Just an update (I know you were all quivering in anticipation) since my thread got removed, I didn't respond to this and she removed me off Hinge and I'm guessing she blocked my number as well. All of you little faggots (probably the same guy) in my last thread telling me I'm "miserable" and "dude just trust women" btfo. For anyone naive enough to take what women say at face value, just know this - "okay don't hate me.." == "something you did/said gave me the ick so instead of ghosting you I will let you do it for me"
>>84220668why don't you just ride a bike?
>>84220668Archive link I don't know what you're talking about
>>84220668Yeah they do thatJust try and try again
>>84220675https://desuarchive.org/r9k/thread/84216787
>>84220668>I didn't respond to thisso.. you ghosted her?
>>84220684to be this stupid you have to be a woman/baiting. The only thing worth responding to would have been an offer to reschedule
>>84220692nta but you could have asked to reschedule, not like it would hurt
>>84220692she still responded to you. women forget you exist when they truly have no interest
>>84220697It would hurt my ego + makes me look patheticIn general, if people want to hang out with you, they will.>>84220703It's one step above ghosting. She only responded to me to make herself feel better "well.. at least I'm not ghosting him.."This is literally all that it is
>>84220668What she's doing here is making herself the bigger victim. If you push back on her oh-so-important need to make 6 whatevers for a fundraiser, you look like an asshole. But, the thing is, she always has some minor thing she's had months to do ready as an excuse for this kind of scenario.
>>84220709>It would hurt my ego + makes me look patheticnot really, just makes the possibility of getting some pussy more likely
>>84220668>She told me she was washing her hair tonight....
>>84220738Absolutely spot-on. "It's for a fundraiser..! What, do you also like to kick puppies?">>84220741This isn't something I generally have an issue with. I want something real now
>>84220709You're not wrong, but I usually atleast give one more chance before ghosting, maybe 3 chances if they were out of my league but that's it, if she blocked you for not responding to her immediately and she never rescheduled then she was probably wasting your time thoever
>>84220683You're an idiot btw. I don't understand why you wouldn't respond to her saying what she said? Too much manosphere bro? Not a cuck but shes obviously putting in a bit of effort in responding to you and showing she gives a fuck about the fact that she has to cancel
>>84220754My point still stands, maybe she would have rescheduled and things would have worked out. I get your point, but still worth trying to reschedule and seeing what she says from there
>>84220774What the fuck are you on about man? This is like 16 hours before our first date. People simply do not do this if they're interested. >unironically saying manosphereI am on my hands and knees BEGGING you to kill yourself IMMEDIATELY
>>84220683I was about to be with you OP but I think you're retarded. This is a very low stakes convo, there's no reason to be offended when she declines, either treat it as a shit test or go talk to other foids on your dating app.
>>84220792You have to remember you are on a board where some people literally have 0 experience with women, some of these tards unironically think the real ones are just like ones in their little chinese ching chong cartoons
>>84220792MY GUY it's not like her cancelling was completely flat and cold or some nonsense, shes practically flailing around helplessly telling you she has to cancel. Girls don't do that for some guy they're not interested in
>>84220815If a bitch texted me this I'd give her a chance to reschedule, OP is overreacting like a bitch
>>84220668shoulda gone with the funny why do women always lie reply, he even had digits, this is a regret you'll carry your whole life
>>84220820>>84220829You studs have fun with that, I've already given plenty of women "chances to reschedule" and I know what it results in 99% of the time>>84220843That reply was fucking hilarious but I am a little bitch and don't want to trigger the one person vindictive enough to find out where I live and cancel me or some shit
>>84220668 only thing I would have changes is "Aight np. Hit me up when you're free" but that wouldn't have made a huge difference. Just give her the clear message that it's her responsibility. You don't want to act like you're pissy, but also don't want to act like you care and will bend over backwards for her. Being pissy IS caring btw.
>>84220820Unless they do and they found a new date for the day.
>>84220863So why not just let it happen? That way there wouldn't be any doubt she was a lying whore
>>84220883Do I have to spell it out for you? I spent my late teens/early 20's doing that. It nearly never worked out. The mental damage of trusting "lying whores" accumulates over time. You have to be good to yourself too. Yeah, there's a small chance she was being genuine. There's a much larger chance that someone suddenly canceling <24h beforehand and not bothering to ask about different days was not, though.
