than that. >would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Yeah of course? You're supposed to be my wife not a slave.>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes but you would have your own car. >would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Again, you wouldn't be a slave. You could even have your friends/family come visit and stay with us occasionally as well.
>>84208852Alright you just confirmed youre BPD. You equated the honeymoon phase to love. Retarted
>>84208239are you some filipino creatura or some shit
I'm a lezzie foid, so I'm gonna insert myself in the conversation.>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?I'd be able to provide, so besides you keeping the house tidy and staying faithful do what thou wilt. I'd expect you to at least volunteer or try hobby classes so you can socialize more and integrate better in a foreign country. I'd encourage you to get a part-time job eventually just so you have your own money so you feel you have a safety net.>do i have to be super pretty?If you're hygienic, not obese, and at least try to stay healthy you will be beautiful.>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?I'd be a hypocrite if I said no.>do you want me to have kids?Hell no. I don't want my bride to love someone more than me.>do i have to cook your culture's food?I'd be honored if you shared dishes that mean something to you. I think it would be nice bonding to learn about how we ate growing up.>how often do you want sex? what kind?We could both find out about that stuff together, maybe?>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Strict monogamy.>would you hit me?Only in self-defense, even then minimal force.>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?400 for fun money, a joint account for shared expenses and errands, and I manage the rest. I'll make the prenup fair.>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?I would encourage you to do so! But I'd have fun showing places to you, so I'd show you the good spots around here.>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?If you asked, sure. I'd be stressed and weird about it, though>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes, I think having nobody back home would be a bigger red flag than anything... But no exes, please. I'd blow my brains out in front of you if you emotionally cheated.
>>84208239>>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?A loving, affectionate relationship>>do i have to be super pretty?No>>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes>>do you want me to have kids?Depends on various things>>do i have to cook your culture's food?No, if I really wanted it I could make it. >>how often do you want sex? what kind?Often. I have a high libido but it doesn't have to be anything crazy. >>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Monogamous>>would you hit me?No>>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?Yes>>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Yes>>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes>>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes so long as we still had time together
>>84208239Are you actually interested in anons on this board or are you just curious? Since I don't think that 4chan is the best place to find a husband or a wife.
>>84210736See >>84208929 >>84208905OP is long gone, probably a larp and not interested even if not.>calls anons spic>uses the word contactfagging
>>84208239>>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?My expectation is for wife to be attracted to me physically and be dependent on intimacy with me. (that is mirror if my desires).But that's impossible so i am not gonna marry.
>>84208239let's assume the hypotheticals, since this is obviously not real>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?loving relationship>do i have to be super pretty? no>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?sure>do you want me to have kids?if you want a ring then yes>do i have to cook your culture's food?you cook for yourself, I cook for myself. I think that's the optimal relationship, so you can eat whatever, unless you're a smelly pajeeta who stinks up the house with bullshit food. btw obviously I would eat your food if you want me to, but by default I want to get my own food by myself>how often do you want sex? what kind?however often you're down. sex is fucking awful if my girl isn't enthusiastic.>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?if your libido is dangerously lower than mine (which is probable) then I would ask for the latter. we can set terms and conditions or whatever. i think this is ultimately a lesser evil than a shitty relationship where the wife doesn't want sex and the husband is constantly just pestering her>would you hit me?no, there is no point to doing that>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?no, you're not a child. i'm potentially okay with buying you stuff that add up to that amount, if the stuff you want is worth it>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?you're not a prisoner lmao, of course>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?sure>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?sure, of course
>>84208929sounds like a scam desu. i researched this topic in depth and i have never seen anything like that that's available for us at least.>>84208933i would adapt to my husband's culture. i am not interested in teaching him anything about mine because i don't like it but i would learn his. i don't think my children would be chads. you should avoid race mixing if that's a concern.>>84208986you don't know what bpd means and you have a childish understanding of the world just like they do.
>>84208239>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?A regular relationship, I would expect you to love me back and have my back and my best interests in mind, also having kids some time in the future.>do i have to be super pretty?Depends what you mean? I don't expect you to doll yourself up 24/7 or anything but I would want us to be attracted to each other.>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes very>do you want me to have kids?I want to have kids with my wife yes>do i have to cook your culture's food?No? I would appreciate you cooking for me regardless of what it is, I might ask you to cook stuff I can fit into my diet though, like lower calorie higher protein stuff>how often do you want sex? what kind?Idk I would probably want sex once or twice a day but obviously it's fine if we only do it like 2 or 3 times a week since I know my sex drive is kinda high, regular sex oral vaginal, I'd like to try anal at least once but obviously it's only fun if your partner is enthusiastic about it>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Completely monogamous>would you hit me?No>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?What for? I wouldn't want to do the allowance bullshit, if we're together then its our money not mine or yours>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Yes>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes, although I don't have a car>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes, why the phone though don't they got discord?
