Anyone else here incel but also a sex addict? Ive spent probably 10k on hookers over the last couple of years. I am so fucking addicted to paying whores. The only thing I care about is sex but it costs me a lot and its the only way I can get it. Whenever I have extra money or savings, my first thought isnt to invest, its to spend it on a whore. Its a genuine, self destructive addiction and im not sure how to fix it. It started with online whores but then I eventually moved on to the real thing and I can never get enough, I can get my dick sucked and start craving it again 2 hours later
are you at least fucking their asses?
You arent an incel. You are not a celibate
>>84209047No, I'm a person who had sex and became an incel later in life.
>>84209051Anal? No. I am fucking their pussies doggy style though>>84209053By strict definition of the word, yeah, but words change meaning over time. I mean incel in the sense that no women will ever want me, I will never be in a relationship and I have no friends. 99 percent of women do not even notice my existence or talk to me. I only get to do this when I pay
>>84209081how big is your dick and how tight is your anus
>>84209305My cock is 6 inches and pretty skinny, my anus is very tight I guess because I never put anything in it besides my finger when I shower
>>84209047I have never had sex. I can't even afford whores because I am poor.
>>84209318six inches is fine. my anus is tight too because i never put anything in it either.
The one girl who maintained any interest in me I paid for sex and then after I had some monetary issues etc she cucked me for some Arab guy and had his kid for free apparently the first time they fucked. She literally writes me paragraphs about how bad of a guy I am All I did was talk to other girls while she was telling me she was cucking me before the Arab thingCheers lad paying for sex is the only way some of us will ever have some form of love sadly
>>84209341For me, once I got a taste it was enough to motivate me to make money more than anything else. Itz funny, my addiction is bad but it is also the sole reason I quit being a NEET and started pursuing a high paying job. My next goal to make enough that I can go to foreign countries every year for sex tourism>>84209353Nice man. I am just not into ass stuff, I got one girl trying to lick my ass one time when she was sucking my cock and I literally shrieked and told her to get away from there
>>84209364i used to be like that but now i let girls lick it if they want. i don't care like i used to
>>84209047gotta ween yourself off slow 'n steady. your desire for stimulation is too high, and your sensitivity for stimulation is at an all time low. the goal is to lower the desire, and to raise the sensitivity. in other words, you gotta be cool with having more boring sexual experiences, and less often. it'll suck, because it's boring, but you CAN do it. I guess you jsut have to ask yourself: what matters more, discipline and your wallet, or getting laid? it's yer life after all lawlz. anywaystldr: jerk off to boring porn whenever you're too horny to hold back, try to jerk off never, and don't let yourself to go a hooker. If you're going to go to one just jerk off.
>>84209047>Ive spent probably 10k on hookers over the last couple of years. I am so fucking addicted to paying whores. The only thing I care about is sex but it costs me a lot and its the only way I can get it.How did it start? I see smoking hot 20yos for 80-150$/hr and I'm tempted. My place is a garbage filled stinky neet cave, should I get a hotel? Getting an airbnb and cumming everywhere in someone else's house sounds hot too.
>>84209518airbnbs don't care what you do on their sheets. they just wash them and move on. stayed in one and she wouldn't have been the wiser what i would have done in her room because i made it appear extremely clean after
>>84209518Just looked at some online listings and got too horny to resist, I have had some bad experiences so far but also some very very good ones that leave me wanting more
>>84209545Thanks. It's crazy that they almost cost as much the the hookers around me.>>84209561Have you ever been rejected or turned down by one?
>>84209579No, but I have walked away from some. Check for reviews on any girl you plan on seeing, lots of them cat fish with their photos
I've thought about it but I hate doing new things and going to new places and dealing with new people so I've never seen one. I also don't know how to find them safely in Canada and the prices seem waaaay too high.And honestly I'm more interested in someone I can just cuddle with for a while rather than actual sex.
>>84209579yea they're expensive. just have to remember it's similar to staying at a hotel. similar pricing. although you can get rooms for example where other people may be in the house at the same time for cheaper. stayed at this woman's house in one of her basement bedrooms. was cute because she had room numbers on the doors like a hotel. i was luckily the only one there so it was comfy. only saw her on the way out the next day
Have you ever caught anything from fucking whores? I've fucked 4 of them myself and haven't gotten any STD's, but I wore a condom each time.
