>>84224099
I wish I had an older gf
I met a cute girl at the psych ward last year I ended up giving her $2000 because she was short on money for school and her dog was sick unfortunately I was just simping I wish I had an older girl to simp for
>i believe in more trad gender roles and want my man to take care of me and be the provider
Ya good luck with that I am broke as fuck the most you're gonna get is equality why don't you just betabuxx instead of looking for brokies?

>>84224110
For reference I am 21 she is 28

>>84224099
you think you want that but young men dont fuck as good

>>84224099
how the fuck am i supposed to take care of you and be the provider when im 20 rn, if the ages were reverse like i was 27 and you were 20 or we were both 27 then i couldve easily taken care of you

I was 7 years younger than my ex but she made all the money. The dynamic was fine but you better pay up of you want some younger bf

>>84224099
I think it's rare for women to specifically want a younger bf and even rarer for women to want a younger bf who plays the traditional male role in a relationship. There probably aren't many men into this but there also isn't much demand for the ones who are.

I'm young and also very young/boyish looking and would love to have a sub older gf I took care of but I think it's unrealistic. It's too niche of a relationship type imo and she'd have to be ok with waiting two years for me to graduate before I could provide for her.

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>>84224099
If you want a younger bf you really need to be a mommy domme type. The only guys who want older women either want someone more dominant or who will pay for things, otherwise most guys went a younger woman. Also no ones going to be able to support a partner at only 20yo. They'll be working entry level jobs or in college at that age.

>>84224158
not op but how old are you and what do you consider to be older

>>84224099
>i believe in more trad gender roles and want my man to take care of me and be the provider
uuuggggggGGGGGHHH BORING BORING youre all so fucking boring and stupid im pissed off

>>84224172
I'm 21 and by older I meant 22-29

Just find a bf who is your age but also stunted socially. Then you can have a relationship of equals.

>>84224171
What makes someone a mommy domme type?

>>84224563
Depends somewhat on what your bf wants. It generally involves being affectionate in a more maternal way. The domme part could be you actually being the one in charge of the relationship or your bf could be the one in charge with you offering guidance and support. There isn't one specific definition. It really depends on your bf or the kind of guy you're looking for.

>>84224619
Isn't this just being a good gf though...?

>>84224625
Generally, yes, although being a good gf doesn't necessarily involve behaving towards your bf in a maternal way. Some guys might want you to behave in more of a maternal way and some in less of a maternal way. A lot depends on the guy.

>>84224563
Ummm, why are you asking anon. . .

>>84224652
Because guys keep calling me a mommy when I flirt with them and have since I was a 12 year old loli. Even the ones who don't explicitly say it make a point of wanting to suck on my tits, make me lactate so they can drink my milk, get me pregnant and stay pregnant constantly, and point out how apparently nurturing I am when good with children, animals, and plants and how I would make a good wife and mother. I don't know what I am doing and the feedback isn't universally positive.
>>84224649
>autistic and raised with zero maternal warmth
I don't know what "behaving in more or less maternal way" means. Am I not supposed to be encouraging them and telling them that I am proud of them and know they can do anything they put their minds to, checking in on whether they have eaten, showered, or slept recently and teasing them until they do because I am worried about their health, and kissing them on the head when I play with their hair or fix their jackets with a kiss on the cheek? I've been called the mom friend all my life and a mommy dom to men in their twenties since I was a middle schooler. When I like a man I start doing this without meaning to. Is this what moms do?

>>84224692
>Is this what moms do?
In that case you're already naturally a mommy gf. Just keep doing what you're already doing.

>>84224692
>guys keep calling me a mommy when I flirt with them
do you mainly go for younger guys or do they respond this way to some sort of behavior from your end?

>>84224692
Are you a dom or sub though? Do you try to control and/or hurt them or do you try to make them happy and do whatever they want?

>>84224692
>When I like a man I start doing this without meaning to. Is this what moms do?
No that's just called caring about someone I am a guy and do the same thing

>>84224692
Do you or would you do anal? would you like it?

so op may not be interested but do any nonas want a shota bf :3 I'm 4'0 but I unfortunately look kinda manly not childish. fakeaccountspaceperiod on discord I'll check tomorrow

>>84224714
I guess? I either get that or called a brat.
>>84224718
Younger and older say this but I have literally heard this from men who were 22-25 when I was 12 and 45 year olds when I was 19. It doesn't matter their age or mine, it's a consistent assessment. The young ones say it too now that I'm older. This is how I naturally behave and I didn't know this was unusual so I guess it's a behavioral thing. I get called a wife too when dating and an older sister in general, but men mostly seem to want me to dom them and some get disappointed when I can only do this or gentle femdom because I worry too much about hurting their feelings or being selfish when they want me to talk down to them or order them around. All of them want to suck on my tits and for me to be on top and ride all the time though, unfortunately I've never figured out how to angle that properly and don't like having that sort of upper body jiggling be easily exposed and seen. They also all want to eat my pussy and especially my ass for some reason which I have never let happen and don't understand, for what it's worth, or said that I look and act like porn and they want to film me, fuck me in front of a mirror, make others watch, take pics in shibari, or the whole "fucktoy", "bimbofication", "you're my doll to play with" thing. That doesn't really seem to be how you'd treat a mother to me, but they apparently like the "submissive, vulnerable, fragile" aspect as they say.