>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?Tradwife mainly. I work, you cook and clean. It can be summed up as empty balls full belly. You wear pretty clothes and conform to my preferences, hairy pussy and pits. Dgaf about arms or legs tbdesu. >do i have to be super pretty?Just not fat. Super pretty is a redhead with 22" waist tits bigger than her head and a tiny butt. But I love tits so even a Japanese is acceptable if boobs are huge enough. Japs only have black hair so you can tell I like honkers a lot.>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Empty balls full belly. If your shit is messy you have to keep it to the guestroom or sheshed because I like things nice. Autism is whatever, I can only talk with a keyboard and like anime. Just know the status quo, ur waifu a shit unless she's my waifu too. >do you want me to have kids?I am too old for kids. I wanted to teach my kids somersaults and to walk my daughter down the aisle without a cane. >do i have to cook your culture's food?My culture has best food. Women can't cook regardless of culture so teaching is required. I'll Americanize whatever cuisine it is, but the only foreign food I like is Chinese and Levant. Fuck Mexican and I won't even try Indian.
>>84210937>how often do you want sex? what kind?Two to four times a week. If she's a never anal princess then I want lots of anal. If she doesn't make a big deal about it then honestly probably just once and the hole is claimed. My dick was chopped up at birth so I don't really even feel anything other than the building frustration of cum backing up to my brain. I'm good with hand only if other needs are met. >do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Monagamous>would you hit me?I hope not, I'd probably feel really bad if I did. But if I did you probably deserved it. It takes a lot to get me to that point. >would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?This needs to be discussed in more detail. What is it for? Sending back home to family not cool, the money I earn should benefit us. If that's the budget to manage the household(your job) it's not enough. If it's just discretionary spending for things that make you happy then sure. I'm not rich but it's a manageable amount and more than worth it for food, clean house, and cooms. >would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?I don't like the idea of this. Explore together is fun, I only work weekends so there is time. If alone I'd prefer you only go to Costco or Sam's.>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?This is a problem for Americans, to the point most prefer two vehicles. If you need to drive I'll get you something. Insurance is not cheap so you'd have to get some bomb ass groceries and make supper with it.>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Idk turd world languages. Do it over the internet so it's not charged as long distance call and I guess I don't care. Maybe do it while am at work so I don't feel neglected.
Didnt read the thread but if there are submissive people pleasing ISTJ 115+ IQ SEA girls in my area looking for a horny non abusive fat rich white guy hit me up.
>>84208239im pretty sure anyone saying no to half those things are a non-starter for ANY relationship, not just dating someone of "lower" socioeconomic statuswould probably not have a long term relationship for fundamental reasons related to how they might view the world>possibly not view american culture for the shallow and pedantic charade that it is>possibly would not have a distrustful or skeptical view towards American institutions/companies despite their inherent adversarial nature towards citizens and institutions are often abused by officials for personal gain >not having lived through the american education system and not having and skepticism towards or a negative view towards it simply on the basis of material access rather than how inept and low quality it is
>>84210996I was homeschooled the whole way through so no exposure to how the Satanic American system works. I hate my country and I hate women. I still want a wife.Every man is allowed to make three exceptions; baseball rules. Mom is first exception when it comes to a woman being good. Wife is second exception. Favorite daughter is third. That's how it works in the real world.
>>84210873>sounds like a scam desu. i researched this topic in depth and i have never seen anything like that that's available for us at least.It's not unless you consider all education and qualifications a scam. Which they aren't. My country offers programmes specifically for the "uneducated, out of work, ESL, & immigrants." I have also researched this extensively. Given that you are a woman a higher priority would be given to you to let you access these resources and go into education studying what you choose. All free of charge too.Since you're either not considering this seriously, or just not considering anybody from this board viable, I don't want to help you further as it's a waste if my time at best and insulting at worst.
>>84211017>Every man is allowed to make three exceptions; baseball rules. Mom is first exception when it comes to a woman being good. Wife is second exception. Favorite daughter is third. That's how it works in the real world.wat are you talking about???
>>84211025I'm American. Idk how foreigners think and idc. My mom was good other than the part where she paid someone to chop half my dick off because it makes jews happy to know someone was tortured and mutilated for life. I can only like two other women, so 2nd place is reserved for my future wife.What is so hard about this for you to understand? Baseball rules America, even our legal system is based on it. Break the law three times and it's life in prison. Fooling around with a girl is first, second, third, and home base. If she's really good you unlock the secret level that is fifth base. It's America, it's not supposed to make sense. Either you were born here or you think we're all stark raving mad.
