how do you feel when a woman is nice to you without asking for anything in return? do you think theres always some bad intention behind it?
I think they're into me
>No, that's not how socials skills work (distinct from seduction/attraction)>u just realize this girl/guy is trying>& probably has things going 4 them
>>84212171Only my relatives are nice to me without asking for anything in return. I have tested this and as soon as I stop giving I stop receiving.>INB4 of course you have to give to receiveI mean initiating everything, I have to be the supporter always and if it stops for a second then they move on immediately.
>>84212171I wouldn't know as it never happened to me.
>woman>nice to mewomen ignore me
>>84212171Define bad intention. They do ask something in return. Even your parents ask you success in return for raising you. Everyone does so. That's not a bad thing. I help people "with no incentive" because I like them feeling like they owe me and give me gifts favors that I "didn't ask for". Life was never fair.
>>84212171very fat and/or ugly girls always do this, i used to be fatter and uglier and i remember those same girls never acknowledging that I existed or extending any of that same kindness to me. Even when you're a 2/10, all of the 2/10 women want an above average man at worst. Dating apps have done a fucking number on the ego of ugly women.
>>84212188exactly! i think that thing about giving without getting anything in return really doesnt exist
>>84212190i guess im like a 4/10 and even so i like being nice to everyone, i dont care how they look or how they act with me, when they see im nice to them they instantly are nice back even if they were mean before, its weird
>>84212181yess! thats exhausting but all of society is based on that, a few months ago one day i went to school even feeling bad and i just told my so-called friends i was fine so they wouldnt worry about me since i was really quiet and instantly from that day they completely stopped talking to me and now im alone again xd
>>84212190Exactly this. I went from fat chud to pretty ripped and the fat women especially would go out of their way to compliment/flirt. Like, no average or even below average women were ever acting this way, but the hogs lay it on so thick, and it just comes off as insulting since some of these same women outright snubbed normal conversation when I was a fattie.
>>84212171It makes me happy because I do try to be nice to people despite my awkwardness. Usually, they are just genuinely nice people. I guess they just want to make sure I'm helpful as ever in the workplace though, if I have to think of a benefit they might receive from being nice to me.
>>84212228>yess! thats exhausting but all of society is based on thatAre you a woman? Because it's not at all like that for me. It only happens with woman in my experience and only the women outside my family.All my other experiences are mutual. Give and take.
>>84212171I've never felt love and affection so yeah, I'm suspicious when someone's nice to me for no reasonI thought I lost my chance with this one girl, but she keeps sending me pics and vids unprompted and she responds with red heart emojis every few repliesSo yeah, idk what her deal is
>>84212171women my age aren't nice to me let alone asking for something in return so i wouldn't knowif one was i would assume she has an ulterior motive
>>84212171>without asking for anything in return They always do, they are ironically the nice guys they complain about that equate being nice with owed acts of service, nice guys want le poosy, bitches want you to fix their car they neglected while chasing chad who can't be bothered doing all that for a pump and dump.
>>84212171Women are always getting something out of it. One girl is nice to me in our friend group, but I know deep down she is a lying cunt who just pities me. I obvious have not confronted her, but I'm probably right.
>>84212171Its like Bella Janke talking to Chris Chan
>>84212171women do not show many any kind of attention, kindess or consideration without getting something in return. it can be as little as social validation from other people by pretending to be nice to you but make no mistake, there is no such thing as a kind woman
>>84212171>how do you feel when a woman is nice to you without asking for anything in return? Nearly impossible, the only reason women interact with me is if there is a incentive, in 95% of cases it's financial, the other 5% is social standing and hierarchical power dynamics, although not necessarily financial there is still tangible gain to be had and therefore a profit motive, women have demonstrated to me in my subjective and anecdotal experience to have zero desire otherwise to associate with me.>bad intentionIf it comes at my expense, generally in the past I didn't have any issues with women in professional settings or joining forces within a mutually beneficial arrangement, however in the past two years women have tried to either screw me over explicitly, or not held up their part of the agreement or constantly tried to change the terms of a prior agreement they've agreed to and I'm honestly sick and tired of it to the extent I'm considering either not working with women at all or charging them higher prices to offset the foidrisk factor.
>>84212171https://voca.ro/12mVZ8dhY5JI
>>84212171>how do you feel when a woman is nice to you without asking for anything in return?I feel nothing>do you think theres always some bad intention behind it?I doubt it
>>84213866https://voca.ro/1k6DiYZqWiPh
>>84212171>woman is nice to youThis has never happened to me
>>84212171i have literally never experienced this
>>84212171i get offended
>>84212171>when a woman is nice to youthis only happens when we're in a professional relationship i.e. I'm paying them in some way directly or indirectly.
>>84216017this. i'm not sure i have even made eye contact in the last 20 years with any woman who wasn't standing behind a counter.
It's a good feeling but I don't read into it or anything. Some people are just nice.
