anybody else feel like their personality makes it impossible for them to have a girlfriend? like even if you were attractive your personality is so alien from a regular person that a woman would be put off?
>>84215106yeah kinda why
>>84215106yeah thats why i need a fembot or a femcel, it would simply not work with normal women
>>84215106Not just my personality, but also my way of living. The only way a woman would want me is if I'm massively successful in the things I do. Right now, I'm just spending way too much time on work and my hobby.
I worry the kind and fetish I have does. I wonder if other people feel the same.
>>84215106women dont give a fuck if your personality is shit if you're attractive enough, just like men dont give a fuck if stacy is a dumbass airhead as long as she is hot or seen as hot.
probably, i dont enjoy spending time around people much and women love social stuff so im screwed. ive talked to femanons years ago, we would exchange face pics, they liked what i looked like, they were almost always contacting me first, but after like a month of it i would get sick of it and stop responding. i dont think it would be much different in person except maybe we would have sex i guess and id probably put up with the annoying things for a while because my penis would convince me to deal with it. its a really annoying feeling to feel like i want to have a girlfriend while at the same time knowing i dont have the capability of dealing with one if i could even get one in the first place, which i cant anyway
>>84215225>as long as she is hot or seen as hot.What was the point of this distinction?
>>84215225>just like men dont give a fuck if stacy is a dumbass airhead as long as she is hot or seen as hot.Speak for yourself
>>84215225ok but most robots are ugly or average at best
>>84215258>ok but most robots are ugly or average at bestThanks, Captain Obvious
>>84215243>What was the point of this distinction?men become hot because of specific patterns, tall, muscular, big hands, large back, manly, etc.women become hot because of a series of mental pictures men make of them, men dont work like a hive-mind, men work more like a "hey youve seen that pub? looks pretty fucking awesome, yeah, yeah" kind of thing.>>84215249>Speak for yourselfyou can say whatever but if the trending stacy lets say that mid titted bitch sidney sweeney or whatever her name is wanted to pipe you would never say no
>>84215258>ok but most robots are ugly or average at bestmost robots think they are ugly because they compare to chad or stacy, they are not comparing themselves with pajeet or carlos, nor brian, nor steve from class 2."Fembots" do the same, they compare to other goth girls with tons of filters and pretty good genetics when all of them have hair on their face, arms, pimples, stretch marks, bad teeth, bad breathe, etc.
>>84215106are you the redscarepod incel. you're preaching to the choir here... you get better reactions (and maybe advice) in normie spaces like reddit
>>84215106It feels more like I'm doing everything "wrong" but I can't think of a single thing that would be "right" There's too many variables to account for, I can't possibly get them all lined up perfectly at the same time.
>>84215225>>84215290So basically if I'm urkel it's over
>>84215106When I was in the army one of my coworkers in my section told me several times that I was like a robot.
>>84215149i have the most fucked up insane degenerate kinks, but somehow I've compartmentalized them enough that my current gf thinks i'm some innocent virgin femboy who she had to teach to jerk off lol
>>84215106>anybody else feel like their personality makes it impossible for them to have a girlfriend? I have a gf but I think my personality has fucked up previous relationships. But I'm working on it. >like even if you were attractive your personality is so alien from a regular person that a woman would be put off?Think is that I'm not particularly attractive either. I think my looks and mannerisms put most women off even before they get to know my personality.
>>84215412its not, because outside this place and the most "normie" depths there are real "normal" people who dont think they can get a 100/10, men or women, they "settle", not in a bad way but in a realistic way, they fall in love and they give the love they know, if you seek this kind of interaction you have to dig not so deep, people even share who they are and what they think through social media all day every day, if you CANT see past their profiles then YOU dont know what you want or what you're looking for then YOU are the problem
Bro I'm too lazy to walk the 2 steps from my bed to my gaming chair. No matter how reclusive this hypothetical bitch would be, she'd always be complaining that I don't care about anything and we don't do anything or go anywhere.
>>84215106Yeah. I'm autistic, so staving off burnout means trying to find a balance between life success and downtime, if I don't l can't function and life ceases to be worth living. Women do that thing where all they really care about is if a man works himself to death or not, and if he doesn't, he's a 'slacker' or a 'loser'. Even society decides the value of a man based on his occupation, not who he is as a person. And I can't really live in that grind that's expected of us nowadays. Not because I don't want to, but because whenever I try, I end up in a hospital ward because I stopped eating, drinking, or sleeping, have become so passive I just don't really care what happens to me anymore, and have lost the ability to hold a coherent conversation or do basic things. I'm a sprinter, not a marathon runner, I can do high-quality work over short periods, but I can't maintain it day-in-day-out indefinitely as a lifestyle like pretty much all society is built around us doing, and I don't know how to filter or half-ass things.It's frustrating, because women are all about that self care shit and work-life balance, but the second a man does it - again, not out of desire, but out of need because it's the only way for him to remain functional - they get the ick. Hypocritical. But it is what it is, I suppose.Even if that weren't the case my interests are pretty incompatible with what women like. I like detail and learning new things. I like hobbies that make me think and challenge me mentally. I see no value in music, or celebrities, or travel, or contemporary politics. These things merely make me feel uncomfortable and uninterested, they elicit no positive emotional response. Most things in or produced by society aren't really of any interest to me. Much of it is predicated on the assumption you find other people interesting, and I really can't find a way to make people interesting for myself. They're very dull. But women are obsessed with social climbing.
>>84215106Yes. I think I'm not compatible with the vast majority of females. Their interests and lifestyles are something I am not interested in in the slightest and I won't fake it.
>>84215106>like even if you were attractive your personality is so alien from a regular person that a woman would be put off?In HS on the bus two women thinking i was asleep and out of earshot once remarked how nice of a face i had, how i looked like "some disney prince" and yet 28 years old now i am still a virgin
>>84215106>anybody else feel like their personality makes it impossible for them to have a girlfriend? Yes. I am a hermit NEET autist.>like even if you were attractive your personality is so alien from a regular person that a woman would be put off?Precisely. Foids want all the expensive outdoor shit, when all I want to do is spend all that time fucking and snuggling.Though I'm already pushing 40, there's no desire to get married and have kids anyway.I just wish I could even get an old foid, who just wants a lot of cock from me.
>>84215106nah its just my looks lol