>>84208852>is this real? or even legal? who is employing them?a lot of those are Pseudo "legal" scam employment programsIE filipino call centers and nursing system in California where they bring people in on visas to be nurses for 3/4s the pay of people in the US and then the company steals a chunk of the people they hired's pay on top of thator the H1B system for Tech companies where they're hired through a seperate H1B temp agency and they're hired by other companies as "contractors" instead of Employees with benefits and legal protections and they fire them instantly the second they complain and or realize they're being paid way less than normal employees
>>84210751oh no, scary words! go back you woke faggot.>>84210870i definitely have lower urges than most men. i have seen a lot of marriages where the man is cheating and women just ignore it so this situation isn't surprising.>>84210940i would not send home money. i want to move away from that place altogether and my allowance would be for our expenses.
>>84211059I'm not american, here's my post explaining a little >>84211019They're not scams, i'm in the UK and they're all legitimate college positions and educational programs(pre entry) and you can look it up for yourself to see how valid they are.Unlike america our scams are more subtle, like the british mail scams, or the barber/takeaway laundry scams.
>>84211070>oh no, scary words! go back you woke faggot.That wasn't my point at all. I don't care if you use the word nigger, spic, pajeet, whatever. It's just odd that OP is from the third world, a foid, and not only decides to use these words but is familiar enough to use them appropriately. Nigger.
>>84210996i think most of my questions are specifically relevant to having this sort of relationship though.>>84211019don't help me because i am certain that you are lying. if it sounds too good to be true then it is. you will ask me to send you money then disappear. but i don't even have the money to get scammed. everyone who claims such opportunities exist is a scammer at best and a human trafficker at worst. like those human traffickers in dubai promising third worlder women jobs then forcing them into prostitution. there is no one waiting to give out free scholarships to unqualified third worlders with open arms. this is not an option unless you are an ukrainian refugee or something. >>84211059sounds like illegals doing nepotism. there isn't a community of people from my culture in america like these spics. even if there was, i don't want to become a parasite like them and live illegally. i want a peaceful life.
>>84211116>don't help me because i am certain that you are lying.I'm certain you're a man but i've still been treating you in good faith. SInce you want to drop all pretenses; how does a third world foid, with a third hand samsung, become familiar enough with american immigration policies and racist lingo while remaining ignorant of european immigration policies and educational opportunities?>you will ask me to send you money then disappear.Almost all education in the UK and EU is free lmao.>there is no one waiting to give out free scholarships to unqualified third worlders with open arms.The UK and the EU are. I would know because I live here. Immigrants get preferential treatment for everything, healthcare, education, social housing.>his is not an option unless you are an ukrainian refugee or something. The Ukrainians were actually treated worse because they are "white-coded" so just shut your ignorant hole.
>>84211074i have researched opportunities in the uk since i am an english speaker and they accepted millions of rapist pakis, so maybe they could also accept a harmless woman like me you know? but no, apparently you need crazy amounts of money or be academically exceptional to even be able to apply for a visa and education. if by a miracle, you get accepted, you need at least 30-40k pounds per year. i don't even have 1k pounds in my account. maybe there are pajeet scholarships but because we were not a british colony, we don't get opportunities like that. i heard that many of them stay illegally also.>>84211079because i speak english and use 4chan every day. this shouldn't have been too difficult to conclude on your own if you were not retarded.>>84211133i know this topic better than you ever will because i have been researching ways to gtfo and you aren't even an immigrant from my country so how could you know? i looked into both america and eu. education is only free if you are an eu citizen. i would say you are the one who's ignorant if you weren't deliberately lying. all those shitskins you see are just rich or have connections. ukrainians who leave their shithole are the most privileged people in the world right now. lol at victimizing them when all the shit you made up about preferential treatment only applies to them.
just find some guy that will sponsor a naked live in maid until you get citizenship, in a country with good welfare/unemployment, then move out and use that to support yourself until you can find some menial job where you can live a humble life renting a room in some first world country
>>84208239>>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?Called it.
>>84211189i don't want to move out. i want to get married and stay together. i don't see the point in just being with someone for a visa and leaving. it is parasite behavior. if you have a real marriage, then you have a real reason to be there.>>84211190every grown adult has expenses. am i supposed to spend air when i go groceries shopping?
>>84211074OP could start her own sillicon valley Tech Scam and become the next Elizabeth Holmesan Elizabetha Isla dela Cruz if you willhttps://archive.is/20260324060645/https://www.ft.com/content/4d29c556-bbd9-490e-a3c8-90f5b894af9e
>>84211196isn't she in prison? i don't care to become rich. i just want a normal life...