>incelBuying coitus is voluntary, and sexual
>>84210348Nope, haven't caught anything
It's not like an addiction but I get horny at seeing their ads and I've visited several. I would visit prostitutes more if I was more virile.My advice to younger guys is that you should have as much sex as you can while your dick still functions.
sex is just not as important to pieces or plastic and pixels to me
>>84209047Some people just seem to be born to seek out and have sex a lot. You were born this way. Me for example I was born to not really care about it that much hence why I've never had sex.
>>84209518where do you guys look to find these girls? I have no idea where to look, and live in a kinda big city so I imagine theres girls for sale here but I just dont know where you look. I dont own a smartphone either
>>84209047I lost my virginity to a hooker, after the first time it got me hooked like heroin, I live in a eastern European shithole so the hookers are cheap but there is little variety, I usually visit the same girl numerous times if we get a long and she is cheap enough, currently I keep visiting this long black haired no tits big ass 30 year old that puts on lingerie sets on for me that I have bought. I have no social life and live with my mom so the expenses don't really hit me as hard.
>>84209047>here incelProper term for you is escortcel.I have a question. Do you have girls your return back to or prefer new girls?
>>84210671That's greatly depends on country.Here is Russia there are many 3rd party sites where girls can advertise themselves (they pay for accounts and promotion) , they have reviews and admins checking accounts. And that works well no much scam.
>>84210671>I dont own a smartphone eitherAnd if it's searching via internet you need one, girls usually set up meetings via messengers like telegram and whatsapp.Get separate "whore phone" for that.
>>84210786>Ivan [admin]: I check Irina yesterday, sex ok
>>84209442>If you're going to go to one just jerk offnta but I've tried that and it's only made me last longer in bed when I inevitably go back to these girls that same day.
>>84210838They mostly check that photos are real Like ask girl to make video call.Though I occasionally saw fake accounts with photos stolen from Instagram and onlyfans.Also if contacts are accessable.
>>84209047I've escortcelled a bunch and had some really fun times doing it, I have a bimbo fetish and its kindof the only way to get my fix of that, plus they can be fun to hang out with and usually have interesting stories.
I get the fantasy of simply being able to pick out a willing female and have sex with her on your terms. But the stark realities, the psychology and the logistics involved in actually renting out a real human fuckmeat? Nah, man. I don't see how it would ever be worth it.
>>84211156The answer is to unironically objectify the woman, if you can't do that you can't enjoy whores.
>>84211266Maybe, but I think there's more to it for me. I don't like actual sex all that much to begin with. I've never really had a "one night stand" and generally find sex with new pussy too anxiety inducing. I don't like interacting in general. I don't like the idea of paying for something I've been getting for free. I don't like the idea of getting my dick out in front of a strange lady who does it for money. I like things my way but I'm not domineering or convincing enough to impose my will - when things don't go my way I tend to just lose interest and withdraw. I don't like the idea of committing to a group activity that I may not like for whatever reason and the awkwardness that would result from my inability to deal with the situation rationally. I'm just too autistic for all that shit, mang. Having to go out of my way and put myself through that shit, when I can just jerk it to my vast array of pornos in the privacy of my own home, is unthinkable to me.
>>84209360 Her daughters are gonna be hot.
>>84211425That woman's head is way too big for her body. She looks like an off-brand action figure from Temu.
>>84209047I've spent more than double that in half the time.Do you keep a log of all the girls and what you did? I would've forgot experiences if I didnt create a spreadsheet
>>84209047>Anyone else here incel but also a sex addict?Yes, I am an incel white femboy but also a B.,B''C addict.
I wish they werent so expensiveThey are all 150 per hour or more in London which if you know this place is super expensive
>>84212410No, I just have some found memories that I fap to>>84212541It's actually more expensive where I am now. You got ugly whores trying to charge 500/h sometimes
>>84209047That one in your pic looks really good ngl
>>84209047>>84209442Dont ask for lower standards, but for greener pastures. Dont accept the crappy mid shit life offers you, try to take more. See if you can get some gullible barely 18 8/10 to let you bust inside. Trust me when I say you will never ever go back. Life is too short to be a good person.