>>84224745
>4'0
bro is a legal midget

>>84224751
it's not illegal to be me! no but I really am a midget I don't like when people call me that tho:(

>>84224749
Nona how many men have you been with? It sounds like a lot. Are you even actually looking for a bf or are you more into hookups?

>>84224723
I don't know, I like power struggles and switching but am primarily submissive I suppose except when being nurturing/gentle femdom/mommy. I think it's fun to tell them how to jack off and order them around in that way though. Being called mistress is weird to hear but mommy is okay. I wouldn't want to control or hurt anyone and would only do so if they explicitly asked for it and wouldn't mind if I kept stopping to make sure they were okay...
>>84224738
Yeah that's why I'm confused, this seems normal. What's so weird about rubbing your partner's back and cooking for him, or taking care of him by nursing him back to health when he's sick? Maybe it's the girly dresses and playing with children thing...
>>84224744
Why is that even a question? What woman would rule out anal completely in 2026?

>>84224099
>this is me venting pls dont contact spam me
then get the fuck out of here nigga youre probably a troon too yo should really start considering suicide options

>>84224761
Do you enjoy anal though? do you/would you do it often or just occasionally?

>>84224761
>Yeah that's why I'm confused, this seems normal. What's so weird about rubbing your partner's back and cooking for him, or taking care of him by nursing him back to health when he's sick? Maybe it's the girly dresses and playing with children thing...
I dunno you're probably just talking to a small sample size, I dated an older girl (28 vs 21) always liked them but never called them mommy or all that just treated them like normal women I think calling someone mommy is weird as fuck.

You definitely sound like you have the traditional feminine qualities that would be associated as 'maternal' though

>>84224760
Three boyfriends, two were long distance and multiple years and the first was most of a year and pretty bad. I don't really talk to people online anymore and never did with a boyfriend, but this is what all men would say even when speaking as friends online or off. I didn't have a first kiss until college and I don't do hookups or understand the appeal of dating apps. I figure I'm probably going to die alone and that's alright. I can't remember the last time I had sex anyway. Probably like four years ago? If this didn't make everyone so angry I would actually love to be some form of mommy-dom-sex-thing for anyone who needed some affection and kind words even if it was just a night. I like making people feel loved and valued by reminding them of their humanity, and it turns me on to see them smile and light up like that. This isn't something that actually works in the real world though. It's more of some fantasy fusion of the Virgin Mary and a sacred prostitute, I guess. So just the three boyfriends.

>>84224761
Honestly you sound like a mommy sub. A mommy sub enjoys taking care of her bf but doesn't dom him unless he wants her to. She submits to him because she wants to make him happy. Mommy subs also prefer being stay at home wives and supporting their bfs whereas mommy doms prefer being the ones working or making more money.

>>84224775
I wish someone would give me a hug desu, never got them as a child from my mom and the few times I did it felt really good.

I'd rather kill that part of me though, it just makes me angry, your post pisses me off just a reminder of what I never had, never will have, I don't know why everything in this world revolves around 'love' even music in random grocery stores it makes me insane everything is reminding of my alienation.

>>84224775
What's stop you from finding a bf? You sound like a catch. Do you have some negative qualities that make it hard?
>I don't really talk to people online
Why not?

>>84224771
I've never done anal with a partner so I don't know but I've liked what I have explored with toys. It's just another source of pleasure to me but the setup and cleanup seems tedious and I worry about complications like bleeding tears or incontinence from doing it too often. Those aren't problems with toys or fingers, so. Were you expecting a genuine answer to that?
>>84224774
I guess, I get told I'm extremely feminine a lot but I feel like a tomboy. Strangers always think I'm a religious conservative who teaches small children or works in a library or daycare. They don't even ask if I have kids, just how many. I live in an area where that's expected of every woman, so that's probably skewing it. Lately younger guys have really liked me and I've liked them a bit more than usual because the older ones are settled or come off as lecherous and looking for an affair. I think I missed the boat on an older partner, but I never wanted one for the hypergamy reasons anyway. I'm just asynchronous with cultural references from having grown up alone online since age 6 reading old forums and having almost no interactions with peers. I lied about my age to talk to older people because we just got along, and they always thought I was older than them and lying to be younger anyway.
>>84224787
That sounds about right. I don't really care about who makes what money as long as we can support ourselves and they aren't suffering at their job. My partner's happiness is more important than wealth. A younger man recently on a single date did keep saying he wanted a "female-led" relationship and I didn't know what that meant, but he was a KHHV and I don't know where he read that. It was nice to be his first kiss and cuddle him for a few hours when he asked me to hold him, stroke his hair, and call him a good boy while saying I was proud of him. I was. He seemed very nice.