>>84211175>but no, apparently you need crazy amounts of money or be academically exceptional to even be able to apply for a visa and education. Why would you need this if you're marrying someone from the country?>if by a miracle, you get accepted, you need at least 30-40k pounds per year.You really have no clue. I'm trying not to be offensive but you're telling me things that aren't true about my own country as if you know better. Such things will be paid for you, mostly. Student debt here is also only applicable if, and only if, you get a job with a high enough wage to pay it back. You can also just completely ignore it. It's something my brother did with zero repercussions.>maybe there are pajeet scholarshipsThere's not.>i heard that many of them stay illegally also.See my first point about you being married. See my other point about you getting preferential treatment as an immigrant. You could shoot a person in britain and they'd lock up the victim for hate crimes lol.>because i speak english and use 4chan every day.I believe you after reading this;>i know this topic better than you ever will Spoken like a true /b/tard. You don't know this better than I ever will because I fucking live it. You just fantasize about it and half-research it at best. You haven't even picked a destination so what the fuck would you know?>ukrainians who leave their shithole are the most privileged people in the world right now.Maybe in the eu but not in the UK lmao. The goverment put them all on a broken boat while the pakis and afghans got 1million dollar apartments paid for them. They have the real connections.Why don't you just settle down and get over your hysteria. I now believe you're a real woman and probably on your period too.If you want to escape your shithole drop your tag or quit your futile fantasies and marry your fat uncle raj
>>84211202all you gotta do is not "overtly" lie to investors"sort of" lying about a business is totally legal, apparently, Elon musk does it all the time
>>84211194I mean if you were going to scam the Marriage Visa system, getting a fake marriage with some guy off 4chan would be a solid wayyoud both have a bunch of inside jokes and common knowledge during the Immigration interview process determining your "validity"
>>84211070>i definitely have lower urges than most men. i have seen a lot of marriages where the man is cheating and women just ignore it so this situation isn't surprising.yeah if you have lower urges, i need to look for satisfaction elsewhere no matter what. it is what it is. i wouldn't want to do it in secret though, i don't like it if we have to keep secrets from each other
>>84211194why do you want to stay? is it just so you dont have to pay for yourself? the impression i got is the marriage is just a way for you to get out of your current situation and that being married to someone isnt what you really want
>>84211206if i get married, i wouldn't need it. but if i were to go there for education purposes, i could not afford it and wouldn't be accepted. moving to the uk is not recommended unless you are rich because the whole process is very expensive. you don't know what you are talking about because you are not a third world immigrant. you see rich nepotism pajeets and shitskins staying illegally and think that could be an opportunity for me who is not a criminal, from a former colony, in war like ukraine or has tons of money and connections. just cause pajeets get reparation benefits doesn't mean other third world peasants do. with my passport i am not even allowed to enter the uk or anywhere in the first world without a visa. which i could only realistically get from marriage.
>>84211276>with my passport i am not even allowed to enter the uk or anywhere in the first world without a visa. which i could only realistically get from marriage.You don't know shit about what you're talking about. I am from a third world country and now live in the UK and was granted a visa without money in my bank account. There are many services that will temporarily transfer money or you can ask a relative for their statement. The truth is you're just larping or you're from some actual sub-saharan african village (but somehow using 4chan).
>>84211276>but if i were to go there for education purposes, i could not afford it and wouldn't be accepted. moving to All this coping is feminist coded. You don't need to excuse wanting to be a wife and live life on easy mode this hard. You can just do it as it's one of the privileges you foids have. All this whining is unattractive.>which i could only realistically get from marriage.That's the whole point ITT and what everything I am saying is predicated upon. Jesus boys I think this is a real foid she's actually fucking retarded.
>>84211224i am not trying to get a fake marriage for a visa. i want to get married for real.>>84211246if you are transparent about it, it generally doesn't cause an issue in marriages because women know men view sex differently than us. it's not a personal but a physical thing. it is considered cheating when one side doesn't know about it and feels betrayed.>>84211248because i want a husband. i don't find living alone in a foreign country appealing. marriage would be more stable. i want to get married and gtfo at the same time.
>>84211290since you dont really have the education credentials to get a (((career))) in a western country, one your only handful options might be charming some westerner foriegn national that does dropshipping or something while living in your country
>>84211285you just pulled this fake as shit story where they totally welcomed you in the first world with open arms despite having no money or a reason to be there out of your ass and i'm the larper? how did you go there if you have no money? nepotism? organized crime? did you cover all those expenses with air?>>84211287i literally said i'm looking for a husband. other anons brought up things like going abroad for education because they don't know it isn't an option if you are not rich and academically top percent.
>>84211305>your only optionNigga "she" has countless options ITT to choose from, but "she" still won't drop a tag to do anything.
>>84211306>how did you go there if you have no money?Unlike you I actually worked in my thirdie country, not everyone in a third world country has $0 like you. LOL.
>>84211310yeahdont marry a guy from herehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLl7HKxGCl8
>>84211305i am open to that but i don't want to live here anymore. he can continue his job. but i wouldn't ever come here again if i could move abroad. i am done with this place.
>>84211306>other anons brought up things like going abroad for education You're actually retarded and ESL. I only brought up education for AFTER you get married. Judging by your intelligence displayed ITT I doubt it's an option for you now. Maybe I could get you on some special ed program and you could get disability payments but there's no way you'd survive college.
>>84211314Cope, there's more psychos on twitter, facebook, snap, insta, tiktok, discord etc.People like to shit on 4chan but if they applied the logic equally then NOBODY who uses social media could be trusted.
>>84211290>because i want a husband. i don't find living alone in a foreign country appealing. marriage would be more stable. i want to get married and gtfo at the same time.why do you want a husband? you dont really believe in love, so is it just so youre not alone in a foreign country and theres more stability, like you dont have to work?so if you could move to a 1st world country and make enough money working a job that you had a nice house in a nice area and enough money for what you want, would you do that? sounds like you dont want to work
>>84211325>NOBODY who uses social media could be trusted.well, I mean yeahsomeone who spends 10 hours a day on Twitter or Instagram sounds like theyre a divorce waiting to happen
>>84211340>who spends 10 hours a day Goalposts moved. Fucking leftoids.
>>84208239I can't believe all the retards ITT entertaining this obviously made up story. I guess I'll use this one in a few weeks when I want to bait. This person has been continuously replying here for 12 hours and hasn't traded contacts yet.
>>84211351And they actually said 12 hours ago they weren't interested in contactfagging lmao
>>84211359>Lives in a third world rural village>Spends all day on 4chan>Wants a western husband>Won't contactfag hereuh huh seems totally legit
>>84211319no, you're retarded because>why would i need to go to college as a married woman?>why would they accept me when i am not a citizen? (it takes many years even after you get married)>why would they accept me when i don't have the necessary prerequisite education? do you really think they accept third world school diplomas?>how am i supposed to cover the expenses?>how am i going to obtain your imaginary immigrant scholarships when i am not academically exceptional?you clearly don't live in the real world.>>84211336i believe in marriage. i don't believe in the modern childish concept of love. these are very different things. i am not entirely opposed to working, it depends on the job but it's moreso i am not qualified for it. the scenario you proposed is not possible because i do not fit the criteria for exceptionally skilled workers but even if it was, i wouldn't want it because i want to live with a husband, not alone.>>84211351i can't believe you call my set of questions a story because i wasn't telling a story. also can't believe that you think i must be larping unless i post contacts. totally not a setup at all.
>>84211359I think they really are a third worlder, but a filipino man larping.
>>84208239>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?submissive, woman roles, get along with my normie coworkers and family >do i have to be super pretty? white(pale), thin, no giant ass or tits>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?in a way, yes>do you want me to have kids?y>do i have to cook your culture's food?y>how often do you want sex? what kind?1-9 times a week. im pretty vanilla>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?monogamous >would you hit me?no, except slap you ass on occasion >would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?no lol>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?y>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?you will have your own, mine is for business unless im driving us>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?not all day everyday>hardmodecare for me when im sickdont divorce me for chadmake me think you love me
>>84211371its incomprehensible to me that you want to live with someone you dont love for the rest of your life, would be better off being a parasite until you get citizenship, collect unemployment, bring your friends over and marry them and live with them or something
>>84211371Clearly you're a retard who's never considered standing on her own two feet and researching this. You're talking about "immigrant scholarships" that's not even a fucking thing here.Look I gave up the last post on trying to convince you to get educated AFTER you're married since you're obviously too retarded to do anything but fuck and breed. I'll be lucky if you can cook a dinner without burning it.If you were legitimately considering it you'd have a throwaway email prepared but you're not. Shame because i'd give you an allowance of 1.5k since you're special needs and you'd need taxis everywhere because no way am I trusting you with my fucking car.
>>84211359>>84211367yeah i won't. this is very obviously a thread i made to have a conversation. it isn't /soc/. you are free to not respond if people talking without contactfagging bothers you so much. the false impressions in your head are your own problem not mine.
>>84211398So it's an attention whore thread? A girl like you will never get married to one of the men here. The best you can settle for is the local pimp in your area.
Better thread just dropped >>84211412
>>84208239it's not worth marrying firties, there were news last year of a bunch of normie brazillian women being institutionalized by their german hubbies for nothing, outside of your shithole you are worth even less than you are worth in your shithole
>>84211392these things aren't mutually exclusive. it's a matter of priority. i don't know why some of you are so divided on me saying i want to marry for logic and not love. it doesn't mean i want a loveless relationship. i'm just saying you should pick your marriage partner prioritizing reason and not emotions. emotions mislead people into makinng wrong decisions. you will be happier on the long run that way and your relationship will be more successful.>>84211396aren't you the same guy who claimed third worlders can study for free in your country and it's totally not a scam? do you have also have a bridge to sell?>>84211408it's called having a conversation. i'm sorry you never had one before.