Opposite here. I'm a guy in my 40s but mostly interested in girls aged 20-30.

>>84224825
>Were you expecting a genuine answer to that?
Yes. are you cool with giving one? if a bf wanted it often how often would you be down for?

>>84224825
how old are you and how much younger are the guys you go for?

>>84224793
I'm sorry to hear that you feel so alienated like that, anon. My own mother was intermittently cruel and clingy and would alternate between having me beg for her affection and kick me away as annoying her. Seeing mothers and fathers behave affectionately to their children makes me tear up and have to look away because it reminds me of not having that, and how everyone I knew punished me as ungrateful and spoiled when I tried to tell them what they did because I guess they just listened to them instead and they would only pretend to care if I was alive if they got some form of attention out of it when with other people. But when she hugged me, it felt really good too and would make me tear up for the same reason, despite knowing it was always fake...

I'm not really a romantic person in the sense I don't care for romance narratives or read/watch/listen to anything like that and don't understand why people do the things they do to each other to be so cruel when it would take even less effort to be kind instead and make someone have a better moment than they did before. I think you and I have the opposite reactions to our similar experiences. I've felt as you say you do before, and then I felt ashamed of it because of this line of logic. I want to make sure no one ever feels that way when they don't have to. Too many people hurt others because they themselves were hurt, but I guess the 'tism here makes that seem like a logical error rather than a natural cycle of trauma. If I can never have that sort of love, I want to make sure others don't go without. I'm sorry you had to, anon. I wish I could hug you through the screen. It would likely feel nice for both of us. <3

>>84224794
Probably this: >>84224861
Doesn't everyone have negative qualities? I've gotten conflicting feedback so I'm not sure what a correct assessment would be, but one consistent one that being "too nice/perfect" whenever a partner is angry at me. Again, the 'tism logical error kicks in here and this doesn't compute. I think what is happening is that these arguments stem from insecurities and when I don't play into the role they want of an attacker, they feel ashamed at their own anger and rage at me for refusing to insult them back and instead ask what is going on, do you want to talk about it, it's okay if you don't, would you like to go someplace quiet where we can just sit or perhaps take a break and check back in after we've had some time to cool down and eat/sleep/etc, I know you're hurt right now when you say this so I'm not angry with you for doing so but I am worried about you and I love you, etc because it makes them feel inferior or judged. I'm not trying to act superior. I just don't want to hurt the person I love, especially not in a moment of anger. What you say matters. This and other similar things tends to make my partners very angry. Others have said it's insecurity, but I never saw what they had to be insecure about. No one is perfect, but to me they were pretty close, and their flaws made me love them that much more like I hoped they wouldn't grow to resent mine. We're all flawed, we all have weaknesses, we all get angry. What matters is what you do with your hurt.
>Why not?
I prefer talking on here and always have and don't keep social media or upload pics. I liked the founding core a lot. This is the most attention-whoring blog-posting you'll get, and I am sorry for that. I'm talking too much now and not letting the thread breathe. Other people have things of value to say and thoughts to share too.
>>84224835
I already did. Frequency depends on how long it takes to recover.
>>84224843
Almost 30, look much younger apparently. In their 20s.

>>84224901
Do you have a type (as in looks, personality, or both) of guy you go for or consider ideal? How do you meet younger guys if you don't like meeting people online or using dating apps?

>>84224901
>how long it takes to recover
how long do you think it would take to recover if you had to make an educated guess? would recovery time be lower if your bf was fine with you with being less clean?

>>84224099
your not right but your not wrong

the good ones are permanently taken
the possibly good ones are just good at hiding damage and waiting for their time to inflict it
the rest are KHV mgtow or damn near close

Only real chance at one of us now is a widower and thats just gona be messy AF, so ig it's just jover.

>>84225190
> Only real chance at one of us now is a widower
Op said shes looking for guys aged 18-25. How many 18-25 year olds are married? You are retarded.

>>84224099
>i believe in more trad gender roles
you fucking roasties can't have your cake and eat it too
get a fucking job you slag
NPNW

Im turning 31 soon but mentally still feel 18 because im a shutin hikineet. im still only attracted to cute younger girls in my mental age range so 18-25 but not in a straight loli way. i believe in more trad gender roles and want my girl to take care of me and bring me tendies. im about to hit the norwood V though and no cute younger girl want a post norwood I. any other anons relate?

>inb4 discord
this is me venting pls dont contact spam me

>>84224099
18 is very young anon don't be moidbrained

>>84224099
Chickn, you're probably not liking how this thread is going. You may think you need to choose between shota bf and provider bf. But how about this: you become my slave, and together we'll get a younger bi guy slave and I'll support both of you and we'll rub our dicks together between your tits while you rim him to get him ready to take my cock.

>>84225601
I am that femanon and I didn't make this thread... sign

>>84225756
Why do you require everyone to send you money or fight for you in your own arguments in order to be a friend or bf?

>>84224123
Women really are permanent children

>>84225756
Rim my twink, whore