>>84211441>aren't you the same guy who claimed third worlders can study for free in your country and it's totally not a scam?It's true and you don't need to keep coping that you "have no other choice" but to be a live in bangmaid and breedwhore. That's all you want to be and you can be that. You're not even good for conversing with since you're retarded so just shut up and suck dick.
>>84211290>>if you are transparent about it, it generally doesn't cause an issue in marriages because women know men view sex differently than us. it's not a personal but a physical thing. it is considered cheating when one side doesn't know about it and feels betrayed.i wish this was true, i think only a fraction of the female population is as based as you, at least in the west
>>84211417imitation is the sincerest form of flattery fr>>84211418that's why i asked the would you hit me and cheating questions but let's be real, most people wouldn't admit to it even if they would. but i think people might be more comfortable being honest since we are anonymous. i don't want to get abused. but third world life is so terrible i think i could tolerate some things. it's not like it can possibly be worse unless he turns out to be a murderer.>>84211456scam someone who actually buys your bullshit saar
>>84211468Nobody would actually want you except anons on this board since you're not pretty. Anyone with money in the west has their pick of third world whores.Just so you don't delude yourself into thinking that all the posters ITT represent a fraction of your choices. It's the majority.
>>84208239are you a virgin?are you brown?
>>84211468>scam someone who actually buys your bullshit saarI already gave up on the idea of you being educable about 4 posts ago but i guess you can't count that high.
>>84211477i know i'm not pretty duh. not even most anons would be interested in me. that's why i specified the ones who would be willing to marry someone like me". so the thread was never directed at you. but thanks for your unsolicited opinions>>84211480yes and yes.
>>84211497The other anon is right, you're retarded. My point was that this is probably the sum total of your choices and was a reference to you lack of contactfagging.
>>84211497>yes and yes.how brown?
>>84211499Subsaharan IQ
>>84211498last time i checked retarded doesn't mean not being willing to contactfag on a thread that was never meant for contactfagging. but your illiteracy is actually indicative of retardation.>>84211499mildly. i am rather light skinned for one because i don't go outside much but i look obviously ethnic.
>>84211468couldn't you get into compsci, engineering or academia? the people I knew that moved to canada, australia, portugal or the us were able to do it by being really good at that kind of stuff, not by marrying a firstie they met online
>>84211514>but i look obviously ethnic.Ah I see you're some south american
>>84211515Give up saar sell your bridge to someone else
>>84211515no i couldn't. like you said you have to be very good. you must be super exceptional at stem to do that as a third worlder. and even then you get paid way less than locals for obvious reasons. that is not a life i want. i want to get married not become an engineer. but even if i was, our education isn't first world level so we are not qualified for applying to these programmes. you either have to be very academically outstanding or rich to be accepted.
>>84211593Indian code monkeys aren't exceptional they are just willing to wageslave for less
>>84211593>i don't want to>but even if i wanted to-say lessnow a question for you, if you HAD to choose from one of the posts ITT what one would it be? i get you're not sharing contact but i'm curious
>>84211593I meant really good in comparison to other thirdies, that's not that much work
>>84211610yeah i would rather be married.>>84211614these questions don't reveal much personal information so i can't tell for sure. it's just me asking about how they would act in a relationship so i know what i'm getting into while seeking such arrangements. i liked these posters the most based on the answers >>84208457 >>84208976
>>84211644>these questions don't reveal much personal information so i can't tell for sure. That's the limitation of asking in public but i guess privately has it's own issues too.>so i know what i'm getting into while seeking such arrangements.I don't think this is a good gauge if i'm being honest since it's very basic and there will be trolls.One of them is me so i'm happy anyway.
>>84211660that's cool. i know people could be lying. we are anonymous so you never know. but i think it also makes people more honest.
>>84211700It can but there's other issues that interfere with honesty. If anons think they have a chance with you they might downplay, similarly they will downplay to avoid criticism from other anons. On the other hand, if they don't think they have a chance they might not put effort in and think about it.Mine was half-assed if i'm being honest and I could have went into more detail or clarified better now that i've read it again.I also think you're looking for someone to assuage some paranoia you have, maybe rightful paranoia, but that can only be done over time and sometimes even then it's not enough if it's only online.
>>84211441would you be happy enough with a loveless marriage a long as you got out of your country?
>>84208239Answering in earnest because I'm bored>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?I will expect you to be a virtuous woman. This doesn't mean a doormat or chaste, just someone who is courageous, honest, temperate, benevolent, caring, giving, and embraces your feminine complimentary energy in the relationship and role as a mother and wife. >do i have to be super pretty?No. But you have to make an effort to look cute sometimes, and sexy sometimes. >i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes. I don't want a bangslut or model. I want a wife. >do you want me to have kids?Yep >do i have to cook your culture's food?You should strive to have a robust repertoire of being able to modestly cook all cultures food at home, as should every individual. >how often do you want sex? what kind?Often and vigorous. You should have kinks to mutually explore, as I certainly will. >do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Monogamy would be the ideal. Cheating only happens when women neglect their man through a false sense of having already earned him and no longer needing to maintain the relationship by putting out. If cheating does happen I expect us to try to repair the relationship. >would you hit me?Only if you want me to, as part of a negotiated kink or power-exchange dynamic. >would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?Sure. >would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Absolutely, in fact, I would encourage you to have a rich life outside of me and our relationship. >would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes, if I'm not using it. Ideally though you would have your own car eventually that I could help you get. >would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes, but not all the time/every day. Ideally this would happen when I'm not around to hear it.
>>84211833yes i just want to get out of my country
I won't marry a woman who can't hold a job. I'm not going to be your dad and I don't expect you to mother me. There's a femanon who was really into me and very pretty but she doesn't want to work. Understandable, nobody wants to work. But the fact that she refuses to work is not acceptable.
>>84211930What's really stopping you from making a throwaway or posting on >>>/soc/ ? It's not as if you'd have to commit to anything an anybody you'd want to seriously take into consideration wouldn't rush a decision for both your sakes.With a post on >>>/soc/ you could be more specific with your requirements, though I would actually advise you to do the opposite and leave it vague so that they reveal themselves. You seem smart enough to vet people as you're already worried about trafficking and scams ITT.
>>84211959nah I admit it this was a larp but it was fun guys, thanks for entertaining me.
>>84212011>tfw i jerked off twice to the thought of this thread
>>84211833of course. it would be better than living here. childish emotions are not a priority for me. they shouldn't be anyone's really. this is why people get divorced so often nowadays.>>84211920eh cheating can happen either way even if you have sex with him because a lot of men just crave novelty. they get bored of being with the same woman. but i think that's kind of an ugly truth about human nature and not that big of a deal if they are being transparent about it and it is just sex.>>84211930>>84212011don't pretend to be me and make your own thread tranny.>>84211959i thought of it but that board is full of coomers. nothing for the arrangement i'm looking for.
>>84212137>but that board is full of coomers. The internet is full of coomers. The venn diagram of places you can talk or post an ad for this and the places that are full of coomers is a circle. You need to be realistic and accept the fact you're going to need to filter for; traffickers, abusers, and coomers.
>>84212150You do realize that the OP who originally made this thread is not who you're replying to lol.
>>84212150but it's especially bad there. there are some other alternatives i found. there are websites that are specifically for dating men who are looking for mail order brides. at least they have a much lower probability of having aids than /soc/ posters.>>84212156it's me you schizophrenic retard.
>>84212192> there are websites that are specifically for dating men who are looking for mail order brides. at least they have a much lower probability of having aids than /soc/ posters.No i think that most /soc/ posters overlap with /r9k/ at this point and many are incels.
>>84212137where are you going to search for someone, how can i apply
>>84212192>>84212197Try >>>/soc/ /aan/ maybe?
>>84212197>>84212198>>84212216i might make a post there if i find a suitable thread. but i don't have high hopes. it's like trying to find a wife at a strip club.
>>84212250/aan/ is really the only one that might suit you. Or try sfw discord thread but idk how that will go.
Not Muhrcan but Germs many.-what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?I want a wife to marry and reproduce with.Preferably your father and mothers father are above 173cm.I'd expect you to be physically attracted by me.Everything else is up to imagination.-do i have to be super pretty?No.-i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes.-do you want me to have kids?Yes 2. 1 Boy. 1 Girl-do i have to cook your culture's food?No-how often do you want sex? what kind?Atleast twice. Whatever you like.-do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Roman catholic.-would you hit me?Only if you hit me or if you want to.-would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?No. But if we marry you'd have access to all my funds. And you can aply for German citizinship after 3 years minimum wage is 1200Euro if your autism makes you disabled neetbux are 500 Euro.-would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Yes. -would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes.-would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes.For further questions:Contact Info:Session messenger: ID:052a762ef92ed16a005ddb1b3392849c5b9c2a34a98f62805ee890dcd3f903ce4c
>>84208239I would not marry a third world foid because I am against race mixing
not reading all that but getting an asian wife might be my only play especially after that christian virgin fiasco making me no longer want a white woman (I am white myself but white women are the biggest whore race traitors so they leave me no choice) I just want a girl to marry and raise children with but white women wont give us that. they only want tyrone or juan in their younger years like all the egirls on here as well
Ok guys, I admit it. This thread was just a test by me, a third world guy to see how many dating options a third world woman had. I went back and tried to act like someone was sabotaging my thread, and everyone still bought but it thank you for the info.
>>84213312You didn't need to test anon. Every woman with internet has the same "dating options."
Being a woman is mostly life on easy mode if you are intelligent enough to make the right choices.Would indeed be interesting to know if any woman would do this and where to find them online. But race mixing is indeed very risky.But living is always better than dying.
>>84213310i read that white women are the least racemixing women out there so i think you just fell for propaganda anon.>>84213312i am a woman and you should stop being a schizophrenic tranny. the thread wasn't even about you so i don't know why you even clicked in the first place. obsessed. >>84213317not really. there are a lot of variables. the most important one being your looks.>>84213366check out mail order bride sites. i signed up on one.
>>84213432>check out mail order bride sites. i signed up on one.Seems like it would be easier and funner just to go irl.
>>84213432>i read that white women are the least racemixing women out there so i think you just fell for propaganda anon.>jewish paper says that white women racemix the least>just ignore what your eyes see when you go outside and see white women hand in hand with niggers or mexican offspring>just ignore dating apps of single mothers who refuse to show what their child looks like to dating prospects>just ignore every egirl from r9k has had a black or brown boyfriend after rejecting white robotsyeah bro totally, white women are very loyal to white men
>>84208239>>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?Somewhere between tradwife and normalfag. If you're here, you probably have some interests like anime, vidya, tabletop, tech, etc, and I'd to indulge in them together. But I don't want to be walking spergs in public that are incapable of acting decent.>>do i have to be super pretty? No, just take care of your body. Everyone has their own tastes as far as faces go.>>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes.>>do you want me to have kids?Yes.>>do i have to cook your culture's food?At least half of the time, yes. But I also can cook, and we could teach each other.>>how often do you want sex? what kind?If a relationship gets to this point, it's already over. The correct answer is often, and it should be given proactively.>>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Monogamous, I would not cheat.>>would you hit me?No, unless it's something like playful spanking.>>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?Probably, there would be times when unexpected expenses might diminish that, though only your 'wants' would suffer.>>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Of course, I would buy a second car.>>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes, but I would also get a second one so that we would not be constrained.>>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes, ideally over some kind of app so that international calling bills aren't killing us financially.
>>84213366>But race mixing is indeed very risky.>But living is always better than dying.This is how I view it. I am white and worry about my kids not looking like anyone in my family, but I would rather reproduce than not.
>>84213454why would the jews release such papers? you are the one whose arguments sound jewish.>>84213459i have seen people who expect sex to be scheduled. like this many times per day or week. i think some of them are reasonable and some aren't. it is important to discuss these things before marriage so no one is disappointed.
>>84213498>why would the jews release such papers? you are the one whose arguments sound jewish.why would you need a peer reviewed paper to tell you white women dont racemix when you can just use your eyes? go outside and count the number of actual white couples (mexicans dont count as white) versus racemixed couples, or single moms to mulattos
>>84213498>it is important to discuss these things before marriage so no one is disappointedI do agree with this. Barring illness, injury, life events, things like that, it should be at least once a week in my opinion. Ideally more, but life does happen.
>>84213506i live in the third world, i see no white woman outside. but as far as i've seen in the first world, white women race mixing is largely overblown and stats show it is uncommon. they are the most racially royal after black women.
>>84213520maybe 10 years ago when that paper was written but not anymore and since youre from the 3rd world you wouldnt even know then even if she doesnt have a brown bf or brown mulatto kid, she previously was "finding herself" and that meant having fun with them. seriously every girl I talk to says she previously has been with a brown guy before after playing dumb with them because you cant just outright ask, and then I call them whores and block them. its impossible to find a white woman to date and not be a cuck with or without your knowing
>>84208239>>what are your main expectations from me? tradwife? normalfag relationship?I want a slave. Don't be a disloyal whore, take interests in my interests, and learn to cook from my sister and mom.>>do i have to be super pretty?No and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.>>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?Yes.>>do you want me to have kids?Maybe when my finances are more stable.>>do i have to cook your culture's food?I enjoy food from a variety of cultures but yes. >>how often do you want sex? what kind?Never had sex so I can't give you an honest answer but I have a very high libido and I lean towards sadism in the pornographic content I consume.>>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?Monogamous.>>would you hit me?Maybe. If you gave me a good reason to I would hit you but the risks I take hitting you may not be worth the reward of hearing you scream so if you do things that make me want to hit you I might just dump you.>>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?Yes.>>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?Yes but I don't think you would want to do that.>>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?Yes.>>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?Yes.
>>84208239>>do i have to be super pretty? no>>i'm no seductive exotic mail bride princess but a homely autistic virgin. is that appealing to you?yes>>do you want me to have kids?yes>>do i have to cook your culture's food?yes>>do you want the relationship to be monogamous or should i ignore cheating?monogamous>>would you hit me?no>>would you give me an allowance of 400 usd per month?no>>would you let me go outside to explore the nearby area and shop?yes>>would you let me drive your car if i can get a license?yes>>would you let me talk to my friends back home on the phone for hours?yes